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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Fri Dec 9, 2022, 09:46 AM Dec 2022

I wonder if some people are just so offended by beauty and happiness and love that they

are driven to find a way to disrupt or destroy it?

Is there a well-manicured lawn with beautiful beds of flowers? Drive across it at night after a soaking rain, cutting deep ruts and flattening the blooms.

Is there a very successful new business with a new product making great profits for its owner? Start totally false rumors that the product has caused serious illness and deaths.

Is there an attractive successful couple that is liked and respected in the community? Post anonymous "if you really knew them" posts on the local discussion board mentioning drug abuse, affairs and pedophilia.

And, I suppose, if millions of us are breathing happy sighs of relief as we celebrate recent election results, some are compelled to be the mouse floating in the punch bowl.



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I wonder if some people are just so offended by beauty and happiness and love that they (Original Post) Atticus Dec 2022 OP
I guess some people just love to be hated. Walleye Dec 2022 #1
Yes some narcissist/sociopath abusers cannot stand to see anyone happy. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #2
There will always be the Debby Downers who have to find something wrong Ocelot II Dec 2022 #3
Don't wonder. That they are. Iggo Dec 2022 #4
"If Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!" Midnight Writer Dec 2022 #5

Walleye

(44,807 posts)
1. I guess some people just love to be hated.
Fri Dec 9, 2022, 09:49 AM
Dec 2022

She will get all kinds of love and care and stroking from Republicans now. It’s flat out prostitution, sorry

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
2. Yes some narcissist/sociopath abusers cannot stand to see anyone happy.
Fri Dec 9, 2022, 09:52 AM
Dec 2022

Or someone having something new or beautiful.

They have to ruin it.

Ocelot II

(130,536 posts)
3. There will always be the Debby Downers who have to find something wrong
Fri Dec 9, 2022, 10:42 AM
Dec 2022

with anything, no matter what. I don't get the psychology but it happens every time.

Midnight Writer

(25,410 posts)
5. "If Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!"
Fri Dec 9, 2022, 03:42 PM
Dec 2022

A co-worker sprung this saying on me years ago and it shocked me.

She told me if she was having a bad day, she made damn sure her husband and children had a bad day, too.

Sounds infantile and a formula for self-propagating misery to me.

Why would you want to hurt the people closest to you, the people you love?

I guess misery loves company.

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