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old as dirt

(1,972 posts)
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:37 PM Jan 2023

Is it time to stop validating the violence-provoking "grooming" rhetoric?

OK, so this is a new term for me, but it seems to harken back to the "recruiting" rhetoric that folks my age tend to associate with the likes of Anita Bryant.

And now I'm seeing it here associated with broad brush attacks on my wife's religion, out of ignorance, which I find personally threatening.

Let's not encourage violence with such rhetoric.

So I ask.

Is it time to stop validating the violence-provoking "grooming" rhetoric?


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Is it time to stop validating the violence-provoking "grooming" rhetoric? (Original Post) old as dirt Jan 2023 OP
I Think You're Overreacting (nt) ProfessorGAC Jan 2023 #1
They said the same thing about the I-Word. old as dirt Jan 2023 #5
I Don't Concur There's A Comparison ProfessorGAC Jan 2023 #8
Yes, it was. old as dirt Jan 2023 #9
It's not clear to me what you're asking. WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2023 #2
That we lead by example, and... old as dirt Jan 2023 #6
Anita Bryant was one thing Skittles Jan 2023 #11
Your lack of respect... old as dirt Jan 2023 #12
Should we respect all cultures? Eko Jan 2023 #14
apparently so Skittles Jan 2023 #16
Thanks. Eko Jan 2023 #19
If religion is a culture Eko Jan 2023 #18
Post removed Post removed Jan 2023 #22
I am NOT a boy Skittles Jan 2023 #23
How would you like to be addressed? old as dirt Jan 2023 #24
do you respect the Taliban? Skittles Jan 2023 #21
THANK YOU Skittles Jan 2023 #10
The idiotic governor of Florida is responsible for all of this crap plus his dumb woke! And, he RKP5637 Jan 2023 #3
I don't know how many times I have to say this but I will keep repeating it: Initech Jan 2023 #4
Absolutely correct. Just in Florida he had something like 47 billionaires supporting his RKP5637 Jan 2023 #7
Grooming is grooming and I'll call it out when I see it Iggo Jan 2023 #13
Good gravy, are the thought police coming for the word grooming now? BannonsLiver Jan 2023 #15
I must really be missing something. I'm no big fan of any organized religion so Maru Kitteh Jan 2023 #17
CORRECT Skittles Jan 2023 #20
 

old as dirt

(1,972 posts)
5. They said the same thing about the I-Word.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:03 PM
Jan 2023
Drop the I-Word. Don't Feed the Hate Machine

Sep 27, 2010

Calling people "illegals" feeds a hate machine, by exploiting racial fears and economic anxiety. The I-word, along with other words tainted by hate, provides an easy scapegoat for complex issues and OKs violence against those labeled with it. Don't feed the hate machine. Drop the I-word.

ProfessorGAC

(66,184 posts)
8. I Don't Concur There's A Comparison
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:29 PM
Jan 2023

Besides, the "I" word wasn't something used as a pejorative here at DU.
So you're comparing apples to airplanes.

 

old as dirt

(1,972 posts)
6. That we lead by example, and...
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:05 PM
Jan 2023

...recognize that we live in a multicultural world, respect other cultures, and treat each other with respect.

Skittles

(154,030 posts)
11. Anita Bryant was one thing
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:33 PM
Jan 2023

Last edited Mon Jan 2, 2023, 08:22 PM - Edit history (1)

but being told, for example, I have to respect religion.....um, no..... I call it as I see it and I think religion causes far more harm than good

I *TOLERATE* religion as long as they keep it to themselves but when they start using that nonsense to shape our laws, FUCK THAT

Eko

(7,607 posts)
18. If religion is a culture
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 08:36 PM
Jan 2023

then christian nationalism is a culture and we should respect it? Q is a culture, MAGA is a culture,, I could keep going. I don't have to respect something just because someone calls it a culture. That smacks too much of this.



And I don't play that game.

Response to Skittles (Reply #11)

Skittles

(154,030 posts)
23. I am NOT a boy
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:29 AM
Jan 2023

Last edited Tue Jan 3, 2023, 03:04 AM - Edit history (1)

and you cannot make people respect that which they find silly at best, and harmful at worst. You may as well advise us to respect the beliefs of MAGAts - that's their culture, isn't it? I see you haven't told us if you respect the Taliban....imagine that.

DONE here; over and OUT.

 

old as dirt

(1,972 posts)
24. How would you like to be addressed?
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:36 AM
Jan 2023

Oh, never mind.

If you can't respect other cultures, then there is no point in conversing with you at all.

Putting you on ignore is the better option.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
3. The idiotic governor of Florida is responsible for all of this crap plus his dumb woke! And, he
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:45 PM
Jan 2023

wants to be the next US president. It would be Trump on steroids. The guy is a monster.

Initech

(100,425 posts)
4. I don't know how many times I have to say this but I will keep repeating it:
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 05:35 PM
Jan 2023

It's not Ron DeSantis! He was just installed by Fox News to do their every evil bidding. Ron DeSantis isn't the problem. He's just a symptom. Fox News is the real problem. Current conservative buzzwords like "woke" and "groomers" and "critical race theory" weren't a thing until Fox News decided they were. Ron DeSantis is just an ass kissing yes man. Fox News is the real problem facing our society. They're clearly pulling Ron's strings. Same with Abbott in Texas, he was installed by Fox as well.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
7. Absolutely correct. Just in Florida he had something like 47 billionaires supporting his
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:20 PM
Jan 2023

governorship election. Then Fox and the media. He loves his woke, groomers, critical race theory, trans, picking on teachers and on and on ... and then Fox broadcasts it over and over. And others like OAN pick it up, etc. etc. I wish Americans would learn a bit of critical thinking and trying to understand just WTF is going on in the US. DeSantis takes his orders well from Fox and the like and the billionaire class, etc.

Maru Kitteh

(28,376 posts)
17. I must really be missing something. I'm no big fan of any organized religion so
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 08:30 PM
Jan 2023

that might have something to do with it. I frequently skip reading topics that center around religious things.

But aside from that . . . . are you concerned someone on DU is inciting violence? Can't say I've seen anything like that at all. Not even close.



Skittles

(154,030 posts)
20. CORRECT
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 08:37 PM
Jan 2023

I'm not getting it either....there's a huge difference between finding what others believe silly and inciting VIOLENCE against them because of their beliefs..........

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