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AZLD4Candidate

(5,659 posts)
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 09:50 PM Jul 2022

Cancer developed. Rapidly aggressive over two weeks. Inoperable.

My mother had to put her beloved dog down today. She is sobbing because of this and the fact that while it was happening, the dog was licking her face with an "I'm sorry" look on his face, sort of blaming himself for this.


You can see the cancer in his face

Goodbye, Dude. You have a miserable life with terrible owners that abused you until my mother adopted you. At least in the last five years of your life, you were a spoiled, pampered prince.

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Cancer developed. Rapidly aggressive over two weeks. Inoperable. (Original Post) AZLD4Candidate Jul 2022 OP
Very sorry for your Mom. Justice Jul 2022 #1
It sucks. I had a great red golden retriver that broke his hip leaping for a tennis ball. OAITW r.2.0 Jul 2022 #2
Awful thing to have to do. Sorry your mother had to . hugs to her. Srkdqltr Jul 2022 #3
I had to go through this and it was heartbreaking. Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #4
I know, I know. BigmanPigman Jul 2022 #53
So sorry to hear this. Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #60
Mine visits me too, BigmanPigman Jul 2022 #74
My theory is that my little doggie is still with me as always. Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #76
Very sorry. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #5
What a gorgeous gentleman companion Leghorn21 Jul 2022 #6
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Jul 2022 #7
I'm so sorry... it's the most heartbreaking thing renate Jul 2022 #8
I'd rather be around all dogs than most people. AZLD4Candidate Jul 2022 #9
So sorry for your Mom but I bet her dog SharonClark Jul 2022 #10
Please tell her she was a comfort to him 867-5309. Jul 2022 #11
Dog is God spelled backwards. Going to Canada Jul 2022 #12
Welcome to our DU family. niyad Jul 2022 #23
K&R spanone Jul 2022 #13
One of my beloved Berners went this quickly with cancer peggysue2 Jul 2022 #14
I'm so sorry for your loss. aocommunalpunch Jul 2022 #15
I'm so very sorry for your mother and you. sinkingfeeling Jul 2022 #16
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Jul 2022 #17
The more you hurt just means the more you were loved and gave love and in the end your .... Botany Jul 2022 #18
My sympathies. Liberal In Texas Jul 2022 #19
I am so sorry UpInArms Jul 2022 #20
so sorry - nothing harder than the loss of a best friend SouthernDem4ever Jul 2022 #21
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little Dude gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Jul 2022 #22
So sorry mvd Jul 2022 #24
So sorry for your loss - we lost a beautiful husky to cancer too (wish your mom and you peace). waterwatcher123 Jul 2022 #25
They all deserve to be spoiled pampered princes and princesses luv2fly Jul 2022 #26
... Skittles Jul 2022 #27
Oh I love that. halobeam Jul 2022 #39
it was on a card sent to me by my vet when my cat passed Skittles Jul 2022 #42
Beautiful. Bitter-sweet. Still painful housecat Jul 2022 #68
I am so terribly sorry - and I do understand. I lost my beloved pup a month ago today Rhiannon12866 Jul 2022 #28
Sending a hug Raine Jul 2022 #33
Oh, thank you so much... Rhiannon12866 Jul 2022 #34
it's the price of love Skittles Jul 2022 #43
It does hurt so much. I miss him terribly. Rhiannon12866 Jul 2022 #45
I know the feeling Skittles Jul 2022 #48
Awww poor baby vercetti2021 Jul 2022 #29
had a horse that happened to Kali Jul 2022 #30
Aw I'm so sorry 💔 😥 Raine Jul 2022 #31
I'm so sorry FoxNewsSucks Jul 2022 #32
Sorry for your loss DaBronx Jul 2022 #35
I'm very sorry. dchill Jul 2022 #36
I'm sure he wasn't really blaming himself! ShazzieB Jul 2022 #37
What a lovely post... dixiechiken1 Jul 2022 #72
So heartbreaking... Trueblue Texan Jul 2022 #38
Hugs to Mom!! marieo1 Jul 2022 #40
I'm sorry for your moms loss.. and it is hard to see a parent hurt like that too. halobeam Jul 2022 #41
I'm so sorry! StarryNite Jul 2022 #44
Adrift! A little boat adrift! StarryNite Jul 2022 #46
Awwwwww, sweet baby. Gonna run with the angels now. calimary Jul 2022 #47
Oh, man. One of the worst parts of life. shrike3 Jul 2022 #49
Heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹. I did this 8 years ago. live love laugh Jul 2022 #50
I am so sorry! I know this will sound crazy...but find Laura PourMeADrink Jul 2022 #51
I know how much that hurts. Get another one, soon, to hug. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #52
Tears in my eyes. I'm so glad she had a few great years at the end. Thank you!! C Moon Jul 2022 #54
.. Demovictory9 Jul 2022 #55
I'm so sorry EnergizedLib Jul 2022 #56
My cat died of heart cancer in 2018 qazplm135 Jul 2022 #57
Damn samplegirl Jul 2022 #58
My condolances DFW Jul 2022 #59
I'm so sorry. We had to make that decision for our almost 14yo German Shepherd last year. woodsprite Jul 2022 #61
So sorry! Scalded Nun Jul 2022 #62
I'm sorry cate94 Jul 2022 #63
I'm so very very sorry for your loss. PCIntern Jul 2022 #64
I'm so sorry. It's awful: onecaliberal Jul 2022 #65
My heart is breaking for your loss and for your baby, and thank goodness for the love... SWBTATTReg Jul 2022 #66
Our Sympathy ProfessorGAC Jul 2022 #67
I'm so sorry - I lost my beloved kitty the very same way, around 4 years bullwinkle428 Jul 2022 #69
Sorry for the loss of your dog. GoodRaisin Jul 2022 #70
I am so sorry. He looks like an amazing boy. Damn cancer. Evolve Dammit Jul 2022 #71
I'm so very, very sorry. 💔 dixiechiken1 Jul 2022 #73
It's always so hard. sellitman Jul 2022 #75

OAITW r.2.0

(24,398 posts)
2. It sucks. I had a great red golden retriver that broke his hip leaping for a tennis ball.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 09:53 PM
Jul 2022

Endured 4 weeks of immobility to reset the bone, only to find that cancer was the root cause of the break. Really a tough time with my buddy......

Irish_Dem

(46,828 posts)
4. I had to go through this and it was heartbreaking.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 09:55 PM
Jul 2022

My little dog was the light of my life. We were soul mates, I know it sounds crazy.
She went very suddenly with kidney failure.

But I did get another little dog some years later and I love her.
Not quite the same however.

Sending good vibes to your mom and Dude.

BigmanPigman

(51,582 posts)
53. I know, I know.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 12:38 AM
Jul 2022


I cry all the time aince my baby died 111 weeks ago today (yes, I still am in pain over it).

Irish_Dem

(46,828 posts)
60. So sorry to hear this.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 07:47 AM
Jul 2022

Yes it took me some time to get over it.
It was years ago and I still think about her.
May sound strange, but I can feel her with me.

BigmanPigman

(51,582 posts)
74. Mine visits me too,
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 06:19 PM
Jul 2022

but less and less which makes me sad. I like hearing her specific sounds briefly around my apt.

Irish_Dem

(46,828 posts)
76. My theory is that my little doggie is still with me as always.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 07:01 PM
Jul 2022

I just don't pay as much attention as in the past.
Busy with other things I guess.

Or maybe the go off to doggie heaven.

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
6. What a gorgeous gentleman companion
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 09:58 PM
Jul 2022

Can’t say how sorry I am for you and your poor mother

Whether we lose a pup quickly or slowly, it’s just devastating

I am so so sorry

renate

(13,776 posts)
8. I'm so sorry... it's the most heartbreaking thing
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:00 PM
Jul 2022

Their innocence about what's happening is a gift to them but it makes what they're going through, and what has to be done out of love, even more painful.

I'm so glad that for the second part of his life he was spoiled and loved and given the care and devotion he deserved. Something special brought him and your mom together, and that love will be his legacy.

 

867-5309.

(1,189 posts)
11. Please tell her she was a comfort to him
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:17 PM
Jul 2022

while it was happening. His kisses were affection and gratitude for a good life.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
14. One of my beloved Berners went this quickly with cancer
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:25 PM
Jul 2022

It hurts. Sorry for your mom and the pup, of course. Nice to hear/read he was a rescue who found a forever home and heart.

aocommunalpunch

(4,235 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:27 PM
Jul 2022

We don’t deserve them. Those five years were indeed packed with pampering and love.

Botany

(70,483 posts)
18. The more you hurt just means the more you were loved and gave love and in the end your ....
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:29 PM
Jul 2022

... mom gave the greatest gift she could to her best buddy.

Liberal In Texas

(13,542 posts)
19. My sympathies.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:32 PM
Jul 2022

Cancer in dogs just goes like wildfire. I know from experience that one can have the vets agressively treat it but in the end there isn't really much that can stop it.

Just know your mom gave her friend some really good years.

niyad

(113,216 posts)
22. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little Dude gently home in Your loving arms, and
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:41 PM
Jul 2022

send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.

What a precious boy. I am so sorry for your Mom's loss.

mvd

(65,169 posts)
24. So sorry
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:45 PM
Jul 2022

Dogs are the most wonderful creatures.. I know from experience how hard it is to lose them. My dog Gordon was 10 when he quickly died of lymphoma. Dogs got the short end of the stick on life span.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
27. ...
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:51 PM
Jul 2022

Grieve not
nor speak of me with tears
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you..
I loved you so —
’twas Heaven here with you

- Isla Paschal Richardson

Rhiannon12866

(205,074 posts)
28. I am so terribly sorry - and I do understand. I lost my beloved pup a month ago today
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 10:56 PM
Jul 2022

He was 16 and I adopted him at 5 months. I am bereft.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
48. I know the feeling
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:55 PM
Jul 2022


Grieve not
nor speak of me with tears
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you..
I loved you so —
’twas Heaven here with you

- Isla Paschal Richardson

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
29. Awww poor baby
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:00 PM
Jul 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss. But cant let the poor thing suffer so badly like that. Yall had to do it. Rainbow bridge is there and they'll be waiting

Kali

(55,007 posts)
30. had a horse that happened to
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:02 PM
Jul 2022

went pretty fast, didn't bother him for a month or two but then he started losing weight and had to put him down.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
31. Aw I'm so sorry 💔 😥
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:10 PM
Jul 2022

I'm glad that the time he was with your family was filled with so much love and happiness for him, that means everything. A big hug for your mother and all who loved him.

DaBronx

(281 posts)
35. Sorry for your loss
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:14 PM
Jul 2022

How lucky this dog was to have been rescued by a wonderful, caring person. I wish your mom strength and happy memories.

ShazzieB

(16,352 posts)
37. I'm sure he wasn't really blaming himself!
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:18 PM
Jul 2022

I really don't think dogs think that way. He was just concerned because his special human was upset, and he wanted to comfort her the only way he knew how, sweet little angel dog that he was.

I am so, so sorry for your mother's loss and hope she can find some measure of peace in the knowledge that he has been spared untold suffering and now rests comfortably in the arms of whatever kind angel is in charge of welcoming all the greatly loved beasts who have had to precede their beloved humans into the next world. There he will wait, safe and sound, for her eventual arrival. Blessings be upon him, and her, and all others who knew and loved him.

halobeam

(4,873 posts)
41. I'm sorry for your moms loss.. and it is hard to see a parent hurt like that too.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:31 PM
Jul 2022

my sympathies to both of you. She will find the light he gave her, in the dark where she is now.

StarryNite

(9,442 posts)
44. I'm so sorry!
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:38 PM
Jul 2022

His beautiful soul still shines through what the cancer did to him. He is shining even brighter now and know he is still around your mom and your family. They never really leave us...not ever. I suspect he was licking your mom in love and thanks for the wonderful life she gave him and for doing the kindest thing to do for him even though it was tearing her apart. R.I.P. Dude.

StarryNite

(9,442 posts)
46. Adrift! A little boat adrift!
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:43 PM
Jul 2022



Adrift! A little boat adrift!
And night is coming down!
Will no one guide a little boat
Unto the nearest town?

So Sailors say – on yesterday –
Just as the dusk was brown
One little boat gave up its strife
And gurgled down and down.

So angels say – on yesterday –
Just as the dawn was red
One little boat – o'erspent with gales –
Retrimmed its masts – redecked its sails –
And shot – exultant on!

~ Emily Dickinson ~

shrike3

(3,556 posts)
49. Oh, man. One of the worst parts of life.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:58 PM
Jul 2022

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet. I'm sure he forgot all about the bad part of life and left this earth with only memories of your mom.
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
51. I am so sorry! I know this will sound crazy...but find
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 12:00 AM
Jul 2022

a star constellation that you & mom see outside all the time. It provided SO much
comfort for me between my dad dying (because MF trump didn't warn anyone) and our beloved 12 yo dog dying of cancer just like you. You can talk to them. OK. realize I've gone beyond the scope of crazy, sorry

EnergizedLib

(1,892 posts)
56. I'm so sorry
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 12:46 AM
Jul 2022

R.I.P. How sad and heartbreaking. What an adorable looking dog that would’ve been even more adorable without the tumor.

At least he’s not suffering, but you have to hate when that happens. Hopefully, lots of good memories.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
57. My cat died of heart cancer in 2018
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 12:47 AM
Jul 2022

three weeks from her sitting on my lap breathing fast after work to me in a bawling haze after having to put her down.

We were cat-human soul mates.

I got a new kitten the same day...it definitely helped.

DFW

(54,330 posts)
59. My condolances
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 02:19 AM
Jul 2022

I know many of us have had to go through similar experiences. It doesn‘t lessen the psin.

woodsprite

(11,909 posts)
61. I'm so sorry. We had to make that decision for our almost 14yo German Shepherd last year.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 09:23 AM
Jul 2022

She had degenerative myelopathy, which we were dealing with (meds, water therapy, a walking sling), but then her kidneys rapidly failed and we had to let her go. It's never easy to say goodbye to a beloved pet. It sounds like your Mom gave him a great home and lots of love. He knew and appreciated it.

SWBTATTReg

(22,100 posts)
66. My heart is breaking for your loss and for your baby, and thank goodness for the love...
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 01:46 PM
Jul 2022

that you gave him in his last days. RIP.

ProfessorGAC

(64,971 posts)
67. Our Sympathy
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 01:54 PM
Jul 2022

We lost our Walter in February.
Rapidly growing soft tissue tumor around the front right shoulder.
The tumor either passed a clot or burst, releasing toxins. Went from pretty much OK to critical in under an hour.
He had hours to live when we decided we needed to take him down.
So, we feel your pain.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
69. I'm so sorry - I lost my beloved kitty the very same way, around 4 years
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 02:11 PM
Jul 2022

ago. It was a very aggressive tumor that developed along her jaw.

GoodRaisin

(8,921 posts)
70. Sorry for the loss of your dog.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 02:19 PM
Jul 2022

It’s really hard, I know. I lost my dog to deadly canine spleen cancer last year and still grieve over him. It happened so fast and left me stunned and empty.

sellitman

(11,606 posts)
75. It's always so hard.
Wed Jul 20, 2022, 06:55 PM
Jul 2022

I've had to put 2 down in my life and they are amoung the hardest days of my life.

Hugs

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