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Tweet of the Night #2: (Original Post) applegrove Jun 2022 OP
K & R...nt Wounded Bear Jun 2022 #1
k&r for visibility alwaysinasnit Jun 2022 #2
can confirm. mopinko Jun 2022 #3
So glad you took care of yourself. Vibes for that trauma and loss. applegrove Jun 2022 #4
def file under- didnt kill me, made me stronger. mopinko Jun 2022 #5
Don't a large percentage (25%+) of pregnancies end up as miscarriages? Will these be prosecuted? erronis Jun 2022 #6
K&R MustLoveBeagles Jun 2022 #7
SCOTUS response: Yeah? So? dchill Jun 2022 #8
More currently, "It's God's will" bhikkhu Jun 2022 #13
Goes without saying! dchill Jun 2022 #14
More like: "works for me".... lastlib Jun 2022 #22
Thank you! This is exactly what is never mentioned in all these discussions! Rhiannon12866 Jun 2022 #9
They don't care that thousands of innocent men & children die Dark n Stormy Knight Jun 2022 #29
Wait - Do you mean conservatives base policy and law on their own ignorance?? Beartracks Jun 2022 #10
Kick n Recommend. n/t iluvtennis Jun 2022 #11
It is womens health care Alice Kramden Jun 2022 #12
K and R for visibility. ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #15
Add to this list Molar Pregnancy Ohioboy Jun 2022 #16
I wonder what would happen with the rare case of fetus -in- fetu? Alwaysna Jun 2022 #17
? I don't understand. applegrove Jun 2022 #18
Google fetus-in- fetu. It's rare but it happens. Alwaysna Jun 2022 #24
Oh that is so sad. applegrove Jun 2022 #25
My second miscarriage was a roller coaster. MontanaMama Jun 2022 #19
So sad. So sad. My thoughts are with you. All this must be so triggering.n/t applegrove Jun 2022 #23
I am so sorry. My sister lost her little girl 20 years ago, MerryBlooms Jun 2022 #28
Thank you for your kind words MontanaMama Jun 2022 #30
Many cancer treatments will kill a fetus. Saving that mother's life is now illegal in many states. Martin68 Jun 2022 #20
Mother-killers. lastlib Jun 2022 #21
A lot of people will die. Unfortunately, a lot of those people MerryBlooms Jun 2022 #26
I worry the GOP is darker in its intentions now that machines will take applegrove Jun 2022 #27
Just goes to show. Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2022 #31
I was wondering that. I have 4 healthy adult kids but my wife miscarried twins and had to have a D&E Pepsidog Jun 2022 #32
I always used to hear D&C (dilation and curettage) but D&E is more accurate soldierant Jun 2022 #34
I would have lost my mother at the age of 16 AwakeAtLast Jun 2022 #33
I would never have been born soldierant Jun 2022 #35

mopinko

(70,103 posts)
3. can confirm.
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 08:48 PM
Jun 2022

lost a pair of twins at 12 wks. damn near bled to death in one of the best hospitals in the city.
if i hadnt dragged an exhausted resident out of bed at 2 am, i wouldnt be here.

mopinko

(70,103 posts)
5. def file under- didnt kill me, made me stronger.
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 08:56 PM
Jun 2022

also, i was alone cuz i already had little ones at home. i dont let anyone go to the hospital alone if i can help if.

erronis

(15,257 posts)
6. Don't a large percentage (25%+) of pregnancies end up as miscarriages? Will these be prosecuted?
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 09:14 PM
Jun 2022

In states that treat any non-carrying to birth as a potential abortion?

These jerks shouldn't be allowed to be in office or even have kids. They are abominations.

bhikkhu

(10,716 posts)
13. More currently, "It's God's will"
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 10:11 PM
Jun 2022

And then - "nothing we can do about that".

It's kind of like we are living in an entire world built on science and progress, and mentally choosing to govern ourselves as simple-minded superstitious cave-dwellers did.

Rhiannon12866

(205,344 posts)
9. Thank you! This is exactly what is never mentioned in all these discussions!
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 09:23 PM
Jun 2022

Women can and will die - since "the life of the mother" is not considered in any of these prohibitions.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
29. They don't care that thousands of innocent men & children die
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 02:10 AM
Jun 2022

as a result of increasingly unfettered gun access. They care even less about women.

Beartracks

(12,814 posts)
10. Wait - Do you mean conservatives base policy and law on their own ignorance??
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 09:27 PM
Jun 2022

Color me shocked. Shocked!

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Ohioboy

(3,243 posts)
16. Add to this list Molar Pregnancy
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 10:25 PM
Jun 2022

A molar pregnancy can have fetal tissue that is growing but not actually forming into anything. It can lead to cancer.

MontanaMama

(23,314 posts)
19. My second miscarriage was a roller coaster.
Tue Jun 28, 2022, 11:14 PM
Jun 2022

We closely watched what we thought was a normal pregnancy but my doctor saw a cardiac anomaly that she said would most likely end in the death of the fetus. Indeed she was correct and baby’s heartbeat slowly came to a complete stop over the course of the next couple of weeks, finally ending when I was 15 weeks into my pregnancy. The fetus did not expel and I was referred for a D&C which removed the dead tissue from my body. It has occurred to me many times during this last week that living in Montana, that service may not be available to me now.

MerryBlooms

(11,769 posts)
28. I am so sorry. My sister lost her little girl 20 years ago,
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 01:43 AM
Jun 2022

But the doctor forced birth. She is still traumatized, hasn't fully recovered. She cries a lot. We hug and I let her cry and love on her. We take flowers to the grave. She took pictures of her little dead baby girl. It's not something we get over. I am so sorry for your ongoing grief. I have never been through this, but I am going through comforting someone who is. It's devastating and never goes away. I hope you have someone to hold you and just stroke your head and love you. Cry with you.

MontanaMama

(23,314 posts)
30. Thank you for your kind words
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 10:59 AM
Jun 2022

and thank you for your support for your dear sister. Miscarriages are terrible. I was one of the fortunate ones to find myself pregnant at 40 and gave birth to a baby boy at 41. That kiddo is now 17 and the light of my life. Miscarriages are often swept under the rug. My heart goes out to your sister. I can’t imagine her trauma.

MerryBlooms

(11,769 posts)
26. A lot of people will die. Unfortunately, a lot of those people
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 01:27 AM
Jun 2022

And their families, will claim, God's will. It's what they do. God's will, over and over. This is the republican base. It will take millions of dead women, and even then, you will have white women proclaiming victory. God's will, always God's will. So, how do we counter such entrenched belief? We can't. The youth need to fight. I have no grandchildren. I have one son committed to equal rights, my other son converted to Mormon. The Mormon son and his wife committed to no children because of his wife's depression issues. They knew they would make great aunts and uncles, and are, but have no business being parents.

So, both sons are committed to non reproduction. I'm the only one in our family without grandchildren. I am proud of my boys and their decisions. I stood firm against family who tried to deride and diminish them. Not really men, and bs like that. Verses their kids who were popping out kids constantly, and to what ends? No father involved, no child support, working in a motel changing out sperm splattered sheets? Yep, last I was criticized for not having grandchildren. But, they also don't speak to me at all now. I try to miss them, but can't quite. Maybe some day. 😄

I am completely done with people who are bullies, bigots, racist, and just plain mean hearted. Even if they're family. I am old enough to choose my family. I choose loving supportive people. People in my life didn't take me serious, when I told them, I AM DONE WITH YOU, and I
crossed my hand over my neck. I am done! Cut off! I meant it. Now, they tell others, they are surprised. 😄

applegrove

(118,654 posts)
27. I worry the GOP is darker in its intentions now that machines will take
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 01:33 AM
Jun 2022

over most work. They seem unconnected from a vibrant and growing middle class.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
32. I was wondering that. I have 4 healthy adult kids but my wife miscarried twins and had to have a D&E
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 05:00 PM
Jun 2022

I think it was called to remove the fetuses. What happens in states with complete abortion ban? Must women either sue or go out of state? By the way, the child born after the twins started his Orthopedic Surgery residency last week.

soldierant

(6,873 posts)
34. I always used to hear D&C (dilation and curettage) but D&E is more accurate
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 08:27 PM
Jun 2022

(dilation and evacuation) since curettage is a particular technique - evacuation is the result , technique not specified, and there are multiple techniques possible.

soldierant

(6,873 posts)
35. I would never have been born
Wed Jun 29, 2022, 08:28 PM
Jun 2022

Mother's ectopic pregnancy 7-9 years before I was, as they used to say, a gleam in my daddy's eye.)

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