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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMom is sick and has been in the hospital.
Earlier in the month I talked about my mom being in the hospital with RSV and Pneumonia. Well, I have been by my mother's side while she has been in the hospital (her local) getting worse. It was discovered she had a Staph infection which was effecting her heart and she was developing a Kidney issue.
While in the hospital they had been trying to do physical Therapy with her daily and would increasingly be more and more painful. she couldn't even get a bed bath without being so painful. I have been doing my best to be her advocate and keep the various diagnosis straight. Thursday Ortho came did x-rays on her hip and pulled fluid from her hip. Yesterday the ortho doctors came up said staph infection was in her hip and her hip replacement (which she got in 99) was failing her. She was frustrated with various Diagnosis. she sick and miserable wants to go to Allegheny. I demand she goes there.
We also have a cousin ( and her Godson) who is head of one of the departments in Allegheny General. He also thru her local Doctor has been keeping an eye on her.
Hospital is all nasty and is like well, it isn't going to be instant, and it could be 2 or 4 days before they have a bed to transfer her and Administration coming in CYA the hospital that are just chasing symptoms and not viewing and treating the whole and getting ahead of it.. I call the cousin with my mom on speaker phone. We tell him everything she has gone thru and asked his help. long story short she was being loaded into an ambulance at 10:30 pm to be taken to Pittsburgh. My sister came in from the state she lives in to give me a break. she followed the Ambulance down and has been with her since. I feel guilty being home while she's there, but everyone is saying take a break.
Today they did x-rays and the Doctor came in saying they didn't find infection in her hip. They see part of the hip is failing and preventing her from moving and walking. The primary concern is the staff infection which is not only in the heart but also effecting her kidneys.
May I please ask you to send some healing vibes my mother's way. I will be at her side at Alleghany but will need to call my work place since I originally thought she would be discharge from the hospital on the 10th.
Thank you for letting me vent.
BlueWaveNeverEnd
(7,915 posts)PA_jen
(1,114 posts)Walleye
(31,015 posts)I sure hope it works out for you, life can be so damn tough
PA_jen
(1,114 posts)Walleye
(31,015 posts)It was very tough whilevthey knocked out that infection though
hamsterjill
(15,220 posts)And I have done that both for you and your mother. May you both find healing, peace and comfort.
PA_jen
(1,114 posts)chillfactor
(7,574 posts)Sending prayers her way.
PA_jen
(1,114 posts)malaise
(268,949 posts)spanone
(135,827 posts)Healing Vibes heading to your Mother.....
a kennedy
(29,655 posts)Sending whatever positive vibes I can, heres to your moms rapid healing.
PA_jen
(1,114 posts)CousinIT
(9,240 posts)At least the infection - because the hip cant be dealt with until that is gone. Wishing her the very best. AND you. You must be exhausted being there for her and advocating for her while fighting snotty hospital admin. But you got her what she needs so you are a hero! Pat yourself on the back for that! You do need some time for yourself. Let your sister be there for a bit. You cant help her best unless you take care of yourself first. Please do that. Then go back into the fray.
Wishing for a complete cure of that infection SOON.
MacKasey
(986 posts)May the healing light of the holy spirit surround your Mom and God keep her safe in the palm of his hand
brer cat
(24,560 posts)I hope you are getting some rest and things will resolve with your mother soon. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your mother.
mobeau69
(11,143 posts)Hang in there Jen. Youre doing all you can do and thats all you can do.
Danmel
(4,913 posts)In the Jewish tradition, you use the person's first name and their moms first name. If you're comfortable letting me know then, I'll be happy to add her to the list at our synagogue.
May the One who blessed our ancestors
Patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob,
Matriarchs Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, and Leah
bless and heal the one who is ill:
________________ son/daughter of ________________ .
May the Holy Blessed One
overflow with compassion upon him/her,
to restore him/her,
to heal him/her,
to strengthen him/her,
to enliven him/her.
The One will send him/her, speedily,
a complete healing
healing of the soul and healing of the body
along with all the ill,
among the people of Israel and all humankind,
soon,
speedily,
without delay,
and let us all say: Amen!
PA_jen
(1,114 posts)Lifeafter70
(203 posts)PA_jen
(1,114 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,592 posts)Lonestarblue
(9,978 posts)I hope that infection gets knocked out, and shes soon feeling better.
Hope22
(1,818 posts)Take the breaks when you can get them. 💗💗🙏💐
Cadfael
(1,296 posts)highplainsdem
(48,971 posts)Tanuki
(14,918 posts)Praying for healing and for the skill and wisdom of her medical team.
Hekate
(90,646 posts)irisblue
(32,969 posts)Texasgal
(17,045 posts)and gentle hugs your way. I am so sorry that you and your Family are going this. I hope she gets the help she needs at the new facility.
LoisB
(7,202 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)and then on to repairing her hip. Hope taking this big step helps her feel better in itself.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)MLAA
(17,285 posts)Speaking from experience you and your sister need to take turns so you can both keep going for how ever long it takes to get mom back on her feet and safely home .
Faux pas
(14,668 posts)Super extra healing vibes for her and stress healing vibes to you
Karadeniz
(22,510 posts)TheBlackAdder
(28,184 posts)crickets
(25,963 posts)sprinkleeninow
(20,237 posts)🕯🙏
onecaliberal
(32,829 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)and for you and all those who know and love her.
UpInArms
(51,282 posts)and hoping you all get good rest and get well
((((((hugs)))))
Fla Dem
(23,654 posts)So fortunate you were able, through your Godson, to get her to Alleghany. I hope now with more attentive and acute care she will recover quickly, although it does sound as if she'll need that hip replacement updated.
All the best for a speedy and full recovery.