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SoCalDavidS

(10,599 posts)
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 02:42 PM Jul 2022

Pat Benatar Will No Longer Perform One Of Her Most Popular Songs - "Hit Me With Your Best Shot"

On November 5th at Microsoft Theater in Los Angeles, California, Pat Benatar will be inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall Of Fame.

During a recent interview with Melissa Ruggieri of USA Today, Benatar revealed that she is no longer playing one of her most popular songs at her concerts, an excerpt follows:

USA Today: You’ve been singing those big vocal songs including “Heartbreaker” on this tour. You’ve also been playing (The Beatles’) “Helter Skelter”. Why that song?

Benatar: "Because I want to have some (expletive) fun! We’re doing a lot of songs we don’t always play like 'In The Heat Of The Night' and 'I Need A Lover'. We have what we call the 'Holy 14,' songs that if we don’t play them, you’ll give us (a hard time). And we’re not doing 'Hit Me With Your Best Shot' and fans are having a heart attack and I’m like, I’m sorry, in deference to the victims of the families of these mass shootings, I’m not singing it. I tell them, if you want to hear the song, go home and listen to it. (The title) is tongue-in-cheek, but you have to draw the line. I can’t say those words out loud with a smile on my face, I just can’t. I’m not going to go on stage and soapbox – I go to my legislators – but that’s my small contribution to protesting. I’m not going to sing it. Tough."

https://bravewords.com/news/pat-benatar-will-not-perform-hit-me-with-your-best-shot-live-following-mass-shootings?fbclid=IwAR2ynwP1Yf3E1HVyRRfcVYhCeDu-05nPaHQ25v1aMWNULwNb9b_KsYnNH5w

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Pat Benatar Will No Longer Perform One Of Her Most Popular Songs - "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" (Original Post) SoCalDavidS Jul 2022 OP
I cringe when I hear "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" on the radio,... magicarpet Jul 2022 #1
I dig that she's not playing it anymore for this reason, BUT ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #2
Beat Me To It! ProfessorGAC Jul 2022 #3
I was like 18 yo when it came out so that may've affected my view, but ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #4
Thank you for your viewpoints and perspectives in seeing the issue in a different way. magicarpet Jul 2022 #5
Okay. But if you look at the lyrics in totality (not just the chorus), it's pretty clearly a song Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #7
That might be the orgin Zeitghost Jul 2022 #14
Agreed! ProfessorGAC Jul 2022 #8
Her hubby Neil G could lay down some licks ... I ain't nearly that good lol ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #9
Plate Of Shrimp ProfessorGAC Jul 2022 #11
Lol, yeah really weird ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #12
I had an incident where I was harassed at work and someone would actually sing this song gldstwmn Jul 2022 #15
Considering that more and more people are affected by violence ... Novara Jul 2022 #6
No one thinks that's about doing a school shooting TheFarseer Jul 2022 #10
Seems to me that ForgedCrank Jul 2022 #13

magicarpet

(18,456 posts)
1. I cringe when I hear "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" on the radio,...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:00 PM
Jul 2022

... for the last five years or so. It has always struck me as an advocacy for assault or domestic violence - we certainly need less of that perspective not more.

Why excite toxic masculinity and possibly trigger assault and battery when we can easily avoid it by steering clear and circumventing those issues.

Thank you Pat Benatar for your insightful approach to pressing social issues and making an effort to better the commonwealth to achieve a more civil and safe community for all.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
2. I dig that she's not playing it anymore for this reason, BUT ...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:10 PM
Jul 2022

It's really not about anyone getting shot in the firearms sense, or opening themselves to domestic assault.

It's a boxing metaphor, she's simply expressing her own toughness and bravado like a boxer before a fight. Except the subject is ... love.

Maybe this will assuage your sensibilities and let you enjoy it in the future, if you used to in the past.

ProfessorGAC

(75,224 posts)
3. Beat Me To It!
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:13 PM
Jul 2022

Nothing to do with guns, but I too like they've dropped it from their setlist.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
4. I was like 18 yo when it came out so that may've affected my view, but ...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:23 PM
Jul 2022

I always took the theme of that of that song to be 'before I decide if I like you, let's see how good at sex you actually are'.

Bit of a female empowerment theme, in my mind.

magicarpet

(18,456 posts)
5. Thank you for your viewpoints and perspectives in seeing the issue in a different way.
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:41 PM
Jul 2022

But the fact remains that in contemporary vernacular and common parlance,...

"Hit Me With Your Best Shot" denotes a human fist striking a solid blow to a human body part.

The thought of a gun shot - never occurred to me,.. until I read this. Brandishing a weapon and firing it at a human being one hopes would be a last - last - last resort to quell a very grave danger of imminent life threatening bodily harm.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
7. Okay. But if you look at the lyrics in totality (not just the chorus), it's pretty clearly a song
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:49 PM
Jul 2022

wherein a woman is challenging a man to impress her enough to fall in love with him.

I totally respect her decision to stop playing it, and yours to no longer favor the song. When you put both 'fire' and 'shot' in the same chorus, it DOES kinda sound like a reference to guns, and I'd imagine that's why she doesn't do the song anymore.

That said, it's fairly obvious that Hit Me With Your Best Shot does NOT denote a human fist striking a solid blow to a human body part (or an actual shooting)... in the context of the song overall.

Just sayin.

 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
14. That might be the orgin
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 05:16 PM
Jul 2022

But its most common meanings now would be something like, "give me your best effort" or "I can take your strongest attempt to challenge me".

It's her song and her concert, but this is a meaningless gesture. Associating it with gun violence is just silly.

ProfessorGAC

(75,224 posts)
8. Agreed!
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:56 PM
Jul 2022

I looked it up. It was released the week before my 24th birthday.
I was in a band with a woman singer at that time, so it immediately found it's way onto our setlist.
I loved playing that solo. It would be easier now. I'm much better now.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
9. Her hubby Neil G could lay down some licks ... I ain't nearly that good lol ...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 04:02 PM
Jul 2022

The couple that inspired me to pick up guitar, while in college (female singer was my girlfriends roomie, and her BF could shred, and they used to play around SLO, CA at the time), used to ROCK that song, it was kinda their signature song.

Her BF taught me some of the first licks and chords I ever knew.

Also the first time I ever sang live in front of a bar full of people was when they let me come up to sing You Shook Me All Night Long with them.

ProfessorGAC

(75,224 posts)
11. Plate Of Shrimp
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 04:32 PM
Jul 2022

(Repo Man reference, there)
One of the songs I made every intermediate or advanced guitar student learn was "Shook Me".
It's not technically difficult, but has loads of "guitarisms" and requires smooth.
Weird that that song carries history for both of us.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
12. Lol, yeah really weird ...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 04:38 PM
Jul 2022

You, me, Master Sarge, DocReed, Glamrock ... nothing in common between us

IMHO success at YSMANL is very much about timing, palming, and strumming technique. And settling into the pocket.

I can play the rhythm line pretty decent as I'm good at those basics, but I can't really shred lead stuff at all. Never really learned, I was mostly into singing and strumming the acoustic to impress the ladies


gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
15. I had an incident where I was harassed at work and someone would actually sing this song
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 05:32 PM
Jul 2022

around me because they thought it was funny. Later, his wife showed up in the middle of our workday and began accusing him in front of everyone of being unfaithful. Go figure.
A great song that she does is Hell is for Children.

Novara

(6,115 posts)
6. Considering that more and more people are affected by violence ...
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 03:48 PM
Jul 2022

... and that includes gun violence and physical violence, i applaud her for doing this.

TheFarseer

(9,720 posts)
10. No one thinks that's about doing a school shooting
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 04:29 PM
Jul 2022

Kind of silly, but hey, it’s her concert.

ForgedCrank

(2,974 posts)
13. Seems to me that
Fri Jul 22, 2022, 04:47 PM
Jul 2022

it's nothing more than an attempt to make it about her band or attract attention. No one thinks her song is about mass shootings, and they never have.
But hey, whatever. It's her show. She gets to make any statement she wants.

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