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barbtries

(28,787 posts)
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:12 PM Feb 2023

Three years on,

my youngest son and his wife have COVID for the first time. (NC)

my oldest son and his entire family have had it probably more than once (in CA)

my middle son and I, who live together in NC, haven't had it yet. he works in a grocery and worked in that grocery all through the pandemic. He does continue to mask at work.

still, I don't get it. I'm essentially a recluse who wears a mask even going through a drive thru restaurant, but I live with a person who is in contact with the public all day and every day, and we have not contracted this virus.

anyhow. Their symptoms are mild, they are young, and that's all good. But it sucks anyhow, even now. My middle son and I may be among the last people I know who have not had COVID.

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tblue37

(65,269 posts)
1. I haven't had it but I am not social. I have very little contact--just one hour a week
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:16 PM
Feb 2023

when I tutor and three times a month grocery shopping.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
2. that would explain it for me too,
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:19 PM
Feb 2023

except that I live with the son who statistically anyway, should have already had it! luck of the draw I guess.

tblue37

(65,269 posts)
6. Of course we might have had an asymptomatic case without knowing it. But it's
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:25 PM
Feb 2023

more likely that social isolation and full vaccination has protected us.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
7. yep. and the masks.
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:27 PM
Feb 2023

I'll never stop wearing one. I'm 67 and there are so many nasty bugs out there, not just COVID.

mucifer

(23,521 posts)
3. My theory is you might have had it a few times with no or extremely mild symptoms.
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:21 PM
Feb 2023

Just a theory. We aren't all testing a lot and people who had to test for work often were asymptomatic.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
5. i test frequently,
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:24 PM
Feb 2023

including when I've been somewhere - for instance after I traveled to CA. so far, never a positive.

there is a slight chance that I had it in Oct2019 - I got sick on a trip to CA, sick as I've ever been. But COVID wasn't a thing then, and so of course it wasn't diagnosed as such. Other things weigh against it as well - I got bronchitis but not pneumonia, no sensory loss. We'll never know for sure.

the thing is with my comorbidities and my smoking, I would not expect to be symptomless. I would be afraid of dying though.

mucifer

(23,521 posts)
8. You test weekly or more? That's what health care professionals did and many tested positive with
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:28 PM
Feb 2023

no symptoms.

I think most everyone has had it but could be asymptomatic throughout the course or just sniffles or something.

SheilaAnn

(9,691 posts)
4. I haven't had it either; I'm 83 and live in a Senior building. Many still mask but most don't. Its
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 01:21 PM
Feb 2023

a crapshoot at best.

multigraincracker

(32,656 posts)
10. Some folks have genes that make them less likely to get it.
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 02:15 PM
Feb 2023

I know some that never catch colds when every one else get it. That doesn't mean you won't, just less likely.

Just my take on it

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
11. we do have the blood type that's favorable,
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 04:44 PM
Feb 2023

but the genes I don't know - 2 out of 3 of my boys have caught it. I don't know. I really don't. I'm thankful though.

multigraincracker

(32,656 posts)
15. My brother did the DNA test
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 05:25 PM
Feb 2023

and then I took it. Turned out we only share 49.6 of our genes. I now know he’s not my brother, he’s my half brother.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
16. oh wow.
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 05:31 PM
Feb 2023

I was about 10 years old when I got the hint and maybe as old as 15 when it was confirmed that my older brother and sister are half siblings. My mother did not want anyone to know that.

Anyhow. My father had adopted them and we're siblings and that's that. I mean, I still love my brother even though he's a racist MAGA foxbot and we no longer talk.

All of my sons are half brothers - I had 4 children by 3 men. So there's that. I don't ever think of them as less than brothers and hopefully they don't either.

WarGamer

(12,423 posts)
12. I'm sick right now... was sure it was covid again.
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 05:02 PM
Feb 2023

Same symptoms... but test came out negative.

So just cold/flu I guess.

WarGamer

(12,423 posts)
14. thx...
Sat Feb 25, 2023, 05:13 PM
Feb 2023

Really feels like when I had covid. I have the same achy joints, my knees feel like I was hiking yesterday. Cough, headache and fever...

Basically one day of feeling like "wow Im getting sick" and then a full day of "damn im sick" and then slightly better each day after that.

I'm mid 50's...

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