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Ron Filipkowski 🇺🇦
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Parents need to stop subjecting kids to these drag shows where men dress up like women, play loud music, ask for money, and indoctrinate kids before they are even old enough to understand.
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10:01 AM · Jun 12, 2022
LisaM
(27,808 posts)The current one is much more low key in his dress and more humble in his demeanor.
I don't like memes like that that don't mention this was the LAST Pope, because I bet there are plenty of people who don't know.
Nevilledog
(51,094 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)This is bigotry, pure and simple.
Nevilledog
(51,094 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)Nevilledog
(51,094 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)I saw no attribution of Filipkowsi' s quote to anyone in the Catholic Church. He just pulled it out of his ass.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)That is Cardinal Gerhard Müller. Fuck him and his vestments.
Vdizzle
(383 posts)Prof. Toru Tanaka
(1,956 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)Answer: Nothing.
Fuck unattrubuted quotes and poor writing skills.
aka-chmeee
(1,132 posts)geardaddy
(24,926 posts)Tommymac
(7,263 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)children than clergy of other religions, or Men in General" do you not understand?
Please read the Newsweek article in post #83
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)If they were accountable and didn't simply shuffle priests around, they would have higher moral standards they claim but do not actually have.
It's systematic, like systematic racism and systematic police abuse.
Just because "everybody else does it" doesn't make abuse right.
"no more likely" is not a proper standard, especially for churches.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)If the Catholic Church was once "opaque", it certainly isn't now. They have, rightfully, paid out hundreds of millions of dollars in settlements and I believe the lack of accountability you describe, i.e.,moving priests around ,etc, is largely in the past.
That said, I never said nor implied, that abuse of children was "okay" for ANY reason.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)Opaque means non-transparent. It does not mean they did or did not pay money settlements. Glass is not opaque. A wood box is opaque. It doesn't matter if the glass box or the wood box cost $10 or $10 million. Paying a million dollars for a wood box will not make it transparent.
The internal processes of the church were hidden behind opaque barriers because nobody outside could see them or know what was done. Nobody outside knew what happened to the priests except there were no trials and no punishment under law and no reports (still no church reports!) and no redress for victims. That was all by design so that the church could protect its reputation, or so it thought. But these things come out and now the result is worse for the church.
Transparency is the opposite of opacity.
The church processes are still largely opaque. The church is shielding some notorious priest from away that they moved to France instead of bringing him to a proper accounting in the courts.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)My direct question to you was "what the hell are opaque churches", accent on the plural, "churches".
Without answering, you go on to speak of "the church", singular, and commonly understood as the Roman Catholic Church..I suggest you try for more clarity next time.
That said, I've grown quite weary of this supposed "discussion". so I'm afraid it's "goodbye and good luck" to both you and it.
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LisaM
(27,808 posts)However, yeah, it's easy to cherry pick bad Catholics when there are plenty of liberal Catholics like me trying to effect change.
niyad
(113,284 posts)certainot
(9,090 posts)sexual repression and associated with guilt and violence.
that's sex on the wrong brain, going back centuries and baked in. to change this we need to reduce right handed masturbation, which increases the need for certainty /avoidance of uncertainty - recognized as the main motivation for authoritarianism
the secret of authoritarian power is sexual repression and fostering frustration which increases levels of masturbation
because of anatomical and mechanical differences females in general have less sowb so could be more tolerant of uncertainty and as such be seen as threatening to authoritarians with high sowb.
From Mass Psychology of Fascism 1933 Wilhelm Reich
Children do not believe in God. It is when they have to learn to suppress the sexual
excitation that goes hand in hand with masturbation that the belief in God generally
becomes embedded in them. Owing to this suppression, they acquire a fear of pleasure.
Now they begin to believe in God in earnest and to develop a fear of him. On the one
hand they fear him as an omniscient and omnipotent being, and on the other hand they
invoke his protection against their own sexual excitation. All of this has the function of
avoiding masturbation. Thus, it is in early childhood that religious ideas become
embedded. However, the idea of God would not be able to bind the childs sexual energy
if it were not also associated with the actual figures of father and mother. He who does
not honour the father is sinful. In other words, he who does not fear the father and
indulges in sexual pleasure is punished. The strict father, who denies the fulfilment of the
childs desires, is Gods representative on earth and, in the fantasy of the child, is the
executioner of Gods will. If the respect for the father is shaken by a clear insight into his
weaknesses and human inadequacies, this does not lead to his rejection by the child. He
continues to exist in the figure of the abstract mystical conception of. God. In a
patriarchal social organization an appeal to God is really an appeal to the actual authority
of the father. When a child invokes God, he is really invoking his actual father. In the
structure of the child, sexual excitation, idea of father and idea of God constitute a unity.
In treatment we meet this unity as a palpable condition of genital muscular spasm. With
the elimination of the spastic condition in the genital musculature, the idea of God and
the fear of the father always lose ground. Hence, the genital spasm not only represents the
physiological anchoring of religious fear in the human structure, but at the same time it
also produces, the pleasure anxiety that becomes the core of every religious morality.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)gratuitous bigotry in any case...The OP couldn't even link up the quote to Catholicism or any other religion.
Catholics, and Christians generally, it seems, are "easy targets" here..You'll never see them targeting Jews (anti-semitism!) or Muslims (cultural intolerance!) in the same way. It's fucked up.
SouthernDem4ever
(6,617 posts)Just because it has been more subtle in recent history doesn't change the fact that it happened. As far as vestments go, they are on the same level as the evangelical TV preachers wives with all the make-up. It's all for show. The church is full of bigots in their own right. The last time I was at mass, the sermon was usurped by the principle of the local catholic high school who stood at the alter and declared that if you don't send your sons to his high school they risk turning out gay. That was the last time I went. How ludicrous. As far as the anti-semitism, I don't see them voting against a party that votes for the supporters of the proud boys, machine gun culture and fascism - but I guess that's a different conversation.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)or the Episcopalians Church, are you?
Comparing a priest's vestments to "Evangelicals wives wearing makeup" kind of gives it away.
The clerics of MANY religions, including Protestant denominations like Lutheranism and the Episcopal Church wear vestments..They're not all Southern Baptists.
SouthernDem4ever
(6,617 posts)They are all crazy as far as I am concerned. They are belief systems that evolved from worshipping the sun and rain into a patron god. All the rest is just fill-in beliefs which anyone could make up and legitimize by indoctrination over centuries.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)you know so little about the church you didn't even know that clerical vestments, unlike "the makeup worn by Evangelical wives", have religious significance.
SouthernDem4ever
(6,617 posts)Never even had to read the bible. Like I said before, centuries of additions to the belief systems. I don't think God assigned the vestment colors though.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 15, 2022, 02:05 AM - Edit history (1)
Not getting you, dear..However you were raised it doesn't sound like you got much of an education on the Church. You have a nice one.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Not the least related. Right wing bullshit.
paleotn
(17,912 posts)By the way...can I still get a free pass to heaven by killing infidels? Asking for a friend.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)As to your " infidel" question, I believe you've somehow confused Catholicism with Islam. Try again.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,367 posts)19:27
But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)it says "enemies", which could mean anything, especially given the lack of context, and he doesn't even express an intention to kill these enemies -- He asks God to slay them.
Sorry, but there's nothing in the New Testament that even encourages, let alone "mandates" the killing of non- believers.
A better understanding of the attitude of Jesus toward "infidels" is found in his parable of The Good Samaritan
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)Cuz we should move this there. This topic was a funny jab at the christian theocratic pushers legislating against drag when their own garb certainly makes them look like they have men dressed up in dresses.
And somehow a sideshow broke out.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)is that the "christian theocratic pushers legislating against drag", if that's what they're doing, are FAR more likely to be Protestant Evangelicals than Catholic priests.
niyad
(113,284 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)and certainly did NOT result in any doctrine mandating the "killing of infidels", for any reason, let alone as a "pass into heaven".
niyad
(113,284 posts)The witch burnings? The torture and deaths of the Indigenous?
Has the rcc ever apologized for their atrocities?
whathehell
(29,067 posts)to "take back" the Holy lands, not to simply, and indiscriminately "kill infidels".
Were the Crusaders and their opponents all well behaved? As in most, if not all wars, likely not
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soldierant
(6,857 posts)he dressed up like Mother in order to be called "Father."
And I don't see it as mocking Catholics or any other denomination whose clergy wear vestments (more do than you probably think.) The mockery is aimed at people who think "drag shows" are just "groomng" while not seeing that vestments fit the same profile.
The only group which you can be pretty sure each member engages in grooming is pedophiles. And they are not identifiable by any external sign, be it clothing or perceived behavior. Most would probably impress you (and MAGAts) as very nice people.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)though the picture implies it was made by Catholic clergy.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)Can we please move on?
Sorry you ate upset that someone may have offended your religion. Your religion has been offensive to me for my entire life.
NullTuples
(6,017 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)What might that be?..No one "chooses" to believe something, and who knowingly "promotes evil"?
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)For real?
whathehell
(29,067 posts)For real?
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)when you're unable to answer the question.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)How was that not an answer to your question?
Frostlight
(90 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)I doubt it, and bigotry is never "earned".
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)instead of targeting only one?
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)Catholic vestments are as much "dresses" as Jewish yarmulkes are "beanies".
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)Who cares? It's a bunch of people parading around in a get up trying to convince everyone else they got it all figured out. Pass the collection plate!!!
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Your ignorance of the subject is negatively impacting your ability to construct an argument...I'm going to bed now. Buh bye.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)I would have to care about what it is that you are saying to have an argument. I simply don't care what you want to call them. So there isn't an argument from me. If you need the win, it's all yours. Have at it. Keep your skirt (or vestment) on.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Never mind posting this kind of thing is just perpetuating the crap the other side likes to see.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,329 posts)Scrivener7
(50,949 posts)IronLionZion
(45,433 posts)not a Pope.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)Scrivener7
(50,949 posts)SunImp
(2,224 posts)He has been progressive in his beliefs and very humble. Hopefully the next one follows in his footsteps
niyad
(113,284 posts)Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)He is fundamentally not very different from the last popes.
treestar
(82,383 posts)It doesn't look like Benedict.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)He served as Prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (formerly known as the Supreme Sacred Congregation of the Roman and Universal Inquisition) from 2012 to 2017.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)dressing as women for a charity benefit skit. Everybody had a blast.
GoCubsGo
(32,080 posts)It was junior girls vs. senior girls in a touch football game. The boys dressed up as cheerleaders, and not the male kind. It was entertaining, and the participants had the most fun.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)Showing our ages, I guess. lol
multigraincracker
(32,674 posts)RKP5637
(67,107 posts)dickthegrouch
(3,173 posts)sop
(10,167 posts)I had to look it up: https://www.dragqueenstoryhour.org/
Is this really a thing in schools now, or is the right making another outrage out of a molehill?
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,329 posts)multigraincracker
(32,674 posts)soldierant
(6,857 posts)But he didn't do the translating - he just appointed a commission, and paid the expenses.0 Doesn't money make everything just copacetic for MAGAts?
RKP5637
(67,107 posts)Trans and Drags inventing problems that don't exist. DeSantis also likes picking on little kids, elementary school teachers and the mouse. The GOP is useless in a civilized society.
keithbvadu2
(36,788 posts)of course
Efilroft Sul
(3,579 posts)Both were known to dress in drag, and everybody knew it was harmless humor.
Well, everybody who isn't a conservative.
niyad
(113,284 posts)Efilroft Sul
(3,579 posts)BidenRocks
(826 posts)Last edited Mon Jun 13, 2022, 12:37 PM - Edit history (1)
Jack Lemmon and Uncle Miltie and the famous Bugs Bunny.
Oh, and Bosom Buddies Tom Hanks and the late Peter Scolari.
We won't even get into Japanese Kabuki.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)TomWilm
(1,832 posts)... though I do not carry a religion, I am a stickler for the truth. But I enjoyed the joke anyway .
My favorite drag queens!
keithbvadu2
(36,788 posts)TomWilm
(1,832 posts)... it is then part of their roles, that they are obviously not women.
- though her it is "just" an actor playing the role.
Mblaze
(258 posts)Clergy have been caught grooming and molesting children many, many times. One would hope that trusted religious leaders would be less likely to abuse children than those in other professions.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)but what does that have to do with linking up some random priest with an unattributed quote and mocking his vestments?
Mblaze
(258 posts)But I can understand the suspicion and dismissal behind hard feelings toward clergy.
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)One would expect them to have far less.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)I was merely wondering why, given that the quote used came with NO attribution, they linked it up with the Catholic church.
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)They want to control not just what their followers do but what everyone does, e.g. abortion rights. They don't have any moral high ground based on your statistic.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and they're far more active politically than Catholic priests.
RevBrotherThomas
(838 posts)But the problem is the 2-pronged aspect of the Roman Catholic Church abuse scandals; the abuse itself (catastrophically horrible enough), and then members of the hierarchy knowingly covering it up & moving abusers around to molest again. This was standard operating procedure that put the good standing of the hierarchy above the good of the faithful who put their trust and the care of their children in them.
The Southern Baptists could have learned from the Roman Church's failure. But alas...
It will take decades/centuries for healing and trust to happen again. And that's a good thing. "They do it too" is a weak-ass position (tu quoque). It is GOOD that the hierarchy is finally being held to account and clericalism as a practice is losing its prominence.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)who have NOT tried to "cover it up"?
..Penn State?..The Boy Scouts of America? Michigan
State's Dr. Larry Nasser?
For God's sake, our own FBI IGNORED the reports of systemic abuse of underage gymnasts at Michigan State....There's a LOT of blame to go around.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Last edited Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:14 PM - Edit history (1)
who have NOT tried to "cover it up"?
..Penn State?..The Boy Scouts of America? Michigan
State's Dr. Larry Nasser?
For God's sake, our own FBI IGNORED the reports of systemic abuse of underage gymnasts at Michigan State....There's a LOT of blame to go around.
treestar
(82,383 posts)giving people false ideas.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)Churches pretend to uphold high moral standards.
Your point proves that they do not actually uphold them. They are opaque, there is no accountability, and priests and pastors are shuffled around to abuse other children.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and I've explained myself SEVERAL times..Those who keep choosing to "misunderstand" won't be helped by any further attempts by me. With that, I'm ending this "discussion" and going to bed. Goodbye and good luck.
rubbersole
(6,688 posts)Maybe the Ohio State wrestling team is next. The hypocrisy is the story.
soldierant
(6,857 posts)It's not unreasonable to evpect men (and women) sexually attracted to children will want to work in professions which put them in proximity to their target group. Churches, schools, cildren's sports franchises, and others know this and have screening in their hiring process.0 Some still slip through.
The institution certainly bear some legal liability, and that's reasonable also. But an institution can't seduce or rape except metaphorically. that must be done my an individual offender.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)Shuffling priests and pastors around enables them by giving them new victims instead of stopping them when it could be stopped (prison).
The institution holds itself to the highest standard.
More accurately, they pretend to hold high standards but are as bad as any other group and worse than most because they enable the abuse in secret with no transparency or accountability unless victims survive the psychological trauma without suicide and then sue.
That's what it takes because the abuse is systematically enabled.
aeromanKC
(3,322 posts)It reminded me of child abuse when I first saw the movie.
Martin68
(22,794 posts)Mblaze
(258 posts)Watched a priest waving his censor and said, Nice dress honey but your purse is on fire.
IronLionZion
(45,433 posts)This was common for assemblies and parades and similar stuff back in the 90s. I always thought it was pretty dumb. But nobody was out of the closet back then. Since then some of my classmates have started living their authentic lives as gay or lesbian or probably trans.
Walleye
(31,017 posts)Ive been to drag shows, theyre a lot of fun. Entertainment. Plus pretty much G rated performances
Ferrets are Cool
(21,106 posts)niyad
(113,284 posts)Is this actually a widespread thing? I do not recall children being present at any of the shows I attended to support friends in the Courts.
As for "drag queen story hour", I am so far behind the times that I only learned about it this weekend in a mystery I read.
As an ex-commed catholic, the dresses always amused me.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and the priest's vestments are hardly "dresses", but you know that..As to being "amused" by them, you might want to check out the religious dress of some other religions -- You'll be in stitches.
niyad
(113,284 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)instead of a Catholic priest?
niyad
(113,284 posts)latest (up to that moment) drivel.
There is no denying the rcc's record of brutality, murder, coverups, etc., no matter how nice the current guy sometimes seems.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and I'm not "denying" anything BUT the connection between an unattributed quote about the appropriateness of "drag queens for kids" and a random catholic priest.
As to "brutal records", of institutions, yes, there's a LOT of those, many of a more secular origin and FAR more recent than the Inquisition.
niyad
(113,284 posts)Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)We have child protective statutes on the books, DeSantis said.
We have laws against child endangerment. It used to be kids would be off-limits. Used to be everybody agreed with that. Now it just seems like theres a concerted effort to be exposing kids more and more to things that are not age appropriate, he added.
DeSantis added that a video from the show in Dallas was totally inappropriate and not something children should be exposed to.
Link
whathehell
(29,067 posts)of a Catholic priest?..That was my only point.
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)If one is going to be worried about gendered dress, there are other places to attack than just drag shows.
kacekwl
(7,016 posts)line your children up in front of the Christmas tree armed to the teeth with assault rifles to honor jebuz for your Christmas card.
Solly Mack
(90,764 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,261 posts)IngridsLittleAngel
(1,962 posts)Hmm... How to spend a Sunday? Church or a drag show? Well, that depends.
If you want to enlighten your kid? Take them to a drag show.
If you want to get your kid fucked? Take them to church.
Duppers
(28,120 posts)And in too many of cases, of course, that sentence totally works as is.
👍
IngridsLittleAngel
(1,962 posts)Sadly, church sex scandals are a thing.
That said, yes... Churches are real good at fucking people up too.
Duppers
(28,120 posts)I had a much older retired minister hold my hand too long on a road trip. I pulled away & reported him.
I've not attended any church services since then, my early 20s, except for mandatory funeral services for relatives. And I'm an old gal now.
IngridsLittleAngel
(1,962 posts)I haven't stepped into a church in my life except for funerals myself. And that's definitely not going to change anytime soon.
Duppers
(28,120 posts)My religiously obsessed, Southern Baptist mother forced all 3 of her children to attend as long as she could.
The brainwashing didn't work with us; we're all atheists now.
IngridsLittleAngel
(1,962 posts)Mom was raised Catholic. I don't think my dad has ever told me what he was raised as. But both of them eventually quit going to church shortly after moving out of their parents' homes. As a result, they never really discussed religion around us or took us to church.
My dad's quite agnostic himself. I'm not sure how my mom felt about the Catholic church but I imagine between the scandals and the discrimination against LGBTQ's, she definitely would've disavowed the church if she were still here.
I can't say I'm really surprised by your post. I know a lot of people who had religion and church pushed on them hard as kids, and wound up agnostic or atheist as adults thanks to that.
Duppers
(28,120 posts)TY, Angel.
IngridsLittleAngel
(1,962 posts)And the good news is, you're out of that whole mess now and have been for a long time
iemanja
(53,032 posts)Why do even critics insist on imposing those kind of norms?