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Coventina

(29,442 posts)
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:32 AM Jun 2022

A friend of mine is moving out of the USA later this week.

He owns a restaurant here in Phoenix.

About a year ago, he was asleep on his couch, when a few guys burst into his home, pistol-whipped him, then held the gun on him while taking all his cash he'd brought home from his restaurant that day.

Probably at least a somewhat "inside job" in that they knew he had unsecured cash at his home overnight each night.

Yes, he wasn't smart about how he handled the money. Taking home the day's cash profits is not the proper way to run a business.
He was always lackadaisical about things like that. Don't worry, he was not involved in doing any of the cooking / health code stuff. He had people to do that. He just ran the business side of things.

Anyway, that experience made up his mind. No more living in the USA. He's been securing his plan for he and his wife to expat to Portugal, starting that very night. No, I have no idea why he chose Portugal, but that's where he's purchased a house and that's where they are moving in a few days.


If something about isn't done about gun violence (and I think this qualifies, even though he was not shot) we will see more of this.
I would leave if I could.

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A friend of mine is moving out of the USA later this week. (Original Post) Coventina Jun 2022 OP
I wonder how many guns MAGA own. MAGA is what, 50 million Americans? Eliot Rosewater Jun 2022 #1
Last numbers I saw DetroitLegalBeagle May 2024 #77
Portugal is known for its very low crime rate. Foolacious Jun 2022 #2
Interesting! Thanks for the info. Personally, I don't think I could move to a place where Coventina Jun 2022 #5
If I had a way to move to Norway, I would do it in a millisecond renate Jun 2022 #32
I apologize for my lack of clarity, I don't actually qualify. Coventina Jun 2022 #67
I think if European countries put requirements jimfields33 May 2024 #80
Well, in Portuguese bullfights the bull is not killed. Foolacious Jun 2022 #65
free college as well. We had acquaintances move there for that. Evolve Dammit Jun 2022 #49
Portugal is a great place to retire... TreasonousBastard Jun 2022 #3
You can "buy" residency in Portugal relatively easily if he has business accumen SYFROYH Jun 2022 #4
I think he qualified under your first bullet point, then. Coventina Jun 2022 #6
I know about this because my son will likely inherit... SYFROYH Jun 2022 #8
I have a white co-worker married to a black man from St. Maartin. Coventina Jun 2022 #14
I remember! renate Jun 2022 #33
The U.S. is the destination goal of millions around the world. former9thward Jun 2022 #61
And yet the homicide rate in St Maartin is over 4 times the US rate EX500rider Jun 2022 #63
Interesting! I'll have to ask her about that! Coventina Jun 2022 #68
This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes Jun 2022 #7
Sorry for your friend Johnny2X2X Jun 2022 #9
Portugal is on our list of potential retiring places ZonkerHarris Jun 2022 #10
Ours, too. RipVanWinkle Jun 2022 #37
Does she know she is way more likely to die in a car wreck or falling down or by poison? EX500rider Jun 2022 #64
Is it expensive to buy a small house in Portugal? CountAllVotes Jun 2022 #11
I think it is relatively cheap, but I honestly have not looked into it. Coventina Jun 2022 #12
Thanks CountAllVotes Jun 2022 #13
I'm jealous! My dream place to live is Delft. Coventina Jun 2022 #15
Will have to check into Delft! CountAllVotes Jun 2022 #16
If you're going to go, don't wait. mnhtnbb Jun 2022 #18
Husband had a friend whose son lived in Japan. shrike3 Jun 2022 #21
It's been said that life is what happens while we're busy making other plans. ShazzieB Jun 2022 #30
Yes, yes. n/t shrike3 Jun 2022 #69
The vet gave my dog 6 months mnhtnbb Jun 2022 #45
Me too. I love the options that affords us. Native Jun 2022 #17
and this is just my own description, peacebuzzard Jun 2022 #24
We will be visiting Portugal for the first time. shrike3 Jun 2022 #70
I recently talked with two students at schools I sub at and one children told me they were moving kimbutgar Jun 2022 #19
I wouldn't put too much stock in one family's risk assessment, especially if they're choosing China renate Jun 2022 #38
Canadians think they are isolated from Q. Hope22 May 2024 #78
Portugal has become a popular retirement spot. shrike3 Jun 2022 #20
I would move someplace like Canada or the UK if I could. SidneyR Jun 2022 #22
I am eligible for a UK passport, at least in theory. ShazzieB Jun 2022 #41
What is climate change expected to do to Portugal? Kaleva Jun 2022 #23
one positive note on that is : Cork forests IcyPeas Jun 2022 #66
I've thought about it many times. Joinfortmill Jun 2022 #25
Anybody know of a place Susan Calvin Jun 2022 #26
Mexico or Costa Rica, possibly Portugal. Nt Fiendish Thingy Jun 2022 #51
I love reading about other places to live, though I'm not sure I'm brave enough to retire elsewhere. Lonestarblue Jun 2022 #52
look at Belize... ret5hd May 2024 #81
I certainly understand getting out. SoCal is my home port for 73 years. I make my stand here. Magoo48 Jun 2022 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jun 2022 #43
CA born and raised, lived here all my life, and I'll die here too. CA is a big FU to MAGA everywhere chia Jun 2022 #46
Yup, to all of the above. Me too. Magoo48 Jun 2022 #72
It would not surprise me, if it became its own nation. shrike3 Jun 2022 #73
Portugal is beautiful LittleGirl Jun 2022 #28
Lucky Him! McKim Jun 2022 #29
Why Portugal? RDJackson Jun 2022 #31
I considered Portugal as well. world wide wally Jun 2022 #34
Wish we could do the same eissa Jun 2022 #35
Health Insurance enid602 Jun 2022 #56
I vividly remember being in Atlanta with my best friend. Grammy23 Jun 2022 #36
Portugal is a good choice Warpy Jun 2022 #39
America is fine w me. Chin music Jun 2022 #40
good points Grasswire2 Jun 2022 #47
Sounds like you have a nice family. Chin music Jun 2022 #55
Your condescending exceptionalism is duly noted. Nt Fiendish Thingy Jun 2022 #53
And your nasty assumptive labeling is too. Chin music Jun 2022 #57
I have a feeling Portugal wont be so favorable in the near future. thatdemguy Jun 2022 #42
I'd move out of AZ DownriverDem Jun 2022 #44
Portugal is beautiful and they have very low crime. onecaliberal Jun 2022 #48
I believe it's fairly easy to immigrate to Portugal if you own a house there. Nt Fiendish Thingy Jun 2022 #50
My cousin lives in Portugal. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #54
We moved to Germany in 2015 Old Crank Jun 2022 #58
excellent thread. Lots of food for thought as we are currently devolving. Will justice and democracy Evolve Dammit Jun 2022 #59
Looking into Portugal as well Ananda62 Jun 2022 #60
My family wants to retire to Portugal too. They hate the US Marius25 Jun 2022 #62
I qualify to repatriate to Italy. Giving it some serious thought. Hassler Jun 2022 #71
That happens in Europe, too DFW Jun 2022 #74
Post removed Post removed May 2024 #75
A friend of mine leaves Jacksonville, Florida today Jarqui May 2024 #76
A few facts ... marble falls May 2024 #79
Portugal is a great place for English speaking ex-pats. lark May 2024 #82

Eliot Rosewater

(34,282 posts)
1. I wonder how many guns MAGA own. MAGA is what, 50 million Americans?
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:43 AM
Jun 2022

Very very bad days ahead.

This robbery and my point are not related per se, but in the bigger picture...-problem

Foolacious

(540 posts)
2. Portugal is known for its very low crime rate.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:48 AM
Jun 2022

Violent crime, in particular, is exceedingly rare there. Cost of living is relatively low as well, and the public health program is good. The spoken language is a challenge but doable, more so if your friend speaks Spanish.

Coventina

(29,442 posts)
5. Interesting! Thanks for the info. Personally, I don't think I could move to a place where
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:53 AM
Jun 2022

bullfighting is legal.

I considered Norway, as I have family connections there, but then I remembered that they are still whaling.

Plus, I'm too old to be of interest to them.
Most European countries want child-bearing couples, not retirees.
(I'm not retired, but I'm over 50)

I don't know what Portugal requires, but my friends are a childless couple, and past child-bearing years, but they also have a good-sized nest egg.

renate

(13,776 posts)
32. If I had a way to move to Norway, I would do it in a millisecond
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:50 PM
Jun 2022

Beautiful beautiful beautiful country, functional government, social equality... nowhere is perfect but Norway sounds pretty darn close. Lucky you to have that option!

Coventina

(29,442 posts)
67. I apologize for my lack of clarity, I don't actually qualify.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:29 PM
Jun 2022

I was really excited when I heard that Norway was looking to "repatriate" descendants of Norwegian emigrants, but it's not open to all.
You have to be a young person, and there are a few other qualifications.

I don't look like I'm Norwegian at all, but I do have easily verifiable Norwegian ancestors (I'm a Heinz 57 kind of gal). But, sadly, I'm just too damn old for the program.



On edit: humorous spelling error....

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
80. I think if European countries put requirements
Thu May 2, 2024, 07:08 AM
May 2024

on who can come to the country then it’s not a great place. United States accepts everyone. We have millions come annually and only qualification is getting here. Norway and other countries should be ashamed.

Foolacious

(540 posts)
65. Well, in Portuguese bullfights the bull is not killed.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:16 PM
Jun 2022

But it's still a cruel practice.

Portugal does seem to want retirees. Their immigration policies are fairly generous.

I live in Mexico, where it's even less expensive.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
3. Portugal is a great place to retire...
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:50 AM
Jun 2022

Inexpensive, educated, all the benefits of Spain and France without the bullshit...

As far as taking the receipts home-- I grew up around a lot of shopkeepers who did that, so I suppose some still do.

SYFROYH

(34,213 posts)
4. You can "buy" residency in Portugal relatively easily if he has business accumen
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:52 AM
Jun 2022
https://www.immigrate-portugal.com/residency-in-portugal

The following investment options are available for those looking to obtain Portuguese residency:

* real estate purchase of at least 500,000 Euros or the purchase of a property with a total value of at least 350,000 Euros when it is located in an urban regeneration area or it was constructed more than 30 years before;
* capital transfer of at least 350,000 Euros in research activities or capital transfer of at least 250,000 Euros in artistic outputs;
* capital transfer of at least 350,000 Euros for the incorporation of a company with its head office in Portugal, combined with creating at least 5 permanent jobs;
* creating at least 10 new jobs;
* capital transfer of at least 1 million Euros.

SYFROYH

(34,213 posts)
8. I know about this because my son will likely inherit...
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:01 PM
Jun 2022

...a large sum from a grandparent and I showed him that he will have options to live in other countries easily.

Sad that it's come to this for parental advice.

Coventina

(29,442 posts)
14. I have a white co-worker married to a black man from St. Maartin.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:18 PM
Jun 2022

They have two teenaged boys.

They literally broke up their family on purpose: the husband took his two boys back home to St. Maartin, because my co-worker said she cannot live with the risk the USA represents to young black men.

Remember when USA was the destination much of the world aspired to reach?

former9thward

(33,424 posts)
61. The U.S. is the destination goal of millions around the world.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:01 PM
Jun 2022

From all parts of the world. Every year. No other country is even close. Approximately 1,100,000 immigrants come in legally to the U.S. every year.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immigration_to_the_United_States

Response to Coventina (Original post)

Johnny2X2X

(23,826 posts)
9. Sorry for your friend
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:02 PM
Jun 2022

A crime like that can cause long term anxiety and trauma.

Crime is relatively low in the US compared to its history, we're just up from the 50 year lows of the last several years. The 80s and 90s were much worse for violent crime than now. Is it worse now than a few years ago? Yes, but the rate of crime is still 1/2 of what it was during the crime peak of the Reagan and Bush 1 administrations. People truly forget what a hell hole Reagan turned our country into with his war on poor people and war on drugs.

Our crime rate is still high compared to our peer Western Democracies though, we can do a lot better.

RipVanWinkle

(268 posts)
37. Ours, too.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:56 PM
Jun 2022

After the Uvalde mass shooting, I am giving more thought to moving to another country. Portugal is on our list.

My wife is growing more afraid of going out in public, for fear of being caught in a mass shooting. As for me, I am no longer hopeful that the US will solve many of its problems.

EX500rider

(12,253 posts)
64. Does she know she is way more likely to die in a car wreck or falling down or by poison?
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:16 PM
Jun 2022

Unintentional fall deaths (per yr)
Number of deaths: 42,114

Motor vehicle traffic deaths
Number of deaths: 40,698

Unintentional poisoning deaths
Number of deaths: 87,404

Mass shooting deaths are a small fraction of those.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/accidental-injury.htm

CountAllVotes

(22,141 posts)
13. Thanks
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:17 PM
Jun 2022

I am a citizen of the EU.

This truly has become a sh*thole country.

After my recent and extensive experience with the medical system in this country, I do believe that I am DONE!

I speak some Spanish and I have health insurance that is good worldwide so I am set to go if I can find an appropriate place to live.



CountAllVotes

(22,141 posts)
16. Will have to check into Delft!
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:28 PM
Jun 2022

I know nothing about it.

I didn't get a thing when my husband passed away 3 weeks ago as he died indigent.

However, I would not be a citizen of the EU if it weren't for him. I forgot how valuable that extra passport is and yes, it is up-to-date! Somewhere else here I come!

I should get out of here now while I am able to do it, that's what I think.

I am so disgusted with this 'effin country! Seriously!



mnhtnbb

(33,214 posts)
18. If you're going to go, don't wait.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:44 PM
Jun 2022

In 2017 I planned to spend a month or two living in Spain and France to see if I wanted to relocate. Delayed because I didn't want to leave my elderly dog for 2-3 months. 2018 turned into 2019 and Snowy hung on. Then COVID in 2020. Not going anywhere any time soon, so ended up buying a house to be built. Moved in January 6, 2021. I kid you not. While I was dealing with movers, Trumpists were storming the Capitol, attempting a coup.

So here I am, I guess for the rest of my life

 

shrike3

(5,370 posts)
21. Husband had a friend whose son lived in Japan.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:51 PM
Jun 2022

And was offering to make a home for Dad.

DH's friend had an elderly dog. He decided to wait until she passed on. She outlived him by two years.

ShazzieB

(22,341 posts)
30. It's been said that life is what happens while we're busy making other plans.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:46 PM
Jun 2022

I think that is true, all too often.

mnhtnbb

(33,214 posts)
45. The vet gave my dog 6 months
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:17 PM
Jun 2022

when they discovered a heart arrhythmia during surgery to remove bladder stones from Snowy in July 2017. It was June 2020 when I was finally faced with having to help her over the Rainbow Bridge.

peacebuzzard

(5,838 posts)
24. and this is just my own description,
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:04 PM
Jun 2022

but Portugal although small is quite diverse. Lisbon is full of history, with ancient palaces (open as museums) a thriving market/downtown/seaport complete with parks, recreation, yummy Portuguese restaurants, markets, more old-world museums-historical landmarks and a calm, creative population. The Portuguese are notable for a hard-working ethic and pride with ceremony and cleanliness. It may take time to have your meal served at a restaurant but they want you to relax and enjoy the moment and decor and hopefully the wine.
I have yet to explore the countryside and coastal regions of this tiny country, but I will make Cascais and Nazare' my next visits when I return. Cascais is known for beaches and Nazare' is becoming a magnet for the surfers and surfer mavericks hoping for the 100 ft waves. Portugal has islands as part of the country: Azores, which is catering to the digital nomad crowd. its an archipelago of several islands, that mainly got lost in time and has retained the old world culture. The Azores islands are calm, remote, perfect for the loners or solitude seekers. You will obviously pay more for a dwelling in the metro area or popular beach area but Portugal has much to explore and probably hides bargains everywhere. The language would be a barrier in the remote regions but the people are patient and kind and want to help. Cabo Verde close to Africa is another island, also a part of Portugal. This is my small interpretation, I have had a friend or two think of Portugal and explored possibilities there, The barriers encountered were culture clash, language, and ultimately the inability to adapt or adopt.

 

shrike3

(5,370 posts)
70. We will be visiting Portugal for the first time.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 10:55 PM
Jun 2022

We were inspired by a PBS program which explored the country's fauna and marine life. You make Lisbon sound very inviting as well.

kimbutgar

(26,985 posts)
19. I recently talked with two students at schools I sub at and one children told me they were moving
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:45 PM
Jun 2022

To Vancouver this month and another 4th grader yesterday told me her family was moving back to China because her parents are afraid the USA is going collapse and they’d be safer in China. I felt chills when she was telling me this.

renate

(13,776 posts)
38. I wouldn't put too much stock in one family's risk assessment, especially if they're choosing China
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:57 PM
Jun 2022

I would get chills too, to hear that someone feels so strongly that they're willing to pick up sticks and move halfway around the world, and the strength of their conviction would seem very persuasive, but choosing China over the United States seems like quite a stretch.

I absolutely wouldn't be surprised if we lose our democracy, but I don't think we're going to be living in a Xi-style dictatorship. I feel bad for that kid, actually. There's no way her life is going to be more free or give her more options in China than here.

On the other hand, Vancouver/Canada sounds like an excellent decision.

Hope22

(4,548 posts)
78. Canadians think they are isolated from Q.
Thu May 2, 2024, 06:54 AM
May 2024

For years I have cautioned my Canadian friends. They laughed at my comments and told me that Canadians were nothing like Americans. As we know now Q is raising its ugly head amongst our northern neighbors. A month ago the same mocking friend told me that since the Bridge incident with the truckers more and more pickup trucks run the streets with HER Maple Leaf flag flying in the bed and it infuriates her that those people have stolen her flag. Boom goes the dynamite.

 

shrike3

(5,370 posts)
20. Portugal has become a popular retirement spot.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:46 PM
Jun 2022

We plan to visit this fall, and I'm hoping I can convince Hubby it's an option for us.

SidneyR

(211 posts)
22. I would move someplace like Canada or the UK if I could.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:58 PM
Jun 2022

But I waited too long, and now I can't accumulate sufficient points in their immigration system to qualify, so they won't let me remain indefinitely. I'm not rich enough to live off retirement income there. I can't even bring my own online job--that's forbidden. Wish I had thought about it earlier when I was younger.

ShazzieB

(22,341 posts)
41. I am eligible for a UK passport, at least in theory.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:02 PM
Jun 2022

My father was a citizen of the UK when I was born. (He became a US citizen years later, but I was grown by then.) His citizenship at the time of my birth would make me eligible for for dual citizenship, from what I've read.

Part of me is very attracted to the idea of going there, but as retirees with limited financial resources, just the cost of relocating to another country is daunting. Not to mention all the logistics involved. Still, it's nice to know the possibility exists.

IcyPeas

(25,152 posts)
66. one positive note on that is : Cork forests
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:24 PM
Jun 2022

65% of the world's cork comes from Portugal.

Cork and Climate Change

Harvesting cork bark assists in the absorption of CO2 – a greenhouse gas that causes climate change. In fact, harvested cork trees absorb 3-5 times more CO2 than non-harvested trees. Cork oak trees in Portugal alone help offset 10 million tons of carbon every year. Cork trees are also important producers of oxygen.

Cork Trees Are Harvested, Not Cut Down

Cork stoppers are made from the bark of a cork oak tree, not the tree itself. Bark is harvested from the tree every 9-12 years. Completely renewable and sustainable, harvesting bark does not harm the tree. Each time cork is harvested; cork bark regenerates itself (and in doing so absorbs CO2). In fact, cork trees live between 100 and 300 years.

Cork Is Biodegradable and Recyclable

Cork is a natural, environmentally friendly material. It biodegrades completely and can be easily recycled without producing any toxic residues. The plastic portion of screw caps is non-recyclable.



https://100percentcork.org/why-cork/good-for-the-environment/#:~:text=Cork%20and%20Climate%20Change,tons%20of%20carbon%20every%20year.

Susan Calvin

(2,418 posts)
26. Anybody know of a place
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:15 PM
Jun 2022

That would take an older person who doesn't have a lot of cash to invest (what cash I have is my self-insurance in case I need long-term care), but does have a decent retirement income (as long as inflation doesn't get ridiculous, knock on wood)? I could probably pay cash or come near it for a house.

Lonestarblue

(13,340 posts)
52. I love reading about other places to live, though I'm not sure I'm brave enough to retire elsewhere.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:32 PM
Jun 2022

Portugal is always rated as one of the top places to retire because of its moderate climate, cost of living, and good healthcare. I found that many people there speak English, though not always in the smaller towns. Indeed, many UK ex-pats live there, especially in the Algarve which is the whole southern coast—and beautiful. Every restaurant I was in had waiters who could speak English. Even grocery shopping was easy without knowing the language.

Depending on what you like to do (e.g., city life versus beach life versus country life, island versus mainland, small town versus medium or large), there are lots of options. I like southern Spain also. Some of the smaller town are quite affordable, and Spain’s rail system lets you travel many places without needing a car. The towns around Valencia are ones I want to explore.

If you prefer tropical, Panama is usually on the list of affordable places. I’ve never been there, but hate high humidity so that could be a factor.

Here’s an article from last year that lists some different options. Have fun reading!
https://www.liveandinvestoverseas.com/retirement-living/affordable-retirement-options-europe/

ret5hd

(22,344 posts)
81. look at Belize...
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:39 AM
May 2024

retiree visa program
english speaking
pretty cheap

on a side note, Belize is the only country in the world where the U.S. embassy doesn’t have a contingent of Marine guards at the embassy (or so i was told when we visited).

Magoo48

(6,710 posts)
27. I certainly understand getting out. SoCal is my home port for 73 years. I make my stand here.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:18 PM
Jun 2022

If fascists take over, I’ll fuck with them big time until I can’t. My family is all here on the left coast, and I believe this coast will become its own nation at some point my kids and my grandkids might experience. Who knows?

Response to Magoo48 (Reply #27)

chia

(2,768 posts)
46. CA born and raised, lived here all my life, and I'll die here too. CA is a big FU to MAGA everywhere
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:20 PM
Jun 2022

and I relish that thought every singe day.

 

shrike3

(5,370 posts)
73. It would not surprise me, if it became its own nation.
Fri Jun 3, 2022, 07:53 PM
Jun 2022

Sometimes I think breaking up the country would be the most positive option.

LittleGirl

(8,976 posts)
28. Portugal is beautiful
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:28 PM
Jun 2022

My house keeper is from Porto. She goes back every summer. Her parents left Switzerland during covid as they probably lost their jobs. It’s too expensive here and Portugal has a decent cost of living and beaches to die for. There’s a show called Sun, Sea and Selling houses on Channel 4 in the UK. They feature homes in Portugal and for 100k Euros you can get a decent house. I’d move there. They are very nice places.

McKim

(2,426 posts)
29. Lucky Him!
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:36 PM
Jun 2022

Lucky him! Portugal is a wonderful country with gentle friendly people, economy on the upswing as they avoided World Bank loans and recovered on their own. Very smart pro education people. My doctor told me that two of his patients are also moving there this week. I have been to Portugal three times and loved every minute of my stays there.

RDJackson

(8 posts)
31. Why Portugal?
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:47 PM
Jun 2022

Maybe because they have health based drug laws that pretty much have eliminated these thieving, fuck up crack heads that seem to have blossomed everywhere.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
35. Wish we could do the same
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:54 PM
Jun 2022

I fantasize of retiring in Spain. A co-worker is making plans to retire in Portugal, and I know of others who are making plans to move to other parts of Europe. The violence, outdated infrastructure, and downright ignorance that is prevalent in our society is contributing to our downfall.

enid602

(9,620 posts)
56. Health Insurance
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:35 PM
Jun 2022

Moving overseas at retirement age is tricky. Buying health insurance in ANY country if you're 65 or over is going to be expensive. You can only use your Medicare in the States, and you can't just fly back every time you get sick, unless you live somewhere close, like Canada, Mexico, Ecuador, Central America or Caribbean.

Grammy23

(6,099 posts)
36. I vividly remember being in Atlanta with my best friend.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:55 PM
Jun 2022

We were about 18 -19 and visiting my older sister and her family. It was 1968. While we were there, we heard about Robert Kennedy being shot and killed. We were sleeping on cots in the living room and through many tears were talking about leaving the US — possibly relocating to Australia. We knew absolutely nothing except we were very unhappy with how things were going in the US. Just two not quite grown teenagers starting to see what our world was becoming. We truly thought moving away was the solution.

Then life happened. She became a nurse and married. I also married and had a son. I taught kindergarten and eventually obtained a BA degree and Master’s in Sociology. Thoughts of moving away returned occasionally, but it was never practical or feasible for one reason or another. I had the urge but not the means to do so.

Now at 73 it all seems very far away. I’ve been to Europe several times and there are places I am quite sure I could live. But now….moving away from family seems too hard. They are not ready to move. So here I am. If we sold everything, cashed in stock and 401 K we could do it but figure we’re too old for a major move. But still…..the thought crosses through this old noggin’ just like it did at 18.

Warpy

(114,504 posts)
39. Portugal is a good choice
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:58 PM
Jun 2022

Mild climate (except the rare occasions it's on fire), nice people, reasonably low cost of living for the EU, large expat presence,, decriminalization of small amounts of drugs (all of 'em) which means low street crime, NO GUNS except licensed hunting rifles. It was on my own list before my health gave out for good.

There are still crime gangs there, as there are everywhere, but decriminalization of drugs took away a large source of funding.

It's not paradise, that doesn't exist on earth, but it's a good choice.

Chin music

(24,999 posts)
40. America is fine w me.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:01 PM
Jun 2022

Generations of my family fought to be here. We just have different challenges. In my mind? Leaving means surrendering to malignant minority. I refuse to do that. This is the best country in the world, and trmp followers and other criminals don't determine my destiny. Nor should they yours, or, any of us. Running scared doesn't connect w my genetics.
America always was great. We just have been lazy and in disbelief, while a minority got a toehold. That's all it is too, a toehold. Nothing worth having is easy, or free. We have to fight these abject dullards and meet them squarely on the battlefield w our 2 to 1 majority. And armed if we have to be. You aren't going to disarm someone w your bare hands imho. The gun 'ship' has sailed until we toughen the hell up imho. We must adapt, THEN change. Like HRC said as to how to fight them.
For the record? If some dude(?) comes in my house for a payroll I should've deposited in a bank? Some fuckers going out on a stretcher.
I'm a D but, I'm not a pacifist, nor will I be a victim.
PS..Portugal has crime too.

Grasswire2

(13,849 posts)
47. good points
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:24 PM
Jun 2022

Even though my father's family fled the colonies during Rev. War as Loyalists, they returned in 1932, having been in the New World since mid 1600s.

My father remained a citizen of Canada, living here on a green card most of his adult life. And so, under 2009 Canadian law, I am a citizen (in the lengthy process of obtaining a certificate of citizenship). I don't think of moving out of U.S. unless things deteriorate to the point where my adult disabled daughter would be endangered by discriminatory RW policy.

That said, my other daughter is mother to two girls whose Jewish father's family fled Nazi Germany and would have gone to Theriesenstadt camp with neighbors except they had enough resources to escape. This daughter will NOT stay in U.S. if there is a threat to those girls.

I had to have "the talk" with my disabled daughter the other day. She is able to take the local bus to the supermarket to shop, and that is her routine several times a week. I had to talk with her about how to be safe if there is trouble in the store. Keep aware of what's happening, if there's trouble, leave the cart and the store immediately, look for a place to duck and hide....etc.

What a world.

Chin music

(24,999 posts)
55. Sounds like you have a nice family.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:34 PM
Jun 2022

And you're a good parent.
We have work to do. If for no other reason than to protect the ones who can't leave. This is a beautiful land. putin and trmp tried to overthrow it. I'm ready to fight. Ukraine and Malcolm Nance have me fired up. (And ready to go. -If I have too.) We just need to toughen up. Then we can go back to 'normal' once we defeat the 'enemy within'. This is what OUR generations war looks like.

Chin music

(24,999 posts)
57. And your nasty assumptive labeling is too.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:36 PM
Jun 2022

Are you ever kind? Just curious.



PS...I'd fight for you too. Since when is sticking beside your country condescending? Wow.

Old Crank

(6,767 posts)
58. We moved to Germany in 2015
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:36 PM
Jun 2022

Pre Trump.
If we can get our daughter set up so she can stay here our chances of moving back to the US become very small.
I also found out that I am still Canadian so we have that option if Germany doesn't work out for my daughter.

I have a former work colleague who is working on moving to Portugal with his wife in the next year.

Portugal has good services, is fairly cheap out of Lisbon and a large expat community.

Evolve Dammit

(21,611 posts)
59. excellent thread. Lots of food for thought as we are currently devolving. Will justice and democracy
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:41 PM
Jun 2022

prevail and can we restore some sanity and tolerance? The next 6 months will tell us where we are headed. Get your passport or update, oil your firearms, whatever you think you will need to protect your loved ones. It's sad to think like this but it is where we are with millions of rabid cultists.

Ananda62

(316 posts)
60. Looking into Portugal as well
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:55 PM
Jun 2022

As a POC, I feel particularly vulnerable, despite my military background. I’m old and retired. I did read this -

The Portuguese government allows U.S. citizens to easily establish residency.  The most common way is the 120-day stay visa. This visa requires the applicant to provide proof of income, showing at least $1,070 per month available throughout the stay.  If you like what you see and you would like to extend the stay, then the Portugal government allows you to apply for a one-year residence permit. It can then be renewed for two-year permits successively.  Once you spend five years of temporary residence, you can then apply for permanent residency status.

https://getgoldenvisa.com/retiring-in-portugal

 

Marius25

(3,213 posts)
62. My family wants to retire to Portugal too. They hate the US
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 03:07 PM
Jun 2022

But they won't leave until I can find a way to move there too, but I don't have a remote job that can work internationally.

DFW

(59,877 posts)
74. That happens in Europe, too
Fri Jun 3, 2022, 08:24 PM
Jun 2022

Here in Germany, there are many areas with huge organized crime clans. There are certain areas of Duisburg where Lebanese crime clans rule the place to the extent that cops don't even go in there unless in groups of 20 or more, and armed to the teeth and in military style armored vehicles. In other areas, it's the Romanians, the Albanians or the Serbs (or others), sometimes even bands of former German mercenaries or ex-military with friends still "on the inside" with access to weapons. Unarmed theft is rarely pursued here as a crime. If you get robbed and no firearm was used, you are usually S.O.L here. A friend of ours who recently retired from the BKA, the German FBI, said that if you don't want to get robbed, try your best not to look like it would be worthwhile for someone to try. Own a fancy car? Don't wash it too often. Have nice stuff in your house? Make sure it isn't easily visible through the windows. We know a woman who is a little off, emotionally, and counts as a "messy." Her place was once broken into, and the burglar(s) never went further than one meter inside the front door. They probably figured another gang had already been there that night.

In Berlin, there was one gang (Serbian, as it later turned out) that broke into houses and apartments they thought might be worthwhile. They tried to break in when no one was home, but if they made a mistake, they killed whoever they found, so as not to leave witnesses. One time, they got sloppy, and left their victim barely alive. That is how they got identified and caught. They used weapons, so they went away for a long time.

Portugal is geographically far from the worst of the organized gangs, but not entirely immune. As one of the poorer western European countries, it has its share of crime, too, if not as bad as elsewhere. One thing most of Western Europe does NOT have, at least, is a large force of armed cops whoare too quick to use their guns on unarmed civilians. THAT, at least, is almost unheard of.

Oh, and one last thing: good luck with learning Portuguese! It is a Romance language, and farily easy to learn to read, especially if you know some Spanish. BUT--the way the prounonce it, especially in Portugal, will drive you nuts. Oddly enough, Brazilian Portuguese is usually easier to understand for the uninitiated. The country DOES have some wonderful scenery, is relatively affordable, and, thanks to MANY billions of euros of German taxes poured into their development, way more modernized than the primitive place I first visited in 1980. I did have a nice time walking around with my (then-) wife-to-be and getting decent meals for $2. THAT is over and done with. But the food is still decent, and it is way more affordable than most of the rest of western Europe. I do not know how local infrastructure is. I only know parts of the country as a visitor, not what a resident could tell you.

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marble falls

(71,398 posts)
79. A few facts ...
Thu May 2, 2024, 07:06 AM
May 2024
https://www.americanprogress.org › article › in-2023-gun-violence-trended-down-across-the-country
In 2023, Gun Violence Trended Down Across the Country
Jan 31, 2024Gun violence surged during the COVID-19 pandemic, ... States that received an "A" grade from Giffords in 2023 experienced a 13.7 percent drop in total gun homicides from 2022 to 2023. States ...

https://www.pewresearch.org › short-reads › 2023 › 04 › 26 › what-the-data-says-about-gun-deaths-in-the-u-s
What the data says about gun deaths in the U.S.
Apr 26, 2023About eight-in-ten U.S. murders in 2021 - 20,958 out of 26,031, or 81% - involved a firearm. That marked the highest percentage since at least 1968, the earliest year for which the CDC has online records. More than half of all suicides in 2021 - 26,328 out of 48,183, or 55% - also involved a gun, the highest percentage since 2001.

https://www.npr.org › 2023 › 12 › 29 › 1222252493 › the-u-s-saw-a-big-drop-in-shootings-in-2023
The U.S. saw a big drop in shootings in 2023 : NPR
Dec 29, 2023When it comes to crime, cities across the country experienced big drops in shootings in 2023. Some of the largest decreases occurred in cities that have become almost synonymous with gun crime ...

https://www.nytimes.com › 2023 › 11 › 01 › briefing › gun-violence.html
A Drop in American Gun Violence - The New York Times
Nov 1, 2023Hilary Swift for The New York Times. By German Lopez. Nov. 1, 2023. American gun violence can feel like an unsolvable problem, with every mass shooting, like last week's killings in Maine ...



Gun violence is a problem we need to resolve. The civilians in this country need to be largely disarmed. But we need to not over react to the situation. It's bad, but it has been worse. It is resolvable.

lark

(25,959 posts)
82. Portugal is a great place for English speaking ex-pats.
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:19 AM
May 2024

I read there are over 30,000 English speaking ex-pats in the Algrave region (I think that was the area, not sure now?). Anyway, there are numereous reasons to go there, the country is welcoming and has mostly favorable policies from what I've read.

I keep pushing hubs for us to go there and check it out, maybe it's a good option is tsf wins or steals the election.

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