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Kirstie Alley has died. (Original Post) edbermac Dec 2022 OP
.... CatWoman Dec 2022 #1
When I was much younger I remember my mother watching the news. Igel Dec 2022 #6
It is worse when they Codifer Dec 2022 #24
My guess is that she had a substandard doctor that Scientology recommended. no_hypocrisy Dec 2022 #2
Her family sad it was cancer. Came on quickly and she went fast. Lucinda Dec 2022 #41
She was being treated at Moffitt Cancer Center. Duppers Dec 2022 #55
Wow... Yes, she had quite the rollercoaster life the past couple of decades... hlthe2b Dec 2022 #3
Perhaps. Igel Dec 2022 #25
pretty tumultuous life she had. Really went off the rails in her later years. Takket Dec 2022 #4
She wanted more money than Shatner to do ST:III. So they replaced her with the lovely Robin Curtis. Earth-shine Dec 2022 #5
If I recall correctly, that was sort of a "give us an offer we have to refuse" sort of thing JHB Dec 2022 #11
me too lol Takket Dec 2022 #18
Got you beat! I met her at an ST con at the Stony Brook, NY campus in the late 80s. Earth-shine Dec 2022 #19
ah! that's so cool! Takket Dec 2022 #22
She was taller KS Toronado Dec 2022 #66
Didn't recognize her. Igel Dec 2022 #8
Earlier in her career, Kristie was in rehab for cocaine use. She then got into Scientology. debm55 Dec 2022 #60
So sorry Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 2022 #7
Seventy-one?!?! Jeezus, when did that happen? Iggo Dec 2022 #9
I was thinking the same thing... W_HAMILTON Dec 2022 #40
Always sad to hear of deaths by cancer....... a kennedy Dec 2022 #10
That they did. Xavier Breath Dec 2022 #26
Exactly, Shelley was a goddess on that show. a kennedy Dec 2022 #31
Cancer sucks. Solly Mack Dec 2022 #12
That it does. Elessar Zappa Dec 2022 #13
I'm a survivor. It got my father. Solly Mack Dec 2022 #15
Sorry to hear about your dad but glad you're a survivor! Elessar Zappa Dec 2022 #16
Thank you. Solly Mack Dec 2022 #17
My mom is dying from it now. We signed the hospice papers today. Solomon Dec 2022 #44
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Dec 2022 #45
So sorry. 🕯 Duppers Dec 2022 #56
So sorry, Solly Mack. But I can relate on both. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Dec 2022 #46
It's a big club. Too big. Developing cancer, that is. Solly Mack Dec 2022 #47
You're right about the too big club. Thank you. I'm glad you are, too. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Dec 2022 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author The Grand Illuminist Dec 2022 #14
Only some people are really people. Just A Box Of Rain Dec 2022 #20
Well aren't you edgy. TheProle Dec 2022 #21
That's a pretty crappy thing to say. Ocelot II Dec 2022 #23
+1 Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2022 #27
Another +1 hamsterjill Dec 2022 #38
I'll just put you on Ignore SCantiGOP Dec 2022 #30
It's war. No one has to like it. The Grand Illuminist Dec 2022 #34
Don't understand your shitty comment. debm55 Dec 2022 #53
Nice to see you deleted your original comments... WarGamer Dec 2022 #58
I may have went a little too far, given losing my parents to cancer. The Grand Illuminist Dec 2022 #64
Well, your enemy is dead. hamsterjill Dec 2022 #36
She is an enemy, and not our fellow american. LenaBaby61 Dec 2022 #43
RIP Ohio Joe Dec 2022 #28
Well 48656c6c6f20 Dec 2022 #29
+1000 SergeStorms Dec 2022 #39
(For ME) Her authentic fun charisma crashed on her limited insight. UTUSN Dec 2022 #32
I have nothing to say. Lunabell Dec 2022 #33
She really YOLOed life Kennah Dec 2022 #35
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Dec 2022 #37
I met her many years ago. Grumpy Old Guy Dec 2022 #42
RIP. Liberal In Texas Dec 2022 #48
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Dec 2022 #62
Just found out from TikTok ismnotwasm Dec 2022 #50
All things must pass VWolf Dec 2022 #51
RIP. I detested her politics, but cancer is horrid. Trump deserves it though, in spades. Celerity Dec 2022 #52
Was never a great fan but sorry she has passed Norbert Dec 2022 #54
Waiting to hear from John Travolta Omaha Steve Dec 2022 #57
May Kirstie Alley Rest In Peace and May her Memory be a Blessing. n/t iluvtennis Dec 2022 #59
May she rest in peace. Catherine Vincent Dec 2022 #61
oh well? Tarc Dec 2022 #63
Yeah. Sky Jewels Dec 2022 #67
Karma is unforgiving. AlexSFCA Dec 2022 #65

Igel

(37,516 posts)
6. When I was much younger I remember my mother watching the news.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:38 PM
Dec 2022

Somebody I'd never heard of had died. And she seemed oddly emotional. (This was my mother. She'd yell, shun, but be sentimental? Nah. Except for the news.)

I understand my parents and more as I age. I only really remember them in great detail when I was nearing my teens. Meaning I saw them reflected in myself when my kid turned 10 or 11, as far as parent-child relations are concerned. But for extra-familial relationships? The age of teens and celebrity icons was a bit greater then. I'm hitting that now. Rock singers, actors, politicians, various other celebrity types ... Dropping like flies. There was the Great Die-off from the older members of my former church, and the leading edge of my high school class.

Makes you feel really old. You see those 10, 15, 20 years ahead of you dying off and you can start a kind of count down.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
41. Her family sad it was cancer. Came on quickly and she went fast.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:41 PM
Dec 2022

❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
55. She was being treated at Moffitt Cancer Center.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:40 PM
Dec 2022

Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, one of the country's best.

Strange how religion goes out the windows when it come down to trying to actually survive.

hlthe2b

(113,824 posts)
3. Wow... Yes, she had quite the rollercoaster life the past couple of decades...
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:32 PM
Dec 2022

and she seemed really off the charts politically. But sorry to see her lost to cancer.

Igel

(37,516 posts)
25. Perhaps.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:18 PM
Dec 2022

But my SIL wasn't a Scientologist and died years earlier in her struggle against cancer than Alley.

Didn't always approve of her, but I always appreciated her. She managed to get my mother to accept a caregiver when nobody else could--and that made the difference between having cops haul her off to "assisted living" against her will and not. Forced to move would have destroyed my mom. I owe her, but can never repay her. Oddly, I don't think she'd be okay with repayment.

At the same time, she was church treasurer for her Episcopal church. After years of fundraising to build a church building, a year after it opened the church split. The official church changed doctrine and her "heretical but faithful" group split off. The result was that the congregation was too small to pay utilities and grounds-keeping, and a few months later the building was put up for sale, to benefit "central office." Her new but same church started a new building fund. She forgave those she thought heretics--after all, a heretic is somebody who starts and promotes a faction at odds with historical precedent, and that was clearly "central office"--power and privilege wins most of the time. In her view, the heretics won. And she moved on. Only to die a year or so later, her will asking that large donation from her estate be donated to the building fund.

I attended a church that met at libitum of other groups. A grange met on some night? We met on Shabbat. Conveniently, almost always when they needed their hall a 7th-day group didn't observe the same day as sabbath. In the days before email and texts, it was totally possible to show up and find that it was a different group at the grange or meeting hall and wonder where you were to be. There were limitations on storage, on what was on the walls (invariably there'd be things opposed to our doctrines on the wall). We'd haul things every week, cover things every week. Kludges abounded.

Wasn't close to my SIl, who died at 72 but I still really miss her. As does my brother.

Takket

(23,699 posts)
4. pretty tumultuous life she had. Really went off the rails in her later years.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:32 PM
Dec 2022

Hope she rests in peace.

Wrath of Khan is one of my all time favorite movies

 

Earth-shine

(4,044 posts)
5. She wanted more money than Shatner to do ST:III. So they replaced her with the lovely Robin Curtis.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:35 PM
Dec 2022

>> Wrath of Khan is one of my all time favorite movies

Yup! I got my 4k blu ray disk.

JHB

(38,169 posts)
11. If I recall correctly, that was sort of a "give us an offer we have to refuse" sort of thing
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:46 PM
Dec 2022

She was up and coming, and was worried about being locked into that one role, so the way she could depart with everyone saving face was "we just couldn't come to an agreement about money. No harm, no foul, no hard feelings, just couldn't come to an agreement."

Takket

(23,699 posts)
18. me too lol
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:56 PM
Dec 2022

I actually had a crush on Curtis. Preferred her to Alley as Saavik. Loved her as Tallera in Next Generation's Gambit too. I have an autographed photo of her which I bought from a dealer at a convention (never met her in person)

 

Earth-shine

(4,044 posts)
19. Got you beat! I met her at an ST con at the Stony Brook, NY campus in the late 80s.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:05 PM
Dec 2022

This was one of her first cons. She was overwhelmed and a bit afraid of all the attention.

I got to talking with her. Somehow, she started to trust me. I led her around for about half an hour helping her to find her way to the next event. She thanked me. It was a real thank you.

In the movies, she looks like she's 6ft tall and could beat up a Klingon. In reality, about 5'2" if I recall. Quite petite.

Takket

(23,699 posts)
22. ah! that's so cool!
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:15 PM
Dec 2022

I went to a con, geez i can't even remember where exactly, somewhere outside NYC in the late 90s. I didn't get into Trek until the early 90s.

KS Toronado

(23,727 posts)
66. She was taller
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 12:29 AM
Dec 2022

When I meet her mid 70s in Wichita I was impressed at how tall she was until I noticed she had on real tall
high heels. But she was 5ft 7/8 inches barefooted, and pretty average sized.

Igel

(37,516 posts)
8. Didn't recognize her.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:40 PM
Dec 2022

Surprising, that. Had had a mild crush on her when I was much younger.

Also on the Star Trek character.

Surprise! They're the same woman!

Oddly, preferred her in Vulcan-face.

debm55

(60,307 posts)
60. Earlier in her career, Kristie was in rehab for cocaine use. She then got into Scientology.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:47 PM
Dec 2022
Regardless, may she rest in peace and may her memories be a blessing to those she left behind.

W_HAMILTON

(10,328 posts)
40. I was thinking the same thing...
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:40 PM
Dec 2022

Time has just been flying by lately (read: past two decades for me, heh).

a kennedy

(35,918 posts)
10. Always sad to hear of deaths by cancer.......
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:41 PM
Dec 2022

I didn’t like her on Cheers, and her politics really stunk.

Xavier Breath

(6,637 posts)
26. That they did.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:19 PM
Dec 2022

As to her acting, I watched Cheers until the very end, but I just never could warm to her character. In retrospect I probably never wanted to.

Her only sin on that show was following Shelley, and IMHO she was never quite able to fill those shoes.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
13. That it does.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:50 PM
Dec 2022

It took my grandparents and an uncle. My dad had prostate cancer but it was caught early and he’s thought to be cured.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
16. Sorry to hear about your dad but glad you're a survivor!
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 09:54 PM
Dec 2022

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Response to edbermac (Original post)

WarGamer

(18,590 posts)
58. Nice to see you deleted your original comments...
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:42 PM
Dec 2022

Sounded like you were calling her a sub-human...

Or untermensch as the Germans used to say? Ja?

The Grand Illuminist

(2,037 posts)
64. I may have went a little too far, given losing my parents to cancer.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:54 PM
Dec 2022

But politics has always been deeply personal for me and my family. I get diarrhea of the mouth at times. Apologies to all offended.

hamsterjill

(17,557 posts)
36. Well, your enemy is dead.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:34 PM
Dec 2022

I did not agree with her politics but I can still feel badly that she was sick and died. Should we be laughing that her children mourn?

I don’t think you’re going to get many to agree with you on your post.

LenaBaby61

(6,991 posts)
43. She is an enemy, and not our fellow american.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:50 PM
Dec 2022

Yes, she said some pretty rotten and hideous things on twitter about Dems et al. I hope she gets a better send off than RBG got when she died. Many reich-wingers were practically celebrating and giddy over RBG's death on Twitter (and some still are believe it or not), and I can only imagine the fights on there tonight with Musk the clown bringing back white nationalists, and people who daily pray for Pres. Biden to die (Boebert is one of them, and she gets away with it of course), and those who are in the same camp with holocaust deniers.

I hate cancer though .....

Grumpy Old Guy

(4,307 posts)
42. I met her many years ago.
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 10:43 PM
Dec 2022

She was a guest on a show I was stage managing in the mid eighties. She was very nice, and we had an interesting conversation waiting for the show to go on the air. R.I.P.

niyad

(132,184 posts)
62. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:51 PM
Dec 2022

send peace and comfort to the grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
51. All things must pass
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:19 PM
Dec 2022

Cheers was part of our must-see-TV Thursday evenings when my friends and I were in college. That was our weekly study break, before we pulled all-nighters to get the problem sets done by Friday morning. We all bonded around the show, especially because we were living in Back Bay at the time.

Can't believe she was 71. Where does the time go?

Norbert

(7,749 posts)
54. Was never a great fan but sorry she has passed
Mon Dec 5, 2022, 11:39 PM
Dec 2022

When she replaced Shelly Long on Cheers I quit watching it about 3 episodes in.

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
67. Yeah.
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 12:29 AM
Dec 2022

She won’t be missed … at least not by me. I’m far more sad about the death of Bob McGrath, who was a magical, wonderful person who made this planet a far better place.

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