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For those who think "owning the libs" is what Republicans are thinking about right now re overturning Roe, guess again.
Show me the Republican who's willing to watch their twelve-year-old daughter carry her drunken grandfather's baby to term - because it will "own the libs".
Show me the Republican who's happy to see a wife, a sister, a daughter, a granddaughter give birth to a rapist's child - because it will "own the libs".
Show me the Republican family who's perfectly okay with mom dying because she can't terminate an ectopic pregnancy that will kill her - because it will "own the libs".
I understand that Republican voters aren't the sharpest knives in the kitchen drawer - but assuming that "owning the libs" is uppermost in their minds right now is beyond ludicrous.
We here have often discussed how Republicans don't care about an issue until it affects them personally.
Well, guess what? THIS IS AN ISSUE THAT AFFECTS THEM PERSONALLY.
This isn't about prayer in school, or taking a knee on a football field. This is about women - ALL WOMEN, Republican, Democratic, whatever - having their rights taken away.
So let's just STFU about "owning the libs" being a valid point of discussion - because it's not. The only purpose it serves is to undermine the importance of the issue-at-hand, as though women's rights were "just another trivial thing" that will give the GOP the last laugh.
In case some of you have missed it - no one is laughing.
captain queeg
(10,157 posts)If and when it actually affects them itll be a different story.
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... because it actually affects THEM.
FBaggins
(26,727 posts)
the vast majority of them dont believe it.
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... that there are Republican dads that don't think their daughters should give birth to their rapist's baby?
Really?
FBaggins
(26,727 posts)I suspect that the overwhelming majority of them would asses the likelihood of their father impregnating their daughter to be zero.
The overwhelming majority of abortion opponents think that the issue will never impact them.
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)And BTW, the "overwhelming majority of abortion opponents" is a far cry from an overwhelming majority of voters.
FBaggins
(26,727 posts)Of course. But your thread was about the opponents
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,841 posts)And of course they were asking for it, because of how they were dressed. No matter how they were dressed.
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)All kinds of sexual abuse in the foster care system, and mothers do worry about incest. So do fathers in families where that is a thing, and it's a bigger thing than you think. I don't have enough fingers on both hands to count the number of my IRL friends who were raped by their fathers, granddads, or uncles.
All those Christain homeschools full of sexually repressed families? Not a single mandated reporter. Hmmm.
Claustrum
(4,845 posts)All I hear from them is some teenager girl who suddenly decided to abort the child at 7-8 months into the pregnancy and how horrible and bad it is. This is coming from my non-religious parents who got brainwashed by right wing media.
agingdem
(7,840 posts)Republican men are misogynists...rape, incest, that's on women..."not my fault you (she) got "knocked up", you fix it"..I witnessed this up close..my pig of a brother-in-law, his pliant wife, and his 13 year old daughter...he's not an anomaly..
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... just as all Democrats think exactly alike.
agingdem
(7,840 posts)abortion, contraception..women's health >>women's issues...men will not bleed to death at the end of a coat hanger..it's on women to vote the GOP assholes out and allow Biden to codify abortion rights...
mitch96
(13,888 posts)of justice. When I was in high school girls of family's with any kind of money got the abortion done quietly and preformed by a doctor. The term and buzz word was she got a "D&C" and it also worked as an abortion proceedure.
Kids busted for pot charges got them quietly let go when greasing the right political palms. Military age guys got deferments or cush non combative military assignments like Bush and TFG.
This will effect the poor and people without the means of greasing the wheels.
I remember in high school (1960's) donating cash to a lower middle class girl to go to a large city and get an AB by a doctor when non in town were available.
An early form of a goFundme. YMMV
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Cyrano
(15,031 posts)red states. Of course, the unwashed masses will never know about it. Republican cruelty is surpassed only by their hypocrisy.
Farmer-Rick
(10,153 posts)The Waltons with their Walmart stores have set up their abortion clinics already. They call them hospitals.
The filthy rich never suffer the consequences of their own actions. The Waltons are the money behind the forced birthers. And obviously they spent their money....errrr your money ....well.
betsuni
(25,456 posts)NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... but I don't see a lot of women simply "getting used to" having possession of/control over their own uterus being taken away.
Oh, except the ones who will gladly do so in order to "own the libs".
Ferrets are Cool
(21,105 posts)NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... not getting a vaccine to allowing your underaged daughter to give birth to her rapist's child?
Seriously?
Ferrets are Cool
(21,105 posts)NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)And if you think I did, maybe the problem is yours, not mine.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,105 posts)NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)IOW, what you're saying is "the fact that you don't agree with me is proof that you're wrong."
Hugin
(33,115 posts)There was a time when I wouldve agreed with NG.
Based on what I have personally witnessed over the last few years, I am not sure anymore.
I saw multiple instances of what has become a death cult member continue to own the libs while someone in their family from one of the groups identified or they themselves were drowned in their own fluids. Occasionally multiple times per family.
I finally had to stop following these tragedies as my own acute sense of schadenfreude became overwhelmed.
What is different about abortion when it will never personally effect the largest demographic (white males) of the cult?
I saw several news reports at the height of COVID in which an anti-masker, anti-vaxxer COVID denier died of COVID, and the family begged the attending doctor not to put COVID-19 as the cause of death.
They were THAT terrified of admitting they were wrong and science (liberals) was right.
Hugin
(33,115 posts)How do you reason with someone who believes that every scrap of foulness they have ever rendered will be forgiven if they accept Jesus in their last conscious moments.
kiri
(794 posts)Women get abortions for many reasons. Men who get them pregnant support/force/encourage/discourage the woman for/from having an abortion also have many motives.
One barely mentioned is hiding a sexual affair. A slightly educated estimate suggests that maybe 10%-20% of all abortions are done because the woman gets pregnant from a paramour outside her marriage or boyfriend relationship. Obviously good statistics are hard to come by.
Pregnancy from an affair is more likely due to the clandestine, often hurried, and super-passionate nature of affairs. Birth control is unlikely uppermost.
But nothing can be more embarrassing or shameful to be caught with another man's baby. The father also has worries about paying child support and/or getting divorced. The abortion option is best.
Hugin
(33,115 posts)In these situations, if abortion isnt readily available and the male is of a higher social caste (which is usually the case) The pregnant female will be disappeared and rarely spoken of again.
This is where the republicans would like to be again. They feel entitled to it, in fact.
Cosmocat
(14,562 posts)Whether it is "a valid point of discussion" or not isn't relevant.
It IS how they think.
You know this because they directly say it routinely, and it is how they act.
They don't think these things you note will happen to them.
To some, if they do, they will be good little germans and bite the bullet.
To some, if they do, they believe because they are privileged, they will be except from them.
To some, if they do, they don't care, cause ... they are owning the libs.
These are the same people who have lose their minds and storm school board meetings because of mask mandates and CRT, while not saying a peep about our scourge of mass school shootings.
Proof that they live in an alternative reality where the actual lives of their children don't mean a thing cause, guns, but even more so because WE make a big deal out of it.
Honestly, if Dems were capable of party discipline and strategic thinking they would vociferously support the the things they fight against, cause Rs would reflexively turn around and support them.
That is what the party is now, a sick cult with a singular focus to beat the libs.
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... is right up there with "Democrats kill babies and drink their blood".
Cosmocat
(14,562 posts)This is how they think, which includes the dem drinking baby blood thing.
Your on tilt
Might want to take a break.
AleksS
(1,665 posts)This is what I think the OP is missing.
Right wingers are TELLING US theyre pumped about owning the libs.
They dont think about or believe that abortions are done by anyone except bad people and obviously will never ever ever affect them.
Now, when their mistress gets pregnant or their daughter gets raped itll be a very different story and theyll either believe themselves to be an exception (usually how the GOP double standard works) or do some self reflection and change their position (how it sometimes but far too rarely happens).
Double standards, and the I got mine so screw everyone else are so SOP for the GOP by now that theres just no connection between potential bad things happening to them in the future and yes, owning the lives in the present.
Mr. Ected
(9,670 posts)Now that they've got their victory, the platitude becomes reality and that reality is ready to bite every single woman in the ass, theirs included.
You're damned right, Nance. There are as many unwanted pregnancies among right wing wives, daughters and friends as among the left leaning, but until now they were able to quietly play the hypocrite. Play time is over.
Beastly Boy
(9,296 posts)The abolition of Roe by SCOTUS is an opportunity to make inroads into their ranks. They may not surrender their guns tomorrow and storm the Capitol to demand Medicare fir All, but SOME of them may possess enough common sense to join the Democrats in pushing for laws to make reproductive choice legal in the US.
This is an American issue, and it doesn't have to be a partisan issue. It's an opportunity to make inroads in the composition of government in the US - an indispensable first step to getting anything accomplished. It is certainly worth a try. At the very least, it may wake some Republicans up to the dangers of unanimously marching to their party's orders despite their self-interest.
mcar
(42,300 posts)know that their womenfolk can get an abortion any time they want it because they have the means to travel.
They don't give a flying fck about the "poors," and in fact, want more white babies to grow up uneducated enough to keep voting for them.
brooklynite
(94,490 posts)No its not.
There's a distinction that I make in politics between "many" and "most".
Why do Republican voters not support increasing the minimum wage? Because while MANY people need the increase, MOST are being paid more already.
Why do Republican voters not support improving voter access? Because while MANY people have problems voting, MOST do not.
Why will Republican voters not support reproductive rights? Because while MANY will need them, MOST will not.
MOST women don't get abortions. MOST women don't reach the point where they NEED to think about getting an abortion. Therefore, its not an issue that will affect most of them personally.
I would argue that many more of them knew someone who was gay and "regular" than knew someone who eventually needed the right to an abortion.
Beastly Boy
(9,296 posts)In an essentially 50-50 political environment, MANY may be enough to affect outcomes. Not a guarantee, but not a dead end either.
onecaliberal
(32,816 posts)Personal gain.
nini
(16,672 posts)They will indeed revel in owning the Libs.
A lot of the things we fight for affect them personally and yet they continue to mock liberals all in the name of their superior morality based on their bibles and their ignorance. They enjoy the hell out of this.
When they have to deal with their own daughters they still wont put the blame where it belongs.
gab13by13
(21,295 posts)demonizing anyone who disagrees with the Magats.
There may very well be an exception for the abortion issue for some Magats, and so I agree with Nance for the most part.
For all other issues it is about demonizing Democrats. I asked a hard core Trumper who he was going to vote for, the Muslim from New Jersey, or the Harley Rider? (He used to ride a Harley) He stammered, "when?" I said in November, Fetterman or Oz? He said, I'm not voting for Fetterman and so I asked him why, it was because he is a Democrat. So in this case, my Magat buddy, who is hard core racist, bigot, will overlook Oz being a Muslim to vote against Fetterman. Those are the Magats who I live amongst.
DBoon
(22,354 posts)... in preparation for their own inevitable death
If they are OK with 1 million people suffocating to death, they will not care about losing a loved one
They would literally die before changing their beliefs. They have already proven it
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)So that seems unlikely.
DBoon
(22,354 posts)This has been well documented many times. They are in denial right up to the end, abusing the ones who are trying to save their lives.
Link to tweet
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I can come up with more references if you wish
on edit: more references
https://www.theroot.com/they-stop-yelling-at-you-when-they-get-intubated-south-1845691330
https://www.timesleader.com/opinion/op-ed/1508925/as-theyre-being-intubated-they-still-dont-believe-it-the-covid-denial-wont-die
Lucky Luciano
(11,253 posts)have a shred of decency.
Glaisne
(515 posts)It's all about power and rule. Republicans with means and power in your examples will get the abortion services the want while continuing to condemn abortion and praise the SCOTUS decision in public. They don't give a damn about other people who will be harmed by this decision. Only thing that matters to them is their interests, power, and privilege.
bucolic_frolic
(43,123 posts)They are trying to perpetuate the paranoid power trip in their minds.
FakeNoose
(32,620 posts)The Repukes are "cutting off their nose to spite their face." IOW they're doing something stupid that will backfire on everyone, because they have to get paybacks no matter what.
maxrandb
(15,318 posts)35% of Retrumplicans who support "owning the libs" but only because it results in tax-cuts for the wealthy, and 30% of Retrumplicans who support "owning the libs" as long as they don't have to send their children to school with brown, or gay people.
Seems you're making a distinction without a difference. It all boils down to cruelty, with the goal of no one telling them what to do, while being empowered to tell everyone else what to do.
And there are quite a lot of Retrumplicans that don't give one Fuck about your wife, mother, daughter, or sister, because if their wife, mother, daughter, or sister finds herself needing a safe abortion, they have the means to access one
We will see in November, but...and this is a sorry thing to say about our families, friends and neighbors...I am convinced that a majority of Americans wouldn't give one fuck if their children were being murdered in the streets if gas was $2 a gallon
I have kind of felt that way since dozens of 5 and 6 year old boys and girls had their torsos blown in half by military grade weapons of war in school, and we did NOTHING
I am extremely close to saying, about the country I loved and served for 30 years; "fuck it, better to burn it to the fucking ground and start from scratch.
Edited to add: At one point, I might have agreed with you, but then they fell in love with Donnie Dipshit. Evil people support evil, and that fuckstick was, and is PURE FUCKING EVIL
plimsoll
(1,668 posts)But that doesn't mean the RW doesn't think they owned the libs on this issue. Until the consequences are felt personally they're not going to see the problems with this ruling. It's not about being smart or stupid, it's about evaluating the long term consequences of decisions and empathy. If the right possess empathy it's in quantities that can't be observed by human beings, and we know they're not very good at long term thinking.
The right is doing a happy dance right now because we're upset by this and a whole bunch of other really bad decisions made by the Thomas court. But I remain skeptical if even a direct loss will change the minds of a non-trivial portion of the GOP base. That non-trivial portion of the GOP is radical and violent, and an even bigger portion of the right are either useful idiots or afraid.
What we need to do is figure out how to stop the feud within our coalition. There's enough blame to go around, maybe if everyone accepted that we all played a part in this monstrous failure we could start to rebuild an alliance to overcome these travesties of justice.
spanone
(135,816 posts)Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)They voted for Trump. Trump said on national television during the debate with Clinton that he would appoint justices that would overturn Row v Wade. He did. Many of them voted for him again in 2020.
The justices he appointed did what they were appointed to do.
And yeah, there were those that didn't vote for Trump a second time, but the damage was done.
You also have a lot of confidence that there are people not out there that wouldn't blame their daughter's for getting raped and not throw said daughter out on the streets because she got pregnant.
Christian Conservatives are very controlling of the females of their families. They control what they wear and what they do. They think if the woman was following the family rules that they would never get pregnant before marriage. And they look at something like that as if the woman that gets pregnant liked what happened to her.
They have very medieval views. And they , the Christian Conservatives have been getting a grip on our government.
Diablo del sol
(424 posts)But it is a discussion board so type away.
As for the STFU comment, no fucking way.
There is a thread about Thomas saying he would spend 43 years on the Court as payback to the libs. As mentioned above, COVID denial was rampant. Happened in my extended family.
Christians voting for tRump.
They are ignorant hate filled people.
They cant be reasoned with, we are moving to beat down phase.
Again type away, but dont ever fucking tell us to STFU.