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Ivana Trump couldnt walk and struggled to leave her house in the weeks that preceded her death, a close friend said Friday.
Trump, the 73-year-old ex-wife of Donald Trump, was found dead Thursday afternoon at the bottom of the staircase of her Manhattan home.
Zach Erdem, who declined an interview but confirmed previous comments to the New York Post, said Trump had a hip issue that limited her ability to walk. He added that the former model was feeling bad the last time he spoke to her two weeks ago.
She said she was having pain in her leg, he told the paper. She couldnt get out of her house.
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/pal-recalls-how-ivana-trump-struggled-in-her-final-days/ar-AAZCVNo
She couldn't afford any assistance? Is her ex that cheap?
LisaL
(47,423 posts)Clearly someone with such limited ability to walk shouldn't be going up or down the staircase. For someone supposedly with means, you'd think the apartment would have an elevator.
Peacetrain
(24,288 posts)You would think they would have someone stay with her if she was so incapacitated, that family is just so bizarre..
LisaL
(47,423 posts)There are photos of her going around with an assistant. But apparently she was still left alone to climb the stairs on the day (or night?) she supposedly fell.
Peacetrain
(24,288 posts)Not saying that useless family killed her.. (I know that one has been going around, because they are all so close to being called in for depositions)..but something is not right..
Arazi
(8,887 posts)Just sayin
leftyladyfrommo
(20,005 posts)families. Anybody else was fine.
pwb
(12,669 posts)anyone in the family was paying attention to help.
former9thward
(33,424 posts)She could have afforded a chair lift if she wanted one.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)dalton99a
(94,128 posts)Tetrachloride
(9,624 posts)Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)Irish_Dem
(81,271 posts)Usually women with serious leg pain and mobility issues would never dream of wearing heels.
As others are saying, she could have had a chair lift for the stairs, moved to a one level home, had a paid assistant to help her. She had more financial resources than most of America.
The story doesn't make sense.
Kali
(56,829 posts)men too for that matter. people are strange and asking for help is like taking poison for some.
Irish_Dem
(81,271 posts)Vanity, and fear of looking old or weak.
vanlassie
(6,248 posts)blm
(114,658 posts)Shame on them. A mom should be able to rely on her children when she faces health issues.
NameAlreadyTaken
(2,301 posts)Thtwudbeme
(7,737 posts)She divorced that fuckwit 32 years ago...their kids are grown...and she was a multi-millionaire in her own right.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)But, those inclined can just shift grievance to her for being wealthy.
RIP, Ivana. Who married the fuckwit, supported his politics, and never got rid of his name.
Thtwudbeme
(7,737 posts)when she was working as a ski instructor.
I was sitting there looking at it- she looked so normal, young and healthy...and reading the posts of the other ski instructors who worked with and liked her...and thinking:
"Jesus...WTF?" How did she go from that healthy woman to marrying that fuckwit from the 9th Circle of Hell?
I am going to assume that she kept the last name because it was the same as her children's- god rest their souls they sold to the devil- but I digress.
Oh well, I never met her- so it's hard to judge her.
But, I damn sure know that she could have afforded a live in helper. At the bare minimum she could have called that vapid silly twit of a daughter and asked her and that vapid silly twit she is married to and asked them to hire someone to help her. There was no need to call her fuckhead of an ex-husband- that useless fuck would have just texted Ivanka anyway.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)of possibilities, including the reason for keeping the name.
She's of independent means, to put it mildly. Some sources estimate her wealth at $100M, which seems entirely possible if she handled her substantial divorce settlement and other self-made incomes better than The Donald over the intervening 30 years. That was a period of enormous wealth growth. Incredibly silly to imagine her anything but very empowered.
That doesn't preclude believing from her own interviews and behaviors that she would have become a trumpist in this century if she'd married a plumbing contractor from Fresno, CA in the last one. To our shock and horror, 70M American voters are like that.
RazzleCat
(732 posts)My mom had mobility issues in a two story house with no full bath or bed on the first story. When my father died she refused to have an aide while she sold the house, she also refused to let any of us stay with her, it was a pride thing.
Next pride issue, she hated the walker, thought it made her look old and feeble, so would she use it, NOPE, she went to the movies with her cane, and you guessed it, fell down and broke her hip. Of course that meant more hospital time and a wheel chair, now let's be honest if she would not use a walker do ya think she would submit to a chair, again nope. So out comes the walker for only around the house, and again, don't you try and help her. Other items she would not use, motorized carts at markets, again said it made her look helpless, when asked how she gets around at them said a shopping cart works like a walker.
The only aide she ever hired was in late stage cancer, and yes she could have afforded one prior, but again, she was just too dam stubborn. Again any of us would have stayed with her, and at the very end we did, but she absolutely never wanted anyones help, she always wanted to be independent. My SO said that her attitude is what most likely keep her alive so long, she just refused to become a stuck at home disabled person.
All this to say, even people who can afford help may refuse it because it hurts their pride and self image.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)bronxiteforever
(11,212 posts)as their father? Like when he mocked the physical disability of the reporter?

https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/donald-trump-making-fun-reporters-disability/story?id=35463888
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)They have their own lives to live and at some point might have their own children and families to take care of.
I will move into a nursing home before I subject my children to taking care of me. Ive spent enough time in a hospital setting that the idea of a nursing home doesnt scare me at all.
I chose to have kids, they didnt choose to have parents.
Kali
(56,829 posts)my Mom was the same...after life as an excellent homemaker she was looking forward to assisted care. unfortunately she died before she could actually enjoy it.
but, having taken care of a few family members at the end of life, I have to say it CAN be a special time, beyond the hard work involved. it isn't always just a horrible burden.
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)moniss
(9,056 posts)may have had nothing to do with her "injuries". If she was already on the first floor when her "injuries" happened and then she was moved to the bottom of the stairs to make it look as though she fell. I completely agree that I doubt a woman with severe leg/hip pain is going to be in heels. I wouldn't trust the NYPD on anything. We likely will never know the truth. We will be told a story and told to move on.
Ms. Toad
(38,640 posts)And you expect the ex to be providing support?
Not to mention that Trump was one of one of four ex-husbands.
Ms. Toad
(38,640 posts)And you expect the ex to be providing support?
Not to mention that Trump was one of one of four ex-husbands.