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Bobstandard

(1,303 posts)
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 10:59 AM Nov 2022

Admit it, you're going to end up at a bar tonight

I tended bar at place with live rock and roll mist every night. We battened down the hatches for thanksgiving night. It seems that at some decent interval after the Thanksgiving meal is completed, many folks decide they just have to get out of the house. A large number of them would end up drinking and dancing at our bar. In fact, we could count on it being as big a night as New Years.

The vibe was different than New Year’s Eve too. New Years revealers have planned their night out and prepared fo it they arrived a little desperate for a good time. The Thanksgiving folks were often surprised to find themselves at a bar. They arrived with a sense of escape and relief from the strictures of their Thanksgiving dinner/day experience. They felt free to cut loose a bit more than on a usual night out. Beer, wine, and spirits flowed like a river. The dance floor never emptied and the tips were the best of the year. Folks had a gas.

So if you find yourself a little restive when dinner concludes and find yourself edging to the door to make your way to a favorite watering hole, don’t feel guilty. Your participating in another-but lesser known-Thanksgiving tradition. And traditions are important.

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Admit it, you're going to end up at a bar tonight (Original Post) Bobstandard Nov 2022 OP
They are just celebrating genxlib Nov 2022 #1
Some drink to remember, some drink to forget. Chainfire Nov 2022 #2
:) Some to get away from yet more football games. Hortensis Nov 2022 #11
I have a date with my easy chair and the TV LakeArenal Nov 2022 #3
We sometimes went walking to get some exercise, tavernier Nov 2022 #4
I can confidently say that I will not. tanyev Nov 2022 #5
I can also say confidently that I will not. SlimJimmy Nov 2022 #20
DC in the early 80s bpj62 Nov 2022 #6
meeting friends back in town was the reason I went out afterwards. maxsolomon Nov 2022 #10
we used to go bowling afterwards samnsara Nov 2022 #7
every bowling alley maxsolomon Nov 2022 #9
Bowling is the great American sport: PCIntern Nov 2022 #18
Well I never go to bars, so.... NT Happy Hoosier Nov 2022 #8
Thank you! There are so many that can relate .. stopdiggin Nov 2022 #12
While bartenders pour, some drink to seek the safety of strangers to pour their hearts out. ancianita Nov 2022 #13
In holidays past, after early dining, cleanup, relaxing, some of our gals would Hortensis Nov 2022 #14
I quit drinking four years ago, so no bif Nov 2022 #15
Around Here... ProfessorGAC Nov 2022 #16
I like to be sitting in a seedy card room playing really low stakes poker, high on oxy and meth Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #17
I like congenial bars with live music. But I've never been to one on Thanksgiving, and highplainsdem Nov 2022 #19
in my misspent but fun youth....hell yeah.... bahboo Nov 2022 #21

genxlib

(5,524 posts)
1. They are just celebrating
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 11:06 AM
Nov 2022

Surviving another holiday with that MAGA cousin.

I don't blame people for cutting loose after the organized chaos of big family gatherings

LakeArenal

(28,809 posts)
3. I have a date with my easy chair and the TV
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 11:13 AM
Nov 2022

When I was in college tho….. couldn’t wait to get out and see who else is home from school

tavernier

(12,374 posts)
4. We sometimes went walking to get some exercise,
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 11:14 AM
Nov 2022

and sometimes took in a movie. We had an ice skating rink in town that was popular too. I have nothing against bar drinking but we never did on Thanksgiving. Mostly everyone had imbibed too much food and drink earlier in the day. But dancing would have been a great way to shed the overage as well. But then, I grew up in a religious Dutch town in Michigan, and there was only one bar and it was closed on holidays. And it certainly never saw any rock ‘n’ roll bands, lol.

SlimJimmy

(3,180 posts)
20. I can also say confidently that I will not.
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 02:18 PM
Nov 2022

I might have a drink a few times a year, but Thanksgiving is not one of them.

bpj62

(999 posts)
6. DC in the early 80s
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 11:23 AM
Nov 2022

Worked at a bar in Georgetown in the early 80s for a few years and Thanksgiving night was always a busy night. It was a combination of people wanting out after a long day with family and friends home from college. Lot of fun.

maxsolomon

(33,265 posts)
10. meeting friends back in town was the reason I went out afterwards.
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 11:54 AM
Nov 2022

Friday night is big for that, too.

Of course, our ridiculous drinking laws make that untenable until junior year.

stopdiggin

(11,285 posts)
12. Thank you! There are so many that can relate ..
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 12:35 PM
Nov 2022

A true oracle of the human condition - and interaction. I'll be with you in spirit! Be safe!

ancianita

(36,009 posts)
13. While bartenders pour, some drink to seek the safety of strangers to pour their hearts out.
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 12:35 PM
Nov 2022

A bar holiday tradition. I was once a 4 o'clock bartender, too.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
14. In holidays past, after early dining, cleanup, relaxing, some of our gals would
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 12:42 PM
Nov 2022

leave the guys and others, behind with the football games and kids, to go dancing. Tradition, as you say, though maybe not one meant to last forever.

ProfessorGAC

(64,957 posts)
16. Around Here...
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 01:11 PM
Nov 2022

...it was the night before that was the big club night.
I probably played the Wednesday before Thanksgiving 22 or 23 times in 25 years.
Places were always packed.
Never played on Thanksgiving day, though.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
17. I like to be sitting in a seedy card room playing really low stakes poker, high on oxy and meth
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 01:38 PM
Nov 2022

with a bunch of strangers on Thanksgiving Night, myself.

Oh, wait ... that was rock-bottom like 20 years ago, I forgot.

Turns out, it sucked.

highplainsdem

(48,957 posts)
19. I like congenial bars with live music. But I've never been to one on Thanksgiving, and
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 01:53 PM
Nov 2022

I had no idea that bars are usually packed on Thanksgiving evenings.

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