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sheshe2

(83,710 posts)
Sat Jun 11, 2022, 10:38 PM Jun 2022

This traffic stop between a Black man and a White state trooper began with fear. It ended with a sur

This traffic stop between a Black man and a White state trooper began with fear. It ended with a surprising act of kindness
CNN



At first glance, it looks like another of those viral photos that we can barely watch anymore.

It shows a White state trooper and a Black man during a traffic stop on a bright, sunny day. The trooper is leaning his thick arms through the open passenger window to clutch the Black man’s right hand. The man’s back is pinned against the passenger seat, and his eyes are squeezed shut. He appears to be wincing in pain.

But this photo is being widely shared for another reason. The trooper is reaching into the car to help, not to harm. And the encounter has been described by those who witnessed it not as tragic, but inspired.

“It was a really beautiful moment for me to see this take place between my dad and the officer,” said Ashlye V. Wilkerson, the 39-year-old driver of the car who surreptitiously took the photo.

The state trooper still has trouble digesting what happened that afternoon.

Much more: https://www.cnn.com/2022/06/11/us/trooper-traffic-stop-prayer-blake-cec/index.html

I don't know about you, I get weepy these days. I hear a good story, an act of kindness, with all the bad happening around us. Well it makes me cry and gives me hope.

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This traffic stop between a Black man and a White state trooper began with fear. It ended with a sur (Original Post) sheshe2 Jun 2022 OP
Sheshe2 what a heartwarming story...love ya! Demsrule86 Jun 2022 #1
Hey, Demsrule. sheshe2 Jun 2022 #2
👍 Joinfortmill Jun 2022 #3
Yes, Dear sheshe.. Deuxcents Jun 2022 #4
Kick dalton99a Jun 2022 #5
Giving someone solace for cancer is admirable NullTuples Jun 2022 #6
i dont think it hurts to hold up someone doing it right to those who do it wrong. mopinko Jun 2022 #13
No true Scotsman applies to Christians, too. NullTuples Jun 2022 #14
sorta mopinko Jun 2022 #17
Perhaps my problem is more with the reporter and media, then NullTuples Jun 2022 #18
on that we agree. mopinko Jun 2022 #19
K & R...thanks for that...nt Wounded Bear Jun 2022 #7
Null, Why disparage this nice story as being of little worth? Jack-o-Lantern Jun 2022 #8
If you were a non-xian ReluctanceTango Jun 2022 #9
beautiful Demovictory9 Jun 2022 #10
This is a great story LetMyPeopleVote Jun 2022 #11
K&R, I pray this becomes the normal soon uponit7771 Jun 2022 #12
Damned onions! Thank you, she. niyad Jun 2022 #15
What is a shame about this story Chainfire Jun 2022 #16

Deuxcents

(16,157 posts)
4. Yes, Dear sheshe..
Sat Jun 11, 2022, 11:05 PM
Jun 2022

I gotta believe there are more of these stories we don’t get to know. A good one..thank you

NullTuples

(6,017 posts)
6. Giving someone solace for cancer is admirable
Sat Jun 11, 2022, 11:29 PM
Jun 2022

But a long form article celebrating sexism & southern christianity at a time when both are being used as weapons makes me think this doesn't really pass the sniff test.

mopinko

(70,070 posts)
13. i dont think it hurts to hold up someone doing it right to those who do it wrong.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:02 AM
Jun 2022

i agree w you in general. except that what they call xtianity, aint.
i'm in favor of throwing their book right back at em.

mopinko

(70,070 posts)
17. sorta
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:46 AM
Jun 2022

in this case, there's a book, w rules. a very ambiguous book, it's true.
but it can be and sometimes is used a map to truly ethical behavior, and self sacrifice. those that live the beatitudes are the best of us.
there are real examples of true scotsmen.

and ftr, i'm a devout atheist. i'm ONLY grateful that i wasnt raised in my homeland because i would have been a subject of the irish catholic church, one of the worst out there, still. my sister would have been a slave in one of their 'homes'. my sisters who happily raised 4 kids would have been saddled w 10.
but i have known many who walked the religious path w an ethical code that this atheist can only hope to live up to.

i get what you're saying. i do. but i cant see any lines this officer crossed in this incident.
doesnt mean he never did or never will.
maybe cuz i spent a few yrs as a hospice volunteer i have a built in bias here, but see no harm in a little light on someone doing it well.

NullTuples

(6,017 posts)
18. Perhaps my problem is more with the reporter and media, then
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:53 AM
Jun 2022

What they were celebrating was not just a human comforting another human.

There was a raft of other social values being celebrated in that article that are simply slipped in with the comfort. It's a way of normalizing a certain set of values by implying the equating of them with one that is undeniably good and proper.

Jack-o-Lantern

(966 posts)
8. Null, Why disparage this nice story as being of little worth?
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 01:28 AM
Jun 2022

It was a nice story in these awful times.
Bless you my friend.

 

ReluctanceTango

(219 posts)
9. If you were a non-xian
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:40 AM
Jun 2022

You'd have a different perspective. You'd be able to imagine how badly this could have turned if the driver had declined. And if pressed, finally admitted, "I get that you mean well, but I don't believe in that, because I'm an atheist/Buddhist/Jew/whatever."

Because I can assure you that learning a driver isn't a xian can turn some cops mean, in a hurry. I won't bore you with my horror stories, but I know full well how cops, especially in the backwoods hellholes of small-town America, can make your life a living hell if you're not the "right kind."

So maybe try walking in someone else's shoes for why they might be wary of a story like this. Until you've been there, you can't imagine what it's like to have an answer to a question like that which a cop might not like hearing.

Chainfire

(17,523 posts)
16. What is a shame about this story
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:16 AM
Jun 2022

is that it is so unusual that we find it newsworthy.

BREAKING NEWS: "White Cop show compassion to black man; DU celebrates!" It should be a boring story.

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