Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

malaise

(296,118 posts)
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:09 PM Dec 2022

One of my nephews just told me that he's staying home tonight because his beloved dog

can’t tolerate the noise from the fireworks and is already following him everywhere in the house.

65 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
One of my nephews just told me that he's staying home tonight because his beloved dog (Original Post) malaise Dec 2022 OP
He's a good man. applegrove Dec 2022 #1
Such a mighty good man catrose Dec 2022 #2
He said the noise has been going on all day in Miami malaise Dec 2022 #3
Over here in Naples it markodochartaigh Dec 2022 #34
My kitty does not like fireworks, either. He will be curled on my lap when the niyad Dec 2022 #4
The ferals here hide under the chairs on the patio malaise Dec 2022 #5
try carrying the dog. put a blanket on . Tetrachloride Dec 2022 #6
Haven't seen my kitty for a while..the pyromaniacs are at it.. Deuxcents Dec 2022 #7
One of the things I hate about Florida. They have been going off for a few hours now and it's only Maraya1969 Dec 2022 #15
They are not fireworks. They are bombs bedazzled Jan 2023 #60
What a Rebl2 Dec 2022 #8
Good man! MuseRider Dec 2022 #9
I've wondered if those compression vests work Effete Snob Dec 2022 #10
I think they do help. My old guy Paco has dementia and I put it on him at times Maraya1969 Dec 2022 #18
We think they're helpful, along with doggie pot products. nt pnwmom Dec 2022 #21
They do work, much like cattle press deescalates person with autism. SheltieLover Dec 2022 #29
There are medications that can help a dog. Dysfunctional Dec 2022 #11
Now that you mention it, soldierant Dec 2022 #36
Damp misty weather here tonight......central NC Red Mountain Dec 2022 #12
The other noise these days are the cars and trucks will all sorts of crap malaise Dec 2022 #32
Pacoima California on New Year's Eve. calimary Jan 2023 #52
My Last Doggie Hated Them ProfessorGAC Dec 2022 #13
Your nephew is a kind soul. QED Dec 2022 #14
Years and years recovering_democrat Dec 2022 #16
Guess it's what pet lovers do malaise Dec 2022 #33
Such a caring young man. That's one lucky doggie. nt okaawhatever Dec 2022 #17
They started here in Charleston, SC, Xmas eve. OneBlueDotS-Carolina Dec 2022 #19
We did this for one of my dogs for years. Mr.Bill Dec 2022 #20
good dawg dad barbtries Dec 2022 #22
Why ANYONE would spend money for something hamsterjill Dec 2022 #23
Tomorrow we'll hear who blew off his own hands malaise Dec 2022 #25
Yep. hamsterjill Dec 2022 #43
My Cairn Terrier had the same fear, especially thunder, my Dad used to sit with him and cover his ears Rhiannon12866 Dec 2022 #24
Here is link to how to make thundershirt from Ace bandage SheltieLover Dec 2022 #26
Thanks malaise Dec 2022 #28
Yw SheltieLover Dec 2022 #31
Wow! Good idea. Yes I've heard of the Thundershirt. electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #51
They do seem to help. SheltieLover Jan 2023 #53
That's good to know. Poor doggos! electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #54
I know! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #55
Same here, PXR-5 Dec 2022 #27
No rednecks here but many assholes malaise Dec 2022 #30
Temp in the 40s here and steady misty rain all day. wnylib Dec 2022 #35
ROFL malaise Jan 2023 #65
Aww what a good person Meowmee Dec 2022 #37
I completly understand. Some of our four legged family SlimJimmy Dec 2022 #38
What works with our dog: Liberty Belle Dec 2022 #39
Now that is a fine young man! nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #40
yeah we cut our bar hopping short for the same reason... samnsara Dec 2022 #41
Firefighters DENVERPOPS Dec 2022 #42
We just started using CBD dog treats The Wizard Dec 2022 #44
I know traditionalists (and 3 fingered young males) LOVE fireworks, but they are SO 18th Century... albacore Dec 2022 #45
Or this one.... albacore Dec 2022 #48
we had to trank our huskey / bordercollie mix 2 weeks in advance AllaN01Bear Dec 2022 #46
We had to give ours tranquilizers. Lunabell Dec 2022 #47
We played ball with our dogs as soon as fireworks or thunder started. Now they just want to play. nature-lover Dec 2022 #49
My little gal doesn't like the fireworks either.... spanone Jan 2023 #50
Good for him! 😍👍 nt Raine Jan 2023 #56
We stay home New Year Eve and July 4th for the same reason DBoon Jan 2023 #57
Happy New Year to all the animal lovers here at DU malaise Jan 2023 #58
Mine were like that too. I was already in bed when the fireworks (not many, I was surprised), the SWBTATTReg Jan 2023 #59
LOL same here. Our yorkie now sleeps w us whenever theres a storm or heavy rain onetexan Jan 2023 #61
Very cool malaise Jan 2023 #62
My dog greblach Jan 2023 #63
That's what he told me malaise Jan 2023 #64

malaise

(296,118 posts)
3. He said the noise has been going on all day in Miami
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:12 PM
Dec 2022

He is a good young man - genuinely caring

markodochartaigh

(5,545 posts)
34. Over here in Naples it
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:19 PM
Dec 2022

has been going on steadily for about 5 hours. Of course it is extremely dry as well. My cats are on edge.

niyad

(132,446 posts)
4. My kitty does not like fireworks, either. He will be curled on my lap when the
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:13 PM
Dec 2022

insanity starts, even though fireworks are illegal here.

malaise

(296,118 posts)
5. The ferals here hide under the chairs on the patio
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:14 PM
Dec 2022

It's illegal here too but no one cares

Deuxcents

(26,931 posts)
7. Haven't seen my kitty for a while..the pyromaniacs are at it..
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:17 PM
Dec 2022

In Florida, you can blast away even if it just Tuesday. The poor dogs are barking n it’s not even close to midnight. Then we’ve got tomorrow.. it’s nutz

Maraya1969

(23,499 posts)
15. One of the things I hate about Florida. They have been going off for a few hours now and it's only
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:25 PM
Dec 2022

8:30pm

bedazzled

(1,885 posts)
60. They are not fireworks. They are bombs
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 01:22 PM
Jan 2023

PBC. Last one I heard was at 5am. Pity the poor vets with PTSD

Rebl2

(17,743 posts)
8. What a
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:18 PM
Dec 2022

nice young man that would do this. Putting another living being before himself.

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
10. I've wondered if those compression vests work
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:19 PM
Dec 2022

Supposedly, there are dog vests which apply compression which is alleged to comfort the dog. There’s a brand name that used to advertise heavily, but I’ve wondered if they work, or at least work often enough to be worth trying.

Maraya1969

(23,499 posts)
18. I think they do help. My old guy Paco has dementia and I put it on him at times
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:26 PM
Dec 2022

if he is particularly upset and it seems to calm him down.

SheltieLover

(80,487 posts)
29. They do work, much like cattle press deescalates person with autism.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:09 PM
Dec 2022


Link for how to diy thundedshirt from Ace bandage.


https://www.k9ofmine.com/diy-thundershirt/
 

Dysfunctional

(452 posts)
11. There are medications that can help a dog.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:19 PM
Dec 2022

I am on Hydroxyzine to help me fall asleep. I give it to my dog to calm her. The right dosage is safe for dogs but it is a prescription medicine.

soldierant

(9,354 posts)
36. Now that you mention it,
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:32 PM
Dec 2022

sometimes a "white noise generator" (most of them have multiple sound settings) can also help animals cope with loud noises. And Chewey has them, In fact, I got mine from Chewy. I no longer have animals, but Chewy is such a friendly place - I have never heard anything bad about Chewy, but, oh boy, have I heard a lot of good things - that I tend to look there first. An amazing number of things you might not think of are or can be pet-related, and they carry them. I also got a rug rake from them.

Red Mountain

(2,344 posts)
12. Damp misty weather here tonight......central NC
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:22 PM
Dec 2022

Warm but wet. It's already put a damper on the fireworks and shooting.

Last year a trio of vehicles went up our road shooting out the windows just after dark. My youngest was outside and had the sense to hit the deck. He was fine.

They were, I guess, shooting upwards. Never found any holes in my house or animals.

Just stupid. Maybe I'll sleep better tonight.

malaise

(296,118 posts)
32. The other noise these days are the cars and trucks will all sorts of crap
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:12 PM
Dec 2022

Attacked. They sound like gunshots all damn day and night.

calimary

(90,039 posts)
52. Pacoima California on New Year's Eve.
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 12:15 AM
Jan 2023

We were out within earshot of there one year. Good Grief, you'd think you were in a shooting gallery! And there was a small civil aviation airport near there. It made me worry about the planes there - many of which were not parked in hangars but just out, exposed, and it wouldn't have surprised me if a few of those exposed wings wound up with bullet holes in them. It sounded more like the 4th of July than New year's Eve out there. I wanted to leave immediately!

ProfessorGAC

(76,706 posts)
13. My Last Doggie Hated Them
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:22 PM
Dec 2022

Our Vincent didn't react much last July 4, or when we had the town fest later in the summer.
But, Walter absolutely freaked out. Panting, pacing, etc.
I feel your nephew's angst. Not like we can explain what's going on to a dog.

QED

(3,353 posts)
14. Your nephew is a kind soul.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:22 PM
Dec 2022

My little chihuahua goes nuts during fireworks - runs around in circles barking like crazy. My others aren't too happy either. Therefore I'm always home on NYE, July 4th, etc.

16. Years and years
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:25 PM
Dec 2022

Have been a stay at home pet protector for many, many years. Halloween, 4th if July and New Years Eve are the world of the pet lover. New Years wishes for all of us!

malaise

(296,118 posts)
33. Guess it's what pet lovers do
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:13 PM
Dec 2022

Very considerate and happy new year to you and yours. 😀😀

OneBlueDotS-Carolina

(1,487 posts)
19. They started here in Charleston, SC, Xmas eve.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:27 PM
Dec 2022

everyday from noon on. Poor dog sits in the shower shaking. We've tried everything. This will go on until the popup firework stands, sell out.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
20. We did this for one of my dogs for years.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:54 PM
Dec 2022

We even got meds from the vet to sedate her. She's deaf now, so not a problem anymore. There's an upside to everything, I guess.

barbtries

(31,308 posts)
22. good dawg dad
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 09:55 PM
Dec 2022

we have one too, thunder and other loud noises send her right under my son's desk.

hamsterjill

(17,577 posts)
23. Why ANYONE would spend money for something
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:02 PM
Dec 2022

That is nothing but an absolute menace to everyone around them is beyond me. I freaking HATE the destruction that fireworks cause and the idiots who think they are harmless.

Instead of spending money on crap like fireworks, donate the money to an animal shelter. Be a decent human being.

malaise

(296,118 posts)
25. Tomorrow we'll hear who blew off his own hands
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:06 PM
Dec 2022

or killed himself in the name of this madness.

hamsterjill

(17,577 posts)
43. Yep.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:32 PM
Dec 2022

Not to mention the house fires, the missing pets, and all of the dead bodies of wild life you’ll see on the roads.

People who do this have NO regard for others. It is the most selfish and unnecessary crap in the world in my opinion. Serves no purpose whatsoever and should be banned.

Rhiannon12866

(255,592 posts)
24. My Cairn Terrier had the same fear, especially thunder, my Dad used to sit with him and cover his ears
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:05 PM
Dec 2022

They now have those "thunder shirts" for dogs, I wish I could have gotten one for him, he was inconsolable.

SheltieLover

(80,487 posts)
26. Here is link to how to make thundershirt from Ace bandage
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:06 PM
Dec 2022

Very calming to dogs, much like a cattle press for persons with autism.


https://www.k9ofmine.com/diy-thundershirt/

PXR-5

(578 posts)
27. Same here,
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:07 PM
Dec 2022

We don't have many fireworks, more rednecks shooting their guns in the air.

(a 12 year old was killed by a stray bullet several years ago).

malaise

(296,118 posts)
30. No rednecks here but many assholes
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:09 PM
Dec 2022

will be shooting off their guns in a few hours.

wnylib

(26,023 posts)
35. Temp in the 40s here and steady misty rain all day.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:26 PM
Dec 2022

Puddles and slush everywhere. No fireworks.

Ember (cat) is not afraid of fireworks, or at least does not cower when they go off. She growls at them. Fiercely. "Eff off, you flashy sky monsters!"

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
37. Aww what a good person
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:35 PM
Dec 2022

Fortunately we have no fw here as far as I recall on ny only all summer leading up to an after July 4 usually. The thunder coat may help. My meezer boy used to wear one to calm him down.

SlimJimmy

(3,251 posts)
38. I completly understand. Some of our four legged family
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:47 PM
Dec 2022

members don't handle loud noises very well. Fortunately for us, our two doggos could care less and go outside in the back yard to check out all the commotion.

Liberty Belle

(9,707 posts)
39. What works with our dog:
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:51 PM
Dec 2022

Our husky was terrified of fireworks.

Then I turned on the TV to a fireworks show, and proceeded to exclaim "ooh" and "ah" and clap hands and smile at each fireworks image/sound. Pretty soon she was wagging her tail and happy again.

Not sure if this would work with everyone, but showing her there was nothing to be afraid of seemed to work for us. We had serious illegal fireworks shows going on one 4th of July, which is when we tried this.

Our dog is used to loud noises on the TV, from when hubby watches cop shows etc, so masking the outside sounds with noises she was familiar with worked.

You may want to record a fireworks show to keep on hand for the future, if you have illegal shows going on at odd hours.

DENVERPOPS

(13,003 posts)
42. Firefighters
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:31 PM
Dec 2022

will get their rigs exercised tonight, second only to July fourth. Tonight is worse than July fourth for the cops, because drunken fools go out and shoot their guns into the air, not realizing that what goes up must come down......

I am most grateful to get 2022 behind us, and I am in hopes that 2023 reverses this nations course and is better..........

Keep your fingers and toes crossed everyone.......

The Wizard

(13,735 posts)
44. We just started using CBD dog treats
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:35 PM
Dec 2022

They seem to keep our little guy calm. Don't give your pet CBD for humans. The ones for pets are processed differently. Ask a vet.

albacore

(2,747 posts)
45. I know traditionalists (and 3 fingered young males) LOVE fireworks, but they are SO 18th Century...
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:40 PM
Dec 2022

Check out the drone show...

AllaN01Bear

(29,498 posts)
46. we had to trank our huskey / bordercollie mix 2 weeks in advance
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:40 PM
Dec 2022

and chain him to the stove 2 weeks before ny and forth of july.
sis says in her neighborhood people have gotten hold of morters , the kind they use in stadium shows .side note : a friend of mine who was in nam, hid for 5 years on fj and ny after he came back.

 

Lunabell

(7,309 posts)
47. We had to give ours tranquilizers.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:42 PM
Dec 2022

After July 4th, one was so traumatized he quit pottying outside for several weeks. We had to re-potty train him.

nature-lover

(1,861 posts)
49. We played ball with our dogs as soon as fireworks or thunder started. Now they just want to play.
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:54 PM
Dec 2022

They hear the sound and bring us a ball.

DBoon

(24,989 posts)
57. We stay home New Year Eve and July 4th for the same reason
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 01:03 AM
Jan 2023

Our dog panics, and if we are not home will try to break through the fence into our neighbor's yard.

SWBTATTReg

(26,257 posts)
59. Mine were like that too. I was already in bed when the fireworks (not many, I was surprised), the
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 01:17 PM
Jan 2023

3 dogs were already pawing and huffing in fright from the few fireworks I did hear. I hate fireworks.

onetexan

(13,913 posts)
61. LOL same here. Our yorkie now sleeps w us whenever theres a storm or heavy rain
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 05:42 PM
Jan 2023

& fireworks are the worst. She has her own bed next to ours but always wants to cuddle in w us pf course, esply now w the cold weather. So... the hubby tolerates her 😁

greblach

(294 posts)
63. My dog
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 08:51 PM
Jan 2023

Agreed, my dog was trembling and following me around from about 3 pm, because of the lunatics in the neighborhood firing off M 80's, mortars, etc. He doesn't even like it when I turn the stereo up, but this was ridiculous...Happy New Year...It is more quiet now!

malaise

(296,118 posts)
64. That's what he told me
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 08:54 PM
Jan 2023

Said the dog was even following him to the bathroom. Poor doggie.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»One of my nephews just to...