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You're all familiar with the acronym. Intensive care unit.
ICU can also mean I see you.
I see you. I see folks here who bring intensive care to this forum. I see folks who try to apply healing balm to the wounds this life brings. I see folks always at the ready with kind words intended to ease suffering. I see folks comforting the bereaved. I see folks who try to lighten heavy situations. I see folks who offer a hand up. I see folks, many who are carrying their own heavy load, who share others' burdens.
Joys shared are doubled. Sorrows shared are divided.
I see beautiful Shining Spirits who walk the walk, who bring light and hope to this road we travel together. Who provide intensive care in this looney bin of life.
I see you.
I thank you.
Truly.
niyad
(133,967 posts)greenjar_01
(6,477 posts)Higherarky
(637 posts)!
Jerry2144
(3,315 posts)The new 988 hotline went into effect. Easier to remember number for suicide hotline. You have friends here on DU who will listen. We all care about each other here. But if you really need help, call 988
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988
Higherarky
(637 posts)for your effort in getting this very important information in front of eyes.
👍
HighFired49
(516 posts)for posting this. DU is truly a wonderful place, especially because of you and many, many others who care for one another and their world. If it weren't for our group, I don't know where I would be, and I thank you all for making this all bearable. Namaste, ICU, too.
Kid Berwyn
(25,031 posts)Looking forward to reading what you share.
Higherarky
(637 posts)Are you familiar with Svengoolie, who hales from Berwyn, IL?
And thanx 4 the welcome.
Kid Berwyn
(25,031 posts)A camera store in the Loop. A guy from Berwyn liked to waste my time, always around closing. So now, I try to repay the favor. Did not know (or have now forgotten) the great Svengoolie hailed from Berwyn, Ill.
However, I did know a guy who was neighbors with a guy who watched Son of Svengoolie. Berrrrwinnnnn.
Higherarky
(637 posts)Ah-ha! You may be right. I may be crazy.
KS Toronado
(23,841 posts)very insightful Higherarky, looking forward to your posts/comments. And welcome to DU!
Hela
(476 posts)Thank you!
housecat
(3,138 posts)Wiscodoug
(109 posts)Yes, we all are a little damaged right now. I see you also. I recognize that you see the kindness in others. I see you also. We all need a helping hand, an ear, a leg up, a smile. I see you too and I admire your thoughtfulness. Let's be an example, together, and teach each other kindness. I see you. I read your words and you are beautiful. Peace to you.
Evolve Dammit
(21,814 posts)planetc
(8,970 posts)Might I just list the people who help keep me sane by posting to this forum: the toon-herders, the photographers, and SCE, who every Sunday morning posts a batch of nutso toons, heavy on awful puns, and photos of beautiful creatures. Even if they can't provide us with a sixty-vote majority in the Senate, or persuade Sen. Manchin to retire, they can do something, and they do.
Okay, now I need to ask you, because of your screen name, whether you live in the hills of Arkansas? It's already clear you like puns.
I hope you continue to like it here.
live in AR, on a mountaintop, about 30 yrs. I've lurked here since the beginning, but due to the confidential nature of my employment in the medical field and the fact that I worked remotely throughout the US, using a variety of on-line platforms, I shied away from getting involved here, on Facebook, or any other such venue so as not to put confidential data at risk.
That was my day job. My other job title has been musician.
I've recently retired, and I'm pleased to jump into the fray, as it were. My thanks to you and others who have welcomed me.
Hi.
planetc
(8,970 posts)that you've retired from your day job, not from playing music. And I also wonder whether you write music as well as play it?
And Hi right back.
Higherarky
(637 posts)but haven't played any live gigs since Covid. I do write some ... here's one of my faves:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Ar0yDyC-VPqBssKOLSE2KXwNeIjev9vb/view?usp=sharing
planetc
(8,970 posts)for the piano, and performed it? And did you write it for the strings also? I find it lovely, and sad, and triumphant. Thank you. Also, Encore!
Higherarky
(637 posts)Thanx for listening. That means a lot to me.
Encore? I'll happily share.
"Itz Alwayz Sumthin" I composed it, and I'm singing it.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1UhZkHkmunylabMttcpd25HtfFvdN2yZx/view?usp=sharing
Later maybe I'll share something I'm playing flute on.
Now, tell me something about your own fine self, please.
planetc
(8,970 posts)That arrangement reminds me vaguely of McCartney's "Take Me Down to Junior's Farm" on steroids. That's a compliment.
Yes: self: I am the inveterate English Major. When I graduated from college, I had no training for any particular job, like teaching. (My best friend in college had told me she got a lot of knitting done in Education classes, so i passed.) And went to graduate school for a Higher Degree. Which I eventually finished, after acquiring several years' experience in teaching Freshman Composition, one of the most hated courses on campuses at that time.
But I did not pursue an academic career. Instead I had a series of jobs. The first was selling drill bushings and other machine tooling components, the second was renting apartments (and trying to keep the tenants happy afterward), and the third and last was at Great Big Univ., doing administrative work and contributing to the impressive increase in productivity of the 1990s. What that meant was that GBU lost various employees and even small offices, and anyone who was left would do the work the vanished employees used to do, plus our own.
All this has given me four different educations, without sapping my enthusiasm or completely warping my soul. Now I am retired, and have time to read new and excellent authors whenever I want. And I keep up with current events on the internet, for various reasons, including learning some of the new slang, acronyms, etc., so I can smash the NYT's crossword setters.
That was an inspired choice for your father's funeral. Or maybe just inspired. Flute, please, whenever you want.
Higherarky
(637 posts)Sounds like you've had an excellent adventure so far, and I hope it has brought you much joy and satisfaction.
Would you care to share any recs on new authors? I'm always on the lookout for good reads. TIA!
As promised, a couple tunes featuring flute.
"What The Future Holds"
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1KueEksYcUd4zGcW73UHl2Ph3PxM3ogAP/view?usp=sharing
"Talkin' 2 You" (Trivia: My son is playing drums on this song.
)
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1N6hIR7etqTfHt4RiQqZIIceFoWV3362m/view?usp=sharing
And, just because I like to share this one,
"Hazy Mountains"
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1KuPFv80OmvlFzm3UpNAoADZHCVAQoe7M/view?usp=sharing
I think I've thoroughly hijacked my own thread.
It's a pleasure getting to know you.
P.S. Reminder: Book/author recs, please.
planetc
(8,970 posts)It is harder to recommend books for people than you might realize, because you don't know their tastes immediately. So here are some enthusiasms. Most of what I read is genre fiction, which means some critic has put it in a box so it can be easily dealt with. The best writers accept the constraints of the rules of a genre,, and thrive anyway. So, here goes: The thrillers about Jack Reacher by Lee Child, who always clearly explains the physics of anything Jack has to do, plus the magnetism of a hero who lives free by carrying only a toothbrush with him while he wanders. Everybody now is down on J.K. Rowling, because she thinks something or another about trans people, but I think her novels for adults, writing as Robert Galbraith about detective Cormorant Stryke (Strike?), are an excellent exploration of two people growing up together as they solve crimes. And my most favoritest "Steam Punk-Time Slip" writer is Natasha Pulley, whose books defy genre altogether. "The Watchmaker of Filigree Street" is the first of them, and is about a man who can foresee the future in massive, but not exhaustive, detail. And what it's like to be his friend.
I desperately need you to respond to any of these authors eventually, so I can get a clue about what constitutes a good read for you.
I think hijacking your own thread is actually allowed, as nobody has locked it yet.
And I'm off now to listen to flutes and drum-playing sons. Thanks! And well met.
planetc
(8,970 posts)could not think what to say. (Elvis Costello, I think: "Talking about music is like dancing about architecture."
Today I can think to say that the energy and elation of the flute match the energy and drive of the song.
"Talkin' 2 You": The drums create a really solid foundation for the song without stepping on it.
"Hazy Mountains" and all the others: really musically complex arrangements, and songs which are about wearing your heart on your sleeve 24/7. I feel vaguely that life has shot you down regularly, and then you get up and sing it a song.
Also, just how many instruments do you play?
Cheers,
pc
Higherarky
(637 posts)I'll see what I can get my paws on & check in with you on that sometime soon. Right now I'm finishing a James Rollins novel. Next up in my queue is Toni Morrison.
My reading tastes are all over the place. I've enjoyed Greg Iles, Solomon Northrup, and Jeffrey Archer, although I've taken a break from him for a while because his novels started seeming formulaic. Years ago I read every Stephen King & Richard Bachman novel that came out, but now there are several I haven't read yet.
I like fiction & nonfiction, biographies, all kinds of stuff. By the time I was 12 I had read nearly all the books in our school library & a huge chunk of what was in our local municipal library. I could go on & on, but I'll spare you for now. Lucky you! 😉
Lovely of you to take the time to fulfill my request. Thanx again.
Thus far I've not met an instrument I couldn't play, but I am decidedly better with some than others. 🎼🎶
I hope your day is going well.
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I love your list!
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)Welcome to DU!
Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Nevilledog
(55,129 posts)We are really lucky to have DU, and to have a thoughtful soul like you is a benefit to the community.
Welcome!
Higherarky
(637 posts)who took a moment out of your busy day to share gentle words and kind thoughts.
You're the Best!!