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Nevilledog

(55,073 posts)
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 04:01 PM Dec 2022

Pregnant and desperate in post-Roe America

https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/interactive/2022/pregnant-post-roe-america-abortion/

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https://archive.ph/QDVtK

It’s a moment of panic that has played out again and again for people in more than a dozen states since the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade in June.

Once they find out they’re pregnant, there isn’t much time to act. The closest open abortion clinics that once offered next-day appointments are now often fully booked three, four, even five weeks in advance. Pills purchased online can take up to a month to arrive.

Every day, the fetus gets a little bigger — and the anxiety builds.

In polarized, post-Roe America, the experiences that draw widespread attention are often the most harrowing: a 10-year-old rape victim forced to leave her state to end her pregnancy, or a woman denied an abortion for a fetus without a skull.

Often lost in the discussion are the more routine stories. The mother of two who can’t afford a third child. The teenager who can’t tell her parents she’s pregnant. The 25-year-old who isn’t ready to be a mom.

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Pregnant and desperate in post-Roe America (Original Post) Nevilledog Dec 2022 OP
Wait...women & girls are "people"? CousinIT Dec 2022 #1
K&R Solly Mack Dec 2022 #2
Oh my god, that final story. K&R. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2022 #3
This is how it used to be back in the day. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #4
Every person who has a working system of female sex organs and is sexualy littlemissmartypants Dec 2022 #6
Yes. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #7
it is truly disheartening to witness the cruelty against women and they want more. Evolve Dammit Dec 2022 #10
The cruelty shows the male rage and also it is by design. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #11
and take back the right to vote. They really hate that. Women are way more competent IMHO. Evolve Dammit Dec 2022 #12
The US Supreme Court is using a 17th century legal view of women in their rulings. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #14
Unfathomable even 4 years ago; now completely a focus for the right wing scum. Evolve Dammit Dec 2022 #15
Progress we took for granted is disappearing right in front of our eyes. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #16
Yup, great advice. nt LittleGirl Dec 2022 #8
"get a grip."?!! OMG. Duppers Dec 2022 #19
Those of us who lived it know what it is going to be like. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #5
time for people to work local politics Tickle Dec 2022 #9
Yes, an alternative system where women can receive proper care. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #13
I wonder what would happen if legal states started airdropping abortion drugs. roamer65 Dec 2022 #17
Governors like DeSantis would shoot down the planes. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #21
Then we could bomb Florida! roamer65 Dec 2022 #22
US Civil War II Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #23
This makes me proud of Michigan and to be a Michigander. roamer65 Dec 2022 #18
The Extreme Court is responsible for every evil resulting from their twisted ruling. Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2022 #24
Post-Roe America. Kath2 Dec 2022 #25

CousinIT

(12,519 posts)
1. Wait...women & girls are "people"?
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 04:44 PM
Dec 2022

I think to the reproductive slavery promoters, they are not. They are incubators on legs.

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
4. This is how it used to be back in the day.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 05:20 PM
Dec 2022

I tried to explain it, but was told to "get a grip."
People could not believe what I was saying.

Now we shall see first hand what life is like under a patriarchy which devalues women.

littlemissmartypants

(33,424 posts)
6. Every person who has a working system of female sex organs and is sexualy
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 06:24 PM
Dec 2022

Active needs to start an unwanted pregnancy piggy bank and double up on their birth control, if they can still get it.

Heaven help the people who are happily pregnant until something tragic happens to complicate their health and that of the fetus.

And I guess we need to start doubling down on self defense knowledge and start locking up as many creepy uncles, brothers, fathers, grandpaws, neighbors and randos we can to try and make pregnancy by rape and incest less likely but I'm not holding my breath for this.

Men need to be forced to be accountable for their pregnancies and I mean that they participate in creating. We need a law to that effect. And we need to fix whatever is wrong with the child support system in this country.

People will die. WTF is this world coming to?
I'll never understand it.

❤️

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
7. Yes.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 06:31 PM
Dec 2022

Unwanted pregnancies are a crisis now.

Wanted pregnancies with medical complications are a crisis now.

Women need to be prepared.

Yes men hare half the reproductive equation but totally off the hook.

I never thought I would see women's rights go back to the 19th century.

I understand it. Men are obviously very threatened by the progress women have made.
Time to end all of that, and get women back trapped in the home again.

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
11. The cruelty shows the male rage and also it is by design.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:01 PM
Dec 2022

Men are apparently outraged and furious that women have succeeded so well in a system designed by men for men.
And that women want to be treated with respect.

The cruelty is specifically used to terrorize a group into compliance and submission.
To stun the group, keep them off balance and docile.

Evolve Dammit

(21,766 posts)
12. and take back the right to vote. They really hate that. Women are way more competent IMHO.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:06 PM
Dec 2022

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
14. The US Supreme Court is using a 17th century legal view of women in their rulings.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:12 PM
Dec 2022

Going back hundreds of years when women were basically only property with no rights at all.

Tells us the current GOP goals for women.

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
20. Those of us who lived it know what it is going to be like.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 09:40 PM
Dec 2022

The younger folks cannot wrap their heads around it yet.

Response to Nevilledog (Original post)

 

Tickle

(4,131 posts)
9. time for people to work local politics
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 06:39 PM
Dec 2022

and start changing state laws on abortion. For now those states that don't allow abortion then girls/women must travel to other states. Hopefully there is some mechanism in place so the person wanting the abortion gets help in going to another state.

Irish_Dem

(81,175 posts)
13. Yes, an alternative system where women can receive proper care.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:07 PM
Dec 2022

A system is needed for women so they can receive reproductive and medical care.

We now live in a country where state governments order health care providers not to treat critically ill women.

roamer65

(37,950 posts)
17. I wonder what would happen if legal states started airdropping abortion drugs.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:33 PM
Dec 2022

Would it help?

roamer65

(37,950 posts)
18. This makes me proud of Michigan and to be a Michigander.
Thu Dec 1, 2022, 07:45 PM
Dec 2022

I am proud of what we did on November 8th.

It’s now a woman’s right to choose in our state…again.

December 23rd It becomes LAW.

Hermit-The-Prog

(36,631 posts)
24. The Extreme Court is responsible for every evil resulting from their twisted ruling.
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 02:26 AM
Dec 2022

This is what happens when logic, law, precedent and the U.S. Constitution are ignored in order to force-feed an extremist ideology on the nation. There will be ripple effects throughout every aspect of society for years to come.

Kath2

(3,192 posts)
25. Post-Roe America.
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 01:34 PM
Dec 2022

It is a dark and dangerous place for millions of women and girls.

The pro-choice side has saved more lives than “pro-life” ever will.

Damn them!

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