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Pinback
(13,600 posts)Celebrating!
LAS14
(15,506 posts)The acceptance of gay marriage was one of the fastest, biggest changes in culture that I know of. Does anyone know of a change that was faster or bigger?
tia
las
grantcart
(53,061 posts)No other change happened so fast in my life time.
ShazzieB
(22,590 posts)That's wonderful!
grantcart
(53,061 posts)Fiendish Thingy
(23,236 posts)SergeStorms
(20,591 posts)You can bet nearly all - if not all - aren't going to be legislators come 2023.
This time the calendar acted as their spines. The republican party didn't develop 12 heroes overnight.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)
this misbegotten SCOTUS wants to take us.
I applaud the House and Senate. I shudder at what awaits us from the SCOTUS.
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)had something to do with it.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)black nationalislm, which would be more on the order of "The worse the better."
He's on record, before his appointment but repeatedly, of claiming the constitution is intractably and irreparably incompatible with black interests. AND, also repeatedly, that all laws that have been passed to advance black equality and rights have instead hurt them by making them weaker and LESS independent, MORE vulnerable to white exploitation, etc.
He's a far-right extremist who still stands out among far-right extremists on that court.
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)to support mixed-race marriage.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)obvious reason (to most people's thinking) comport with his belief that ALL laws like this hurt the black race by weakening them, etc? We're talking real antagonism expressed before he grabbed the SCOTUS golden ring that fortune so perversely offered to someone who despised the constitution?
To my mind, disapproving of protections of interracial marriage, voting rights, workplace equality, etc, for nonwhites, wouldn't be a rational, black-progressive position, but for anyone committed to racial equality and societal integration. But not everyone wants that, certainly not highly ethno/racial-centric X-nationalism adherents.
In a complex world of complex interactions, Thomas really might have given this a push. But it seems more likely that many members of congress, including on this committee, who are newly re-concerned about this issue in this bizarre era, didn't need it. In any case, Thomas is always worth discussing these days...!
soldierant
(9,354 posts)
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)yankee87
(2,825 posts)You are so right. Who knows how bad this rogue SCOTUS will take us back? Maybe bring back poll taxes and threaten a women's right to vote?
imavoter
(661 posts)But also doesn't surprise me.
However, at least it's done.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)beaglelover
(4,466 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Article 14 says we cannot be discriminated based on sex. States have gay marriage bans on the books that will kick in once obergfell gets taken down. Those bans will immediately come into play and we will no longer be able to get married in that state.
This law allows states to discriminate. Right now they can't. That's why it's a step back.
Edit - in addition, god forbid all 50 states decide to ban gay marriage, we are back to square 1. This doesn't actually protect gay marriage itself, it just forces states to recognize gay marriage, which they were already forced to under the full faith clause.
I know people are applauding it and it IS better than nothing, but any law that allows a state to discriminate is not a good law, IMO.
beaglelover
(4,466 posts)What you are describing above this new law will prevent in the event that the USSC overturns same sex marriage.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)If obergfell falls?
If obergfell falls, will those states that have bans of gay marriage in their constitutions still be forced to allow gay marriage?
beaglelover
(4,466 posts)The Respect for Marriage Act would require that people be considered married in any state as long as the marriage was valid in the state where it was performed.
The bill would also repeal the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, which defined marriage as the union of one man and one woman and allowed states to decline to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states. That law has remained on the books despite being declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Courts ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges.
So basically any state that bans gay marriage will be required to consider people to be married if they are married in a state where same sex marriage is valid. So, if Alabama, for example tried to ban gay marriage, a couple from Alabama could just get married in a state that does allow same sex marriage and Alabama would need to recognize their marriage as valid. So, there is really no point for any state to ban same sex marraige once this law passes. It would be pointless.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Those bans would immediately kick in, immediately stopping those states from giving same sex marriage licenses (note: i agree they will still have to *recognize* outside marriages)
Second, do you support women having to go to other states to get abortions, or do you think states should be forced to allow anyone have access to abortion care? If we agree with the statement "women shouldn't be forced to go to another state to get an abortion", how is it we agree with "gay people should be forced to go out of state to get married"?
beaglelover
(4,466 posts)So, no need for me to answer your question.
Also, you are assuming that the current same sex marriage SCOTUS ruling will be overturned. I don't believe that it will be in the long run.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)It's extremely disingenuine to deny *on this level* that there is a difference between the abortion ban and same sex marriage ban.
Both will force you to go out of state to get what you're after. It boggles my mind that anyone thinks that's acceptable. I guess gay people shouldn't care that their not considered equal in their state.
If obergefell doesn't get overturned then all of this will be moot, but then if you don't think obergefell will not get overturned, then what's the point of this law? Nothing because obergefell forces states to license gay marriages.
And if obergefell does get overturned, it's a blow to gay rights. Not as massive as it could be, but forcing gay people to go to other states shouldn't even be considered acceptable. It's removing us as being equals in that state. I can't believe people on here are for states denying gay marriage licenses. Again, it surprises me.
vanlassie
(6,248 posts)people having to go to other states to marry? Your question implies this. One can see the value in a law even if it is also not perfect.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)The protections are great but if I have to drive 3 states away to get married, what have I truly gained?
vanlassie
(6,248 posts)Progress is slow, but it is moving here in the right direction. Another chink in the wall. 🌈🌈🌈
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)It's the idea that I have it now, but tomorrow it could be gone. It's harder to have something and get it taken away then to not have had it at all, if that makes sense.
Cheers. Have a good week!
vanlassie
(6,248 posts)carpetbagger
(5,484 posts)I have a trans son in Florida who is marrying another trans man next year. In Massachusetts, so that Florida can't play games in the future ("oh, here's a typo, so you were never married"
. This is potentially helpful for him, both directly as well as indirectly by showing political power behind marriage equality.
On edit.. the difference with abortion is that marriage is typically less.urgent.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Noted.
I'm really disappointed rn based on responses here.
I have not fought for gay rights for 40 years just to be set back like this. This isn't the win people are making it out to be. This will literally set gay people back if obergefell gets tossed out. It will allow states to discriminate against us.
carpetbagger
(5,484 posts)If Obergefell is overturned, you and I and even lots of folks who don't hang out on leftist political chat boards will be pissed. The effect would be worse without this law in place.
We already lost the judiciary. Imperfect legislative action is a pale substitute, but there's not the votes in Congress for judicial expansion.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)I just wish people would recognize that it's not the 5 steps forward everyone thinks it is. Having a right and then having it taken away in 35 of the 50 states hurts
I know this is the best. I know this is what we have and we have to work with what we have. But that doesn't mean i cant mourn what I'm losing, which is 15 states will allow me to get married. 35 won't. That's not even half the states. Some people are going to have to go 2, 3 states over.
.I know, I know this is the best we can get. I know that. But it still hurts. It still hurts knowing today I can go get married. Tomorrow, that will get yanked away.
swimboy
(7,331 posts)You are right and I respect your tenacity in attempting to communicate the real situation to people who are angry that were not giddy with joy over such a flawed bill. They will try to exhaust us and it WILL be exhausting but we will do what we have to in order to get back to where we need to be.
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Demsrule86
(71,542 posts)This protects folks and yet you are against it? Very odd.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Does this law allow states to deny marriage licenses to gay people?
I'm not asking if they're forced to recognize, im asking if it allows states to discriminate and not give licenses out to same sex couples? Is that not the literal definition of discrimination?
IronLionZion
(51,268 posts)So if a red state bans gay marriage, you can go get married in a blue state and still enjoy all the legal rights and protections of marriage when you go back home to your red state.
They've included DC, Puerto Rico, and all US territories.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)IronLionZion
(51,268 posts)And now the federal government protects your marriage for the rest of your life no matter where you live.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)What about a gay couple who lives in the middle of Texas and makes barely minimum wage. It takes what, 8 hours from the middle of the state to get out of Texas.
Now, what happens when they haven't been able to get out of state to get married and one of them goes into he hospital or dies. The hospital can tell the partner that they aren't allowed because it technically isn't their "spouse".
I have 2 questions for you. Does this law, provided obergefell is struck down, allow states to not give marriage licenses out to gay couples? If yes, would that be considered discrimination based on the literal definition?
If both of those are yes, then this is allowing states to discriminate, correct? This is a step backwards from now because states are forced to give marriage licenses out. This law, again provided obergefell falls, will still allow states to deny us, even if they have to recognize out of state marriages.
I honestly don't get it. How this ISNT discrimination is beyond me. Telling a gay couple that they aren't allowed to get married in their state is discrimination. Just because the state is forced to recognize marriages from other states doesn't mean this isn't discriminatory.
Yoyoyo77
(320 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)We have the right to get married right now. Any state. Doesn't matter.
If obergefell goes down, states will then be able to discriminate by refusing to issue SSM licenses. I'm not sure how "forcing states to give SSM licenses" is worse than "states can refuse to give you a marriage license but they are forced to recognize it from out of state".
It's a step backwards. Right now we cannot be discriminated against by SC ruling. Going forward, this will allow them to discriminate.
Unless I'm missing something, this is a step back, not forward. Right now I'm not limited to any state for my marriage license. With this law, I will be. Is that not discrimination?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Please get your fallacies straight if you're going to argue about issues that you only care enough to complain on a message board about.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)I love how you can't answer my question about if this law will allow states to discriminate. You know I'm right.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)The answer is none. Your poor couple in rural Texas could walk into the JP today and get married.
So no, they aren't discriminated against. But you don't care about that poor couple either, as you've said you're too tired to try to change Texas's laws. I'd think that if you were so concerned about Obergfell being overturned, you'd be fighting those laws, instead you're fighting a law intended to protect marriage rights.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Demsrule86
(71,542 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)While allowing straight couples to get a marriage license isn't discriminatory?
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)It allows states to ban abortions and if you want one you have to go to another state.
How is that different than what's happening here IF obergefell falls? If you live in a state that bans gay marriage, you'll have to go to another state to get married. Is that actually different than the abortion ban? We all agree the way the abortion ban is handled isn't good yes?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Right now, the way this law is, *if* obergefell falls, states can now outlaw same sex marriage and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
Do you support allowing states to ban abortion OR gay marriage?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)When you are the one complaining about a federal law protecting your rights is being passed. But since you seem to think that laws dont protect rights Im not sure what you want.
You could try lobbying states with bans to get them changed instead of complaining about proactive positive action from the federal government.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)And just by your statements here, you support allowing gay people to be discriminated against in their state. Gay people shouldn't be forced to go to another state to get married. I said it elsewhere but it boggles my mind that people here are for allowing discrimination. States shouldn't be allowed to discriminate, even if they're forced to recognize out of state licenses. Do they do this with straight marriage? They don't right? So why should gay people be allowed to be discriminated against in their own states?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)So yes, you did in fact just attack me.
And you know what, states aren't allowed to discriminate right now. The best man at my wedding was a litigant in a case that went all the way to supreme court, and they ruled that gay marriage is protected. There was a lot of celebrating around it, you might remember.
They may in the future, which seems to be your concern, which is why the FEDERAL government is passing a law to PROTECT MARRIAGES.
Maybe you can enlighten us all as to a state that you are not allowed to get married in? I'm curious. Then perhaps you can explain why you are complaining about federal actions and not trying to change that state's laws.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Obergefell right now forces states to not just recognize but also *license* SSM.
if obergefell is struck down, but this law is there, are states then allowed to discriminate against SSM by not forcing them to provide licenses to same sex couples? Yes or no?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)You're arguing based on something that hasn't happened. And again, why aren't you trying to overturn laws in the states that have them on the books?
Might be a better use of your time than attacking allies.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Are you saying that the supreme court hasn't already discussed the gay marriage protection and repealing it? Do you know there's already a case winding it's way through the courts now?
https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2022/07/21/tracking-the-texas-lawsuits-that-target-lgbt-rights-after-the-fall-of-roe-vs-wade/
But I guess now that we have a law saying that's states can discriminate against us as long as they recognize outside licenses. They don't do that for straight people but I guess I should just be happy for any scraps I get, no matter how far back it sets us.
these are the states that will allow bans on gay marriage if obergefell gets struck down
https://www.pewtrusts.org/en/research-and-analysis/blogs/stateline/2022/07/07/without-obergefell-most-states-would-have-same-sex-marriage-bans
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)If you are so concerned about minimum wage couples in Texas who have to drive 800 miles to get married, I'd think you'd want to do something to change that - but apparently you don't have the energy.
And that tells me everything about your concern.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)I've been a gay rights activist for 40 years. I've been on national TV. I've led protests.
I'm not the one you want to come after for gay rights issues.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I am concerned. I see this is an important step in protecting their rights. You have said that (despite 40 years of activism) you won't fight for the rights in those states.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)That doesn't make you an expert on gay marriage, nor does it give you any fuckin knowledge into the possibilities of what could happen.
You are straight up refusing to acknowledge that there are court cases going through to the SC now. You are refusing to recognize that NO ONE will ever get Texas to remove their fucking ban on SSM. and your arguments are disingenuous, to say the least.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)You've asserted that this law takes those rights away. FALSE.
You've said there are poor couples in rural Texas who CAN'T get married. FALSE.
I've even provided a pretty smart way to ensure those rights are protected. You don't want to use your "40 years of activism" because you're tired. Fine, go take a nap while people are losing the rights you care so much about.
Yeah, Obergfell may get overturned (although I'm not 100% convinced it will, I defintely see the risk). You don't seem to care about doing anything except bitching about a law that a Democratic Congress got passed by a fucking miracle. You care so much about it that you're spamming every thread to complain about how awful it is that Democrats are passing gay rights.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Sorry I'm not omnipotent and can't be everywhere all at once. And don't think you know Jack shit about my life. You have no clue.
Ask your buddy you were best man for if he's nervous. Ask him what he thinks of this bill. I bet you hell say the same thing I am.
"You don't seem to care...." Blah blah blah Don't assume to know anything about me. You know nothing.
As for "spamming" I've posted in 3 posts total about this.
I'm not even unhappy about the law ffs. I just don't think it goes far enough. And here you are attacking ME because I'm scared of what this could lead to. At this point you're just an ass trying to make an argument for arguments sake. Nowhere once did I say I disapproved of this bill. I have just said it doesn't go far enough. That's it.
God forbid I have a fucking opinion on a bill that literally affects my life.
I thought this place was going to be at least a partial safe haven from the rest of the internet. I thought this could be a "safe space" so I wouldn't get attacked for being fuckin nervous about my rights. Thanks for showing me just how wrong I was.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)"I don't have the energy to go to all 35 states and fight their gay marriage bans"
I've seen nothing in any of your posts to indicate you "aren't unhappy" about the law. All you've done is call it a step backwards and assert that your rights will be taken away by it.
Right now the only people who can take those rights away are the Supreme Court, not a law passed by a Democratic Congress that will be signed by Biden.
My suggestion is that if you want to talk about the problems with this, maybe don't accuse people celebrating its passage of supporting gay marriage bans, tell them it's a step backwards and taking away your rights - because it is none of those things.
And I will agree that it doesn't go far enough, that's pretty much the problem of having to compromise to pass bills. But it absolutely is NOT a step backwards - there are a lot of people who would lose a lot more than the right to get married if Obergfell is overturned and this law is not in place, you seem to only be concerned with that one portion. Marriage rights are a lot more than being able to get a piece of paper - and all those rights will be protected once Biden signs this.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)What do you think I can do for those 35 states? Do you think I can just rotate out every other day to a new state to petition they get their gay marriage bans overturned?
If I can get married now in any state but if obergefell is tossed, now states can discriminate against me, how is that not backwards. Yes we will be protected federally which is why I said it's a half step backwards.
I don't even get why this is so hard to understand. And if by chance obergefell DOESNT get overturned then this law is moot.
I wasn't aware that pointing out flaws in a law was such a crime. Seriously. I'm just conversing on the shortcomings of it. I'm happy it's in but, even as you said here, it doesn't go far enough. Hence why in my original post I said "this isn't the win everyone thinks it is " because, and you appear to agree with me here, it doesn't protect gay marriage itself. It doesn't protect our right to get married in any state. Yes it protects rights from one state to another, but it's still allowing states to discriminate.
Like I said I really thought this was going to be a better place. I asked you if you supported a gay marriage ban. I didnt even accuse you of shit. Don't put fucking words in my mouth. If you don't, say "no I dont but this is why the law is good". My response would have been "do you see my concern?" Instead you jumped right to attacking based on a perceived comment that I didn't even make.
And then you ridicule me because I AM concerned about my rights. God forbid I don't just worship at the alter of the "protect marriage Act". Sorry if I find flaws in things and point them out. Again, I wasn't aware that discussing a law that affects me is such a fucking travesty. Never, NEVER once did I say this is a terrible thing that was passed. I didnt even insinuate that - because I'm glad it's there. I'm just saying states will be able to discriminate.
You judge me a FUCKTON for a)things I didn't say, b) perceived slights where I wasn't trying to slight you but ask you a genuine fucking question to clarify your statements and c) being scared of my rights when we just fucking got them not even 10 years ago!
I had to go to Iowa to get married because it wasn't legal everywhere. I know what it's like to have to go out of state to get a marriage license. I've protested for marriage equality in DC. I've been here. For decades. And I shouldn't have to provide my fucking activist cred just to point out flaws in a law.
swimboy
(7,331 posts)You are not listening. You are not hearing a real and valid concern we have for ourselves and our community. Do you consider yourself a LGBTQ+ ally? You are exhausting a person with your refusal to understand their issue and then tasking them with fixing the problem you have been belittling. The issue is real. It is not your issue, but it is real. Try to recognize it or at least stop browbeating the persons it affects. Thank you.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(24,681 posts)When that time expires, there is a baby born.
If you want to get married, and have to go to another state to do it, there is no such urgency, normally.
Except for that, yes it's very similar to the abortion ban.
The bill could have made same-sex marriage available in every state. That would have been better, clearer. I don't think it would have gotten sixty votes. Take the win.
beaglelover
(4,466 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)States to discriminate against gay people. If we cannot get the same protection for marriage as straight people, we aren't equal, and it's discrimination. Giving them an out by saying "you can go to another state" is literally allowing those states to discriminate. It just shocks me that here, we applaud allowing discrimination.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Don't take my word for it, here's a list
https://www.pewtrusts.org/en/research-and-analysis/blogs/stateline/2022/07/07/without-obergefell-most-states-would-have-same-sex-marriage-bans
If obergefell falls, states will then be allowed to utilize the bans on SSM in their state, regardless of them being forced to recognize licenses from outside the state. By allowing them the out of not providing SSM licenses, is that or is that not discrimination?
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Come back to me when Obergfell is overturned and complain. Until then, why not try to change those state laws?
You don't seem to have an answer to that simple action.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)I guess since you don't think obergefell will be overturned, I have nothing to worry about.
Must be nice not to have your rights threatened. Must be nice to not have to worry about you not being able to marry your partner in the state you live in. Must be nice to see court cases winding their way through the court system and not worry about your rights.
You're right. I'm just overreacting. Like all those who said the abortion SC ruling wouldn't get struck down but then it did.
I'm not going to sit around and wait until obergefell gets struck down. And your insinuation that all I'm doing is arguing on here is absolutely asinine. You don't know me and you don't know my history. You don't know what I have and haven't fought. And you really don't know, apparently, what it's like to have your rights threatened.
Fuck outta here. In done with your disingenuous BS.
Demsrule86
(71,542 posts)Would protect existing marriages. That is important and I dont understand your problem with the bill
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)I'm just pointing out that it doesn't go far enough.
Today I can get married in any state. Tomorrow I may only be relegated to getting married in 15 states. (35 states have it in their constitution that gay marriage is banned).
I'm gaining some protections (and good ones!), but I'm losing the literal ability to get married in 35 states. 35 states is a lot of states. For someone in some states, they will have to basically fly to even be able to get married. Or a multi day drive.
That's why I think it's a step back. What good is federal protections if I have to drive over 2 or 3 states just to get married?
swimboy
(7,331 posts)Were pointing out that there will be fifty water fountains and that we will be restricted to drinking from one of only fifteen. Youre saying thats good enough. Were saying its discrimination.
Think how happy this makes Rowan County, Kentucky Clerk Kim Davis when she can once again deny marriage licenses to same-sex couples. She should be happy, right? Not the same-sex couple?
Have sit-down-and-chat with your ability to empathize.
Zeitghost
(4,557 posts)Is the situation worse or better with the passage of this law?
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Zeitghost
(4,557 posts)Obviously if Obergefell falls, things are worse.
But if it does fall, would things be better if this legislation were passed or not?
Ohio Joe
(21,898 posts)demmiblue
(39,720 posts)The 12 GOP yes votes were:
Blunt (MO)
Burr (NC)
Capito (WV)
Collins (ME)
Ernst (IA)
Lummis (WY)
Murkowski (AK)
Portman (OH)
Romney (UT)
Sullivan (AK)
Tillis (NC)
Young (IN)
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AllyCat
(18,842 posts)Tillis? Ernst?
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)rehab her toxicity.
KPN
(17,377 posts)AZLD4Candidate
(6,780 posts)Being married to a Chinese woman, I can't understand that.
IronLionZion
(51,268 posts)and has been open about wanting to overturn the gay marriage ruling, which could easily impact interracial marriage in some backwards red states. Unless he wants an excuse to leave Ginni.
Zeitghost
(4,557 posts)So he feels comfortable voting against anything that is pro gay marriage.
Unlike abortion or gay marriage, reversing protections for interracial marriage won through the courts (Loving) isn't likely to result in any State's reviving old bans. No State legislature is going to pass one in 2022.
wryter2000
(47,940 posts)I've been going crazy trying to figure out which Rs might vote for this. A few I would have guessed and a few surprises. Good on them all.
Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)Alexander Of Assyria
(7,839 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(179,869 posts)Captain Stern
(2,253 posts)Great that it passed.
But shameful that in 2022 there even has to be a vote held about this....and that it didn't pass unanimously.
onetexan
(13,913 posts)onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)ShazzieB
(22,590 posts)
niyad
(132,440 posts)honest.abe
(9,238 posts)jaxexpat
(7,794 posts)How novel. Will the nation survive?
FreeState
(10,702 posts)Its been amended to the point where this gay man thinks its not even worth it.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)Forcing someone to go out of state to get an abortion is bad, but apparently forcing gay people to go to another state to get married isn't bad.
It doesn't compute in my head, personally.
FreeState
(10,702 posts)This is one party attempting to paint a pretty picture for the LGBT community and everyone here falls for it. This is not the support we need from our party. This law does nothing but give religions more rights should Obergefell v. Hodges be overturned.
BrienDoesIt
(93 posts)35 states have gay marriage bans on the books. If obergefell gets overturned, some people may have to fly or drive 2 or 3 states over to get the protections that this law is providing. Right now you don't have to go to any other state. What good are federal protections if you can't even get off work to go get married?
Thank you.
DonCoquixote
(13,961 posts)this is not a substitute for Hodges, it is at best, first aid for the wounds inflicted. That begin said, if getting first aid keeps you live ong enough to get to the er.
So is it good, no...but it is something we had to do while the iron was hot so that we could keep the proverbial patient alive until we can get more supreme court justices. Is first aid better than full surgery, no, but when you are bleeding, it buys time.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)FreeState
(10,702 posts)This law is aimed at if the Supreme Court turns it over. The only thing it does is make it so that other states must recognize the marriage (which is already settled federal law outside of Obergefell v. Hodges and faces no serious threat).
AllyCat
(18,842 posts)We are, sadly, just property to half our elected bodies.
onetexan
(13,913 posts)littlemissmartypants
(33,588 posts)James48
(5,215 posts)It should read
Thirty-seven republicans vote in favor of a ban on interracial marriage.
TNNurse
(7,541 posts)Marsha is a known idiot and Haggerty has never had an original thought of his own. He apparently just does what she does.
Hermit-The-Prog
(36,631 posts)The Squirrel-Who-Lives-On-Random-Piles also voted against it, but that (alleged) senator from Kentucky votes against anything that might help a human being.
catbyte
(39,152 posts)Now, if enough of them would just acknowledge that we women have brains and let us make our own healthcare decisions and if they'd shore up the VRA, I'd really be like:

Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)Need reproductive rights protected.
I cannot believe I am living in 2022 and going through the same shit I saw in my 20s waaaaaaaaay back when.
Wounded Bear
(64,324 posts)KPN
(17,377 posts)Warpy
(114,615 posts)And did he actually get up and start talking? No? For the love of all that is decent, Democrats, end that damned idiocy. IF you can't talk Manchin and Sinema into ending it, talk them into a hiatus that can be reviewed when the new Senate is eated in 2 years.
I'm sick of having Republican sacks of filth able to hold every piece of legislation that comes in front of them hostage to their egos.
I heard it was Grassley. Cant verify, but dont think that would shock anyone. Thanks to the 12 Republican senators who seem to be starting to grow something resembling a spine.
Warpy
(114,615 posts)Some things just defy any explanation.
DET
(2,499 posts)And hes THEIR useless old fossil.
MayReasonRule
(4,099 posts)Mitt Romney, Joni Ernst, Cynthia Lummis, Roy Blunt, Shelley Moore Capito, Lisa Murkowski, Rob Portman, Dan Sullivan, Thom Tillis, Todd Young, Susan Collins.
AZLD4Candidate
(6,780 posts)MayReasonRule
(4,099 posts)He voted against providing marriage equality for reality's rainbow of love.
McConnell is a Nat-C turd.
May he get flushed like the turd he is.
Samrob
(4,298 posts)AllaN01Bear
(29,493 posts)moose65
(3,454 posts)Save your thanks to them until after the bill passes. What they voted on here was to end debate on the bill.
I assume, for final passage, that the bill only needs 51 votes. So some of these Republicans could still vote No on the bill itself.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)If its overturned. You can't get married unless you go to another state to do so? A lot of people can't afford to drive over state lines to get married, the same way they can't drive to get an abortion. So I don't understand how its a good thing outside of protecting marriages that exist currently. Its putting hurdles in the way for future couples that wanna get married.
moniss
(9,056 posts)for some background and also it's true that what was the "norm" in the US at the time was that a marriage might be recognized in one state but then if you move or simply travel to another state that doesn't recognize (in this example an interracial marriage) you could run into all kinds of trouble if you tried to register at a motel, buy real estate, file taxes etc. It all really is a legacy of Jim Crow.
republianmushroom
(22,326 posts)PlutosHeart
(1,445 posts)So my 25 yr. marriage to an Indigenous man is now legally protected as if it was not before? How far behind are we as a species? Pffft*
Am glad about same sex marriages being protected though.
Zeitghost
(4,557 posts)This did nothing to change the current legal status of your relationship, for the better or worse. It just puts some basic safeguards in place in case future court decisions undermine previous decisions.
moniss
(9,056 posts)that the GQP is banking on their SC pals to find a reason to knock down whatever is passed and signed into law.