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tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 11:46 AM Nov 2012

I received a peanutbutter and jelly sandwich and a bottle of water from a van yesterday afternoon

While I was working to put our home back together my local government employees drove by offering food and water to people in my neighborhood where Sandy's storm surge reached 9+ feet.

I was hungry while working so I accepted a sandwich and a bottle of water. I was offered a whole case of water and other nonperishable food - I declined and accepted only what I needed at the moment.

I nearly cried, I was so happy that someone gave a shit.

I guess I got a bit of my "free stuff."

Thank you "collectivists!"

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I received a peanutbutter and jelly sandwich and a bottle of water from a van yesterday afternoon (Original Post) tk2kewl Nov 2012 OP
Wish we all lived closer so we could help you with the labor. Skidmore Nov 2012 #1
+1000! SammyWinstonJack Nov 2012 #2
thanks... could be worse tk2kewl Nov 2012 #3
I sure hope no one was in those homes when the sea went through there. Skidmore Nov 2012 #39
Wow, I thought those were toys at first glance. In case anyone wonders, as I did, Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #50
Amen. TahitiNut Nov 2012 #36
My dad's a lawyer tk2kewl Nov 2012 #38
+1! uponit7771 Nov 2012 #70
"...Collectivists" CanSocDem Nov 2012 #4
I don't think I've femrap Nov 2012 #60
I know you didn't address this to me, but,I'm a socialist and I live in a communal living situation tavalon Nov 2012 #64
All decisions femrap Nov 2012 #72
Hey, and the rest f us don't mind paying for this nadinbrzezinski Nov 2012 #5
LOL. Uh, huh, uh, huh tavalon Nov 2012 #65
Yes, as opposed to their philosophy of borrow and spend. japple Nov 2012 #68
From the collectivist horde, 'You'e Welcome.' Wish I was there to offer you some help. freshwest Nov 2012 #6
that is why we have a government tk2kewl Nov 2012 #17
That's what I tell people. Taxes pay for those we don't know. It's a good thing. Stay safe! freshwest Nov 2012 #22
Lots of us do care meeshrox Nov 2012 #7
where is your mom's cuosin? tk2kewl Nov 2012 #16
Long Beach, NY 10 blocks from the beach meeshrox Nov 2012 #29
very fortunate not to have gotten hurt or killed tk2kewl Nov 2012 #32
That's terrible beyond words! meeshrox Nov 2012 #33
Damn it all. tavalon Nov 2012 #67
Our friends in Long Beach tried to stay, too. Lost their 3 cars. aquart Nov 2012 #37
Yep, my mom's cousin lost her car, furniture, etc. meeshrox Nov 2012 #40
My geology professor told a story about a colleague, a fellow geologist aquart Nov 2012 #41
I shudder to think what the insurance was for that meeshrox Nov 2012 #42
I am so glad my taxes paid for you sandwich and water. Wouldn't have it any other way. Booster Nov 2012 #8
Been thinking about all of you affected by Sandy. hamsterjill Nov 2012 #9
fortunately I now have a generator hooked up and my gas is on tk2kewl Nov 2012 #11
You sound scary self-sufficient. I really like that. nt DCKit Nov 2012 #23
I hope you and your wife enjoy dinner! JNelson6563 Nov 2012 #49
My guess is this was a local worker's private initiative. intheflow Nov 2012 #10
could be... tk2kewl Nov 2012 #13
MREs add another dimension to the story. intheflow Nov 2012 #63
Been there, done that. You should have taken all you needed when they offered sarah FAILIN Nov 2012 #12
i have family in unaffected areas tk2kewl Nov 2012 #14
K/R (nt) NYC_SKP Nov 2012 #15
That's just too cool. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #18
tk2kewl, where are you at? I'm a fellow Tri-State DUer. DinahMoeHum Nov 2012 #19
I'm in Westchester too -- had the opposite. We lucked out tremendously on my block, Chorophyll Nov 2012 #31
You must be one of the people who wants "free stuff" AlbertCat Nov 2012 #20
You had to go there.... someone did. DCKit Nov 2012 #24
I am truly SICK of this new round of the... AlbertCat Nov 2012 #25
You think they're that smart? Dream on. nt DCKit Nov 2012 #28
I'm about 1/2 mile from the FEMA/Red Cross tent city at Monmouth Park Racetrack bklyncowgirl Nov 2012 #21
Geez, I had no idea. We were in western VA for the storm and didn't see any damage. DCKit Nov 2012 #26
Good luck with your home. Liberal_in_LA Nov 2012 #27
K&R and I hope your recovery efforts go smoothly from here on in. Chorophyll Nov 2012 #30
thanks tk2kewl Nov 2012 #35
"Peanut Butter and Jelly for Everyone" rosesaylavee Nov 2012 #34
Good luck to you and thanks for sharing flygal Nov 2012 #43
... reminds me of quote in movie SEABISCUT from time of Depression, LA Kings Fan Nov 2012 #44
nice quote tk2kewl Nov 2012 #46
Thnx LA Kings Fan Nov 2012 #52
I'm so sorry to hear of all the upheaval that Sandy caused. ailsagirl Nov 2012 #45
Best wishes ProSense Nov 2012 #47
THIS IS WHY I PAY TAXES!!! Maine-i-acs Nov 2012 #48
HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Nov 2012 #51
I'm glad you got what you needed. We're all in this together. Aristus Nov 2012 #53
Hell. Yes. Good government at work. DirkGently Nov 2012 #54
I know how that feels, tk2kewl! Hurricane Iniki on Kaua'i in '92.. 20 years ago but Cha Nov 2012 #55
Where are you? Beacool Nov 2012 #56
you mean.. a FREE LUNCH?!?! RedCappedBandit Nov 2012 #57
kicking argiel1234 Nov 2012 #58
Bless you Buddy, you're a nice fella/lady.... fadedrose Nov 2012 #59
Good on you dude! lonestarnot Nov 2012 #61
. myrna minx Nov 2012 #62
tk2kewl, I wish I could buy you prime rib. I hug you from Alaska. I wish you all well. roguevalley Nov 2012 #66
got a fire going in the fireplace tonight tk2kewl Nov 2012 #73
damn. I may come over to your house for dinner. :D I hug you both. roguevalley Nov 2012 #74
Another socialist freeloading 47%er gets addicted to the government teat. Buzz Clik Nov 2012 #69
I'm glad that you got a little bit of help. I'm happy to help pay for that. yardwork Nov 2012 #71
 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
3. thanks... could be worse
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 11:51 AM
Nov 2012

my coffee guy pulled out a news clipping from last year which included this pic:



hard to feel sorry for yourself when you put things in perspective

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,771 posts)
50. Wow, I thought those were toys at first glance. In case anyone wonders, as I did,
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 06:24 PM
Nov 2012

the photo is of "A ferry stranded on a building is seen in Otsuchi, Iwate Prefecture, northern Japan, Sunday, March 13, 2011, two days after a powerful earthquake-triggered tsunami hit the country's east coast."

 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
4. "...Collectivists"
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 11:55 AM
Nov 2012


Thank you. We don't hear that word around here much.

Best wishes on getting your stuff back together...

.
 

femrap

(13,418 posts)
60. I don't think I've
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 12:12 AM
Nov 2012

ever heard it....'Comrade,' yes.

But I like the sound of it.

What party do you belong to? I'm a Collectivist.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
64. I know you didn't address this to me, but,I'm a socialist and I live in a communal living situation
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 04:32 AM
Nov 2012

So, I guess I fall somewhere between communist and socialist but it's been a heck of a long time since I've heard the term collectivist as well. If you look at my sig line, I'm part of that collective, too. I really, really, really believe in the we before me. I'm glad there are more and more of us around.

 

femrap

(13,418 posts)
72. All decisions
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 03:33 PM
Nov 2012

have to consider the collective/community and how it will be effected. You're lucky to have a communal living situation. I live in a small apartment complex where the dude next door wants to beat the crap out of me. I asked him to turn down the music after midnight. Then I was told that "We're going to get rid of you." Not very communal, I'd say. Anyway, I think I've taken care of this situation.

We all live in such tiny places with so many people around. It's like that experiment with the rats...how many can you put in a cage before they turn on each other???

I'm also a big fan of the Business Coop. Socialism meant 'sharing' to me. Isn't that what we were taught as children?

I'll check out your sig line.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
5. Hey, and the rest f us don't mind paying for this
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 11:58 AM
Nov 2012

With taxes.

The evil gub'mint moves food and water for those affected as part of the planning and operations. They plan for this...you and I pay for it.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
65. LOL. Uh, huh, uh, huh
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 04:35 AM
Nov 2012

Someone called me a "tax and spend liberal" the other day. My answer, "Why, yes, I am!".

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
17. that is why we have a government
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:55 PM
Nov 2012

we can't all be where the help is needed, but we can organize and plan to make sure someone is.

Thanks

meeshrox

(671 posts)
7. Lots of us do care
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:07 PM
Nov 2012

and hope for a speedy recovery for everyone there!

That is a wonderful story! I hope people continue to pull together and teach those "rugged individualists" that we are all in this together!

My mother wants to rent a van and bring building supplies for her cousin if they run out locally as she rebuilds. I would love to expand that and have a whole caravan of people bringing stuff. I should add that I'm in Florida...

meeshrox

(671 posts)
29. Long Beach, NY 10 blocks from the beach
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:47 PM
Nov 2012

Cannot believe she stayed! 2 1/2 feet of water in her house, just remodeled last year, no flood insurance. I love her as family, but wonder why she didn't think it would be so bad despite the evacuation order. I so wanted to call her up and plea that she leave! I'm a geologist and could have described to her the play-by-play, just like how I watched it unfold online and on tv, and just like I learned in school how barrier islands are the last place to be during a hurricane.

She is staying with our aunt in Flushing and still has her job and health. She'll rebuild and will be fine. I worry for so many others who will not.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
32. very fortunate not to have gotten hurt or killed
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:57 PM
Nov 2012

a friend-of-a-friend's family stayed in Marine Park until it was too late and while trying to leave the mother went back for some belongings and debris came through the window - she was badly cut by glass and bled to death with her kids and husband in the house

meeshrox

(671 posts)
33. That's terrible beyond words!
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 02:14 PM
Nov 2012

I am so sorry your friend's family has to endure such tragedy on top of everything else. My heart is aching for you and your friends. I hope you can find comfort in the kindness of everyone in your community, both in the NE and throughout the country.

Before my mom and I leave for NY with supplies (might be a couple of months until she's ready for materials), I'll PM you to see if you or your friends need anything. In the meantime, to please let me know if I can do anything!

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
67. Damn it all.
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 04:37 AM
Nov 2012

Broken belongings suck. But destroyed lives is a whole other level. I'm so sorry for them and also for what you've had to endure.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
37. Our friends in Long Beach tried to stay, too. Lost their 3 cars.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 02:50 PM
Nov 2012

Then needed help getting out. But they're back in, cleaning like crazy.

meeshrox

(671 posts)
40. Yep, my mom's cousin lost her car, furniture, etc.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 02:57 PM
Nov 2012

but was able to save her clothes and a few valuables. She does go back to clean but doesn't have much time during the day because of the curfew and travel to/from Flushing.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
41. My geology professor told a story about a colleague, a fellow geologist
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 02:58 PM
Nov 2012

Who built a house in California cantilevered (is that the word?) Across a heavily-wooded canyon above a very well known fault line. When he asked his friend how, how could he do it, the reply was "But the view!"

meeshrox

(671 posts)
42. I shudder to think what the insurance was for that
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 03:13 PM
Nov 2012

if that would even be covered, considering his profession.

I know that a huge majority of these coastal homes were already built, paid off, and handed down within families, but at least evacuation orders should be given due attention. Forecasting for storm surge and other hurricane hazards is so sophisticated nowadays. They can tell exactly which blocks of which neighborhoods are most at risk based on topography, etc. It's really tragic what happened and I hope it becomes a hard-learned lesson going forward. The biggest difference between the storm of 1962 (?) and now is the forecasting ability.

Booster

(10,021 posts)
8. I am so glad my taxes paid for you sandwich and water. Wouldn't have it any other way.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:21 PM
Nov 2012

I just hope they do more for everyone in your area. We're in this together and wish you the best & i do give a shit.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
9. Been thinking about all of you affected by Sandy.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:36 PM
Nov 2012

Heard today that there are still so many without power eleven days out.

Please know that we all wish you the best and I'd buy you a steak if I were closer. I'll content myself with the fact that my taxes accomplished a little good, at least.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
11. fortunately I now have a generator hooked up and my gas is on
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:41 PM
Nov 2012

i think my wife will be cooking up an nice steak tonight so we can resume ripping out sheetrock and insulation tomorrow

thanks

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
49. I hope you and your wife enjoy dinner!
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 05:52 PM
Nov 2012

And that your recovery goes well. Thanks for posting your OP.

Many of us are with you in spirit!



Julie

intheflow

(28,486 posts)
10. My guess is this was a local worker's private initiative.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:39 PM
Nov 2012

Paid out of their own pockets. The government doesn't hand out peanut butter and jelly sandwiches because of public health issues. That's why the Red Cross gets government money (strict food handling guidelines) and Food Not Bombs gets driven out of public parks for trying to feed the homeless. I think this was neighbors helping neighbors - perhaps an even sweeter story.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
13. could be...
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:43 PM
Nov 2012

i was thinking that the town probably was offering delivery service in cooperation with red cross. they had MREs among other things.

red cross has been making the tour in another neighborhood where i own a rental property. my neighbor there calls it the lunch wagon.

intheflow

(28,486 posts)
63. MREs add another dimension to the story.
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 01:27 AM
Nov 2012

Could have been any combination of groups, then. I worked with a Methodist relief agency after Hurricane Katrina who'd been given MREs from the government to hand out, and they also served a lunch (with many a pb&j) to local kids in their church dining room. At any rate, I'm glad to know there are feet on the ground serving you.

sarah FAILIN

(2,857 posts)
12. Been there, done that. You should have taken all you needed when they offered
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:42 PM
Nov 2012

We were out of power 10 days when tornadoes hit Al and cut off from any help the first day. I refused to go to the feeding stations that had been set up because I felt like I should save that for someone worse off than myself that might not even have shelter. Food that I could buy in the stores once I could get there was very limited the first couple of days as was ice to keep my sandwich stuff cold but it got better. By the time we were able to get to work again and the power was back, I had spent quite a chunk restocking and I was sick to death of sandwiches. I wished I had taken the free hot meals that were offered, lol. Thinking about you guys every day and hoping for the best.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
14. i have family in unaffected areas
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 12:46 PM
Nov 2012

so i still have a heated room to go to when needed and food hasn't been scarce. the snow wednesday was a kick in the ass, but we are hanging tough. Thanks

DinahMoeHum

(21,802 posts)
19. tk2kewl, where are you at? I'm a fellow Tri-State DUer.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:19 PM
Nov 2012
PM me and let's communicate. Thanks.

Perhaps some us DUers who may live nearby can help you out.

My neighborhood in Westchester County got back the electricity last night.
After 10 days without. Our main problems were power outage, downed trees and impassable roads. No damage to the home, though, thank G#d.
For about a week, I have been staying at my mother's home 5 miles away. I'm taking my stuff back to my place tomorrow.

Lots of hugs to you from all of us.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
31. I'm in Westchester too -- had the opposite. We lucked out tremendously on my block,
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:52 PM
Nov 2012

but I had my Mom staying with me for a week until her power came back.

Glad you're going home.

 

DCKit

(18,541 posts)
24. You had to go there.... someone did.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:30 PM
Nov 2012

You're not going to get any shit from me, you fucking commie.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
25. I am truly SICK of this new round of the...
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:36 PM
Nov 2012

...."welfare queens" lie. Can't Repugs even think of a new fake excuse for their loss?

bklyncowgirl

(7,960 posts)
21. I'm about 1/2 mile from the FEMA/Red Cross tent city at Monmouth Park Racetrack
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:24 PM
Nov 2012

My husband went down there to get ice. He came back with three bags of ice and a box of MREs. Said they couldn't have been nicer.

We've sustained damage to our roof and have had no power since the night of the hurricane. Others are so much worse off than we are that we feel lucky. Hope your recovery goes well.

 

DCKit

(18,541 posts)
26. Geez, I had no idea. We were in western VA for the storm and didn't see any damage.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 01:37 PM
Nov 2012

It was raging, but no threat.

I'm so sorry for you folks, honestly. However, trust me, if we'd had stronger winds, the house would now be naked and bereft of siding. I'm dealing with lots of other issues, but my heart is still big enough to feel for you.

rosesaylavee

(12,126 posts)
34. "Peanut Butter and Jelly for Everyone"
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 02:39 PM
Nov 2012

I think we will add that to our new 2016 platform.

Sorry you are suffering with all this still!

LA Kings Fan

(4 posts)
44. ... reminds me of quote in movie SEABISCUT from time of Depression,
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 04:36 PM
Nov 2012

" They called it “relief,” but it was a lot more than that.
It had dozens of names; N.R.A., W.P.A., the C.C.C. But it really came down to just one thing.
For the first time in a long time, someone cared.
For the first time in a long time, you were no longer alone
.
"

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
45. I'm so sorry to hear of all the upheaval that Sandy caused.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 04:47 PM
Nov 2012

But I'm so glad that people are helping each other out. Good luck with everything!

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
47. Best wishes
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 05:08 PM
Nov 2012

I can't imagine the hardship you're facing, but being without power and heat for several days was annoying.

Your post made me cry. Good luck with everything and I hope life returns to normal for you soon.

You're in my prayers.

Peace.

Maine-i-acs

(1,499 posts)
48. THIS IS WHY I PAY TAXES!!!
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 05:40 PM
Nov 2012

I WANT my money going toward these "handouts". Sometimes the "heavy hand of government" is a GOOD thing!

Good luck and God bless the OP (and the USA).

Aristus

(66,434 posts)
53. I'm glad you got what you needed. We're all in this together.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 08:16 PM
Nov 2012

We're in it together with the freepers, too, unfortunately. But I don't begrudge them their PB&J and water. People are getting help. That's what's important...

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
54. Hell. Yes. Good government at work.
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 08:25 PM
Nov 2012

I hope you, the neighborhood, and the rest of the area get all the help you need.

Thanks for sharing this.

Be well.

Cha

(297,446 posts)
55. I know how that feels, tk2kewl! Hurricane Iniki on Kaua'i in '92.. 20 years ago but
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 08:42 PM
Nov 2012

you never forget the feeling of gratitude.

Best Wishes for a Timely Recovery for you and all those affected by Sandy.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
56. Where are you?
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 10:10 PM
Nov 2012

I'm in Hoboken, NJ and 50% of the town was flooded. Luckily, I'm on high ground and my apt. bldg. and car were fine. Although we were without power for almost a week. After the storm only one street in the entire town had power. The transformers were so flooded that it took days to pump the water out and repair them.

Today was my first day back at work. The company has several offices in downtown Manhattan and they aren't going to be back in use for about 8 weeks. It's a mess.

Good luck with the cleanup. I hope that you didn't lose much.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
57. you mean.. a FREE LUNCH?!?!
Fri Nov 9, 2012, 10:51 PM
Nov 2012

gasp

edit: I am sorry for the damaged Sandy caused. Hope you and your family can recover quickly. Glad to hear there's some help out there.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
73. got a fire going in the fireplace tonight
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 09:08 PM
Nov 2012

and my wife just brought a skirt steak in from the grill and fied it up with arugula, onions a Tuscon dressing and parmigian cheese

good way to end a hard day ripping out drywall

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
69. Another socialist freeloading 47%er gets addicted to the government teat.
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 11:30 AM
Nov 2012


Truly, that was awesome.

yardwork

(61,680 posts)
71. I'm glad that you got a little bit of help. I'm happy to help pay for that.
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 11:43 AM
Nov 2012

Disasters hit my state sometimes too. If I am ever unlucky enough to be in a disaster - which is probable sooner or later - then I know that you will not begrudge me a little bit of help and you will be glad that your tax dollars are helping us all out.

That's what this is all about. Republicans don't get that.

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