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newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:47 AM Jul 2022

trump wins again

I was just listening to my 87 y/o mom last night in a rage that almost brought her to tears. She was mad about being disenfranchised from voting. She's never missed a voting date and now doesn't even get ballots mailed to her. because of trump ballot boxes are gone, I can't hand deliver her ballot, a ballot won't even be sent to her. My mom is near blind, and relies on family for any transportation.

The fucken guy is a monster, and is still terrorizing each of us in some way, everyday!

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trump wins again (Original Post) newdayneeded Jul 2022 OP
ADA-based lawsuit? NT mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2022 #1
+1 Hiawatha Pete Jul 2022 #14
There HAS to be a solution.......somehow... UGH secondwind Jul 2022 #2
Don't blame trump, blame your GQP state legislature. SharonClark Jul 2022 #3
This is indeed from trump. newdayneeded Jul 2022 #6
The Fascist Oligarch eXtremists network told trumPutin mail-in ballots were bad. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #35
Did they also tell SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #36
See also, DeJoy. The basic problem is the radicalized Republican party. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #40
De joy has nothing to do with this instance SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #41
That might be a problem. Not seen in the OP. I'm out. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #42
You make sure she votes. If you can't drive her, arrange for an Uber. Scrivener7 Jul 2022 #4
Slow down and take a breath Botany Jul 2022 #5
Great responses SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #7
WI newdayneeded Jul 2022 #12
These are indeed great responses. calimary Jul 2022 #9
theres no church group that can pick her up? samnsara Jul 2022 #8
What's weird: the oldest voters who have voted R in those R states that dropped mail-in voting... machoneman Jul 2022 #10
Which state does she live in? Kaleva Jul 2022 #11
Exactly SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #15
"WEC administrator says voters should mail their own absentee ballots following.... Kaleva Jul 2022 #18
Yes SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #20
I think Rebl2 Jul 2022 #22
We cancelled home mail delivery newdayneeded Jul 2022 #25
I'm sure you have your reasona SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #27
She's 87 newdayneeded Jul 2022 #30
Fair enough SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #32
Thank you. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #33
I see my personal fan is back newdayneeded Jul 2022 #48
This wouldn't be an issue then if didn't have her mail forward out of state. Kaleva Jul 2022 #28
question: if you drop it in the mail for her at the Post Office yellowdogintexas Jul 2022 #21
We have cameras Rebl2 Jul 2022 #23
No cameras at our post offices where I live. Kaleva Jul 2022 #29
surely the cameras are not able to tell what you are dropping in the slot yellowdogintexas Jul 2022 #50
Surely someone will take her to vote? BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #13
And Putin wins again... dlk Jul 2022 #16
A simple google search shows that one can vote absentee. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #17
There will be thousands Rebl2 Jul 2022 #19
Something doesn't seem right with your information. llmart Jul 2022 #24
+1 Kaleva Jul 2022 #26
If you live close enough to visit change Tree Lady Jul 2022 #31
Not to excuse Trump in any way but why don't you just drive her to her polling station totodeinhere Jul 2022 #34
If you and your mother are both residents of Wisconsin FakeNoose Jul 2022 #37
My guess is that you and/or your mom misunderstand the law. Ms. Toad Jul 2022 #38
Per WI court SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #39
The court did not adress who could place the ballot in a mailbox. Ms. Toad Jul 2022 #44
I stand corrected SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #45
I'd just read enough articles about this Ms. Toad Jul 2022 #47
Thank you. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #43
every state has its own rules. In Texas every county has one drop off site yellowdogintexas Jul 2022 #51
Ballots can also be returned by mail. Ms. Toad Jul 2022 #52
So Sorry! We're in Hawaii and still Get Cha Jul 2022 #46
They do in OP's state too n/t SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #49
You said you were going to call today. I hope you got it all straightened out! BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #53
I did call. newdayneeded Jul 2022 #54
I drove my mom around everywhere the last year of her life. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #55

SharonClark

(10,497 posts)
3. Don't blame trump, blame your GQP state legislature.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:08 AM
Jul 2022

I know it's inconvenient. My Mom is 91 and the window for applying for and submitting a mail in ballot is brief.

If it's too late for your Mom, can you take her to the elections office to vote early or take her to her precinct on election day?

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
6. This is indeed from trump.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:57 AM
Jul 2022

His paranoid thoughts are what made them pass the bills, he seeded this bullshit.

I will look into it Monday, it's just the point that I have to jump through hoops to see that my mom can vote.

Hermit-The-Prog

(36,631 posts)
35. The Fascist Oligarch eXtremists network told trumPutin mail-in ballots were bad.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 06:59 PM
Jul 2022

That Grotesque Orange Pustule got his tweeting orders every night from Hannity.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
36. Did they also tell
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:02 PM
Jul 2022

The OP to have his mom’s mail sent out of state so that she has now way to receive an absentee ballot?

The law isn’t the problem here - mail in balloting is permitted. But if the only means to receive a ballot by mail has been eliminated, that’s not due to the law.

Hermit-The-Prog

(36,631 posts)
40. See also, DeJoy. The basic problem is the radicalized Republican party.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:23 PM
Jul 2022

In Kentucky, we were lucky that Gov. Beshear jumped in to make mail-in ballots easy during the worst of the pandemic. Our bloody red state legislature then tried to strip him of the power to respond to covid-19. Later, he signed a slightly schizo bipartisan bill that expanded voting rights in some areas and restricted them in others. We're still one of the most restrictive in the country.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
41. De joy has nothing to do with this instance
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:26 PM
Jul 2022

OP’s mom can’t get a ballot by mail because her mail doesn’t even come to her anymore, it’s sent to a relative out of state.

Dejoy is an asshole, but this has zero to do with him.

Scrivener7

(59,522 posts)
4. You make sure she votes. If you can't drive her, arrange for an Uber.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:14 AM
Jul 2022

And call the local election office and tell them she is coming and will need assistance.

Botany

(77,323 posts)
5. Slow down and take a breath
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:38 AM
Jul 2022

If your mom voted in 2020 then she should be still registered.


1) Contact your county B.O.E. and well being VERY NICE tell them how do you make
sure your mom can vote. They should be able to mail an absentee ballot to her mailing
address.

2) Contact your state democratic HQ and ask to speak to somebody about voting and tell
them the problem(s) of getting a ballot to your mom.

Any other ?s p.m. me.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
7. Great responses
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:59 AM
Jul 2022

Definitely needs to be looked into, as this just doesn’t sound right.

OP, what state does your mom live in?

calimary

(90,021 posts)
9. These are indeed great responses.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 09:46 AM
Jul 2022

As the bad guys are skilled in finding workarounds, so should WE be, also.

machoneman

(4,128 posts)
10. What's weird: the oldest voters who have voted R in those R states that dropped mail-in voting...
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 09:50 AM
Jul 2022

..will hurt the R turnout. Sure D's will be hurt too but in R states, the oldest do vote by a wide margin for R candidates.

This and other policies, many not doing with voting, have been ill-advised and will hurt the R vote for years to come. Example? I do foresee many R women abandoning their R candidates at many levels simply due to their opposition to the draconian moves against any forms of abortion, birth control, laws against travel to "free" states (my new term) where choice still prevails and more. Heck, making mail order pills illegal, jailing those who cross state lines, etc. is a bridge too far for many Republican women....we hope!

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
15. Exactly
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:10 AM
Jul 2022

OP's mom needs to request the absentee ballot...I must be missing something, because I don't see why she can't get a ballot.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
20. Yes
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:19 AM
Jul 2022

But that's after the ballot is received and filled out - OP is saying his mom can't even get a ballot.

And although I agree that the state requirement for only the voter to mail the ballot is onerous and most likely illegal given federal law, how hard is it to walk mom out to the mailbox so that she can put her ballot in the mail?

Rebl2

(17,742 posts)
22. I think
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:32 AM
Jul 2022

she could be driven to a post office and she would have to be the one to drop it in the mail. I do wonder what the law is for someone who is nearly blind. Can someone else help her fill it out?

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
25. We cancelled home mail delivery
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 11:01 AM
Jul 2022

It's delivered to a family member out of state.

I'll have to run her to the voting office to check registration, then get a ballot. then run her again to drop off the ballot.

I'll call Monday on all of this. it's just that they made more hoops for her and all other elderly (and their families to have to run them around) to simply vote.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
27. I'm sure you have your reasona
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 11:23 AM
Jul 2022

But frankly, the decision to stop mail delivery to her house is the biggest contributor to the extra hoops you have to jump through.

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
30. She's 87
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 01:31 PM
Jul 2022

and there's ice and snow in Wisconsin. We don't want her getting mail in those conditions. besides, she's virtually blind, can't read mail anyway.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
32. Fair enough
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 01:45 PM
Jul 2022

Then how did you expect her to get an absentee ballot, which comes via mail?

You’re upset with a voting law that has absolutely zero to do with her problem.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
28. This wouldn't be an issue then if didn't have her mail forward out of state.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 11:41 AM
Jul 2022

How about the mail going to you instead?

yellowdogintexas

(23,694 posts)
21. question: if you drop it in the mail for her at the Post Office
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:27 AM
Jul 2022

after hours, who is going to see you and how are they going to know at the elections office who dropped it in the mail and when? You can always get into the lobby because of the boxes inside; you can always go in and drop off or pick up mail, buy stamps from the vending machine, or even mail a small package. If I were in your situation that is what I would do.

If you contact your elections office and she is sent a ballot, can she put it in her outgoing mail box?

Here in TX when we drop off ballots, the voter in question must show ID then the ballot will be accepted and put with the other unopened ballots until the ballot board begins screening them.

I agree that your first step is calling your Elections Office. Write down your questions so you don't leave anything out.

Best of luck!

Rebl2

(17,742 posts)
23. We have cameras
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:35 AM
Jul 2022

in our post office. Can’t imagine they would go to the trouble of checking cameras at PO, but never know these days.

yellowdogintexas

(23,694 posts)
50. surely the cameras are not able to tell what you are dropping in the slot
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 02:25 PM
Jul 2022

besides you could mail some other pieces with it and no one could tell

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
13. Surely someone will take her to vote?
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:10 AM
Jul 2022

I took my 90 year old mother to vote. Her last vote was for Hillary.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
17. A simple google search shows that one can vote absentee.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:14 AM
Jul 2022

Simply request the ballot. It says they will send them to you, so somehow she's gotten some bad info.

Call your local Board of Elections, as someone else suggested.

Tfg hasn't won shit.

llmart

(17,622 posts)
24. Something doesn't seem right with your information.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:47 AM
Jul 2022

Maybe your mother is a bit confused about this. There has always been the ability to vote absentee. Yes, maybe they've made it more difficult but they can't do away with absentee voting all together. She needs to request an absentee ballot and put it out in her mailbox for pickup by the USPS carrier if they've removed all the drop boxes. There is usually a place on the outside of the ballot envelope where, if someone needs assistance in filling it out, someone can help them but that someone has to sign that they did help them.

I volunteered at a center for blind people for many years. No one can disenfranchise blind people from voting.

Tree Lady

(13,282 posts)
31. If you live close enough to visit change
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 01:43 PM
Jul 2022

Mailing address to yours if that is legal.

That is awful. I feel for her.

Or does she go out? Can you drive to polling place? How long are the lines? Get her a walker with chair on it so she can sit.

totodeinhere

(13,688 posts)
34. Not to excuse Trump in any way but why don't you just drive her to her polling station
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 05:20 PM
Jul 2022

on election day?

FakeNoose

(41,634 posts)
37. If you and your mother are both residents of Wisconsin
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:12 PM
Jul 2022

... why couldn't you receive your mother's mail for her? Is there a legal reason why your mother's mailing address can't match yours? If you can receive her mail, then change your Mom's mailing address to yours on her voter registration. It wouldn't be necessary to change all of her mail to you, BUT the voting address matters the most.

If you receive her ballot and deliver it to her, you can make sure she votes, and then you can be the one to mail the ballot from your residence. Do this work for you?

Ms. Toad

(38,639 posts)
38. My guess is that you and/or your mom misunderstand the law.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:17 PM
Jul 2022

Last edited Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:49 PM - Edit history (1)

As a general rule, ballots may be picked up and returned by a relative. If there is no in-state relative, the voter can generally designate a person to do so.

Down-thread, someone suggested the state at issue was Wisconsin, which works this way.

ETA: There was a bill to make all of this very explicit, which passed the senate and assembly, but not signed into law.But for now, both federal election law and state law (since the court decision expressly declined to address it) permit an agent to place the absentee ballot in the mailbox.

Yes it is more challenging, but I don't believe it is true that she will be unable to vote.

Ms. Toad

(38,639 posts)
44. The court did not adress who could place the ballot in a mailbox.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:40 PM
Jul 2022

It said ballot drop boxes are illegal, because a drop box is not a person. The court decision did not address who could drop the ballot in a mailbox (or return it to the board of electors).

The relevant language from the decision:

An absentee ballot must be returned by mail or the voter must personally deliver it to the municipal clerk at the clerk's office or a designated alternate site. . . . The documents do not address whether voters who mail an absentee ballot must personally place the ballot into a mailbox or if a voter's agent may do so. We therefore do not decide at this time whether the law permits a voter's agent to place an absentee ballot in the mail on the voter's behalf.


Note the different phrasing.

Ms. Toad

(38,639 posts)
47. I'd just read enough articles about this
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:51 PM
Jul 2022

to know what to look for in the decision . . . media often mangles court decisions (and then because the mangled version is often inflammatory it takes on a life of its own).

yellowdogintexas

(23,694 posts)
51. every state has its own rules. In Texas every county has one drop off site
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 02:28 PM
Jul 2022

and ballots may only be dropped off on Election Day at the Elections Office, by the voter him/her self. No drop boxes.

We also have to request our mail in ballots; if you request in January you will receive a ballot for every election held in that year.

Ms. Toad

(38,639 posts)
52. Ballots can also be returned by mail.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 02:43 PM
Jul 2022

The Texas law is not clear as to who may physically drop the ballot in the mailbox. The case only addressed physical drop boxes - and declared them inconsistent with the law, since a drop box (an inanimate object) cannot be a municipal clerk (a person). The law is clear about who may return the ballot to the elections office (the voter). But the court expressly declined to address the question of who can deposit a mailed ballot in a mailbox.

In addition, as to who drops the ballot off at the Elections Office, Texas law says it must be the person, themselves. BUT that is in conflict with federal law (both elections and disability law) which allow a person with a disability to use an agent to drop their ballots off.

Cha

(319,076 posts)
46. So Sorry! We're in Hawaii and still Get
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 07:47 PM
Jul 2022

our Ballots in the Mail! :

Focus!
Please Fight to Save Our Democracy💙 in 2022 & 2024!

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
53. You said you were going to call today. I hope you got it all straightened out!
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 03:51 PM
Jul 2022

Seems an easy fix, despite the fact you've had her mail rerouted.

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
54. I did call.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 04:05 PM
Jul 2022

It'll just be a lot of travel to get her the stuff she needs. I'll make sure she's set.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
55. I drove my mom around everywhere the last year of her life.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 04:38 PM
Jul 2022

I wish she was still here to drive her any and everywhere.

That was a "lot of travel" I never got enough of unfortunately.

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