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Nevilledog

(51,094 posts)
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 02:49 PM Jun 2022

Parents need to stop subjecting kids to these drag shows where men dress up like women...



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Ron Filipkowski 🇺🇦
@RonFilipkowski
Parents need to stop subjecting kids to these drag shows where men dress up like women, play loud music, ask for money, and indoctrinate kids before they are even old enough to understand.
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10:01 AM · Jun 12, 2022



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Parents need to stop subjecting kids to these drag shows where men dress up like women... (Original Post) Nevilledog Jun 2022 OP
Most Catholics I know did not like that Pope. LisaM Jun 2022 #1
It's really not about the Pope.... Nevilledog Jun 2022 #2
Then why mock the vestments of catholic clergy? whathehell Jun 2022 #15
Alrighty Nevilledog Jun 2022 #17
That's not an answer to the question. whathehell Jun 2022 #22
It's about the hypocrisy. Nevilledog Jun 2022 #26
What "hypocrisy"? whathehell Jun 2022 #28
That cardinal has covered up for child molesting priests. Mariana Jun 2022 #30
Boom... mic drop for Mariana. Vdizzle Jun 2022 #55
Ouch! Prof. Toru Tanaka Jun 2022 #58
What does that have to do with the quote? whathehell Jun 2022 #60
Yeah! And shitty spelling, too! nt aka-chmeee Jun 2022 #77
LOL geardaddy Jun 2022 #90
The Hypocrisy of Catholic Priests raping young children then preaching morality. nt Tommymac Jun 2022 #76
What part of "Catholic priests are NO more likely to molest whathehell Jun 2022 #108
Opaque churches have no accountability and systematically ENABLE the molestation Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #123
What the hell is an "opaque" church? whathehell Jun 2022 #133
You don't know the term, and then blithely sail forth and use it wrongly. What the hell? Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #136
Lol..We both know I know what the term "opaque" means.. whathehell Jun 2022 #137
This message was self-deleted by its author Tommymac Jun 2022 #127
I thought it was Pope Benedict. LisaM Jun 2022 #33
Do you think it possible to change the rcc's patriarchal attitude toward women? niyad Jun 2022 #43
that's the centuries old secret of authoritarian power - masturbation increased through certainot Jun 2022 #91
Not sure, but it doesn't matter, as it's just whathehell Jun 2022 #48
There's plenty of bad history in the catholic church from which to choose. SouthernDem4ever Jun 2022 #56
Lol..You're not very familiar with Catholicism, Lutheranism, whathehell Jun 2022 #59
My point wasn't that it was just catholics but that was your current reference SouthernDem4ever Jun 2022 #75
There's bad history everywhere, but, again, whathehell Jun 2022 #95
Sad isn't it? And I was brought up catholic. SouthernDem4ever Jun 2022 #119
Sad for who? whathehell Jun 2022 #135
Not only that but it's linking, purposely or not, pedophilia and gay. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #93
Oh, please. paleotn Jun 2022 #36
Lol.."oh please" my ass whathehell Jun 2022 #46
You haven't read Luke. A HERETIC I AM Jun 2022 #54
Um, that quote says nothing about "infidels", whathehell Jun 2022 #57
Is there a bible study forum here? CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #78
Lol..Fine with me, The only problem with your suggestion whathehell Jun 2022 #104
Crusades, anyone??? El Camino Reyal?? The Burning Times? Inquisition? niyad Jun 2022 #82
Yes, but those were all a VERY long time ago, weren't they? whathehell Jun 2022 #100
Seriously?? What, exactly, do you think was the point of the Crusades? niyad Jun 2022 #110
Yes, seriously, and the "point" of the Crusades was whathehell Jun 2022 #118
This message was self-deleted by its author chia Jun 2022 #41
An Episcopalian priest once told me soldierant Jun 2022 #49
The problem is, there is no attribution to the quote about " drag shows' whathehell Jun 2022 #53
Yeah I am sure there are no catholics that are against drag shows. CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #79
Bigotry against...a voluntary set of beliefs? You betcha, if they promote evil. NullTuples Jun 2022 #61
A "'voluntary' set of beliefs"? whathehell Jun 2022 #65
Nobody chooses to believe something? CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #80
Do you have examples to the contrary? whathehell Jun 2022 #107
I am choosing to not believe your statement. CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #109
Lol..Such a wise choice whathehell Jun 2022 #116
What do you mean I just answered your question. CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #120
It is bigotry earned through hypocrisy. n/t Frostlight Jun 2022 #63
More than other religions?.. whathehell Jun 2022 #64
How about all or most religions? CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #81
Then how about INDICATING "all or most" religions whathehell Jun 2022 #103
Because they wear dresses and that was the point of the op? CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #126
Lol..Ignorant much? whathehell Jun 2022 #128
Call them what you want.... Dresses, gowns, vestements CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #129
Lol..No, I call them what they are.. whathehell Jun 2022 #131
I am not arguing. CrackityJones75 Jun 2022 #132
Yep. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #92
That's not a pope. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #5
That's not any recent pope I recognize. Scrivener7 Jun 2022 #13
Google says that's a German cardinal Gerhard Ludwig Muller IronLionZion Jun 2022 #24
He's known to have covered up for child raping priests. nt. Mariana Jun 2022 #32
Most Cardinals in most places have. Scrivener7 Jun 2022 #37
Yeah, I think Pope Francis is a genuinely decent man of God SunImp Jun 2022 #67
Let me know when he sees women as fully autonomous human beings. niyad Jun 2022 #83
Calling him progressive is an insult to progressives. Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #85
Are you sure that isn't a bishop? treestar Jun 2022 #105
It's Cardinal Gerhard Mueller. Mariana Jun 2022 #113
I distincltly remember the male staff in Junior High Lars39 Jun 2022 #3
My high school was one of many that had a "powderpuff" football game before homecoming. GoCubsGo Jun 2022 #6
Had those, too. Lars39 Jun 2022 #8
There is this.... multigraincracker Jun 2022 #4
Trump's true love!!! n/t RKP5637 Jun 2022 #11
And then there's this... dickthegrouch Jun 2022 #7
Since I live under a rock, I have to ask: Are parents taking their kids to drag queen story hour? sop Jun 2022 #9
It's often held in public libraries or private businesses like brewpubs or restaurants. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #10
Need to remove all King James Bibles, he was gay.. multigraincracker Jun 2022 #14
LOL! So he was! soldierant Jun 2022 #50
Political talking points for GOP and votes. They are running out of stuff, so they go pick on RKP5637 Jun 2022 #12
Get back to republican values and morality keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #16
The same folks bitching about these drag shows also watched Milton Berle and Bugs Bunny. Efilroft Sul Jun 2022 #18
Jonathan Winters. Johnny Carson. Flip Wilson. niyad Jun 2022 #40
Good additions, thank you! Efilroft Sul Jun 2022 #51
Mrs Doubtfire and Tootsie BidenRocks Jun 2022 #89
Churches are grooming children. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #19
Bullshit...Studies show clergy are no more likely whathehell Jun 2022 #23
Agree, and I have given that same kind of proof before here... TomWilm Jun 2022 #27
One of these 'drag queens' was Agent Smith. Quite macho. keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #39
Many of the real draq queens are very macho too ... TomWilm Jun 2022 #47
Nonetheless Mblaze Jun 2022 #34
I agree, whathehell Jun 2022 #97
It may not be fair Mblaze Jun 2022 #138
Which makes them no better suited to discuss morality with the country. Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #86
Who said they were? You're missing the entire point of my posts whathehell Jun 2022 #96
They say they are. Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #125
So do Protestant Evangelicals.. whathehell Jun 2022 #130
Agreed. RevBrotherThomas Jun 2022 #88
Are there ANY institution with members accused of child abuse whathehell Jun 2022 #98
Are there ANY institutions with members accused of child abuse whathehell Jun 2022 #99
another media frenzy treestar Jun 2022 #114
"No more likely" is not what churches pretend to aim for. Abuse is enabled by opaque churches Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #122
I understand that completely... whathehell Jun 2022 #134
Probably more so than anywhere else. rubbersole Jun 2022 #38
Not churches. Clergy. Even if the church later covers up, it srtill didn't do the grroming. soldierant Jun 2022 #112
Systematic abuse enabled by churches is just as systematic as systematic racism Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #121
Jesus Camp aeromanKC Jun 2022 #20
LOL! Now that's a fancy mumu! Martin68 Jun 2022 #21
Truman Capote Mblaze Jun 2022 #35
High schools had jocks dress in drag because they thought it was funny IronLionZion Jun 2022 #25
That's crazy, one thing kids understand is make-believe Walleye Jun 2022 #29
K and R Ferrets are Cool Jun 2022 #31
What is with this sudden (to me, at least) whining about children and drag shows! niyad Jun 2022 #42
As far as I can see, the quote completly lacks attribution whathehell Jun 2022 #52
Am guessing it is a response to one of the latest vomits from boebert. niyad Jun 2022 #84
Really?. Then why not show Boebert whathehell Jun 2022 #102
Why don't you ask the OP? I simply opined that it might be related to qbert's niyad Jun 2022 #111
It's called a "rhetorical question" whathehell Jun 2022 #115
I understand completely. niyad Jun 2022 #117
Pretty much a very accurate restatement of what DeSantis said yesterday Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #87
So why not show DeSantis' picture instead of that whathehell Jun 2022 #101
The point is the hypocrisy. Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #124
But it's absolutely fine to kacekwl Jun 2022 #44
K&R Solly Mack Jun 2022 #45
Well, it does lead to some pretty disgusting behavior ... (hurl warning) eppur_se_muova Jun 2022 #62
If I had kids.. IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #66
If you change that 2nd to last sentence, Duppers Jun 2022 #68
I wish I could, sadly IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #69
Absolutely! No doubt. Duppers Jun 2022 #70
I don't blame you IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #71
I'm so envious. Duppers Jun 2022 #72
My parents both quit attending shortly after turning 18 IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #73
My envy continues. 😉 Duppers Jun 2022 #74
You're welcome IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #94
That's a pretty narrow notion of what men should dress like. iemanja Jun 2022 #106

LisaM

(27,808 posts)
1. Most Catholics I know did not like that Pope.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 03:00 PM
Jun 2022

The current one is much more low key in his dress and more humble in his demeanor.

I don't like memes like that that don't mention this was the LAST Pope, because I bet there are plenty of people who don't know.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
28. What "hypocrisy"?
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:02 PM
Jun 2022

I saw no attribution of Filipkowsi' s quote to anyone in the Catholic Church. He just pulled it out of his ass.

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
30. That cardinal has covered up for child molesting priests.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:08 PM
Jun 2022

That is Cardinal Gerhard Müller. Fuck him and his vestments.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
60. What does that have to do with the quote?
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:26 PM
Jun 2022

Answer: Nothing.

Fuck unattrubuted quotes and poor writing skills.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
108. What part of "Catholic priests are NO more likely to molest
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:13 PM
Jun 2022

children than clergy of other religions, or Men in General" do you not understand?

Please read the Newsweek article in post #83





Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
123. Opaque churches have no accountability and systematically ENABLE the molestation
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 06:09 AM
Jun 2022

If they were accountable and didn't simply shuffle priests around, they would have higher moral standards they claim but do not actually have.

It's systematic, like systematic racism and systematic police abuse.

Just because "everybody else does it" doesn't make abuse right.



"no more likely" is not a proper standard, especially for churches.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
133. What the hell is an "opaque" church?
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 01:08 AM
Jun 2022

If the Catholic Church was once "opaque", it certainly isn't now. They have, rightfully, paid out hundreds of millions of dollars in settlements and I believe the lack of accountability you describe, i.e.,moving priests around ,etc, is largely in the past.
That said, I never said nor implied, that abuse of children was "okay" for ANY reason.


Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
136. You don't know the term, and then blithely sail forth and use it wrongly. What the hell?
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 06:49 AM
Jun 2022

Opaque means non-transparent. It does not mean they did or did not pay money settlements. Glass is not opaque. A wood box is opaque. It doesn't matter if the glass box or the wood box cost $10 or $10 million. Paying a million dollars for a wood box will not make it transparent.

The internal processes of the church were hidden behind opaque barriers because nobody outside could see them or know what was done. Nobody outside knew what happened to the priests except there were no trials and no punishment under law and no reports (still no church reports!) and no redress for victims. That was all by design so that the church could protect its reputation, or so it thought. But these things come out and now the result is worse for the church.

Transparency is the opposite of opacity.

The church processes are still largely opaque. The church is shielding some notorious priest from away that they moved to France instead of bringing him to a proper accounting in the courts.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
137. Lol..We both know I know what the term "opaque" means..
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 11:27 AM
Jun 2022

My direct question to you was "what the hell are opaque churches", accent on the plural, "churches".

Without answering, you go on to speak of "the church", singular, and commonly understood as the Roman Catholic Church..I suggest you try for more clarity next time.

That said, I've grown quite weary of this supposed "discussion". so I'm afraid it's "goodbye and good luck" to both you and it.

Response to whathehell (Reply #108)

LisaM

(27,808 posts)
33. I thought it was Pope Benedict.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:26 PM
Jun 2022

However, yeah, it's easy to cherry pick bad Catholics when there are plenty of liberal Catholics like me trying to effect change.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
91. that's the centuries old secret of authoritarian power - masturbation increased through
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 12:32 PM
Jun 2022

sexual repression and associated with guilt and violence.

that's sex on the wrong brain, going back centuries and baked in. to change this we need to reduce right handed masturbation, which increases the need for certainty /avoidance of uncertainty - recognized as the main motivation for authoritarianism

the secret of authoritarian power is sexual repression and fostering frustration which increases levels of masturbation

because of anatomical and mechanical differences females in general have less sowb so could be more tolerant of uncertainty and as such be seen as threatening to authoritarians with high sowb.

“From Mass Psychology of Fascism” 1933 Wilhelm Reich


Children do not believe in God. It is when they have to learn to suppress the sexual
excitation that goes hand in hand with masturbation that the belief in God generally
becomes embedded in them. Owing to this suppression, they acquire a fear of pleasure.
Now they begin to believe in God in earnest and to develop a fear of him. On the one
hand they fear him as an omniscient and omnipotent being, and on the other hand they
invoke his protection against their own sexual excitation. All of this has the function of
avoiding masturbation. Thus, it is in early childhood that religious ideas become
embedded. However, the idea of God would not be able to bind the child’s sexual energy
if it were not also associated with the actual figures of father and mother. He who does
not honour the father is sinful. In other words, he who does not fear the father and
indulges in sexual pleasure is punished. The strict father, who denies the fulfilment of the
child’s desires, is God’s representative on earth and, in the fantasy of the child, is the
executioner of God’s will. If the respect for the father is shaken by a clear insight into his
weaknesses and human inadequacies, this does not lead to his rejection by the child. He
continues to exist in the figure of the abstract mystical conception of. God. In a
patriarchal social organization an appeal to God is really an appeal to the actual authority
of the father. When a child invokes ‘God’, he is really invoking his actual father. In the
structure of the child, sexual excitation, idea of father and idea of God constitute a unity.
In treatment we meet this unity as a palpable condition of genital muscular spasm. With
the elimination of the spastic condition in the genital musculature, the idea of God and
the fear of the father always lose ground. Hence, the genital spasm not only represents the
physiological anchoring of religious fear in the human structure, but at the same time it
also produces, the pleasure anxiety that becomes the core of every religious morality.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
48. Not sure, but it doesn't matter, as it's just
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:31 PM
Jun 2022

gratuitous bigotry in any case...The OP couldn't even link up the quote to Catholicism or any other religion.

Catholics, and Christians generally, it seems, are "easy targets" here..You'll never see them targeting Jews (anti-semitism!) or Muslims (cultural intolerance!) in the same way. It's fucked up.

SouthernDem4ever

(6,617 posts)
56. There's plenty of bad history in the catholic church from which to choose.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 09:21 PM
Jun 2022

Just because it has been more subtle in recent history doesn't change the fact that it happened. As far as vestments go, they are on the same level as the evangelical TV preachers wives with all the make-up. It's all for show. The church is full of bigots in their own right. The last time I was at mass, the sermon was usurped by the principle of the local catholic high school who stood at the alter and declared that if you don't send your sons to his high school they risk turning out gay. That was the last time I went. How ludicrous. As far as the anti-semitism, I don't see them voting against a party that votes for the supporters of the proud boys, machine gun culture and fascism - but I guess that's a different conversation.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
59. Lol..You're not very familiar with Catholicism, Lutheranism,
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 10:08 PM
Jun 2022

or the Episcopalians Church, are you?
Comparing a priest's vestments to "Evangelicals wives wearing makeup" kind of gives it away.

The clerics of MANY religions, including Protestant denominations like Lutheranism and the Episcopal Church wear vestments..They're not all Southern Baptists.

SouthernDem4ever

(6,617 posts)
75. My point wasn't that it was just catholics but that was your current reference
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:27 AM
Jun 2022

They are all crazy as far as I am concerned. They are belief systems that evolved from worshipping the sun and rain into a patron god. All the rest is just fill-in beliefs which anyone could make up and legitimize by indoctrination over centuries.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
95. There's bad history everywhere, but, again,
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 04:35 PM
Jun 2022

you know so little about the church you didn't even know that clerical vestments, unlike "the makeup worn by Evangelical wives", have religious significance.





SouthernDem4ever

(6,617 posts)
119. Sad isn't it? And I was brought up catholic.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 09:01 PM
Jun 2022

Never even had to read the bible. Like I said before, centuries of additions to the belief systems. I don't think God assigned the vestment colors though.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
135. Sad for who?
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 01:33 AM
Jun 2022

Last edited Wed Jun 15, 2022, 02:05 AM - Edit history (1)

Not getting you, dear..However you were raised it doesn't sound like you got much of an education on the Church. You have a nice one.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
93. Not only that but it's linking, purposely or not, pedophilia and gay.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 12:40 PM
Jun 2022

Not the least related. Right wing bullshit.

paleotn

(17,912 posts)
36. Oh, please.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:39 PM
Jun 2022


By the way...can I still get a free pass to heaven by killing infidels? Asking for a friend.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
46. Lol.."oh please" my ass
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:11 PM
Jun 2022

As to your " infidel" question, I believe you've somehow confused Catholicism with Islam. Try again.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,367 posts)
54. You haven't read Luke.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:53 PM
Jun 2022

19:27

“But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.”

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
57. Um, that quote says nothing about "infidels",
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 09:45 PM
Jun 2022

it says "enemies", which could mean anything, especially given the lack of context, and he doesn't even express an intention to kill these enemies -- He asks God to slay them.
Sorry, but there's nothing in the New Testament that even encourages, let alone "mandates" the killing of non- believers.

A better understanding of the attitude of Jesus toward "infidels" is found in his parable of The Good Samaritan

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
78. Is there a bible study forum here?
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 09:06 AM
Jun 2022

Cuz we should move this there. This topic was a funny jab at the christian theocratic pushers legislating against drag when their own garb certainly makes them look like they have men dressed up in dresses.


And somehow a sideshow broke out.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
104. Lol..Fine with me, The only problem with your suggestion
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 05:46 PM
Jun 2022

is that the "christian theocratic pushers legislating against drag", if that's what they're doing, are FAR more likely to be Protestant Evangelicals than Catholic priests.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
100. Yes, but those were all a VERY long time ago, weren't they?
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 05:33 PM
Jun 2022

and certainly did NOT result in any doctrine mandating the "killing of infidels", for any reason, let alone as a "pass into heaven".

niyad

(113,284 posts)
110. Seriously?? What, exactly, do you think was the point of the Crusades?
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:28 PM
Jun 2022

The witch burnings? The torture and deaths of the Indigenous?

Has the rcc ever apologized for their atrocities?

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
118. Yes, seriously, and the "point" of the Crusades was
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 08:05 PM
Jun 2022

to "take back" the Holy lands, not to simply, and indiscriminately "kill infidels".
Were the Crusaders and their opponents all well behaved? As in most, if not all wars, likely not


Response to whathehell (Reply #15)

soldierant

(6,857 posts)
49. An Episcopalian priest once told me
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:34 PM
Jun 2022

he dressed up like Mother in order to be called "Father."

And I don't see it as mocking Catholics or any other denomination whose clergy wear vestments (more do than you probably think.) The mockery is aimed at people who think "drag shows" are just "groomng" while not seeing that vestments fit the same profile.

The only group which you can be pretty sure each member engages in grooming is pedophiles. And they are not identifiable by any external sign, be it clothing or perceived behavior. Most would probably impress you (and MAGAts) as very nice people.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
53. The problem is, there is no attribution to the quote about " drag shows'
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:48 PM
Jun 2022

though the picture implies it was made by Catholic clergy.

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
79. Yeah I am sure there are no catholics that are against drag shows.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 09:08 AM
Jun 2022

Can we please move on?

Sorry you ate upset that someone may have offended your religion. Your religion has been offensive to me for my entire life.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
65. A "'voluntary' set of beliefs"?
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 02:15 AM
Jun 2022

What might that be?..No one "chooses" to believe something, and who knowingly "promotes evil"?

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
129. Call them what you want.... Dresses, gowns, vestements
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 12:35 AM
Jun 2022

Who cares? It's a bunch of people parading around in a get up trying to convince everyone else they got it all figured out. Pass the collection plate!!!

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
131. Lol..No, I call them what they are..
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 12:49 AM
Jun 2022

Your ignorance of the subject is negatively impacting your ability to construct an argument...I'm going to bed now. Buh bye.




 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
132. I am not arguing.
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 12:51 AM
Jun 2022

I would have to care about what it is that you are saying to have an argument. I simply don't care what you want to call them. So there isn't an argument from me. If you need the win, it's all yours. Have at it. Keep your skirt (or vestment) on.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
92. Yep.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 12:38 PM
Jun 2022

Never mind posting this kind of thing is just perpetuating the crap the other side likes to see.

SunImp

(2,224 posts)
67. Yeah, I think Pope Francis is a genuinely decent man of God
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:03 AM
Jun 2022

He has been progressive in his beliefs and very humble. Hopefully the next one follows in his footsteps

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
85. Calling him progressive is an insult to progressives.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 09:54 AM
Jun 2022

He is fundamentally not very different from the last popes.

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
113. It's Cardinal Gerhard Mueller.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 07:02 PM
Jun 2022

He served as Prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (formerly known as the Supreme Sacred Congregation of the Roman and Universal Inquisition) from 2012 to 2017.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
3. I distincltly remember the male staff in Junior High
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 03:05 PM
Jun 2022

dressing as women for a charity benefit skit. Everybody had a blast.

GoCubsGo

(32,080 posts)
6. My high school was one of many that had a "powderpuff" football game before homecoming.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 03:10 PM
Jun 2022

It was junior girls vs. senior girls in a touch football game. The boys dressed up as cheerleaders, and not the male kind. It was entertaining, and the participants had the most fun.

sop

(10,167 posts)
9. Since I live under a rock, I have to ask: Are parents taking their kids to drag queen story hour?
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 03:26 PM
Jun 2022

I had to look it up: https://www.dragqueenstoryhour.org/

Is this really a thing in schools now, or is the right making another outrage out of a molehill?

soldierant

(6,857 posts)
50. LOL! So he was!
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:38 PM
Jun 2022

But he didn't do the translating - he just appointed a commission, and paid the expenses.0 Doesn't money make everything just copacetic for MAGAts?

RKP5637

(67,107 posts)
12. Political talking points for GOP and votes. They are running out of stuff, so they go pick on
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 03:36 PM
Jun 2022

Trans and Drags inventing problems that don't exist. DeSantis also likes picking on little kids, elementary school teachers and the mouse. The GOP is useless in a civilized society.

Efilroft Sul

(3,579 posts)
18. The same folks bitching about these drag shows also watched Milton Berle and Bugs Bunny.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 04:28 PM
Jun 2022

Both were known to dress in drag, and everybody knew it was harmless humor.

Well, everybody who isn't a conservative.

BidenRocks

(826 posts)
89. Mrs Doubtfire and Tootsie
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 10:29 AM
Jun 2022

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Jack Lemmon and Uncle Miltie and the famous Bugs Bunny.

Oh, and Bosom Buddies Tom Hanks and the late Peter Scolari.

We won't even get into Japanese Kabuki.

TomWilm

(1,832 posts)
27. Agree, and I have given that same kind of proof before here...
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:00 PM
Jun 2022

... though I do not carry a religion, I am a stickler for the truth. But I enjoyed the joke anyway .




My favorite drag queens!



TomWilm

(1,832 posts)
47. Many of the real draq queens are very macho too ...
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:16 PM
Jun 2022

... it is then part of their roles, that they are obviously not women.



- though her it is "just" an actor playing the role.

Mblaze

(258 posts)
34. Nonetheless
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:29 PM
Jun 2022

Clergy have been caught grooming and molesting children many, many times. One would hope that trusted religious leaders would be less likely to abuse children than those in other professions.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
97. I agree,
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 04:52 PM
Jun 2022

but what does that have to do with linking up some random priest with an unattributed quote and mocking his vestments?

Mblaze

(258 posts)
138. It may not be fair
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 09:49 PM
Jun 2022

But I can understand the suspicion and dismissal behind hard feelings toward clergy.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
86. Which makes them no better suited to discuss morality with the country.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 09:56 AM
Jun 2022

One would expect them to have far less.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
96. Who said they were? You're missing the entire point of my posts
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 04:47 PM
Jun 2022

I was merely wondering why, given that the quote used came with NO attribution, they linked it up with the Catholic church.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
125. They say they are.
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 08:52 AM
Jun 2022

They want to control not just what their followers do but what everyone does, e.g. abortion rights. They don't have any moral high ground based on your statistic.

RevBrotherThomas

(838 posts)
88. Agreed.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 10:19 AM
Jun 2022

But the problem is the 2-pronged aspect of the Roman Catholic Church abuse scandals; the abuse itself (catastrophically horrible enough), and then members of the hierarchy knowingly covering it up & moving abusers around to molest again. This was standard operating procedure that put the good standing of the hierarchy above the good of the faithful who put their trust and the care of their children in them.

The Southern Baptists could have learned from the Roman Church's failure. But alas...

It will take decades/centuries for healing and trust to happen again. And that's a good thing. "They do it too" is a weak-ass position (tu quoque). It is GOOD that the hierarchy is finally being held to account and clericalism as a practice is losing its prominence.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
98. Are there ANY institution with members accused of child abuse
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 05:15 PM
Jun 2022

who have NOT tried to "cover it up"?
..Penn State?..The Boy Scouts of America? Michigan
State's Dr. Larry Nasser?

For God's sake, our own FBI IGNORED the reports of systemic abuse of underage gymnasts at Michigan State....There's a LOT of blame to go around.



whathehell

(29,067 posts)
99. Are there ANY institutions with members accused of child abuse
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 05:16 PM
Jun 2022

Last edited Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:14 PM - Edit history (1)

who have NOT tried to "cover it up"?
..Penn State?..The Boy Scouts of America? Michigan
State's Dr. Larry Nasser?

For God's sake, our own FBI IGNORED the reports of systemic abuse of underage gymnasts at Michigan State....There's a LOT of blame to go around.



Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
122. "No more likely" is not what churches pretend to aim for. Abuse is enabled by opaque churches
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 06:04 AM
Jun 2022

Churches pretend to uphold high moral standards.

Your point proves that they do not actually uphold them. They are opaque, there is no accountability, and priests and pastors are shuffled around to abuse other children.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
134. I understand that completely...
Wed Jun 15, 2022, 01:17 AM
Jun 2022

and I've explained myself SEVERAL times..Those who keep choosing to "misunderstand" won't be helped by any further attempts by me. With that, I'm ending this "discussion" and going to bed. Goodbye and good luck.

rubbersole

(6,688 posts)
38. Probably more so than anywhere else.
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:49 PM
Jun 2022

Maybe the Ohio State wrestling team is next. The hypocrisy is the story.

soldierant

(6,857 posts)
112. Not churches. Clergy. Even if the church later covers up, it srtill didn't do the grroming.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:53 PM
Jun 2022

It's not unreasonable to evpect men (and women) sexually attracted to children will want to work in professions which put them in proximity to their target group. Churches, schools, cildren's sports franchises, and others know this and have screening in their hiring process.0 Some still slip through.

The institution certainly bear some legal liability, and that's reasonable also. But an institution can't seduce or rape except metaphorically. that must be done my an individual offender.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
121. Systematic abuse enabled by churches is just as systematic as systematic racism
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 06:01 AM
Jun 2022

Shuffling priests and pastors around enables them by giving them new victims instead of stopping them when it could be stopped (prison).

The institution holds itself to the highest standard.

More accurately, they pretend to hold high standards but are as bad as any other group and worse than most because they enable the abuse in secret with no transparency or accountability unless victims survive the psychological trauma without suicide and then sue.

That's what it takes because the abuse is systematically enabled.

Mblaze

(258 posts)
35. Truman Capote
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:37 PM
Jun 2022

Watched a priest waving his censor and said, “Nice dress honey but your purse is on fire”.

IronLionZion

(45,433 posts)
25. High schools had jocks dress in drag because they thought it was funny
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 04:55 PM
Jun 2022

This was common for assemblies and parades and similar stuff back in the 90s. I always thought it was pretty dumb. But nobody was out of the closet back then. Since then some of my classmates have started living their authentic lives as gay or lesbian or probably trans.

Walleye

(31,017 posts)
29. That's crazy, one thing kids understand is make-believe
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 05:06 PM
Jun 2022

I’ve been to drag shows, they’re a lot of fun. Entertainment. Plus pretty much G rated performances

niyad

(113,284 posts)
42. What is with this sudden (to me, at least) whining about children and drag shows!
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 07:12 PM
Jun 2022

Is this actually a widespread thing? I do not recall children being present at any of the shows I attended to support friends in the Courts.

As for "drag queen story hour", I am so far behind the times that I only learned about it this weekend in a mystery I read.

As an ex-commed catholic, the dresses always amused me.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
52. As far as I can see, the quote completly lacks attribution
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 08:45 PM
Jun 2022

and the priest's vestments are hardly "dresses", but you know that..As to being "amused" by them, you might want to check out the religious dress of some other religions -- You'll be in stitches.

niyad

(113,284 posts)
111. Why don't you ask the OP? I simply opined that it might be related to qbert's
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 06:40 PM
Jun 2022

latest (up to that moment) drivel.

There is no denying the rcc's record of brutality, murder, coverups, etc., no matter how nice the current guy sometimes seems.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
115. It's called a "rhetorical question"
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 07:17 PM
Jun 2022

and I'm not "denying" anything BUT the connection between an unattributed quote about the appropriateness of "drag queens for kids" and a random catholic priest.

As to "brutal records", of institutions, yes, there's a LOT of those, many of a more secular origin and FAR more recent than the Inquisition.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
87. Pretty much a very accurate restatement of what DeSantis said yesterday
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 10:00 AM
Jun 2022
The remarks from the governor who signed the controversial “Don’t Say Gay” bill into law followed a video posted to Twitter showing children attending a drag show in Texas, NBC News reported.

“We have child protective statutes on the books,” DeSantis said.

“We have laws against child endangerment. It used to be kids would be off-limits. Used to be everybody agreed with that. Now it just seems like there’s a concerted effort to be exposing kids more and more to things that are not age appropriate,” he added.

DeSantis added that a video from the show in Dallas was “totally inappropriate” and “not something children should be exposed to.”


Link

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
124. The point is the hypocrisy.
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 08:51 AM
Jun 2022

If one is going to be worried about gendered dress, there are other places to attack than just drag shows.

kacekwl

(7,016 posts)
44. But it's absolutely fine to
Sun Jun 12, 2022, 07:56 PM
Jun 2022

line your children up in front of the Christmas tree armed to the teeth with assault rifles to honor jebuz for your Christmas card.

 

IngridsLittleAngel

(1,962 posts)
66. If I had kids..
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 02:44 AM
Jun 2022

Hmm... How to spend a Sunday? Church or a drag show? Well, that depends.

If you want to enlighten your kid? Take them to a drag show.
If you want to get your kid fucked? Take them to church.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
68. If you change that 2nd to last sentence,
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:05 AM
Jun 2022
To "fucked-up," I TOTALLY AGREE.

And in too many of cases, of course, that sentence totally works as is.

👍
 

IngridsLittleAngel

(1,962 posts)
69. I wish I could, sadly
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:06 AM
Jun 2022

Sadly, church sex scandals are a thing.

That said, yes... Churches are real good at fucking people up too.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
70. Absolutely! No doubt.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:31 AM
Jun 2022

I had a much older retired minister hold my hand too long on a road trip. I pulled away & reported him.

I've not attended any church services since then, my early 20s, except for mandatory funeral services for relatives. And I'm an old gal now.

 

IngridsLittleAngel

(1,962 posts)
71. I don't blame you
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:32 AM
Jun 2022

I haven't stepped into a church in my life except for funerals myself. And that's definitely not going to change anytime soon.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
72. I'm so envious.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 03:48 AM
Jun 2022

My religiously obsessed, Southern Baptist mother forced all 3 of her children to attend as long as she could.

The brainwashing didn't work with us; we're all atheists now.


 

IngridsLittleAngel

(1,962 posts)
73. My parents both quit attending shortly after turning 18
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 04:04 AM
Jun 2022

Mom was raised Catholic. I don't think my dad has ever told me what he was raised as. But both of them eventually quit going to church shortly after moving out of their parents' homes. As a result, they never really discussed religion around us or took us to church.

My dad's quite agnostic himself. I'm not sure how my mom felt about the Catholic church but I imagine between the scandals and the discrimination against LGBTQ's, she definitely would've disavowed the church if she were still here.

I can't say I'm really surprised by your post. I know a lot of people who had religion and church pushed on them hard as kids, and wound up agnostic or atheist as adults thanks to that.

iemanja

(53,032 posts)
106. That's a pretty narrow notion of what men should dress like.
Mon Jun 13, 2022, 05:49 PM
Jun 2022

Why do even critics insist on imposing those kind of norms?

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