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Baitball Blogger

(46,698 posts)
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 10:59 AM Jun 2022

Men also have a dog in this fight. Not just child support, but reputations destroyed

Picture what's going to happen. Men in this country, especially white men, leverage the concept of reputation in order to reach a level of trust in their community and in their occupations. How many of them have learned to rely on those reputations in order to shield themselves from rumors of their peccadilloes? This concept of reputation once bought them time to discretely work out settlement agreements with the people they wronged. Well, no longer.

Expect the suburbs to explode with babysitter pregnancies; Sunday mass sermons to become confessionals for priest/deacons/ministers; CEOs, politicians deciding to quit and spend more time with their families. And there will be no haven for the rapists. Expect an epidemic of men going to sex addiction counseling as part of their court sentences.

So, men, throw discretion out the window. Women who are forced to carry unwanted pregnancies should be vocal about who got them pregnant, and it will easily be confirmed with DNA tests. The pain of this foolhardy decision made by the right-wing Supreme Court, will be shared. Reputations will be destroyed, and young men will also see hardship in the way of child support.

It's time to woke the men. Raise their level of awareness about how this is going to impact on their lives and we might have more than a few voting along with us in November.

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tblue37

(65,284 posts)
1. Men like that can usually arrange an abortion, whether it is legal or not. They can fly their
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:06 AM
Jun 2022

girlfriend to a place where abortion is legal. It is the women who can't afford to travel to other states who will suffer the most.

Baitball Blogger

(46,698 posts)
3. Do you think that in this present climate that friends of the victim will keep his secret hidden?
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:10 AM
Jun 2022

That's what it's going to turn into. Women will be so angry about this situation, that accusations will be posted in real time.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
2. I hope you are right but I don't think it will hurt men at al
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:06 AM
Jun 2022

Already you can be a rapist and still torture the woman through her pregnancy and the rest of her life.

Baitball Blogger

(46,698 posts)
4. Fight with what you got. Call them out publicly, and maybe we can pull him out of commission.
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:13 AM
Jun 2022

It's really those that actually have a reputation in a community that have the most to lose. If they are serial rapists, we'll finally know in real time.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
5. I think of a teenager or college aged man who is having the most sex they'll ever have
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:18 AM
Jun 2022

Most of them aren't worried about getting a young woman pregnant. They figure "she's on the pill" or "she can take care of it". But now he has to support a child for the next 18 years, financially at least.

And now there is DNA testing, so they can't deny being the father.

Baitball Blogger

(46,698 posts)
6. Yup. And these young men in college should wake up and realize that their lifestyles
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:22 AM
Jun 2022

are about to get a seismic hit.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
7. I was surprised to see so many young men at the protests.
Sat Jun 25, 2022, 11:25 AM
Jun 2022

And then I thought.. they get it. This is really going to put a damper on the availability of sex with women who no way want to get pregnant because it would ruin the life they have right now.

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