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I'm not crying... 🥺 I lied. I'm definitely crying (Original Post) demmiblue Jun 2022 OP
That has to be meaningful beyond words for them. Is there such a thing as coincidence? Maybe, Karadeniz Jun 2022 #1
Beautiful. whathehell Jun 2022 #2
'Just Listen' n/t alittlelark Jun 2022 #3
I sort of had something similar happen to me rurallib Jun 2022 #4
Much respect to you. Not only for donating but for being such a selfless person to not let them LoisB Jun 2022 #6
thanks - it was kind of overwhelming and they were so happy. rurallib Jun 2022 #7
you're probably CMV negative Skittles Jun 2022 #10
We've been here decades and I never knew this about you eleny Jun 2022 #24
I donated blood too, before I moved here Skittles Jun 2022 #25
Well, you are! You are! eleny Jun 2022 #26
Yep - I watch a lot of TV and just lay there rurallib Jun 2022 #27
That's it! CMV negative rurallib Jun 2022 #28
valuable because your product can be used in newborns Skittles Jun 2022 #29
Well that is another story rurallib Jun 2022 #32
oh man that is sweet Skittles Jun 2022 #33
yep - makes me a bit misty also rurallib Jun 2022 #34
👍 Joinfortmill Jun 2022 #14
What a beautiful experience! renate Jun 2022 #23
I'm choked-up. TomSlick Jun 2022 #5
! rurallib Jun 2022 #8
Touching, for sure Victor_c3 Jun 2022 #9
this is real America Riverman100 Jun 2022 #11
The Karma Fairy blessed them. rubbersole Jun 2022 #12
That was beautiful mcar Jun 2022 #13
Wasn't that aspect of the story cool? BigmanPigman Jun 2022 #19
What are the odds? mcar Jun 2022 #20
Very cool Handler Jun 2022 #15
KR for later! Cha Jun 2022 #16
KR for later! Cha Jun 2022 #17
There is something wrong with me. bottomofthehill Jun 2022 #18
Kick ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #21
KNR niyad Jun 2022 #22
There go the waterworks... calimary Jun 2022 #30
Damned allergies. 11 Bravo Jun 2022 #31

Karadeniz

(22,514 posts)
1. That has to be meaningful beyond words for them. Is there such a thing as coincidence? Maybe,
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 07:16 PM
Jun 2022

but I've had a few that defy random encounter.

rurallib

(62,414 posts)
4. I sort of had something similar happen to me
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:40 PM
Jun 2022

Not trying to toot my own horn but ......
I have been a blood donor forever - 55 years this year. During that time I have also been a white cell donor at the hospital. I have O negative blood and some kind of special kicker in my blood - can't remember what they called it.

Anyway - I was giving white cells this one time. White cells are donated usually for adult onset leukemia. It is like the very last shot a person has at recovery - a last ditch effort.

If you donate it could be 4 times in 2 weeks. In order to give you are given a a shot to 'stimulate' white cells - it makes you sick like a flu 12 hours before the donation.

I went to the hospital to get my shot. There was a small party going on in the break room of the cancer ward where I got my shot. As I waited I asked one of the young ladies there what the party was about. She told me her dad was getting his last white cell infusion and if every thing worked out all right he would be cured and would go home tomorrow.

She also said that whoever the donor was, her Dad really had a good reaction to this white cells. She then asked me if I would like a piece of cake. Well, I certainly couldn't eat.

All that to say, I can sort of relate to what happened there - a totally unexpected meeting. I never did tell them who I was - just said I was so happy for them.

LoisB

(7,206 posts)
6. Much respect to you. Not only for donating but for being such a selfless person to not let them
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:54 PM
Jun 2022

know that you are the donor.

rurallib

(62,414 posts)
7. thanks - it was kind of overwhelming and they were so happy.
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:56 PM
Jun 2022

ETA - and then I went home and got really sick from the shot ......

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
25. I donated blood too, before I moved here
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 11:37 PM
Jun 2022

so my total count is more than 60 gals....yeah, it's my preferred way of "giving back" to the community - I literally just lay there watching a movie, and people think I am a hero

rurallib

(62,414 posts)
27. Yep - I watch a lot of TV and just lay there
Wed Jun 22, 2022, 06:26 AM
Jun 2022

some of my early records are gone, but I figured I am @ 55 gallons.

rurallib

(62,414 posts)
32. Well that is another story
Wed Jun 22, 2022, 06:11 PM
Jun 2022

Got a call on a Sunday morning about 4AM. It was the nurse on call at the donor center.
"How quick can you get here?" "Half an hour." "Come running! Let the service park your car."

I got there and they had a golf cart waiting for me. We did the usual checks and I was in the chair by 4:45. I was told it was for a newborn, so they were taking less. As the finish to the donation was coming there was a doctor literally pacing at the end if my chair.

When the beep sounded she grabbed the bag and went running out of the center.

I was back home before the kids or wife were up.

They can't tell you what happened, but at my next donation the clerk gave me a small basket as I left with a couple of candy bars, some peanuts and a small flower arrangement. It had a card that said "our baby lived." That was it. Probably very hard for them to write.

You are the only person outside of my wife and kids who has ever heard that story.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
33. oh man that is sweet
Wed Jun 22, 2022, 06:40 PM
Jun 2022

I honestly don't ever think much of the hundreds of people who have received my blood / platelets but there was one moment that really got to me.....a big picture on the wall at a donation center of a beautiful three year old boy who had passed, and a quote from the parents that said:

"No matter what happened, we are so grateful to the people who allowed us to have one more day, one more hour, one more moment with our son."

I'm tearing up now just thinking about it.

TomSlick

(11,098 posts)
5. I'm choked-up.
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:43 PM
Jun 2022

I don't have a transplanted heart but I do have a transplanted cornea.

The transplant gave me vision in an eye that had been essentially useless and ended years of intense pain. I am very grateful to the donor and their family.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
9. Touching, for sure
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 09:04 PM
Jun 2022

What a great way to share the gift of a heart with the donor’s family.

A relative of mine through marriage who suffered from cystic fibrosis was the recipient of a double lung transplant, twice. The first set lasted him a decade plus. If I recall correctly, he was literally running with his new lungs a few weeks after surgery.

The guy was a real life Mr. Roggers type. He had a huge heart and was always positive about everything in his life. He had a profoundly positive impact on the people around him and he helped countless people through his work.

Sadly, he died in his early 40’s during his second double lung transplant.

I’m not planning on dying young, but I sure hope my old body can do some good for the people I leave behind - whether it’s as a cadaver for medical school or for my used parts.

bottomofthehill

(8,329 posts)
18. There is something wrong with me.
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 09:49 PM
Jun 2022

I am not an emotional person. Prior to Covid and the insurrection, I think I cried 5 times in my adult life. I see things like this and I find myself in tears. Not my normal state.

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