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Brett Chapman
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Grieving great grandfather asks police in Uvalde why they didnt do anything to help his great granddaughter who was murdered. A random White man tells him to stop living in the past. So on brand.
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8:05 AM · Jun 4, 2022
What a prick.
agingdem
(8,825 posts)there is no moving on, no new normal...there is no past...it is forever that moment...
yonder
(10,285 posts)SoonerPride
(12,286 posts)Boomerproud
(9,258 posts)I wish I hadn't opened up the thread.
highplainsdem
(61,519 posts)exboyfil
(18,353 posts)Grokenstein
(6,334 posts)(Seriously though, just wait. The rightwank media machine's already seeking him out to give him his own daily radio program.)
Scrivener7
(59,312 posts)be made public. Or should have known.
Baitball Blogger
(52,169 posts)blogslug
(39,143 posts)Mr Haircut can go right to hell along with Mr. "I don't work for this town" PD.
MerryBlooms
(12,234 posts)Things to people who are grieving. I went through it with even my own family members when my husband died. I was furious, and it took me years to forgive that shit.
It probably took every ounce of restraint of that grandfather, not to punch that jerk in his smug ass face.
chowder66
(12,146 posts)niyad
(131,695 posts)skypilot
(9,117 posts)You can shut the fuck up.
dalton99a
(93,647 posts)Hope he gets to experience that pain
Rebl2
(17,633 posts)Evolve Dammit
(21,734 posts)Butterflylady
(4,584 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Rhiannon12866
(254,097 posts)There were so many that it was impossible to have them all at once...
xxqqqzme
(14,887 posts)insensitive asshole than to open your mouth and prove it to the world.
Bluethroughu
(7,215 posts)No sympathy, just plain ugly.
niyad
(131,695 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)It devastated him and he never got over it. It changed him from an outgoing happy musician to
a morose guy, forever with that weight in his mind. I have children. I can't even imagine them dying
before me.
SeattleVet
(5,879 posts)Stop living in the past.
Joseph Robinette Biden won the 2020 election.
tRumplethinskin lost.
So he can take his own unsolicited advice and stop living in the past.
The Jungle 1
(4,552 posts)That you can bank on.
moonshinegnomie
(3,995 posts)Not only would I be banned here Id get a visit from the police
ShazzieB
(22,487 posts)I'm afraid my brain would explode, and then I'd hulk out and start smashing things.

Just reading about it was bad enough!
PoindexterOglethorpe
(28,493 posts)It was what? Just over a week ago?
Actually I hope the jerk who said that does get to experience this kind of pain so that he can understand it is NEVER in the past. Never.
Solly Mack
(96,816 posts)Cheezoholic
(3,662 posts)I dont know who that person who said that is nor if they were sincere in trying to comfort. I can tell you one thing, when addressing a grieving parent, especially right after their loss, you shut your fucking mouth and let them grieve. There is nothing and I mean nothing anyone can say to relieve that grief. It is a human emotion that few,thank goodness, will ever have to experience themselves.
Oneironaut
(6,279 posts)Quit whining and shut up. Now is not the time to talk about it, nor is any time. As long as I get to keep my guns, fuck you.
Takket
(23,663 posts)I want his employer called. I want his name on every corner of the internet. I want him to be fired so we can all tell him to stop living in the past. Internet, get on it.
roamer65
(37,896 posts)Fuck that POS. He makes me ashamed to be Euro.
MustLoveBeagles
(15,829 posts)This happened just under 2 weeks ago! That dude needs to shut hiis ass up!
MiniMe
(21,882 posts)What a total jerk-off.
Kid Berwyn
(24,050 posts)Hope he never has to go through what the great-grandfather has experienced.