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SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 02:39 PM Jul 2022

Joe Biden to Manuel Oliver, Dad to killed Parkland teen - Sit down. You'll hear what I have to say."

Ouch, Joe. I doubt Joe knew what was what initially, but his people should have prepared him for the possibility of angry parents.



https://www.newsweek.com/joe-biden-gun-speech-parkland-father-manuel-oliver-response-1723531

excerpts

During the speech, Biden boasted that the legislation "proves, despite the nay-sayers, we can make meaningful progress on dealing with gun violence," when Oliver began to interrupt him, appearing to criticize the legislation for not going far enough to curb gun violence.

President Joe Biden told Manuel Oliver, a father of a teenager killed in the 2018 Parkland, Florida, school shooting, to "let me finish" when Oliver interrupted his speech celebrating a bipartisan gun safety law.
"I've been trying to tell you this for years," Oliver said.

Biden responded: "Make no mistake—sit down. You'll hear what I have to say. Let me finish my thought."

Biden also encouraged the crowd to "let [Oliver] talk."
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Joe Biden to Manuel Oliver, Dad to killed Parkland teen - Sit down. You'll hear what I have to say." (Original Post) SYFROYH Jul 2022 OP
At least Pres B didn't have security drag him out . . . Lovie777 Jul 2022 #1
No mockery that I heard, but security did apparently escort him out. TheProle Jul 2022 #27
I'm sure Joe will make it right. cilla4progress Jul 2022 #2
I wouldn't be surprised if Oliver and Biden haven't already talked. SYFROYH Jul 2022 #18
Joe's not the most adept at extemporaneous speaking ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #3
Exactly. cilla4progress Jul 2022 #19
Agreed. Caliman73 Jul 2022 #21
Deflect and distract cilla4progress Jul 2022 #26
Joe is the real deal. Handler Jul 2022 #4
I don't take issue with this but obviously it isn't me that matters. chowder66 Jul 2022 #5
Mr. Oliver has to know that maxsolomon Jul 2022 #6
I don't think they teach civics at Parkland High School. GoCubsGo Jul 2022 #9
Are you serious with this? AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #11
Yes, I am serious. GoCubsGo Jul 2022 #17
He understands AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #30
No inthewind21 Jul 2022 #40
Yes AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #44
For fuck's sake. Act_of_Reparation Jul 2022 #38
Or let him walk all over everybody treestar Jul 2022 #47
He has every right to be angry AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #49
not at everbobdy treestar Jul 2022 #52
"Shut up!" to people who lost kids in mass shootings AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #56
Oh but he is inthewind21 Jul 2022 #39
Surviving a school shooting treestar Jul 2022 #46
We aren't doing enough to fix the gun problem AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #50
We won't reach that point until we have the voters treestar Jul 2022 #53
No one is saying they are all-knowing. Act_of_Reparation Jul 2022 #51
we can have empathy but that does not mean treestar Jul 2022 #54
Victim blaming & shaming ain't it AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #55
Manuel Oliver is the father of a shooting victim. maxsolomon Jul 2022 #24
I have no problem H2O Man Jul 2022 #7
I, then, am in good company, cilla4progress Jul 2022 #20
And I, as well! H2O Man Jul 2022 #22
Joe has a bit if a temper 867-5309. Jul 2022 #8
Why inthewind21 Jul 2022 #41
1. How was President Biden supposed to know JustAnotherGen Jul 2022 #10
It goes without saying that TFG would have done much worse SYFROYH Jul 2022 #15
I agree 100% H2O Man Jul 2022 #23
He wasn't taken out in cuffs, but he was taken out. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #33
Mr Oliver, I am so sorry you lost a child to gun violence. bottomofthehill Jul 2022 #12
I can understand this fathers anger but why direct that at Joe and why in that setting? Docreed2003 Jul 2022 #13
Why is this a problem? mcar Jul 2022 #14
Seems like bad form to me to tell a grieving father to sit down and listen. SYFROYH Jul 2022 #16
Biden seemed insicive. Torchlight Jul 2022 #25
Seems like bad form for someone to heckle POTUS mcar Jul 2022 #28
Gutteberg had his POTUS heckle moment at the 2020 SOU. SYFROYH Jul 2022 #31
Yeah, not even close to the same mcar Jul 2022 #32
It's really Manuel Oliver's perspective that matters. SYFROYH Jul 2022 #43
It seems once a person is a victim treestar Jul 2022 #45
Biden isn't perfect and started wildfires in Cali (/sarc) so it always has to be something negative uponit7771 Jul 2022 #34
Trump would have thrown the guy out and called him a loser on Twitter. Initech Jul 2022 #29
Ok, "what's the problem?".... Deuce Jul 2022 #35
They should be asking why their Senators don't Support a Better Bill JI7 Jul 2022 #36
He didn't say anything that hasn't been said here repeatedly ripcord Jul 2022 #37
Right because it is Democrats fault Demsrule86 Jul 2022 #42
Highly doubt Biden knew who it was, can't see in bright sun. betsuni Jul 2022 #48

Lovie777

(12,218 posts)
1. At least Pres B didn't have security drag him out . . .
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 02:49 PM
Jul 2022

and then mock him while the crowd laughed and cheer and or throw curse words while throwing stuff at him while the security physically threw him out.

So corporate media will harp on this while taunting about how Democrats are souring on Pres B and the gas prices are too high.

But you won't hear Pres B whine about how "mean" the media is, but he will continue to try and make out lives better.

SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
18. I wouldn't be surprised if Oliver and Biden haven't already talked.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:11 PM
Jul 2022

As I said elsewhere, I'm surprised that Joe's people didn't prepare him for such an outburst. Mr. Oliver is a well-known public-space activist.
 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
3. Joe's not the most adept at extemporaneous speaking ...
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 03:00 PM
Jul 2022

Most of us have know this for a LOT of years. And it's not improved much as he's gotten older. Some people are great at it (Sec. Pete is a great example, as was BHO), some it's just not their talent/forte.

I'll definitely accept some flaws when a person is overwhelmingly great in the totality.

In reacting to it, the M$M will suck, of course, as per usual.

cilla4progress

(24,717 posts)
19. Exactly.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:14 PM
Jul 2022

I dont need or expect him to be perfect in the moment - his extemporaneous speaking is usually blunt and honest - remember "a big fucking deal?"

I trust his heart and intellect. Not one bit concerned. Other than MSM who is failing in their responsibility to our democratic republic.

Caliman73

(11,725 posts)
21. Agreed.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:17 PM
Jul 2022

As I have said, and will continue saying, Joe Biden is a fundamentally good and decent person. He is genuine and sometimes in his being genuine, will be real, with his emotions. He also makes gaffes.

I am sure that he will sit down and listen to and really take in what the parent said. I am also sure that the media will frame this as "Angry Biden" or "Confused Biden" or some other such unflattering portrayal. They will also disregard the actual conversation that Biden is willing to have with people, even if they are critical of him.

Handler

(336 posts)
4. Joe is the real deal.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 03:11 PM
Jul 2022

He did well to get that legislation passed, however it is weak legislation. Hopefully, in a couple of years we can something passed with real teeth in it. No shade on Joe, he is doing great in a tough situation.

chowder66

(9,055 posts)
5. I don't take issue with this but obviously it isn't me that matters.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 03:19 PM
Jul 2022

I find that he comes across like a dad who is listening and responding. It may come out a little stern but I never find it offensive.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
9. I don't think they teach civics at Parkland High School.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 04:00 PM
Jul 2022

His classmate, David Hogg, has been showing the same sort ignorance.

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
11. Are you serious with this?
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 04:11 PM
Jul 2022

Have you survived a school shooting?
David Hogg is FAR from ignorant. Jeez.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
17. Yes, I am serious.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:07 PM
Jul 2022

Surviving a school shooting is not an excuse for not knowing how your government works. And, from what I have been hearing out of David Hogg, he does not understand that Democrats cannot give him what he wants without more than the current 48 + 2 independents. And, this other guy is bitching at Biden over a law, when it's Congress who passes laws, not the President. Jeez. They'd do better to go after the people who are actively preventing them from getting what they want, rather than beating up on the ones who are doing the best they can under the current circumstances. I'm damn sick of these circular firing squads and back-biting.

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
30. He understands
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 07:21 PM
Jul 2022

And many people have been waiting for years for something to get done with guns. Since then, guns have been the leading cause of deaths for kids. He's not only at Democrats but Republican's too. And he is very much entitled to feel that way especially given everything he's been through. I'm not sure calling someone who wants & demands better things "ignorant" is a path forward to getting more voters.

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
44. Yes
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 04:20 PM
Jul 2022

He certainly does understand things. Very much so.
And what's wrong with him positioning himself to be a politician exactly?
If anything, we need more like him in Congress.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
52. not at everbobdy
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 11:18 AM
Jul 2022

or, his anger does not give him a right to dictate everyone else's position on issues.

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
56. "Shut up!" to people who lost kids in mass shootings
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 12:48 PM
Jul 2022

is a great way to ensure people don't vote.
The fact is this problem has gone on for decades & the time for excuses is long over.

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
50. We aren't doing enough to fix the gun problem
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 07:37 AM
Jul 2022

And we can make excuses all we want but the reality is we're not doing what needs to be done and haven't.
We're reaching the point where before long everyone will know someone who's been impacted by gun violence.
It must end.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
53. We won't reach that point until we have the voters
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 11:19 AM
Jul 2022

to allow for it. So blaming people trying to help does no good. We need to convince the people who aren't convinced.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
51. No one is saying they are all-knowing.
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 09:50 AM
Jul 2022

Or even that their positions are correct.

It's called empathy, my dude. Having it is what purportedly separates us from conservatives, although of late I have grown somewhat skeptical of this claim.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
54. we can have empathy but that does not mean
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 11:22 AM
Jul 2022

that we have to agree with someone who doesn't understand physics just because they were a victim (though David Hogg survived). But he is a victim of something. You can have empathy but still understand that the victim may be asking for things the law does not allow for.

The SCOTUS held the 2nd amendment means we can all have weapons. We can't have an Australian or Canadian style ban. What we have to do would be things different from that.

JustAnotherGen

(31,780 posts)
10. 1. How was President Biden supposed to know
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 04:05 PM
Jul 2022

That this man's child died in Parkland.

2. He was right to tell him to sit down so he could finish his statement.

Had that been TFG - he would have been hauled out in handcuffs and/or beaten by the audience.

SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
15. It goes without saying that TFG would have done much worse
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:05 PM
Jul 2022

To answer your questions:

1. Manuel Oliver is a well-known father of murdered Parkland teen and Biden (or his team) invited him.

2. Biden did better by saying to let him speak. He could have done that in the beginning. His initial clap back was with a bad tone.



bottomofthehill

(8,318 posts)
12. Mr Oliver, I am so sorry you lost a child to gun violence.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 04:12 PM
Jul 2022

The President is working to ensure that fewer people suffer what you have, but he is the President. He can not do it with out help. As President, he can veto a lot of bad things from becoming law, bet he can not create new law. You were invited to the Whitehouse to celebrate a step forward. Please realize it for what it is

Docreed2003

(16,850 posts)
13. I can understand this fathers anger but why direct that at Joe and why in that setting?
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 04:21 PM
Jul 2022

I understand that he felt like he was speaking truth to power but surely this father understands that Biden didn't write this bill, nor is it Biden's fault that the bill isn't more comprehensive.

It's an asshole move to do this when you are an invited guest to the White House, no matter how righteous your cause may be. President Biden handled it much more professionally that I can ever imagine Trump handling the same scenario.

SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
16. Seems like bad form to me to tell a grieving father to sit down and listen.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:06 PM
Jul 2022

But I think Joe tried to walk back his reaction.

YMMV.

Torchlight

(3,293 posts)
25. Biden seemed insicive.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 05:46 PM
Jul 2022

That was my impression. No barking, no yelling. I think Biden illustrated restraint.

mcar

(42,278 posts)
28. Seems like bad form for someone to heckle POTUS
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 07:04 PM
Jul 2022

when he's signing pretty much the only gun control law he could have possibly gotten passed.

I'm saying this with respect to a grieving father. Fred Guttenberg was there and fully cognizant of the limitations.

SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
31. Gutteberg had his POTUS heckle moment at the 2020 SOU.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 08:35 PM
Jul 2022

Not to say that Biden and Trump are equivalent morally.

Fred was very apologetic afterward. For the disruption and not being a good guest of Nancy Pelosi.

In my mind, getting heckled is part of the job of a president.

mcar

(42,278 posts)
32. Yeah, not even close to the same
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 09:22 AM
Jul 2022

Guttenberg was heckling a president* who had done nothing about gun control and in fact promoted more guns.

Oliver was heckling a president who was in the process of signing the first gun reform laws in 30 years.

Big difference, see?

SYFROYH

(34,162 posts)
43. It's really Manuel Oliver's perspective that matters.
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 02:38 PM
Jul 2022

I, like you, think there is a big difference between Biden and Trump.

Funny thing about Trump and gun restrictions...he opened a door for restrictions not previously opened before by any President.

Trump banned bump stocks by exec order. A bump stock is essentially just a non-regulated part of a rifle. There are a lot of nonregulated parts on AR-type rifles. For example, magazines, collapsible/folding stocks, and pistol grips are nonregulated parts.

If what Trump did by banning bump stocks was legal (and perhaps it wasn't which is why he did it), then Biden could cite him as an example of how to handle AR type rifles. He could, in effect, recreate the AWB by exec order. I think the issue will be that he can't make the rifles unuseable. For example, perhaps he could ban collapsible stocks, but not fixed stocks.




treestar

(82,383 posts)
45. It seems once a person is a victim
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 07:18 AM
Jul 2022

or relative of one, you get the moral high ground for everything forever. No wonder people are always trying to pose themselves as victims.

uponit7771

(90,301 posts)
34. Biden isn't perfect and started wildfires in Cali (/sarc) so it always has to be something negative
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 09:31 AM
Jul 2022

... when it comes to Biden and the M$M.

I'm literally looking at MJ and the LAT asking "where did Biden go wrong" as if Biden's avg poll numbers are 50% lower than Obama's etc

Initech

(100,038 posts)
29. Trump would have thrown the guy out and called him a loser on Twitter.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 07:06 PM
Jul 2022

So glad we have a real president in charge again!

betsuni

(25,380 posts)
48. Highly doubt Biden knew who it was, can't see in bright sun.
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 07:27 AM
Jul 2022

Everybody criticizes Democrats for bad messaging and not touting their accomplishments and when they do they get bashed. Literally anything they do is bad.

The rule of never giving Democrats the benefit of the doubt.

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