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TeamProg

(6,139 posts)
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 02:59 PM Jan 2023

Cheap medical advice re: potential hospital ER visits.

I took the advice my dad gave me decades ago and it made sense.

I'm allergic to bee stings, got stung while on my mtn bike. Kept riding working up a fast heart rate.

I felt really sick, rode home, then to the bathroom, looked in the mirror and my face looked like a swollen Tiki Head.

I had welts in every appendage pit though no signs of anaphylactic shock.

I called my dad who was a retired pathologist.

His advice:

If you are undecided that you might need to go to an ER, it won't cost you anything to go to the hospital property, park near the ER or go inside the main hospital entrance / reception area and just SIT AND WAIT.

If you then begin to feel better getting over your illness, pain, bug bite, 'fart caught sideways' or other anomaly, then you just go home.

If you get worse, you'll be right there.

Could save you from unnecessarily spending your ER deductible costs on some insur. policies.


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Cheap medical advice re: potential hospital ER visits. (Original Post) TeamProg Jan 2023 OP
Good advice n/t Doc Sportello Jan 2023 #1
That is brilliant! Walleye Jan 2023 #2
'fart caught sideways' Effete Snob Jan 2023 #3
When you've got simple gas but it's a stabbing pain, like a kidney stone or something more TeamProg Jan 2023 #6
Some of us get intense and almost paralyzing gas pains occasionally wishstar Jan 2023 #37
The last time I went to an ER waiting was the key word. Chainfire Jan 2023 #4
Actually, if they don't take you in immediately in the ER, Mr.Bill Jan 2023 #29
They never triaged me....They didn't know if I was dying or not. Chainfire Jan 2023 #30
I generally go to urgent care Jilly_in_VA Jan 2023 #5
My younger brother had a nagging pain around his shoulder blade & couldn't keep unloading his truck Hekate Jan 2023 #14
Great idea! claudette Jan 2023 #7
Great advice! Stinky The Clown Jan 2023 #8
Good advice from your dad - sometimes just getting there is the biggest battle. yonder Jan 2023 #9
Yep, the lobby was a good place to hang out until I felt better. No one bothered me. n/t TeamProg Jan 2023 #10
Never went to ER, just the hosp. lobby. n/t TeamProg Jan 2023 #11
Gotcha, hope all is better. yonder Jan 2023 #12
That was in the late '80's.. decades ago, but the advice is still valid. TeamProg Jan 2023 #13
Glad I'm in Germany Old Crank Jan 2023 #15
"No direct charges to me" markodochartaigh Jan 2023 #19
when I read that I was thinking Skittles Jan 2023 #36
When our second child was born in 1979, we had no medical coverage and were prepared to..... MMBeilis Jan 2023 #16
Back in the '90s, I remember that moms in labor would hang out in the parking lot of the hospital Otto_Harper Jan 2023 #21
I always have liquid Benadryl and Zyrtec on hand for allergic reactions. japple Jan 2023 #17
I have to get some (more) Benadryl always kept it as a just in case... electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #33
Damn. Now the hospitals will start charging by the minute for sitting in their lobby! erronis Jan 2023 #18
Well, so far, they can't pick your pocket for just waiting in the parking lot. calimary Jan 2023 #22
I did that when i had an attack of ventricular tach while i was cross-examining a witness. ER down Pepsidog Jan 2023 #20
omg! 275? nt ecstatic Jan 2023 #23
Yes. ER doc at level one trauma center was impressed. Was cardio-verted Pepsidog Jan 2023 #28
my issue would be getting there in the first place ecstatic Jan 2023 #24
i have afib. when heart goes off to 150 or so , i dont mess with it. AllaN01Bear Jan 2023 #25
Not sure you can actually get into the ER but you could get into the hospital lobby that's close. Peregrine Took Jan 2023 #26
Right, but that's not what I said.. Park just outside the ER, or go sit in the main hospital TeamProg Jan 2023 #27
Yes. I've done that. I have seizures, normally controlled on medication. Hortensis Jan 2023 #34
Life is fragile. Be well. nt TeamProg Jan 2023 #35
I worked as avolunteer at a hospital for six years, Mr.Bill Jan 2023 #31
If only we could convert to universal healthcare & area51 Jan 2023 #32
I did that once, many years ago. MineralMan Jan 2023 #38

wishstar

(5,270 posts)
37. Some of us get intense and almost paralyzing gas pains occasionally
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 06:06 AM
Jan 2023

The excruciating pain can last just a few minutes or quite a while during which I wonder if I have a twisted bowel obstruction or appendicitis or kidney stone and can't do anything but just breathe deeply until it goes away. If I'm at home I try to lie flat even though moving at all can intensify the pain and if outside I try to sit and take deep breaths until it subsides. Gas pain comes on unexpectedly for no obvious reason and might not come back for many months.

Chainfire

(17,549 posts)
4. The last time I went to an ER waiting was the key word.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 03:07 PM
Jan 2023

I sat there for six hours until I gave up, went to a commercial walk in and got seen in minutes...

Mr.Bill

(24,300 posts)
29. Actually, if they don't take you in immediately in the ER,
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 09:52 PM
Jan 2023

It probably means you're not going to die. It means they are busy with people in life-threatening issues. It's good news to not be one of those.

Just another way to look at it.

Chainfire

(17,549 posts)
30. They never triaged me....They didn't know if I was dying or not.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 09:59 PM
Jan 2023

Another local hospital recently had a woman thrown out of the ER by the cops and she died on the sidewalk from her heart attack..oops! There was a bit of a stink about that incident...

https://news.wfsu.org/health-science/2016-09-16/calhoun-liberty-hospital-reaches-settlement-with-ahca-over-patient-death

Jilly_in_VA

(9,979 posts)
5. I generally go to urgent care
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 03:12 PM
Jan 2023

if I can't see my regular doc and have waited something out. If they can't help me, they'll call 911 or tell me to get to ER if I have a ride.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
14. My younger brother had a nagging pain around his shoulder blade & couldn't keep unloading his truck
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 04:52 PM
Jan 2023

He went to urgent care (what he calls “doc in a box” ) and they told him he was in the middle of a heart attack and that his next ride was going to be to the hospital in an ambulance. And so it was.

Saved his life they did.

yonder

(9,666 posts)
9. Good advice from your dad - sometimes just getting there is the biggest battle.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 04:20 PM
Jan 2023

So how did the bee sting turn out? In this instance, did you actually go to the ER and get seen or went but waited it out?

yonder

(9,666 posts)
12. Gotcha, hope all is better.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 04:36 PM
Jan 2023

I've no bee sting allergies but have had other reactions making an ER trip necessary. Scary stuff. Benadryl is good to keep around and thanks again for the good wait-and-see-while-there advice.

TeamProg

(6,139 posts)
13. That was in the late '80's.. decades ago, but the advice is still valid.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 04:44 PM
Jan 2023

Ah, I thought it was clear that it was a historical event,, oops.

"I took the advice my dad gave me decades ago and it made sense."

I've had bad reactions to eating nuts, too, bananas.. rashes, gut issues.

Still alive!

Old Crank

(3,589 posts)
15. Glad I'm in Germany
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:04 PM
Jan 2023

Went to the ER for kidney stones.
Just ran my medical insurance card.
No direct charges to me.
Pain meds, IVs, CT scann, blood test,
and medications and prescriptions

I paid for the cab ride there and back.

markodochartaigh

(1,138 posts)
19. "No direct charges to me"
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:56 PM
Jan 2023

Well sure, if your metric for judging the health care system is health then I'm sure that is just great. But in the US our metric is profitability. And one of my senators made more money off Medicare than anyone else had to that point. I mean, technically it was fraud, but it's not like he had to do any time for it.

/$

Skittles

(153,168 posts)
36. when I read that I was thinking
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 05:46 AM
Jan 2023

people in civilized countries must think we're pretty fucking sad

MMBeilis

(191 posts)
16. When our second child was born in 1979, we had no medical coverage and were prepared to.....
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:21 PM
Jan 2023

......pay ourselves for the delivery, as we had for prenatal care. The first time my wife had some contractions that seemed like the real thing, we indeed did drive the 30 minutes to the hospital and sat in the parking lot biding our time, reluctant to go in and risk paying for a false alarm.

Otto_Harper

(509 posts)
21. Back in the '90s, I remember that moms in labor would hang out in the parking lot of the hospital
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:59 PM
Jan 2023

till after midnight. That is because the pricing policy baack then was that if you arrived before midnight, that was the first day of your stay. Since insurance companies would opnly pay for a couple of days for childbirth, they didn't want to lose that time in-hospital, if possible.

japple

(9,831 posts)
17. I always have liquid Benadryl and Zyrtec on hand for allergic reactions.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:31 PM
Jan 2023

It has saved me a lot of distress and, in one instance, one of my kitties. She got stung by a wasp and her face started swelling. I put a tiny bit in a syringe and squirted it down her throat. It must have tasted awful to her because she ran around like her tail was on fire, but the swelling went away within about an hour.

electric_blue68

(14,906 posts)
33. I have to get some (more) Benadryl always kept it as a just in case...
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 01:50 AM
Jan 2023

no plant allergies, but certain cleaning products etc bother me.
Never thought of liquid. I assume it works faster?


Your poor Kitty! Good thinking!

calimary

(81,304 posts)
22. Well, so far, they can't pick your pocket for just waiting in the parking lot.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 06:02 PM
Jan 2023

At least not until they install parking meters…

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
20. I did that when i had an attack of ventricular tach while i was cross-examining a witness. ER down
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 05:59 PM
Jan 2023

the street from court. Sat in car for an hour-then ER parking lot for 15 minutes-it did not stop. Sat in ER for 30 minutes then went to front desk. Dr. Comes over, taps on the monitor like my 275 heart rate was a malfunction. Rushed back to ER room where I was shocked 3 or 4 times until normal rhythm returned. Had an ablasion and all good since.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
28. Yes. ER doc at level one trauma center was impressed. Was cardio-verted
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 07:25 PM
Jan 2023

several times during the night while awake. Not fun.

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
24. my issue would be getting there in the first place
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 06:22 PM
Jan 2023

If I'm not "presentable" in appearance at the time of my issues that means I have to take a shower, do my hair, pick an outfit, etc. I could skip the hair and makeup part, I guess. But then I'd have to decide which hospital to go to. I guess I should come up with an emergency plan.

The rest of my concerns would be addressed by your dad's advice: Not wanting to be uncomfortable or look foolish, preparing myself mentally to sit in the ER for hours.

I actually spent all night at the ER with a friend and his final diagnosis was gas. lol

Peregrine Took

(7,414 posts)
26. Not sure you can actually get into the ER but you could get into the hospital lobby that's close.
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 07:13 PM
Jan 2023

In fact I know a nurse who works at a big hospital downtown and she says she sees the same seniors sitting in the lobby day after day reading or whatever.

Her surmise is that they just feel more secure being so close to the doctors and hospital itself.

TeamProg

(6,139 posts)
27. Right, but that's not what I said.. Park just outside the ER, or go sit in the main hospital
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 07:18 PM
Jan 2023

entrance (ie: lobby).

Just so were sure on this..

"""If you are undecided that you might need to go to an ER, it won't cost you anything to go to the hospital property, park near the ER or go inside the main hospital entrance / reception area and just SIT AND WAIT. """

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
34. Yes. I've done that. I have seizures, normally controlled on medication.
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 02:24 AM
Jan 2023

One time when I hit my face and neck on a table during a breakthrough, though, my neck swelled and I wondered if it could close off my windpipe if it continued. So my husband and I went and sat in a busy ER waiting room just to be safe. When I was still fine after a while, we left.

While I was there, btw, with a humongous black eye and other obvious facial bruising developing, one of the guys at triage came down the room to me and asked me how I was and what happened. Doing the job the hospital and society puts them there to do.

Just remembered another time when our toddler fell on his head nearly 50 years ago and his scared parents took him in the middle of the night to a small local ER. While waiting, he (and his father) had so much fun running around the empty waiting room with the wheelchairs, though, that they never did formally examine him. We waved goodbye that time.

Mr.Bill

(24,300 posts)
31. I worked as avolunteer at a hospital for six years,
Tue Jan 10, 2023, 10:05 PM
Jan 2023

most of it at the desk in the OP waiting room. There are people who just like to hang around hospitals for various reasons. Most hospitals have pretty decent, healthy food for reasonable prices in their cafeterias. Some are there for the reasons you spoke of, too. They are usually elderly and quite harmless. Some of the waiting rooms have free coffee. Some of them are just looking for someone to talk to. If they cause any problems, security will be quick to escort them out.

area51

(11,910 posts)
32. If only we could convert to universal healthcare &
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 12:59 AM
Jan 2023

we wouldn't need to worry about ER bills/copays, etc.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
38. I did that once, many years ago.
Wed Jan 11, 2023, 11:56 AM
Jan 2023

When I was a teenager, I had a reaction to a bee sting. A few years later, I was riding my motorcycle when I was stung by a bee on the arm. I guess I ran into the bee on the road.

I thought about it, and rode to a nearby hospital and walked in the the ER. I took a seat in the waiting area, just to wait and see if I would have a reaction to the sting. After about 10 minutes, a nurse came over to where I was sitting and asked if I needed help. I explained the bee sting and that I was just waiting to see if I had a reaction. She said, "Smart. Good idea. Let us know."

That was it. After 15 minutes, I had no reaction, so I left, but not until after telling that nurse I was leaving and was fine.

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