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pnwmom

(110,254 posts)
Mon May 16, 2022, 06:23 PM May 2022

Indian parents sue son, demanding a grandchild or payment of $675,000.

Gee, I wonder why they feel they aren't getting enough "love and affection"?

https://kuow.org/stories/parents-sue-their-son-and-daughter-in-law-demanding-a-grandchild-or-675-000?fbclid=IwAR0CA8-ypMPaaYMfg78mnl0GyCbFcwtediruGBYs0szIB4F5ejYJ-WXYNb4

NEW DELHI — A retired Indian couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law, demanding that they produce a grandchild within a year or pay them 50 million rupees ($675,000).

Sanjeev Ranjan Prasad, a 61-year-old retired government officer, said it was an emotional and sensitive issue for him and his wife, Sadhana Prasad, and they cannot wait any longer. His son, a pilot, was married six years ago.


"We want a grandson or a granddaughter within a year or compensation, because I have spent my life's earnings on my son's education," Prasad told reporters on Thursday.

Prasad said he spent 3.5 million rupees ($47,300) for his son's pilot training in the United States.

SNIP

"We got him married in the hope we would have the pleasure of becoming grandparents. It has been six years since their marriage," Prasad said. "It feels as if despite having everything we have nothing."

SNIP

"We are not getting love and affection from where we want it the most," he said. "I feel very unlucky."

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Indian parents sue son, demanding a grandchild or payment of $675,000. (Original Post) pnwmom May 2022 OP
Narcissism run wild. AZLD4Candidate May 2022 #1
Their sense of entitlement is mind-boggling. nt pnwmom May 2022 #2
He's NOT gonna get a Father's Day card this year, I'm thinking FakeNoose May 2022 #3
And you thought some American lawsuits were ridiculous. nycbos May 2022 #4
And a judge will actually be hearing the case! n/t pnwmom May 2022 #6
Exactly, I suppose the court will dismiss this case? treestar May 2022 #15
That's not how you get a grandchild. tinrobot May 2022 #5
Probably they'll sue for that, too. n/t pnwmom May 2022 #7
The wife looks the epitomy of the mean mother-in-law... VarryOn May 2022 #8
arranged marriage... son becomes a pilot lapfog_1 May 2022 #9
Actually my guess is that even though it was arranged they they found JI7 May 2022 #13
Why did he feel compelled to spend his "life's earnings" Xavier Breath May 2022 #10
I'm not an expert, but I'd guess that they wanted senseandsensibility May 2022 #14
Fair point. Xavier Breath May 2022 #16
Did the son sign a contract or something? smirkymonkey May 2022 #11
I take it this is filed in the Indian court system... Silent3 May 2022 #12
totally normal Dorian Gray May 2022 #17

treestar

(82,383 posts)
15. Exactly, I suppose the court will dismiss this case?
Mon May 16, 2022, 08:25 PM
May 2022

Unless Indian law requires them to have children, how can it fly?

tinrobot

(12,053 posts)
5. That's not how you get a grandchild.
Mon May 16, 2022, 06:28 PM
May 2022

Even if the couple does have a child, you think they'll ever let it anywhere near Grandpa and his team of lawyers?

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
8. The wife looks the epitomy of the mean mother-in-law...
Mon May 16, 2022, 06:59 PM
May 2022

Bet she's a hoot at cocktail parties!

JI7

(93,561 posts)
13. Actually my guess is that even though it was arranged they they found
Mon May 16, 2022, 08:19 PM
May 2022

they had common interests and get along well and enjoy being with each other and they don't need to have kids if they don't want to.

If it was an arranged marriage without emotional connection they probably would have kids right away since that is where they would focus their lives on . Similar to this couple who probably never formed a connection and it just became about their son . And with the son an adult they now want the grandchild to fill their emotional needs.



Xavier Breath

(6,638 posts)
10. Why did he feel compelled to spend his "life's earnings"
Mon May 16, 2022, 07:09 PM
May 2022

to educate his son if he only wanted him to be a breeder? He could have saved a lot of money and achieved his grandchild goals by not educating the kid and telling him to avoid condoms.

senseandsensibility

(24,897 posts)
14. I'm not an expert, but I'd guess that they wanted
Mon May 16, 2022, 08:24 PM
May 2022

their son to be eligible for what we would call an arranged marriage to an Indian woman of acceptable status and part of that includes him having a decent job.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
11. Did the son sign a contract or something?
Mon May 16, 2022, 07:24 PM
May 2022

I don't see how they can sue him just because he didn't meet their expectations. If people could do that, just imagine what a mess the world would be.

 

Silent3

(15,909 posts)
12. I take it this is filed in the Indian court system...
Mon May 16, 2022, 08:06 PM
May 2022

...and that the son, although he had training as a pilot in the US, is back in India. Just guessing -- not a lot of detail in that story.

I can't imagine anything except this being laughed out of court in the US. In India, I have no idea.

Dorian Gray

(13,850 posts)
17. totally normal
Mon May 16, 2022, 08:49 PM
May 2022

I'm sure this will cement a deep and loving relationship between the in-laws and his wife.

What an intrusive meddling entitled couple!

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