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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 04:39 PM Jul 2022

Personally, I have just barely---most of the time---been able to manage my own life and

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will freely admit that I have no business making important life-impacting decisions for others.

I guess that's why I am a Democrat.

ADDENDUM: What I had in mind by "important life-impacting decisions" were personal decisions like what religion we SHOULD practice or whether a pregnancy should be terminated. We all make decisions for our children or elderly relatives and some of us have jobs where our decisions impact others, but none of us should be insisting that our decisions are the only correct ones.

Succinctly, I just meant to suggest that "MYOB" is a pretty good philosophy and would cure a lot of our ills.

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eppur_se_muova

(36,247 posts)
2. Now see, you should have chosen to be born to obscenely rich, power-entrenched parents.
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 04:45 PM
Jul 2022

That's the mistake so many people make. Then you would be free to decide everyone else's choices for them.

Magoo48

(4,698 posts)
5. To make a decision, first I must know:
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 05:00 PM
Jul 2022

Does it support our common welfare while protecting our home planet. Does it enhance and broaden our freedoms. If yes, I’m fer it. If no, I’m agin’ it.

erronis

(15,185 posts)
6. But I'm proud of our Democrats getting the ACA passed, and Social Security, etc.
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 05:42 PM
Jul 2022

I think the Democrats can be a very powerful force for good.

We tend to listen to multiple viewpoints and try to figure out the right course. That makes us seem a bit wishy-washy.

Unlike those that prefer a more authoritarian approach. Need I say republicon, libertarian, fascist, russian, or even religious zealotry?

sop

(10,106 posts)
13. I am a Democrat by process of elimination, because I believe some ideas are better than others.
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 07:12 PM
Jul 2022

Rebl2

(13,471 posts)
8. Well I have
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 06:09 PM
Jul 2022

had to make decisions for other people in recent years unfortunately. I have doubted myself, but knew it was my responsibility. It’s certainly not what I preferred, but it was my duty and responsibility. Have second guessed myself several times, but at least I have a couple of people who have backed my decisions.

Wounded Bear

(58,605 posts)
12. Nunya...whether some woman wants or needs an abortion is nunya business...
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 07:11 PM
Jul 2022

We're all better off if I don't butt in, and much better off if I don't let the government butt into what are important, life-affecting decisions women make. Let women seek whatever counseling they choose, but for god's sake, let her choose.

Goes for marriage, too, and a whole host of things.

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
14. I'm with you MYOB is a great philosophy.
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 07:22 PM
Jul 2022

Or live and let live. I have enough to worry about with my own life decisions. I see no need trying to impose my will on other people’s life choices.

NBachers

(17,083 posts)
15. I think the fact that I'm still here after all my lifetime of fuckups allows me to feel good about
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 07:26 PM
Jul 2022

simply making it this far. My "Survivor's Victory Lap" continues, at least 'till this day. Probably more by accident then by choice and good decision-making.

But one decision I'm consistently proud of is my lifetime affiliation with the Democratic Party.

stage left

(2,961 posts)
17. I've always said
Sat Jul 30, 2022, 08:09 PM
Jul 2022

that if the Republicans ever had political principles that I could align with, I'd vote for them. In the over fifty years of my voting life they never have. And now they don't have any principles at all.

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