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In It to Win It

(8,231 posts)
Thu Jun 2, 2022, 07:51 PM Jun 2022

🫶🏾 Classmates wouldn't sign his yearbook. So older students stepped in.

Washington Post via Yahoo News



Cassandra Ridder was crushed when her 12-year-old son Brody came home from school last week with only a few signatures in his yearbook - including his own.

"Hope you make some more friends. - Brody Ridder," the rising seventh-grader wrote in his own yearbook, which was signed by only two classmates, two teachers and himself.

"It broke my heart," Ridder said.

She shared a photo of her son's yearbook note in a private Facebook group for parents at the school. She felt angry and helpless, and while she did not ask for her son's permission before posting, "I knew he would be completely okay with it," she said. "Brody has always told me he wants to be part of the solution."

Her primary objective in posting the photo, Ridder explained, was to encourage parents to talk to their children about bullying. She said she's aware that some parents prefer to keep such matters private, but she thought that being forthright about it might help prevent her son and others from being targeted further.

As dozens of compassionate comments poured in, several older students - none of whom previously knew Brody - heard about Ridder's post from their parents. They stepped up to show their support.

Joanna Cooper, 17, received a text message from her mother with a screenshot of Ridder's post. Right away, the 11th-grader decided, "I'm going to get people and we're going to sign his yearbook. No kid deserves to feel like that."

She contacted several friends and they coordinated to visit Brody's homeroom class together the following day. Little did she know at the time, but many other students were hatching the same plan.

When Simone Lightfoot, also an 11th-grader at the school, saw Ridder's post, her first thought was: "I'll get some of my friends and we'll go sign it," she said.

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🫶🏾 Classmates wouldn't sign his yearbook. So older students stepped in. (Original Post) In It to Win It Jun 2022 OP
It always makes me so sad when I am reminded how mean kids can be. madaboutharry Jun 2022 #1
Probably didn't. Knowing bullies, they will use this as ammo next year. AZLD4Candidate Jun 2022 #8
So sweet. sheshe2 Jun 2022 #2
Tears of joy this time In It to Win It Jun 2022 #11
LOVE onecaliberal Jun 2022 #3
The kids are alright... dixiechiken1 Jun 2022 #4
This story warmed my heart. In It to Win It Jun 2022 #5
My son was bullied too Bluesaph Jun 2022 #6
When scumbags like Gordon Ramsay are lionized and worshipped, you get this AZLD4Candidate Jun 2022 #9
Can't stand him Rebl2 Jun 2022 #10
Hang in there Brody. MontanaMama Jun 2022 #7

madaboutharry

(40,203 posts)
1. It always makes me so sad when I am reminded how mean kids can be.
Thu Jun 2, 2022, 07:55 PM
Jun 2022

So glad the older kids stepped up.

Maybe a few of Brody’s classmates learned something.

In It to Win It

(8,231 posts)
5. This story warmed my heart.
Thu Jun 2, 2022, 10:24 PM
Jun 2022

I felt it was worthy of sharing because stories like this give me hope in the midst of so much bad news.

Bluesaph

(703 posts)
6. My son was bullied too
Thu Jun 2, 2022, 10:31 PM
Jun 2022

For many years. Even by his own cousins at family gatherings. We stopped going to family parties because of that.

What I hate the most is that people who try to do something about bullying are called “woke”.

I’m so sick of this culture.

AZLD4Candidate

(5,679 posts)
9. When scumbags like Gordon Ramsay are lionized and worshipped, you get this
Thu Jun 2, 2022, 10:47 PM
Jun 2022

Narcissism, psychopathy, and superficiality are what this culture has become.

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