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KentuckyWoman

(7,411 posts)
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 08:10 PM Apr 2022

I wish DU would stop

I am humbly asking posters to not put a graphic description of Russian atrocities in the subject line and instead add a graphic content warning there instead.

We have some who have very ugly experiences. Some of DU has .... seen some things.

Please consider your subject lines for their sake.

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I wish DU would stop (Original Post) KentuckyWoman Apr 2022 OP
This is a good idea. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2022 #1
This is a graphic, ugly war. Any info about this war is graphic and ugly. Impossible to digest. Kittycatkat Apr 2022 #25
It's unkind to trigger people. I agree with the post. OhNo-Really Apr 2022 #38
I understand, but as one who grew up with some of the worst of Vietnam on nightly tv... hlthe2b Apr 2022 #2
People who have experienced similar atrocities in their own lives don't need to reminded about WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2022 #4
I don't need that admonishment. Subject warnings are appropriate. hlthe2b Apr 2022 #5
+1. "If you don't see it, it didn't happen" is what Putin wants dalton99a Apr 2022 #9
Well said, WhiskeyGrinder.... Sogo Apr 2022 #22
Yes nt XanaDUer2 Apr 2022 #3
+100 Well said. On the international news sites I visit all present a "graphic scenes" abqtommy Apr 2022 #6
K and r. nt BlackSkimmer Apr 2022 #7
fair points Celerity Apr 2022 #8
Please! I don't want to see the "r" word in a subject line, for example ... n/t KatK Apr 2022 #10
Use of the r word anywhere in a post would cause an immediate alert. Croney Apr 2022 #12
Given the context of the OP, I think you might be referring to different words.  ( n/t ) Make7 Apr 2022 #16
Oh. You're right. Croney Apr 2022 #21
You can hide threads based on keywords in the subject. Make7 Apr 2022 #15
This is reasonable MustLoveBeagles Apr 2022 #11
A good point. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2022 #13
It is hard. I agree with you. paleotn Apr 2022 #14
SERIOUSLY YoshidaYui Apr 2022 #17
I understand your reaction Farmer-Rick Apr 2022 #29
I totally agree left-of-center2012 Apr 2022 #18
I think this is a good suggestion. LuckyCharms Apr 2022 #19
Some of those posters deserve alerts, others should be placed on ignore. hunter Apr 2022 #20
There's a line between information and pornography Sympthsical Apr 2022 #23
The odd thing is that one of those such posts is in the "Greatest" section right now.... Sogo Apr 2022 #24
On the contrary Calculating Apr 2022 #26
How many here at DU do you think are likely to be in that category? Anyone? Hekate Apr 2022 #40
That's a fair request. Martin68 Apr 2022 #27
Thank you. Pacifist Patriot Apr 2022 #28
Thank you!!!! bluescribbler Apr 2022 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Apr 2022 #31
I'm with you - common decency ought to show respect to others' feelings Rabrrrrrr Apr 2022 #32
I support your request.. msfiddlestix Apr 2022 #33
I've avoided watching graphic scenes since the 70's last examples listed Marthe48 Apr 2022 #34
It is pretty easy to use the Trash Word function Sherman A1 Apr 2022 #35
some don't need llashram Apr 2022 #36
I felt that way about seeing murielm99 Apr 2022 #37
"Graphic descriptions of war crimes" should cover it. Thank you, Kentucky Woman. Hekate Apr 2022 #39
I agree. Too much. Nt ecstatic Apr 2022 #41
That sounds fine. Just remember that all Ukrainians are going through intense terror never seen Evolve Dammit Apr 2022 #42

Kittycatkat

(1,764 posts)
25. This is a graphic, ugly war. Any info about this war is graphic and ugly. Impossible to digest.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:24 PM
Apr 2022

hlthe2b

(114,342 posts)
2. I understand, but as one who grew up with some of the worst of Vietnam on nightly tv...
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 08:15 PM
Apr 2022

there is something to be said about not sparing us from the worst that war (in general) and more specifically the unbridled dictatorial lust for power can present to the world.

But, I take your point. We all have to manage how much of this we take in daily--just to keep going the next day.

WhiskeyGrinder

(27,133 posts)
4. People who have experienced similar atrocities in their own lives don't need to reminded about
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 08:17 PM
Apr 2022

how horrifying the world can be, and putting the very worst details in the OP with a content warning in the OP title is a good way to give them a chance to decide whether to learn more or simply go on in the knowledge that things are as bad as they themselves have experienced, without wallowing in the details.

hlthe2b

(114,342 posts)
5. I don't need that admonishment. Subject warnings are appropriate.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 08:19 PM
Apr 2022

But we can not let the RW propaganda initiative win. The public MUST know what is going on in all its horror. So should DU-- with appropriate warnings to those who may have special need to limit such exposure.

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
6. +100 Well said. On the international news sites I visit all present a "graphic scenes"
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 08:20 PM
Apr 2022

warning on both their text and photos. I find that appropriate and welcome.

Make7

(8,550 posts)
16. Given the context of the OP, I think you might be referring to different words.  ( n/t )
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 09:41 PM
Apr 2022

Make7

(8,550 posts)
15. You can hide threads based on keywords in the subject.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 09:39 PM
Apr 2022

Here on DU, each member has a trash can:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=myaccount&sub=trash

The Auto-trash by Keyword feature allows you to enter words, or phrases, that will send threads to your trash can (hide it from your view) when it finds a match in thread titles.

It may not work on the Home Page, but should for the Latest Threads and Greatest Threads pages plus all forum/group pages.

It's not an ideal solution, but it might help.

YoshidaYui

(45,568 posts)
17. SERIOUSLY
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 09:47 PM
Apr 2022

The one thing i hate is watching a video and end up vomiting because of some scene, if there is a graphic warning please be sure to display it!!

Farmer-Rick

(12,753 posts)
29. I understand your reaction
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 09:54 AM
Apr 2022

When you have been through hell you don't need to experience it again because of an unexpected video.

I have learned to identify my triggers. It has been hard to learn what will and won't get me feeling like that. But it has been useful. I didn't watch those videos on here. I knew I would have been sick.




LuckyCharms

(22,789 posts)
19. I think this is a good suggestion.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 09:58 PM
Apr 2022

I've viewed a fair amount of atrocities in video and written form on the internet, and I've tried not to shy away from disturbing news or video. I'm at least somewhat desensitized to the viewing of horrible acts. I try to keep everything I view positive (ie: music videos), but in most cases, I will open videos or articles that are horrifying, if they are something that is newsworthy and think it is something I should know about.

There was a thread title recently, and just reading the title destroyed me. It's still bothering me. There obviously was no ill intent by the poster of the OP, and the description was indeed newsworthy, but I couldn't even open the OP. I stepped away from the computer and went for a walk.

Some of the things that are happening in this war are so bad, that just a brief description of the situation affected me greatly, and I'm a person who is somewhat jaded.

So, I think your suggestion is excellent.

hunter

(40,795 posts)
20. Some of those posters deserve alerts, others should be placed on ignore.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:05 PM
Apr 2022

Too many of them *LIKE* to shock people.

Sympthsical

(11,060 posts)
23. There's a line between information and pornography
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:12 PM
Apr 2022

And it's clear some of this war stuff is pornography for some.

Reminds me of people Mel Gibson's Passion of the Christ came out. "You have to see the suffering to really understand it!"

I mean, do I? I have an imagination. It was just pornography and some people were getting way too much of a charge out of it.

I'm the kind of person who read the watch people die subreddt and make my coffin. So none of it bothers me. But the breathless promotion of graphic descriptions and imagery all in the name of "being informed" feels like an excuse just to participate in the content.

I already feel how I feel about the Ukraine war (it's really bad). Most people here do. I don't think, "Look, a dead baby!" is moving the needle anywhere.

Unless it's from quarters who desire a wider war. In which case, you'd be seeing a lot more dead babies.

Sogo

(7,277 posts)
24. The odd thing is that one of those such posts is in the "Greatest" section right now....
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:16 PM
Apr 2022

How did that happen????

Calculating

(3,000 posts)
26. On the contrary
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:32 PM
Apr 2022

I think everyone needs to see this shit, so they can't just hide from it and say it doesn't effect them. There are horrible things going on right now and we have the power to do more to stop them. Russia isn't going to stop trying to massacre a whole nation because it offends our sensibilities. People need to know what is happening, get mad, and demand more action. This is literally Hitler level stuff occuring, and hiding from it won't make it stop.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,215 posts)
28. Thank you.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 11:08 PM
Apr 2022

I saw a subject line today that literally made me vomit. And I always use the word literally correctly.

bluescribbler

(2,541 posts)
30. Thank you!!!!
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 10:12 AM
Apr 2022

As a Vietnam vet, I totally agree with you. While I, fortunately, am not afflicted with PTSD, I recognize that is real, debilitating and that each sufferer has his or her own individual triggers, and we have no way of knowing what another sufferer's triggers may be.

Response to KentuckyWoman (Original post)

Rabrrrrrr

(58,374 posts)
32. I'm with you - common decency ought to show respect to others' feelings
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 10:39 AM
Apr 2022

about not even wanting to read what the "graphic subject matter" is. And seriously, once has explicitly said what the graphic content, what's the point of then putting 'warning' on it? The damage is already done.

Might as well have the subject line "Jim's mother just died, he doesn't know it yet, don't tell him. Warning to Jim: delicate subject matter inside"

Marthe48

(23,313 posts)
34. I've avoided watching graphic scenes since the 70's last examples listed
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 11:12 AM
Apr 2022

Our H.S. history teachers showed our classes newsreels of U.S. soldiers liberating Jewish people from death camps. I read several books from our uncensored h.s. library about the death camps.

Time magazine showed hanged bodies in a Middle Eastern country. I canceled the subscription and told them why. That was the last graphic picture I viewed.

I am aware of man's inhumanity to man. My mind fills in the blanks. Even if I scroll on by, I spend a lot of time horrified.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
35. It is pretty easy to use the Trash Word function
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 12:27 PM
Apr 2022

I have several on mine such as the word Cat and it makes life much more pleasant.

llashram

(6,269 posts)
36. some don't need
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 01:01 PM
Apr 2022

the graphic descriptions and photos. Thank you for all who might have nightmares reinstated by these photos. Plenty of places for people who need to see the total truth about the Russian-Putin atrocities in Ukraine

murielm99

(33,032 posts)
37. I felt that way about seeing
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 02:03 PM
Apr 2022

George Floyd's death over and over and over on TV. How many times did we have to see that cop kneeling on him? Often, the TV news warns us that there will be graphic content that may be disturbing. They stopped doing that with Floyd. I found that very disrespectful and disturbing.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
39. "Graphic descriptions of war crimes" should cover it. Thank you, Kentucky Woman.
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 02:36 PM
Apr 2022

Thank you thank you thank you.

Evolve Dammit

(21,805 posts)
42. That sounds fine. Just remember that all Ukrainians are going through intense terror never seen
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 07:31 PM
Apr 2022

in their lifetimes (except the very old who remember the butchery) We, on the other hand, can parse news we can consume without being upset, overburdened or downright horrified. The function of real journalism is to bring actual footage to bear. It is a large part of what ended the Vietnam War after all. But yes, a warning seems appropriate as it is a horrible invasion and genocide and very difficult to process.

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