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(80,288 posts)wow, just wow!!!!
Igel
(37,516 posts)Somebody I'd never heard of had died. And she seemed oddly emotional. (This was my mother. She'd yell, shun, but be sentimental? Nah. Except for the news.)
I understand my parents and more as I age. I only really remember them in great detail when I was nearing my teens. Meaning I saw them reflected in myself when my kid turned 10 or 11, as far as parent-child relations are concerned. But for extra-familial relationships? The age of teens and celebrity icons was a bit greater then. I'm hitting that now. Rock singers, actors, politicians, various other celebrity types ... Dropping like flies. There was the Great Die-off from the older members of my former church, and the leading edge of my high school class.
Makes you feel really old. You see those 10, 15, 20 years ahead of you dying off and you can start a kind of count down.
Codifer
(1,205 posts)no_hypocrisy
(54,876 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️
Duppers
(28,469 posts)Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, one of the country's best.
Strange how religion goes out the windows when it come down to trying to actually survive.
hlthe2b
(113,824 posts)and she seemed really off the charts politically. But sorry to see her lost to cancer.
But my SIL wasn't a Scientologist and died years earlier in her struggle against cancer than Alley.
Didn't always approve of her, but I always appreciated her. She managed to get my mother to accept a caregiver when nobody else could--and that made the difference between having cops haul her off to "assisted living" against her will and not. Forced to move would have destroyed my mom. I owe her, but can never repay her. Oddly, I don't think she'd be okay with repayment.
At the same time, she was church treasurer for her Episcopal church. After years of fundraising to build a church building, a year after it opened the church split. The official church changed doctrine and her "heretical but faithful" group split off. The result was that the congregation was too small to pay utilities and grounds-keeping, and a few months later the building was put up for sale, to benefit "central office." Her new but same church started a new building fund. She forgave those she thought heretics--after all, a heretic is somebody who starts and promotes a faction at odds with historical precedent, and that was clearly "central office"--power and privilege wins most of the time. In her view, the heretics won. And she moved on. Only to die a year or so later, her will asking that large donation from her estate be donated to the building fund.
I attended a church that met at libitum of other groups. A grange met on some night? We met on Shabbat. Conveniently, almost always when they needed their hall a 7th-day group didn't observe the same day as sabbath. In the days before email and texts, it was totally possible to show up and find that it was a different group at the grange or meeting hall and wonder where you were to be. There were limitations on storage, on what was on the walls (invariably there'd be things opposed to our doctrines on the wall). We'd haul things every week, cover things every week. Kludges abounded.
Wasn't close to my SIl, who died at 72 but I still really miss her. As does my brother.
Takket
(23,699 posts)Hope she rests in peace.
Wrath of Khan is one of my all time favorite movies
Earth-shine
(4,044 posts)>> Wrath of Khan is one of my all time favorite movies
Yup! I got my 4k blu ray disk.
JHB
(38,169 posts)She was up and coming, and was worried about being locked into that one role, so the way she could depart with everyone saving face was "we just couldn't come to an agreement about money. No harm, no foul, no hard feelings, just couldn't come to an agreement."
Takket
(23,699 posts)I actually had a crush on Curtis. Preferred her to Alley as Saavik. Loved her as Tallera in Next Generation's Gambit too. I have an autographed photo of her which I bought from a dealer at a convention (never met her in person)
Earth-shine
(4,044 posts)This was one of her first cons. She was overwhelmed and a bit afraid of all the attention.
I got to talking with her. Somehow, she started to trust me. I led her around for about half an hour helping her to find her way to the next event. She thanked me. It was a real thank you.
In the movies, she looks like she's 6ft tall and could beat up a Klingon. In reality, about 5'2" if I recall. Quite petite.
Takket
(23,699 posts)I went to a con, geez i can't even remember where exactly, somewhere outside NYC in the late 90s. I didn't get into Trek until the early 90s.
KS Toronado
(23,727 posts)When I meet her mid 70s in Wichita I was impressed at how tall she was until I noticed she had on real tall
high heels. But she was 5ft 7/8 inches barefooted, and pretty average sized.
Igel
(37,516 posts)Surprising, that. Had had a mild crush on her when I was much younger.
Also on the Star Trek character.
Surprise! They're the same woman!
Oddly, preferred her in Vulcan-face.
debm55
(60,307 posts)Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(135,446 posts)Iggo
(49,912 posts)W_HAMILTON
(10,328 posts)Time has just been flying by lately (read: past two decades for me, heh).
a kennedy
(35,918 posts)I didnt like her on Cheers, and her politics really stunk.
Xavier Breath
(6,637 posts)As to her acting, I watched Cheers until the very end, but I just never could warm to her character. In retrospect I probably never wanted to.
Her only sin on that show was following Shelley, and IMHO she was never quite able to fill those shoes.
a kennedy
(35,918 posts)Solly Mack
(96,913 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)It took my grandparents and an uncle. My dad had prostate cancer but it was caught early and hes thought to be cured.
Solly Mack
(96,913 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)Youre an important voice on DU.
Solly Mack
(96,913 posts)Nah. I'm just an old timer is all. Every now and then I get dusted.
Solomon
(12,643 posts)Solly Mack
(96,913 posts)It's an ugly disease.
Duppers
(28,469 posts)littlemissmartypants
(33,290 posts)Solly Mack
(96,913 posts)I'm glad you're a survivor.
littlemissmartypants
(33,290 posts)Response to edbermac (Original post)
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Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)TheProle
(3,980 posts)Ocelot II
(130,420 posts)Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)hamsterjill
(17,557 posts)Really crappy.
SCantiGOP
(14,714 posts)Bet youll get quite a few of those, Illuminist.
The Grand Illuminist
(2,037 posts)Just got to look back.
debm55
(60,307 posts)WarGamer
(18,590 posts)Sounded like you were calling her a sub-human...
Or untermensch as the Germans used to say? Ja?
The Grand Illuminist
(2,037 posts)But politics has always been deeply personal for me and my family. I get diarrhea of the mouth at times. Apologies to all offended.
hamsterjill
(17,557 posts)I did not agree with her politics but I can still feel badly that she was sick and died. Should we be laughing that her children mourn?
I dont think youre going to get many to agree with you on your post.
LenaBaby61
(6,991 posts)Yes, she said some pretty rotten and hideous things on twitter about Dems et al. I hope she gets a better send off than RBG got when she died. Many reich-wingers were practically celebrating and giddy over RBG's death on Twitter (and some still are believe it or not), and I can only imagine the fights on there tonight with Musk the clown bringing back white nationalists, and people who daily pray for Pres. Biden to die (Boebert is one of them, and she gets away with it of course), and those who are in the same camp with holocaust deniers.
I hate cancer though .....
Ohio Joe
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SergeStorms
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UTUSN
(77,700 posts)Lunabell
(7,309 posts)Kennah
(14,578 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Grumpy Old Guy
(4,307 posts)She was a guest on a show I was stage managing in the mid eighties. She was very nice, and we had an interesting conversation waiting for the show to go on the air. R.I.P.
Liberal In Texas
(16,253 posts)I f'ing hate cancer.
It took my wonderful doggie of 12 years from me last week.
niyad
(132,184 posts)send peace and comfort to the grieving loved ones.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby.
ismnotwasm
(42,674 posts)RIP. She was funny before she became a right wing bigot.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Cheers was part of our must-see-TV Thursday evenings when my friends and I were in college. That was our weekly study break, before we pulled all-nighters to get the problem sets done by Friday morning. We all bonded around the show, especially because we were living in Back Bay at the time.
Can't believe she was 71. Where does the time go?
Celerity
(54,326 posts)Norbert
(7,749 posts)When she replaced Shelly Long on Cheers I quit watching it about 3 episodes in.
Omaha Steve
(109,115 posts)He just went through this with Olivia Newton John.
iluvtennis
(21,496 posts)Catherine Vincent
(34,610 posts)Tarc
(10,601 posts)I cannot muster sympathy anymore for people with hate in their souls.
She wont be missed at least not by me. Im far more sad about the death of Bob McGrath, who was a magical, wonderful person who made this planet a far better place.