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xmas74

(29,674 posts)
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:26 AM Mar 2023

I've been here since 2004 and I'm tired

It's exhausting how often I see people disparage or outright ridicule residents of other states.

We have plenty of people here who are from those red states. They work their butts off trying to elect Dems. It's hard, especially when your state party receives nearly zero funds from the DNC. It's hard to campaign when the GOP is outspending you by large amounts of money.

I live in Missouri. Kansas City, St Louis and Columbia are blue. What hurts us is how much of the state is rural. The rural areas have elected politicians who go to the state capital, pass laws that fight voting rights, realign district maps to purposely break up purple areas into larger red areas that counteract any votes for Democrats. In many of these rural areas Democrats no longer run, allowing for a GOP stronghold. Why don't they run? They can't afford it, knowing they'll receive no funding from the state party because the state party receives very little national funding.

I see it over and over again about how we just don't "try hard enough". I worked in an essential job during the pandemic where I put in 90 hour weeks. I still did my damnedest to campaign, make phone calls, write and mail post cards, etc. I ran a local club. We were involved. Did I mention how we lost several members to covid and a few were also fighting cancer, myself included?

I've had several in my personal life ask how I could even post here. They've read the comments left about red states and felt they wouldn't be accepted here. Posters here don't realize that others do read their comments.

I'm not leaving. This isn't a departure post. It's just a reminder that we were created to be a haven for Dems. In our bashing we seem to forget that not everyone here lives in a city in a blue state.

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I've been here since 2004 and I'm tired (Original Post) xmas74 Mar 2023 OP
I hear ya. Liberal In Texas Mar 2023 #1
Yep. xmas74 Mar 2023 #3
A hell of a lot of Republican crap has been tested in Texas hamsterjill Mar 2023 #43
so true! All of the big cities and most of the counties yellowdogintexas Mar 2023 #77
Fort Worth being blue is proof of how hard Dems are working! summer_in_TX Mar 2023 #174
Thank you. I take your reminder seriously. delisen Mar 2023 #2
Posters here forget that new people look at places like this. xmas74 Mar 2023 #7
Excellent post. AbnerBunny Mar 2023 #4
Kentucky tries so hard xmas74 Mar 2023 #9
Kick zuul Mar 2023 #5
Thank you nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #11
I agree. murielm99 Mar 2023 #6
Outside of Chicago it gets red fast. xmas74 Mar 2023 #16
Pennsylvania too Freddie Mar 2023 #48
MontCo? Tree-Hugger Mar 2023 #71
Upper Bucks Freddie Mar 2023 #93
He is awful Tree-Hugger Mar 2023 #99
I doubt many progressives are voting for him, that would be centre to centre right, moderate to Celerity Mar 2023 #144
"Progressive Democratic Party voters are almost always far more partisan in favour of PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #163
Yes, without a doubt. Centrist, centre right , moderate, and conservative Democrats Celerity Mar 2023 #164
The Sierra foothills of California are pretty red... Whatthe_Firetruck Mar 2023 #161
I'm one of them samplegirl Mar 2023 #8
Ohio is so tough to crack! xmas74 Mar 2023 #18
Someone in here samplegirl Mar 2023 #78
Some here seem to think I should do more xmas74 Mar 2023 #148
Don't pay any attention samplegirl Mar 2023 #179
Well said and thank you for all your work. Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #186
Thank you for this OP. MontanaMama Mar 2023 #10
Thank you for fighting what feels like a losing battle. xmas74 Mar 2023 #15
I don't think that, Mama, cilla4progress Mar 2023 #36
Hey my friend... MontanaMama Mar 2023 #52
You got some great young people, there - cilla4progress Mar 2023 #57
That lawsuit gets a huge gold star, it's exactly what the country needs. JudyM Mar 2023 #67
I live in Oregon but a conservative city Tree Lady Mar 2023 #12
People forget or don't realize xmas74 Mar 2023 #22
I'm in eastern Washington. cilla4progress Mar 2023 #58
Exactly xmas74 Mar 2023 #66
I remind DU people as often as possible about inland California because of the enduring fantasy... Hekate Mar 2023 #138
If one wants some rural California insanity, take a look at Shasta County. PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #162
I am in Medford southern Oregon Tree Lady Mar 2023 #116
back in the mod days, mopinko Mar 2023 #13
We've been here for so long! xmas74 Mar 2023 #19
i spent a few years in the hot tub, and yeah, i think about it often. mopinko Mar 2023 #45
I remember it well. xmas74 Mar 2023 #47
Thanks for this fair criticism. ancianita Mar 2023 #125
I also miss being able to comment on alerts. It made a difference to be able to say something like... Hekate Mar 2023 #136
yeah, that's another thing- looking at a whole thread. mopinko Mar 2023 #142
I agree 100% with this comment and subthread. Thabks. n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #181
New York gave us Donald Trump, George Santos, and a Republican-controlled House dalton99a Mar 2023 #14
Exactly xmas74 Mar 2023 #21
Keep in mind that there are way more Koch dark money info/influence campaigns going on than get ancianita Mar 2023 #126
Thank you for this observation, ancianita. I am glad to hear that young people are paying attention. Hekate Mar 2023 #141
Well-spotted, dalton! Hekate Mar 2023 #140
Thank you blogslug Mar 2023 #17
It really is. Nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #23
Just want to shout out a big AMEN to ya! bluestarone Mar 2023 #20
Missouri used to be a bellwether. xmas74 Mar 2023 #25
:) I'm in a blood-red district in Georgia, and I'm grateful to Hortensis Mar 2023 #61
It's so hard sometimes xmas74 Mar 2023 #69
Ten people a year! That's...incredible. Hope that's fast-tracked Hortensis Mar 2023 #106
The state legislature has done everything possible xmas74 Mar 2023 #168
A big thank you from Wisconsin! Talitha Mar 2023 #24
I'm originally from Wisconsin. xmas74 Mar 2023 #26
I agree Marthe48 Mar 2023 #27
And thank you for replying. xmas74 Mar 2023 #28
Humans are inclined to disparage and ridicule "others" Model35mech Mar 2023 #29
I do know that xmas74 Mar 2023 #31
+1000. And I'm so glad this is not a "departure post." Hortensis Mar 2023 #30
You knew I wasn't departing. xmas74 Mar 2023 #32
:) A reflection of the extreme intolerance that's now horribly mistaken Hortensis Mar 2023 #88
A big K&R! Bayard Mar 2023 #33
Even here in Missouri xmas74 Mar 2023 #34
Everyone has the right to disparage us WhiteTara Mar 2023 #35
No one has the right to disparage you. xmas74 Mar 2023 #37
that, my dear, is why WhiteTara Mar 2023 #51
But why is it apathetic? xmas74 Mar 2023 #62
I believe they actually agree with the current WhiteTara Mar 2023 #103
I could not disagree more Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #127
Well put, and I truly felt for Arkansas after that bad election. txwhitedove Mar 2023 #40
IT's hard to participate WhiteTara Mar 2023 #53
K&R. Thanks for your post and keep up the good fight. c-rational Mar 2023 #38
Thank you nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #39
I am from KCMO Rebl2 Mar 2023 #41
I'm there all the time. xmas74 Mar 2023 #42
Same exact situation in North Carolina. yardwork Mar 2023 #44
Missouri could do better xmas74 Mar 2023 #49
I am from Iowa and I feel the same way.. I keep posting don't give up on us! Peacetrain Mar 2023 #46
Iowa has a strong union history xmas74 Mar 2023 #54
I live in Missouri. Fuck Missouri!! aeromanKC Mar 2023 #50
Or do something xmas74 Mar 2023 #70
Red state dweller here. Hope22 Mar 2023 #55
I understand xmas74 Mar 2023 #73
So we can't disparage States edhopper Mar 2023 #56
How about nit disparaging the citizens of those states xmas74 Mar 2023 #74
How about edhopper Mar 2023 #90
Is it the majority of voters xmas74 Mar 2023 #150
You can't gerrymander edhopper Mar 2023 #166
There are plenty of Dems still living in those states xmas74 Mar 2023 #167
They do edhopper Mar 2023 #169
Is it really the vast majority xmas74 Mar 2023 #171
I think there are a lot of States edhopper Mar 2023 #172
Is it the majority of voters xmas74 Mar 2023 #151
Just quit saying wtf is wrong with the people in that state Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #75
This message was self-deleted by its author Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #80
Can we qualify it edhopper Mar 2023 #89
Of course, thought that was self explanatory n/t Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #94
I thougt edhopper Mar 2023 #98
Obviously this thread disagrees Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #111
I always edhopper Mar 2023 #114
In that case, you're being amazingly disingenuous about this OP. BlackSkimmer Mar 2023 #137
++ Bravo! Red State Rebels, like the Resistance. 🧢 appalachiablue Mar 2023 #154
Exactly Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #194
The comments that bother me Chautauquas Mar 2023 #76
I remember seeing pics like this posted here a decade ago BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #101
I wish I could rec this 100 times. piddyprints Mar 2023 #59
Thank you for this post Hekate Mar 2023 #60
Could not agree more, thanks! randr Mar 2023 #63
I complained quite a bit about posts about the racist south as if it isn't everywhere. TNNurse Mar 2023 #64
It's called "placism" jayschool2013 Mar 2023 #65
To be fair, doesn't CO have to put up with tourists from all over? Beartracks Mar 2023 #117
In my NC hometown, they moonscape Mar 2023 #123
Not tourists. jayschool2013 Mar 2023 #165
You are correct. whathehell Mar 2023 #68
YES. ancianita Mar 2023 #177
I live in the red state of Indiana. Go ahead and make fun Emile Mar 2023 #72
Thank you arkielib Mar 2023 #79
I live in a Blue State but a Red town. Discouraging here. Paper Roses Mar 2023 #81
I post this often. Feel free to do the same. CrispyQ Mar 2023 #82
And... animated BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #102
Oh my, that is fab! And the message is perfect! CrispyQ Mar 2023 #105
The way the guys have the sigs set up BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #107
I absolutely love that animation. I saved the link for when I want to use it again. ... Hekate Mar 2023 #129
I remember seeing it in someone's sig BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #134
Excellent graphic Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #146
You're welcome! BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #152
The red disappearing is very satisfying Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #155
Many of the blue dots in the sparsely populated areas are college towns. PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #158
Sick of it too here in IN and Ive said so Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #83
Logged on to say thank you democrank Mar 2023 #84
This Floridian thanks you mcar Mar 2023 #85
As does this Floridian 🙏 Deuxcents Mar 2023 #131
Agree. The gerrymandering by R legislatures is shredding D districts. So much so that any Dem with allegorical oracle Mar 2023 #86
This Texas Democrat thanks you so much for your comments. (nt) Paladin Mar 2023 #87
Well my state "looks like" this BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #91
My attempt to explain why these states are badmouthed on DU. world wide wally Mar 2023 #92
Tired Floridian here AmBlue Mar 2023 #95
Thank you! BlackSkimmer Mar 2023 #96
++ A million. I think the 'Y''all' is waning, TG. And Amazon Echo/Alexa 'for Southerners' maybe. appalachiablue Mar 2023 #120
This. n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #185
i don't know. barbtries Mar 2023 #97
+1 SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #156
Others here BigOleDummy Mar 2023 #100
I live in Seattle ismnotwasm Mar 2023 #104
Thank you for this. rwheeler31 Mar 2023 #108
I hear you. Like you, I've been on DU since 2004 and live in a red state, japple Mar 2023 #109
Maybe when we figure out how to stop the minority from controlling everything SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #157
We're in NH - a red state surrounded by blue Tesha Mar 2023 #110
The demographics are with us (Actually, we are with the demographics!) usonian Mar 2023 #112
Excellent point Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #195
Fellow Missourian here UpInArms Mar 2023 #113
I live in Ohio, and I do more Buckeye Bashing than anyone. JohnnyRingo Mar 2023 #115
It's the same in Washington and Michigan. LisaM Mar 2023 #118
I called someone out for this the other day. hippywife Mar 2023 #119
Agree 100% Mollyann Mar 2023 #121
as a resident of Indiana, which very frustratingly has gotten much more red in recent years, LymphocyteLover Mar 2023 #122
Don't feel bad. Even here in Michigan, currently a shining beacon of hope for catbyte Mar 2023 #124
All states are Purple, though different shades Martin Eden Mar 2023 #128
Hear, hear!!! MayReasonRule Mar 2023 #130
I live in Florida. Earth-shine Mar 2023 #132
Texas will turn blue LetMyPeopleVote Mar 2023 #133
Thank You from a Texan. The most bashed state here on DU. flying_wahini Mar 2023 #135
And likely the most misunderstood. TwilightZone Mar 2023 #160
We are gerrymandered up to our ears. Surprised that we are even allowed to vote. flying_wahini Mar 2023 #184
Checking in from NW Montana Glacier Country Maru Kitteh Mar 2023 #139
Agreed. Blaming the victim orthoclad Mar 2023 #143
Thanks, xmas74! calimary Mar 2023 #145
K&R Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #147
I am against all attacks Meowmee Mar 2023 #149
Great post. You are correct and we are in a very "unusual" time. May we prevail. Thank you! Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #153
Because stereotyping is much easier than understanding the reality and context of situations. TwilightZone Mar 2023 #159
I guess we don't remember that this is how the fascists have come to power SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #170
excellent point - I live in a blue state... bluboid Mar 2023 #173
I agree Conjuay Mar 2023 #175
It's my understanding Jilly_in_VA Mar 2023 #191
don't take any of it personally.... Gato Moteado Mar 2023 #176
I appreciate your post. As a blue stater, I feel nothing but appreciation for Democrats pnwmom Mar 2023 #178
I have markie Mar 2023 #180
you know what they mean treestar Mar 2023 #182
No xmas74 Mar 2023 #189
not common treestar Mar 2023 #193
I currently live in TN and and am also sick of the South bashing Generic Brad Mar 2023 #183
Indiana agrees RecoveringJournalist Mar 2023 #187
Here since 03 and I agree. Thanks n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #188
But we're just trying be play victim, right? xmas74 Mar 2023 #190
I'm just a blue dot Jilly_in_VA Mar 2023 #192
So sit back and take it? Patton French Mar 2023 #196
Sit back and take what? xmas74 Mar 2023 #197

Liberal In Texas

(13,546 posts)
1. I hear ya.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:30 AM
Mar 2023

Same problem here. If it were just the cities in Texas joined together, it would bluer than California.

Gerrymandering was beta tested here and exported to other states.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
3. Yep.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:33 AM
Mar 2023

I live in a smallish college town. Last few elections show it's leaning purple. What did they do? Split the town four ways, putting each section into heavily red rural districts then tried to move polling stations to the outskirts of town to make it harder to vote.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
43. A hell of a lot of Republican crap has been tested in Texas
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:23 PM
Mar 2023

It’s the testing ground to see if they can pull off their religious crazy shit. If they get away with it in Texas - which they usually do - it emboldens them to try to expand. Roe v Wade being just one example.

Sixth generation Texan here and like the OP, I am sick of the ridicule from those who do not understand what we face down here.

If I post about the border situation on DU, I get told there IS no problem with the border. Bullshit. I see it every day. Case in point:

https://www.ksat.com/news/local/2023/03/24/multiple-injured-migrants-rescued-from-train-car-in-uvalde-county/

It’s like some here want to push reality under the rug. It doesn’t work that way. Democratic leadership needs to do a better job of tackling these issues in order to get more people in these states to take them seriously.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
77. so true! All of the big cities and most of the counties
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:06 PM
Mar 2023

they are in are blue! Tarrant County is still kind of purple, but Fort Worth is BLUE.

We work hard over here and more folks are voting for Democrats in the suburbs I don't know for sure but Arlington may also be blue.

summer_in_TX

(2,733 posts)
174. Fort Worth being blue is proof of how hard Dems are working!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:12 PM
Mar 2023

I went to a state convention there a couple of decades ago (GW was in office). My conservative in-laws lived there and I went to see them afterward. They were embarrassed and ashamed of how badly Fort Worth treated the Dems.

The hotel suddenly put many of their rooms up for renovation so folks had to find other accommodations. Plus there were plenty of ugly comments in the paper.

I'm so glad y'all have turned Cowtown around!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
7. Posters here forget that new people look at places like this.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:38 AM
Mar 2023

They might be looking for news, for a sense of community or for ways to get involved. Instead they find jokes about their communities, their states, even about how they live. We still see comments dismissing the poor and even about trailers here on occasion.

We are the Big Tent Party. It's hard to be that when we purposely try to discourage people from joining.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
9. Kentucky tries so hard
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:42 AM
Mar 2023

Yet still has people joking about it.
Maybe the people who've fought these losing battles need to be praised. It's hard to work a losing campaign. I've done it.

We should be encouraging people who've hustled their butts off in red states to keep going. We should support them.

murielm99

(30,733 posts)
6. I agree.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:36 AM
Mar 2023

I live in blue Illinois, but in a very red area. We work hard, too.

I will support and defend you.

Freddie

(9,259 posts)
48. Pennsylvania too
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:35 PM
Mar 2023

The rural areas - the “Alabama” part of the state, no offense to anyone actually from Alabama - are bright red. It’s mostly ok in my blue-purple suburb but my brother is hugely outnumbered in his central PA town. Even here in the burbs there were so many Mastriano and Oz signs I was terrified that I was wrong about my state.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
71. MontCo?
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:58 PM
Mar 2023

MontCo is supposedly blue, but I sure do feel outnumbered throughout it.

I am from Philly, but the area of the city I grew up in was fairly red and remains as such to this day.

Freddie

(9,259 posts)
93. Upper Bucks
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:28 PM
Mar 2023

Somehow we can’t get rid of Fitzpatrick or our state rep, who tried to have our votes discarded.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
99. He is awful
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:33 PM
Mar 2023

I know progressives who still vote for him because, "he reaches across the aisle." Omfg.

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
144. I doubt many progressives are voting for him, that would be centre to centre right, moderate to
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:28 PM
Mar 2023

conservative Democrats and Indies who ticket split.

Progressive Democratic Party voters are almost always far more partisan in favour of their own party than moderates, centrists, and conservative Dem and Indie voters. Thousands of exit polls have bourn this out over the years. It literally is why centrists, moderates, and centre right Dems and Indies are called swing voters. They are so fought over (because many DO ticket split and vote partially Rethug), ofttimes with many elected Democrats doing and voting for things in order to attract them, things and votes that the progressive Dems strenuously oppose.

Fitzpatrick voted with Trump 84.4 per cent of the time in the 115th Congress. I do not see much 'reaching across the aisle' there.

Look at some the names around that same level:



PufPuf23

(8,767 posts)
163. "Progressive Democratic Party voters are almost always far more partisan in favour of
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 08:08 PM
Mar 2023

their own party than moderates, centrists, and conservative Dem and Indie voters."

Yeah.

Celerity

(43,317 posts)
164. Yes, without a doubt. Centrist, centre right , moderate, and conservative Democrats
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 08:23 PM
Mar 2023

and Indies are far more likely to ticket split.

Not a chance there are more progs voting for the Rethug Fitzpatrick than there are centrist or conservative Dems and Indies.

Progs are not 'Dem to Rethug and back again' swing voters to any remotely significant degree. That notion is simply invalid as a premiss.

samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
78. Someone in here
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:06 PM
Mar 2023

said Ohio got what they deserve and it hit a very bad nerve with me.
I am not a snarky person. But some of these D.U. people jump at the chance to clump everyone in one pot and berate people.
I explained how hard I’ve been so active in my party for
19 years.
What do you have to do? Give people the Red Alert?
I didn’t vote for Vance, Dewine, or Loychik or any other GOP idiot!
However I’ve worked my ass off getting signatures and door to door canvassing and headquarter meetings still! I ran in my town. I’m a precinct committee person. I support other running for things. Collect signatures at this time for abortion to be on the ballot!
If more people would have less snark and get up and support their headquarters. We’d be better off.
Instead of jumping all over a D.U. Members they know nothing about!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
148. Some here seem to think I should do more
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:54 PM
Mar 2023

Even though I volunteered while getting chemo.
There are some here who think it'll never be enough.

samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
179. Don't pay any attention
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 04:53 AM
Mar 2023

to these people. Most of them are all talk.
If half the people in their generation would of been paying attention thing might not be so bad.

MontanaMama

(23,307 posts)
10. Thank you for this OP.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:42 AM
Mar 2023

I’ve not been on DU for as long as you have but I too am weary of the red state smears on this site. I’ve lived in Montana most of my life and while my home city of Missoula is quite blue, the vast majority of my state is rural and we all know what that’ll get you. I can get in my car and drive 10 hours east and still be in the state…Montana is huge and mostly rural.

A couple years ago, our state population grew to just over a million people and the gerrymandering began at that moment because we gained a congressional seat. Now we have a rethug supermajority in the state legislature, a thug for a governor and two fascists in congress and one in the senate. Thank the goddess we have Jon Tester…who regularly gets a boatload of criticism on DU. Everybody likes to come to Yellowstone, Glacier National Park, they like to float and fish Montana’s rivers and hike and camp in our vast public lands but don’t often realize or acknowledge that Jon Tester is the only politician representing our great state that stands between keeping public lands public and privatizing them for profit.

I don’t want to hear that we aren’t trying hard enough. I do not want to hear that we should just move out of the state. It’s hurtful and short sighted and I trash those threads.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
15. Thank you for fighting what feels like a losing battle.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:48 AM
Mar 2023

People come to Missouri to see the Arch, to enjoy our free state parks, root for the Chiefs/Royals/Cards, etc. We have the University of Missouri and plenty of other affordable stare colleges that allow for anyone in a border state to pay instate tuition. We have a presidential library and damn good bbq.

They come to visit and then they leave, cracking jokes the entire time. It's insulting.

cilla4progress

(24,726 posts)
36. I don't think that, Mama,
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:15 PM
Mar 2023

Last edited Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:46 PM - Edit history (1)

and I hope I've never said that nor given that impression, tho I may have. If so, I apologize! As a nearby neighbor, I've followed Montana politics for some years and you have had some wonderful Dem leaders through the years! Great Dem senator and majority leader Mike Mansfield in the 1960-70s; the wonderful Jon Tester now, as you say. Heard Brian Schweitzer speak at a dinner here in the early 2000s when he was governor, and was disappointed when he moved off the national stage. Even Republican Jeanette Rankin - 1st woman US Representative (1917) - back when Rs were somewhat normal - or so we thought!

Is some of it in the way we talk about these red states - as if they are monoliths, or stereotyping them?

On that note - did some Montana teens recently challenge the legislature there (sue it?) over climate legislation? Came to a head last week?

MontanaMama

(23,307 posts)
52. Hey my friend...
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:41 PM
Mar 2023

No. You’ve never gone down the red state ridicule road. I absolutely know how you’ve followed the state snd you’re more familiar with what’s happening here than most! We have had some wonderful democrats represent out great state.

Yes! A group of MT teens filed a suit against the state claiming that state energy policy violates their right to a clean and healthful environment. I have high hopes for these kiddos. The lawsuit is moving forward!

https://www.jdsupra.com/legalnews/kids-file-climate-change-suit-against-1138583/

JudyM

(29,233 posts)
67. That lawsuit gets a huge gold star, it's exactly what the country needs.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:56 PM
Mar 2023

Thanks for your post about Montana politics, I appreciated the perspective. It was heart-opening.

Tree Lady

(11,451 posts)
12. I live in Oregon but a conservative city
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:43 AM
Mar 2023

and have republican congressman. I drive to college town not far away if I want to be in a more liberal area.

I wonder if the reason people post stuff like they do about red states is actually frustration or fear. But I have no idea. We should be here to support each other in a safe space of fellow dems.

I also came here in 2004, almost 20 years. When I read posts about people in red states I always feel bad for them because I know how frustrating and hard it can be to live in a conservative area.

In my town dems have given up and most republicans run alone on any ballot or against another republican. I find myself picking the least bad republican.

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
138. I remind DU people as often as possible about inland California because of the enduring fantasy...
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 03:43 PM
Mar 2023

…that if we could be split into three states the result would be 6 Democratic US Senators. In reality, you’d get 4 Republicans and 2 Democrats, and rightwingers know that. California rightwingers would love that.

PufPuf23

(8,767 posts)
162. If one wants some rural California insanity, take a look at Shasta County.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 07:17 PM
Mar 2023
https://anewscafe.com/

MAGA has taken over the Board of Supervisors. BOS has cancelled contract with Dominion and has no voting system at present but the Pillow Guy has gotten involved. The new county CEO (from Orange County) is the leader of an effort to split California into a rural state and the coastal urban areas.

Plus militias and the Bethel Church ...

Tree Lady

(11,451 posts)
116. I am in Medford southern Oregon
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:11 PM
Mar 2023

But part of huge district that covers the east also. My congress guy lives near Idaho almost 8 hr drive from me.

There is 40+% of dems here so not as bad as could be.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
19. We've been here for so long!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:51 AM
Mar 2023

I remember those days. I remember feeling so welcome, knowing that those type of posts were removed.

It's not the same.

mopinko

(70,078 posts)
45. i spent a few years in the hot tub, and yeah, i think about it often.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:25 PM
Mar 2023

the thing about the mods- we took down posts even if we agreed w them. jurors, i suspect, wont.
we had wider latitude for things that werent spelled out in the tos, too.

1 thing i rly wish earlg would do is allow comments on alerts. i know it can be hard to keep anonymity then, but we all learned so much from the members back then. ppl who could hear the dog whistles alerted us to them. or they tipped us off to the history of some things.
man, did i learn more than i ever wanted to know about antisemitism.

no nuance in the system any more.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
47. I remember it well.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:34 PM
Mar 2023

I learned so much in my early days here about the use of language and what can be viewed as offensive. I remember sending several alerts where I would explain exactly why I alerted. I noticed the comments with an alert were more likely to be removed. Nowadays anything goes.

ancianita

(36,023 posts)
125. Thanks for this fair criticism.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:49 PM
Mar 2023

I too want a box to allow for comments on alerts and on "close call but" judgments by jurors.
Especially in the interests of younger DU members, there is always more to learn that will improve the fairness of this system.

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
136. I also miss being able to comment on alerts. It made a difference to be able to say something like...
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 03:35 PM
Mar 2023

…”This post may not look so bad all by itself, but the guy is infesting the entire thread and the cumulative effect is bad. Up to you.” That told the mods to scan the thread. Now there’s a fair amount of the time I back off from alerting because I’m not sure where my complaint fits and can’t explain.

I’m glad you learned about dog whistles from your mod experience — it’s valuable. Did you see that recent thread where a lot of people were asking why there was all this negative attention on Soros from the MAGATs all of a sudden? The whole thread got peppered with variations on the theme of: “He’s Jewish,” and hopefully a lot of people got educated by the explanations that followed.

I was never a mod, and only signed up for jury duty a few years ago, along with learning how to use the MIRT alert function. I really count on MIRT now for low-count posters: newbies, sleepers (I check), and so on. I got enough feedback from someone in my first year of making MIRT alerts to know that my instincts are actually often right — trollish people make my teeth itch for a reason.





mopinko

(70,078 posts)
142. yeah, that's another thing- looking at a whole thread.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:26 PM
Mar 2023

had a lot of alerts where the reply that was alerted was not the 1 that should be removed.
and yeah, it’s so hard to make hard rules on this stuff. lived through a couple of tos revamps. always made some things better, and other things worse.
humans are so determined.

dalton99a

(81,451 posts)
14. New York gave us Donald Trump, George Santos, and a Republican-controlled House
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:47 AM
Mar 2023

And Kevin McCarthy is not from the South

Nuf said


ancianita

(36,023 posts)
126. Keep in mind that there are way more Koch dark money info/influence campaigns going on than get
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:53 PM
Mar 2023

leaked to the press. Right now, NY and CA are hard targets for the Koch network of candidate groomers.

We're not dealing with amateurs at the state flipping games. Young people are paying attention to that.

https://kochwatch.org/2015/11/18/the-koch-intelligence-agency/

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
141. Thank you for this observation, ancianita. I am glad to hear that young people are paying attention.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 03:53 PM
Mar 2023

As a Californian, I guess I should not be surprised that my state is a “hard target” for the Kochs. There’s fertile ground here, sadly.

bluestarone

(16,906 posts)
20. Just want to shout out a big AMEN to ya!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:52 AM
Mar 2023

Not sure what's happening here in North Dakota, BUT we once were a great Democratic state. So hard to see these RETHUGS run things. All we can do is keep fighting, hoping someday people will WAKE UP! My hats off to you and ALL people in RED states putting up with the BULLSHIT that goes along with that! I will stay strong no matter what!!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
25. Missouri used to be a bellwether.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:55 AM
Mar 2023

Now we aren't even acknowledged by the party.

If we had any kind of funding we might have decent people willing to run.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
61. :) I'm in a blood-red district in Georgia, and I'm grateful to
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:52 PM
Mar 2023

our local Democratic Party and whoever steps up to run each time so that we have someone to vote for. And proud that they always do.

Georgia is acknowledged by the party (!) because Georgians made our election of two Democratic senators possible. Our own district, though, doesn't even rise to "lost cause" to the party, which never has enough money for every candidate who might win. We're at most about 30% Democratic and donate monthly to the DCCC knowing we won't live to see a dime spent here. Simplifies the issue -- we're fine with that.

Sounds like you have much more reason to hope you can make it happen, so more complexity. On the plus side, candidates in "flip" areas also often find it beneficial to run on donations from locals and refuse party money. And of course, for better and worse, anyone can get outsider "grassroots" these days. Until they prove they may really win without party money.

Good luck making it happen. WE need you to also.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
69. It's so hard sometimes
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:57 PM
Mar 2023

We just don't have the money or the donations and now our GOP has made it even harder to run booths to register to vote. I can only register 10 people a year per state law.

It's insane.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
106. Ten people a year! That's...incredible. Hope that's fast-tracked
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:48 PM
Mar 2023

through the courts.

Your district sounds as if it may be like so many where donations from relatively lower-income constituencies just can't fund today's candidacies. (?) Candidates facing that reality often develop support from businesses with vested interests in keeping the local communities viable through liberal-leaning policies. (As opposed to those who donate to RW candidates for very different reasons.)

Our house Democratic caucuses have many members who get elected that way, including a lot who represent minority districts for obvious reasons. The need for synergistic relations with business for jobs, tax revenue, donations, etc, is the biggest factor in which of the two big ideological factions members join. They're both progressive, but one's more inclined to regard business as an enemy to be defeated and one as an indispensable partner in the community to be worked with.

I've gotten off on a swing here, but I've been wondering for some while just how much, and of course where, Republican craziness and irresponsibility are forcing businesses to reconsider who they need to ally with.

If anyone really needs to hang in while this blows through, it's you guys!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
168. The state legislature has done everything possible
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:34 PM
Mar 2023

To keep new voters from registering. Why? Because most of them at the booths have been young people who identify as progressive.

It's insanely tough right now, especially since the GOP tries to take things away and then blame the Dems in DC for it. When your state rep comes back to speak to the Optimist Club and tells them that the Feds are trying to take away ag subsidies and are selling land to Chinese investors the members believe it. They then pass that false information onto their friends and family. Who is actually allowing for that farmland to be sold to Chinese investors? In Missouri it was Josh Hawley and Eric Schmitt, who each used their turns in the MO AG office to allow it to happen at great benefit to themselves.

Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
27. I agree
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:57 AM
Mar 2023

Last edited Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:39 PM - Edit history (1)

I'm a life-long citizen of Ohio. I remember when our parents and grandparents elected Democratic politicians to represent the state. Any r's elected were moderate. Although the has been an r machine since the 1870s, ty, hanna and others. But, in my youth, r's represented the working people and advanced unions, civil and individual rights, all of the things Dems support and protect now. Back then, the Dems were considered the rich fat cats of elitism. But those politicians were willing to change, willing to expand their outlook. People point to Robert Byrd who was a member of the kkk in his youth. Well, he changed his viewpoint entirely. That is something people who want to do, can do. If anyone has ever seen the movie or read the book Conrack, by Pat Conroy, there's a scene where Conrack explains his personal change from being a biased white man to being hyper aware of the historic treatment of black people in America, to finding a balance between the two stances. I don't remember much of the movie, but I remember that scene. All humans are capable of overcoming crappy learned behavior and becoming better people.

Political experts point to the Dems adopting a civil rights and voting rights platform in the late 40s causing a shift in the parties' views. I get a sense that the historic Democrats looked out for others. I'm thinking of the philanthrophy of the Gilded Age, not the greed and avarice. And yes, the philanthrophy of that time was largely aimed to improve the lot of poor whites, and other races were ignored and invisible. I admire individuals who worked to improve the lot of all people at the time-Margaret Sanger, Jane Addams, the founders of Hampton College in Va., to name a few. We hear that individuals don't have the power to bring about change. But we do, if we want to. All through the existence of the U.S.A., people worked to bring about a more perfect union. And people worked to bring our country now. So far, they haven't succeeded, and if our left wing party structure will change its strategy a little, the majority of moderate people in states like Missouri, Ohio and others that turned red will shift the balance of power. I hope so. It is a shame that so many of us who work for our party, for our beliefs, are aging, ailing, or tired out. That is one city hall we can't fight, but we have to keep on with the other battles

Thank you for posting.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
28. And thank you for replying.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:59 AM
Mar 2023

We seem to forget that there are so many backgrounds and views here.

Model35mech

(1,530 posts)
29. Humans are inclined to disparage and ridicule "others"
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:02 PM
Mar 2023

I first came here in 2003, then took time off after things got ugly prenomination 2016

There is a sociological thing called 'homophily', which isn't queer theory, but rather an explanation of how people divide into groups.
Etymologically the terms comes from Homo meaning same, phily meaning attraction. Typically humans form groups of 'somehow' similar people, and that can be for many reasons, ranging from assortive mating to political beliefs.

But as the post-Reformation protestant world found out, once you start making distinction betwen 'us' and 'other', everything tends to breakdown into more and more competing 'congregations' of in-groupists who ridicule and disparage other out-group congregations because they don't do it 'right' which is to say because the outsiders just don't do it like the insiders.

It can come from directions you expect, like Irish protestants or Irish catholics, or it can come from unexpected directions like some Veterans disparaging the service of other Veterans. I ran into that from WWII vets as a Vietnam vet. It's why Vietnam vets formed their own Veteran groups, which is a phenomenon that is an under current that is still cycling among Gulf-War and Iraq War vets.

Many in-groups buy into identitism and develop special disciplines and rules make themselves even LESS like others. That suggests that somehow between group distinctions are important to the psychological needss and the social outcomes of in-group self-valuing and distinctness.

You know it's all about human nature, and when you consider it's about humans, we can wish for, but probably shouldn't expect, it to always be nice. I hate being assumed to be a conservative deplorable because I have gray hair and farm (mostly as a supplement to retirement income), but that's what I get, and I know its an unfortunate outcome of human tendency to homophily

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
31. I do know that
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:04 PM
Mar 2023

I think what irritates me is how if posters are called put about it they now double down and make nastier comments.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
32. You knew I wasn't departing.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:08 PM
Mar 2023

I'm going on twenty years. I was part of that old late night Lounge Crew. I was there for kudzu, for corn flakes, for Olive Garden. I experienced the Laura Brannigan War.

I know things change but has it really changed for the better here? I see so much more divisiveness here.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
88. :) A reflection of the extreme intolerance that's now horribly mistaken
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:21 PM
Mar 2023

for high morality by those who've fallen to it? Not just here. Malevolent influences have been working at both stoking extremism and bringing out the worst in all they can reach.

That's why your commitment to hanging is so welcome to come across this morning.

Bayard

(22,061 posts)
33. A big K&R!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:08 PM
Mar 2023

I'm so sick of some people bashing Kentucky, and all its residents. The college towns here are all blue--Louisville, Lexington, Bowling Green. We have the most popular and hard-working Dem governor in the nation.

I live between two small towns that are redder than red. We're talking big trump and bible quote signs, and confederate flags. I rejoice when I see a Dem sticker on somebody's car (like whoever works at Tractor Supply that has a Bernie sticker on their beat up old car.)

There are plenty of crazy trump lovers in the wilds of Calif. I know this personally from having them wage war against me for 12 years. There are no red states that don't have pockets of blue people. I love my state, and couldn't wait to move back here. Even if someone seriously disagrees with you, you'll still get a--"Bless your heart!"

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
34. Even here in Missouri
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:13 PM
Mar 2023

Most if the crazy crap our politicians do is usually outside of expected media coverage. They regularly attempt to overrule the will of the people, such as when we passed that law against puppy mills and they overruled it.

Honestly, the majority in Missouri isn't red. It's people who've mostly given up, convinced that they have no voice. They don't vote because they go to the polls and see only one option for most local races and then decide It's just not worth it. It's hard to blame them for feeling that way.

WhiteTara

(29,704 posts)
35. Everyone has the right to disparage us
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:14 PM
Mar 2023

we in Arkansas passed over an intelligent, forward thinking democrat for Sarah 3 Names the Professional Liar. We are being swept down a storm drain to hell.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
37. No one has the right to disparage you.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:19 PM
Mar 2023

Why accept that?
Not everyone in Arkansas is a red voter. I'd bet the majority don't even vote, usually out of a sense of it just not making a difference.

I know here in Missouri you'll see local and county races with just one candidate, nearly always a Republican. They're usually funded well. If I was a first time voter and went to the polls only to realize I had no actual choice I might give up too.

WhiteTara

(29,704 posts)
51. that, my dear, is why
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:40 PM
Mar 2023

all should disparage us. Our Party is impotent and we are #49 in voting and #50 in voting. This is an apathetic state...Go Hogs!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
62. But why is it apathetic?
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:53 PM
Mar 2023

People get dragged down, dismissed. They're exhausted. They can't afford to lose money to take off work and vote. They're given incorrect information about voting. They're told, time and again, often on social media or by friends and family that their vote doesn't count and it's all predetermined. Or they get to the polls and find an entire ballot with just one party running.

I understand why they'd give up. Lack of time and options does that. This later translates to those state and federal elections where they've already had a bad experience and choose to no longer participate. When you're exhausted and overwhelmed you pick and choose what you need to focus on. Things that aren't immediate needs are tossed to the side. That includes civic duties when your choice is to leave two hours early to walk to the polls to vote then walk to your minimum wage job to work a 12 hour shift.

They feel ignored and they are.

WhiteTara

(29,704 posts)
103. I believe they actually agree with the current
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:39 PM
Mar 2023

state of affairs. If they get crushed in the laws, they can say, well, it hurt so and so more.

Seinan Sensei

(361 posts)
127. I could not disagree more
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:54 PM
Mar 2023

Do not disparage Arkansas. That never is helpful.
There is much work to do here
I would not say Arkansans are apathetic
Rather, I would say that, for Dems in Arkansas, it is a target-rich environment

WhiteTara

(29,704 posts)
53. IT's hard to participate
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:42 PM
Mar 2023

in society right now. We are swamped with hate and stupid hate from the "government" in Arkansas.

When I lived in CA and registered voters, I signed up hundreds of voters. Last election, I signed up 3 people (waitresses in restaurants) and that was it. And yes, great efforts were made.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
42. I'm there all the time.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:22 PM
Mar 2023

I'm thinking of driving up this afternoon for something to do.

I'm just an hour SE.

yardwork

(61,588 posts)
44. Same exact situation in North Carolina.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:24 PM
Mar 2023

The cities in NC are blue, and so are a few rural areas, because of the Black vote. Thanks to gerrymandering, white rural voters in NC have power way disproportionate to their percent of the state population. It's undemocratic.

The DNC ignored NC in this last election, and as a result we lost what should have been a Democratic pick up seat in the US Senate. We also lost the state Supreme Court, which is now rolling back the little hit of progress we'd made against the gerrymandering.

Many rural seats are held by Republicans who run unopposed.

North Carolina could be like Michigan, with some reasonable investment of cash and energy from the Democratic Party.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
49. Missouri could do better
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:38 PM
Mar 2023

If there was any funding to assist in local and state elections.

We have politicians running unopposed in local elections who then use that experience to move on. This is how we elect some of the most unhinged people.

The average person cannot afford a campaign. If national sent our state any funding we could use it to fight those local elections and stop this nonsense before it starts.

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
46. I am from Iowa and I feel the same way.. I keep posting don't give up on us!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:26 PM
Mar 2023

If the Democrats keep on walking away from red states we just give that much more power to a minority of loud individuals who terrify people into silence..

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
54. Iowa has a strong union history
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:42 PM
Mar 2023

Under attack by Kim Reynolds.
When I was on my council board I traveled to Des Moines every other month for weekend meetings. I learned so much there. Strong unions usually vote Democrat. Not supporting Iowa will end that strong Labor history.

(I also enjoyed taking my kid to Zombie Burgers after the long weekend and then stopping by the covered bridges on the way home.)

aeromanKC

(3,322 posts)
50. I live in Missouri. Fuck Missouri!!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:38 PM
Mar 2023

GD F'n red state f'n ignorant MAGAt people everywhere. F' this state I live in!!!!!!!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
70. Or do something
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:58 PM
Mar 2023

We weren't always this red.
Lack of funding, lack of decent state party leadership has brought us to this.

edhopper

(33,570 posts)
56. So we can't disparage States
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:47 PM
Mar 2023

that are working for a fascist take over of our government? Or the majority of voters who support the GOP?

Who can we talk bad about?

Can I have a list?

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
74. How about nit disparaging the citizens of those states
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:01 PM
Mar 2023

Many who do work hard to fight this every day.

Unless of course you're just looking to start a fight on the internet because that's always productive.

edhopper

(33,570 posts)
166. You can't gerrymander
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 09:11 PM
Mar 2023

Senate, Governor or President. Look at the numbers for Alabama or Idaho or Wyoming.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
167. There are plenty of Dems still living in those states
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:26 PM
Mar 2023

Who'd love to know they have support from other Dems across the nation.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
171. Is it really the vast majority
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:50 PM
Mar 2023

Or is it just the votes that get through?

Do we badmouth until the cows come home or do we identify those who've traditionally voted Republican but don't really identify as the loud mouth RW part of the party? I know plenty who've admitted they'd vote for someone else if the right candidate was available. I know several Republicans who voted Biden in 2020. I know some Republicans who crossed primary lines to vote for Elad Gross for MO AG because they liked his message. (He lost the primary to a candidate who had big money backing him and then lost the GE in a landslide.)

I mention these things because there are old school GOP voters who are tired of what the party has become and are looking for something else. They come to places like this, read some of the horrible comments and decide they won't be welcome here or at a local meeting. They think this is how all Dems act.

We are better than that. We are a big tent. We need to be welcoming.

edhopper

(33,570 posts)
172. I think there are a lot of States
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:54 PM
Mar 2023

We're this is true. This is were we lost in 2016.

But in States were Biden lost almost 2 to 1, it's the vast majority.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
151. Is it the majority of voters
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 05:03 PM
Mar 2023

Or is it so heavily gerrymandered to guarantee a GOP win?

Most of my local and many of my state elections only have one candidate: a Republican. It's easy to figure out who will win those races.

Cheezoholic

(2,016 posts)
75. Just quit saying wtf is wrong with the people in that state
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:02 PM
Mar 2023

like its all the people. States like WI and IN among others are so gerrymandered no democrats can get elected to some federal positions even with a slight Dem majority.

Response to Cheezoholic (Reply #75)

edhopper

(33,570 posts)
89. Can we qualify it
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:22 PM
Mar 2023

as GOP voters?

Or just leave everyone alone..

Including the politicians who are trying to destroy our country.

Just puppies and kitties all around

Cheezoholic

(2,016 posts)
111. Obviously this thread disagrees
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:02 PM
Mar 2023

Shit like fuck the people in that state or WTF is wrong with those people is BS. Ive seen threads 50 long bashing "people"
in those states. Some of us are political minorities where we live and get called out and even threatened as such where we live yet we fight best we can. Do we not deserve just a little of the respect all should enjoy without feeling helpless? DU is one of the few places many have to go for like minded views.

I look at this as a war and in the Trumpistan where I live it is. Many of us are under real constant physical threat.
The French Resistance were heroes, not WTF is wrong with all of France. I truly see many of us Red State Rebels as just that and more importantly a bigger part of the solution than sitting in a cozy blue coffee shop slinging generalizations about people in red states.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
137. In that case, you're being amazingly disingenuous about this OP.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 03:40 PM
Mar 2023

You understand perfectly well what the OP is saying because I feel sure no one could be that obtuse.

Chautauquas

(4,440 posts)
76. The comments that bother me
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:05 PM
Mar 2023

are the ones that say people in a red state deserve what they get because they elected a Republican. I damn sure didn't vote for Scott Walker here in Wisconsin and I don't like being told everyone in the state deserves whatever happens because we elected him. I think it's a only a few people that make comments like that but it is annoying.

BumRushDaShow

(128,851 posts)
101. I remember seeing pics like this posted here a decade ago
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:34 PM
Mar 2023


The truck with the boxes of recall petitions.

You guys TRIED your damnedest to get rid of that ass. And I think it was tried twice too.

At least he was finally booted the hell outta there.

piddyprints

(14,642 posts)
59. I wish I could rec this 100 times.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:50 PM
Mar 2023

You speak for me!

I live in a red state as well. The only cultural break we get is to go across the border to visit a blue city in another red state. It's like a breath of fresh air. I'm not sure people who live in blue areas understand just how isolating it can be for us blue dots.

Some of my friends have run for office. They went door to door to visit their potential constituents and talk about their concerns. They were all trounced soundly. Who can blame them for not trying it again?

Several years back we had a prominent lawyer run for US Senate. We knew him professionally and, of course, voted for him. He was one of the good guys. He didn't have a chance, but at least he could afford to try. To the majority of people here, we are all godless baby killers who want to take away their freedoms and let LGBTQ people molest their children. I doubt anyone can finance a campaign to fight that at this point. Still, we are outnumbered, but we are here!

I get tired of seeing people post MTG's latest screed about a red/blue state divorce and actually agreeing with her. I WANT to stay in the US, with all the bureaucracy and benefits of the Federal Government. I don't want to relocate or even move across the street. I am planted here for the rest of my life, among the MAGAts, and would like to stay here, in a red county, in a red state, in USA!

When DUers see some horror occurring in red states, such as the recent total abortion bans, book bans, etc., some of them chime in with, "well, that's what they voted for." I can't remember when I last missed an election. I vote in all of them, even though I am convinced that my vote makes no difference whatsoever. I voted against every representative, senator, governor, etc. currently in office in my state, some of them multiple times, in favor of Democrats. If there is no Democrat on the ballot, as is often the case, I write someone in just to make sure the Republican doesn't get my vote.

It's an uphill battle. I, for one, appreciate all the Democrats in red states. It's not an easy job.

randr

(12,409 posts)
63. Could not agree more, thanks!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:54 PM
Mar 2023

While I am a resident in the Blue state of Colorado, I live in the dreaded district of Blowbart. Our blue minority just happens to be some of the bluest in the nation. We are struggling with a small red majority that will be hopefully gone in the next election. The crazed one only won by a very slim number. It is, as you point out, disparaging to be thought of as backward by fellow Dems while we struggle.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
64. I complained quite a bit about posts about the racist south as if it isn't everywhere.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:54 PM
Mar 2023

I got some responses but I remained sad and disappointed.

I am a lifelong liberal southern democrat, we have always been here.

jayschool2013

(2,312 posts)
65. It's called "placism"
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:54 PM
Mar 2023

I lived in Colorado for 23 years, but spent just as much time in Nebraska. I now live in Maryland.

Coloradans are really good at "placism," whether it's ridiculing folks from red, blue or purple states, Nebraska, Texas or California.

Xenophobia doesn't know red from blue.

Beartracks

(12,809 posts)
117. To be fair, doesn't CO have to put up with tourists from all over?
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:17 PM
Mar 2023

Being a tourism magnet can be both a blessing AND a curse. Especially when tourists move in to be come residents, and start trying to change your town or state.

===============

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
123. In my NC hometown, they
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:42 PM
Mar 2023

seemed to be getting tired of the attitude of some transplants as when I visited I started seeing bumper stickers : ‘I don’t care how you do it up North’

My mom lived in a retirement community, and indeed some of the Northern residents had a harder time adjusting to Southern life than others

jayschool2013

(2,312 posts)
165. Not tourists.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 08:45 PM
Mar 2023

Too many Coloradans are resentful of "recent" move-ins, "recent" meaning "after I got here."

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
68. You are correct.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:57 PM
Mar 2023

Thanks for the reminder...FWIW, I think the DNC's "strategy" of giving little to red states is a bad one.

Emile

(22,672 posts)
72. I live in the red state of Indiana. Go ahead and make fun
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 12:59 PM
Mar 2023

of Indiana, I do all the time. Bunch of stupid idiots in this state.

Paper Roses

(7,473 posts)
81. I live in a Blue State but a Red town. Discouraging here.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:13 PM
Mar 2023

Lots of political posts on local FB pages but they are 95% Red comments. I chime in and am torn apart by the same group. Why do our local Democrats not post rebuttals? I don't understand the reluctance of townsfolk's who let the trumpers and anti-Biden posts sit without comment. It gets discouraging. I'm beginning to feel like the grumpy old lady but still will chime in when needed.

My town has changed so much since my late husband and I moved here in 1963. How well I remember our conversations about politics back then. There was no internet, just letters to the editor of our local papers. That is long gone. Now everything is on-line and too many are quiet.

We are now a town of wealthy who don't seem to care about those of us who are hanging on and criticize everything done by President Biden.

I've been hanging around DU since 2005 and check in several times a day. I find the best news here. Don't post much because I'd rather read the great posts of others.
Thanks to all!

CrispyQ

(36,457 posts)
82. I post this often. Feel free to do the same.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:16 PM
Mar 2023
The right & the media like to use this map cuz it makes America look extremely conservative.



But the reality is, this is what America looks like:



LOOK AT ALL THAT BLUE!

Even in FL! Both maps are from the 2020 presidential election. The first is by county, so the entire county gets painted red. The second is by population. My right wing cousins absolutely hate the second map.

THIS IS THE MAP WE NEED TO USE.

BumRushDaShow

(128,851 posts)
107. The way the guys have the sigs set up
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:50 PM
Mar 2023

it does small versions of the images with a uniform height along the bottom, so it would display that size in the sig but will still be animated.

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
129. I absolutely love that animation. I saved the link for when I want to use it again. ...
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:58 PM
Mar 2023

Thanks to whoever posted it for us in the first place.

BumRushDaShow

(128,851 posts)
152. You're welcome!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 05:06 PM
Mar 2023

I know there have been a number of map graphics that attempted to show how skewed the "flat red map with sprinkles of blue" depictions were and there have been various types of "cartograms" done that better weighted the votes -



But IMHO, wiping that red off the map with that animated version to actually reveal the true voting population centers, is the simplest most dramatic way to depict reality!

PufPuf23

(8,767 posts)
158. Many of the blue dots in the sparsely populated areas are college towns.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 07:03 PM
Mar 2023

Big hint as to why right wing USA prefers grooming to their perversities more than real education.

Cheezoholic

(2,016 posts)
83. Sick of it too here in IN and Ive said so
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:16 PM
Mar 2023

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But you didnt hear me say WTF is wrong with CA and NY for losing the house in 22 cause ya did, more appropriately some of your Dem districts did. See how that works?

Yet there are more than enough of posters from those states (and other Blues) blaming everybody in the middle and the south. It's like driving through a poor community and saying WTF is wrong with these people. Like poor people we Red State Rebels try but get little help.

allegorical oracle

(2,357 posts)
86. Agree. The gerrymandering by R legislatures is shredding D districts. So much so that any Dem with
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:18 PM
Mar 2023

half a brain hesitates to run against Repugs. Once considered running for my Fla county's Supervisor of Elections. Wouldn't consider it, now. Could literally place my life in danger. Many of the 2022 races had NO Dem candidates, so Republicans just walked into office.

BumRushDaShow

(128,851 posts)
91. Well my state "looks like" this
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:27 PM
Mar 2023


Of course "looks" can be deceiving because "land doesn't vote, people do".

And there were some people and notably, some groups like "Indivisible" that took the time to go into some of those red counties and recruit/train a new generation of elected officials for all different levels of government - whether for a town advisory board, some county Commissioner position, perhaps a mayor, state House or Senate member, or even a member of Congress.

But most importantly, with the help of our state Supreme Court, we were able to un-gerrymander the state House seats and for the first time in a dozen years, Democrats took control of the PA State House. We literally managed a 12 seat swing. It took a couple months of a mess and some special elections to finalize, but it finally came to be, and it was something that was literally considered impossible.




All About PA
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The will of the voters is clear: @PaHouseDems won a majority of seats in the 2022 election.

Recent PA House tradition provides the party that wins a majority to pick the Speaker.

Their pick is historic: @RepMcClinton would be the first woman to be Speaker of the PA House.
10:47 AM · Dec 5, 2022


I will say though that over the past couple election cycles, I have seen more and more who post here say they directly support candidates vs having that divvied out from "above" and I think if it already doesn't exist, a MO organization for "electing Democrats in Missouri" might be something that is needed. I know I'm on the "New Pennsylvania Project" list - https://www.newpaproject.org/ and that was designed to use the "Stacy Abrams template" for organizing, canvassing, and getting people out to vote.

world wide wally

(21,740 posts)
92. My attempt to explain why these states are badmouthed on DU.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:27 PM
Mar 2023

The "Confederate states" have always had an undue influence on our national politics. They were coddled to during the Constitutional conventions and recieve undeserved power. We all know that even if the majority of citizens in red states may support one thing, they are simply overruled and ridiculed by obnoxious GOP politicians. I don't think anyone really condemns the people in entire states, just their "colective politics" and spokespeople. It is actually frustrating for most of us.

AmBlue

(3,110 posts)
95. Tired Floridian here
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:28 PM
Mar 2023

I feel you completely. This state has been written off and left to the hyenas.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
96. Thank you!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:29 PM
Mar 2023

Not just states. The south is regularly disparaged here.

My favorite are the ones who try to type like they have a southern accent. I don’t know if that realize how silly that makes them look.

Jimmy Carter has a southern accent, as did John Lewis, so does Clinton, so does Stacey Adams and James Clyburn. I could list many more.

But to the “wits” here who think they are imitating southerners with their ludicrous spelling - get a grip dears because none of those people write like that. Nor do they speak like that.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
97. i don't know.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:30 PM
Mar 2023

i live in one of those states (NC) and republicans are doing their best to be AL or MS. I live here but still feel that it sucks. No matter where they are republicans are doing dirty shit and being utterly hateful. Gerrymandering explains it to a degree, but at the end of the day it is the voters who keep putting them in office.

I'm lucky. I live in Durham, which is diverse and very blue. Just down the road in Raleigh, Democrats are fighting an uphill battle all the way.

i hate republicans. I'm getting past the point of limiting that to the ones in power. someone keeps them there, otherwise known as voters.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
104. I live in Seattle
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:41 PM
Mar 2023

Half of Washington state is a RW voting hell hole. Never been to Missouri, I hear it is beautiful

rwheeler31

(6,242 posts)
108. Thank you for this.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:50 PM
Mar 2023

Our friends work for the election board and all of us try very hard to get the vote out. Still we are seeing only 14% turnout in the primaries in democratic Jackson County.

japple

(9,821 posts)
109. I hear you. Like you, I've been on DU since 2004 and live in a red state,
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:51 PM
Mar 2023

red district: MTG is my member of congress and the area I live in is still heavily infested with KKK types and confederate wannabes. There is a re-enactment of the Battle of Resaca every year. Our Democratic Party has been active in trying to recruit people to local office positions, but no one wants to spend the money on a political campaign as they know that 70+% of the county will vote for the GOP candidate.

Even though Stacey Abrams lost the gubernatorial race, there is good news in NW Georgia and the state at large. We have two excellent, progressive state senators in Ossoff and Warnock. We have so many Georgia natives to be proud of: Jimmy Carter, Martin Luther King, Jr., John Lewis, Ma Rainey, Juliette Gordon Low, Flannery O'Connor, Carson McCullers and many, many others.

Atlanta has become a city of importance in the US, with broad diversity and opportunities for those who formerly were marginalized due to race or ethnicity.

This weekend, Calhoun, GA (named after an imbecile) is hosting their annual Georgia String Band Festival. The opening concert last night featured John McEuen, who at age 77, still has the great voice and guitar picking prowess he had with the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band years ago. Norman Blake lives not far from here. We're halfway between two great metro centers--Atlanta & Chattanooga.

Yeah, I get it. We still grit our teeth every time we pass a sign for MTG or TFG (and there are still plenty around for him.) We know we will get beat on election day--this time, but we are doing our best to spread light, peace, tolerance, and love in our communities and hoping for a better day for the next generation. It would be a lot more helpful if folks on DU would not condemn a whole region (THE SOUTH), State, or district for the rotten actions of some.

SouthernDem4ever

(6,617 posts)
157. Maybe when we figure out how to stop the minority from controlling everything
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 06:59 PM
Mar 2023

the rhetoric will die down. Until then, there's nothing else to do but try and shed light on the stupidity - and yes, they make the ENTIRE state look stupid, ours included.

Tesha

(20,851 posts)
110. We're in NH - a red state surrounded by blue
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 01:52 PM
Mar 2023

We really are purple to blue, but the $$$ coming in during the 10-year redistricting years gerrymander our Senate and Governor’s Council and even redistrict out popular Dems from the House.

We get national cash for our federal seats, but we struggle to put people in the State House, and it shows. All the hateful bills from the national hate orgs come here and far too many get passed and signed by our lying Republican ahole of a governor.

It’s not the good people of the state that make us sucky - it’s the red money flowing so freely.

usonian

(9,776 posts)
112. The demographics are with us (Actually, we are with the demographics!)
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:02 PM
Mar 2023

From Wikipedia:

Six states are majority-minority as of July 2019: Hawaii, New Mexico, California, Texas, Nevada, and Maryland.

In the United States of America, majority-minority area or minority-majority area is a term describing a U.S. state or jurisdiction whose population is composed of less than 50% non-Hispanic whites.


This is the last stand for those who want to emulate white-minority-rule, a.k.a. apartheid.

"WHITE CHRISTIAN NATIONALISTS" are fighting to stop a future where they fear that the atrocities they have visited on the minority are visited on themselves. (assuming that everyone is just as weak and deranged as they are)

It's pure projection.

FIGHT LIKE HELL.

I'm 74 and I'm fired up for a brilliant future.
This generation of schoolkids, who face death every day they enter school, will stomp the fascists,

These kids will be the greatest generation ever.
Because we offer them opportunity, love, and protection rather than gunfire and nihilism.

And start calling the "un-woke" fascists and especially nihilists, which they are.
Future or no future.
Kids will choose wisely.

Seinan Sensei

(361 posts)
195. Excellent point
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 06:29 PM
Mar 2023

We need to get back to NO-tuition/LOW-tuition colleges and universities
Like we had before Reagan
The more education one gets, the more likely one is to vote Democrat.

JohnnyRingo

(18,624 posts)
115. I live in Ohio, and I do more Buckeye Bashing than anyone.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:08 PM
Mar 2023

I compare us to West Virginia and Florida, criticize our state government as being led by right wing buffoons, and admit that rural rednecks have painted the state crimson red.

There are a lot of good liberal democrats in Youngstown, Cleveland, and Columbus. (Not so much in Cincinnati Kentucky), but the problem is they aren't in charge. The GOP is and it shows.

I am at once proud and embarrassed of my home state. Try to get over it and not take it so personal. We all appreciate you.

LisaM

(27,802 posts)
118. It's the same in Washington and Michigan.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:17 PM
Mar 2023

Geographically, both states would be red. You wouldn't believe the yard signs and billboards against their governors once you get out of the cities.

I love your post and will remember it the next time I visit a Southern state. I love and enjoy the South.

hippywife

(22,767 posts)
119. I called someone out for this the other day.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:23 PM
Mar 2023

It's not bad enough we have to live in these places, but we don't need people rubbing our noses in it. Any time I see it happening, the member who does it is immediately placed on Ignore.

Mollyann

(108 posts)
121. Agree 100%
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:35 PM
Mar 2023

And please don't tell me to move. My ancestors came here when it was still Mexico. At almost 77, I'm not leaving. I would love to keep my family near, but already have a granddaughter in California and a grandson in Colorado.

LymphocyteLover

(5,643 posts)
122. as a resident of Indiana, which very frustratingly has gotten much more red in recent years,
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:37 PM
Mar 2023

YES, thank you!

catbyte

(34,373 posts)
124. Don't feel bad. Even here in Michigan, currently a shining beacon of hope for
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:43 PM
Mar 2023

Democracy in America, is mostly red, mapwise. There are just more of us than there are of them, and we have a great GOTV operation. For example:



The de-gerrymandering the Michigan Independent Citizens Committee completed made our congressional districts much fairer, which allowed us to capture the legislature for the first time in 40 years. There are MAGAts everywhere.



Martin Eden

(12,863 posts)
128. All states are Purple, though different shades
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 02:54 PM
Mar 2023

Broad-brush characterizations can smear good people on our side.

LetMyPeopleVote

(145,130 posts)
133. Texas will turn blue
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 03:02 PM
Mar 2023

There are some demographic trends that explain why the Texas GOP has been suppressing the vote. The older GOP white voters are dying off and are being replaced by younger voters who are largely non-white. Texas will turn blue

TwilightZone

(25,464 posts)
160. And likely the most misunderstood.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 07:11 PM
Mar 2023

Biden won 46% of the the vote in 2020 and the major cities lean blue, some of them quite significantly.

It's far from the monolithic red blob many on DU insist it is.

orthoclad

(2,910 posts)
143. Agreed. Blaming the victim
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:27 PM
Mar 2023

is no good.

We need to direct our ire at the sources of our misery: the oligarchy.

In 2015 Jimmy Carter said we live in an oligarchy, in response to Citizens United. Organized money buys elections and judges.

A lot of people vote red because they sense a need for substantial change, but they are subject to an organized, well-funded propaganda machine that redirects that sense to false targets.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
145. Thanks, xmas74!
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:39 PM
Mar 2023

I'm glad you're not leaving. But your reminder's a valuable one, because I know sometimes it's easy to forget that this is on the internet where ANYBODY can see it. But it's THE voice for Democrats, in my opinion anyway. And some of those opinions are - uh, shall we say - unvarnished?

There's a young man on MSNBC as I write this, who's pointing out how many different ways TikTok serves its 150-million mainly-young users. And how it offers all kinds of stuff, "what Congressman Bowman understood is that TikTok is a place where young people go for entertainment, for education... for their news... they're using it for a wide range of purposes and understand themselves better."

Seems to me that also pretty nicely sums up why WE come HERE.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
149. I am against all attacks
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 04:58 PM
Mar 2023

Including on NY which I have seen too. I live in a half and half area in NY. There was clearly not enough help/ funding from the party because if there had been santos would not have been elected. They should have had non stop tv ads attacking him. Suozzi not running also played a role. Overreaching in redistricting and those lost seats helped lose the house.

TwilightZone

(25,464 posts)
159. Because stereotyping is much easier than understanding the reality and context of situations.
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 07:07 PM
Mar 2023

Unfortunately, we're often just as susceptible to it as anyone, especially where red state/blue state arguments are concerned.

Understanding nuance and context require effort. Tossing out bumper-sticker-level generalizations does not.

SouthernDem4ever

(6,617 posts)
170. I guess we don't remember that this is how the fascists have come to power
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:49 PM
Mar 2023

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Starting with right-wing hate radio, newt gingrich and his list of hate words for liberals, etc etc etc all the way to the idiot trump. It's been thirty years of nasty brainwashing. It obviously works so well that people you thought were half normal go and vote for the morons - and still are - even when faced with the reality their candidate is completely crooked, stupid, anti-democratic, and violent.

bluboid

(560 posts)
173. excellent point - I live in a blue state...
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 10:54 PM
Mar 2023

I was born into a liberal/dem family from a red state that settled in a blue state in 1954...
there are forces out there that want to divide this country even further -
don't fall for it.

Conjuay

(1,383 posts)
175. I agree
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:19 PM
Mar 2023

I moved into florida long before it became a hell hole, well, just before it became a hell WHOLE.

Walkin’ Lawton was gov, but the writing was already on the wall - things were gonna change.

Some of use are ‘true blue’ and it kinda puts us off when we are overlooked because we’re in a state that the DCC has decided not to waste money, time, or effort into turning this place around. For example, Val Demings was everything Bubio wasn’t, and yet he was running ads easily 3 times more frequently than Demings, and is now back in office doing nothing.

Then there was a shake-up post election in the state party; far too little, far too late.

Every day, 365 days a year Carlson and those other disinformation specialists on Fox and the others “patriotic” stations call us everything from pedophiles to demons.

The ‘liberal’ media is a fantasy.

But I am preaching to the choir, and you all know this.
Please stop painting us “Red states” as unworthy, and simply writing us off.

We WILL move forward, and if you can come up with a way to give us a leg up, I know I, for one, would appreciate it.

Btw I have a used soapbox here if anyone here wants it.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,965 posts)
191. It's my understanding
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 02:16 PM
Mar 2023

and PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong, that the Democratic Party is split and very disorganized at this time. That may be one reason they aren't getting any money from the DCC. I don't know if that's true, but it's what I've read and heard. My brother's lifelong best friend, a Democrat and former DA in a northern state, actually has property in The Villages where he was spending winters but is getting out because it's untenable for him.

Gato Moteado

(9,853 posts)
176. don't take any of it personally....
Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:40 PM
Mar 2023

...the anger aimed at red states is meant for the rednecks, white trash, MAGAts, and other republican aberrations of humanity, not for you.

there's no doubt that you're doing everything you can to change things and we all thank you for that!

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
178. I appreciate your post. As a blue stater, I feel nothing but appreciation for Democrats
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 01:48 AM
Mar 2023

stuck in red cities or states.

Thank you so much for all your efforts, and for getting out for each election and voting no matter what.

markie

(22,756 posts)
180. I have
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 06:31 AM
Mar 2023

extensively traveled (for work) in every contiguous state and I have seen firsthand the good and bad.

I live in Vermont and most likely nobody here would be hyper critical of this state... we most assuredly have our share of radical right residents (have neighbors with all the lunatic signs and flags out)... Burlington saves us most of the time!!

I would never paint a broad brush on this issue

treestar

(82,383 posts)
182. you know what they mean
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 08:03 AM
Mar 2023

and that they don't mean the liberals there

why does everyone want to be a victim?

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
189. No
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 11:43 AM
Mar 2023

Some here have actually said it was the fault of everyone in that state. They had nasty things to say about the GOP and nasty things to say about Dens in the state. They've blamed it all on the Dems, say they should have done even more as individuals. One poster here even said I should have found more time, between working a full time job and receiving chemotherapy.

There's also several here who've said they should just move. Most cannot just afford to move across town and definitely not multi state.

Don't tell me I'm pretending to be a victim. I've had several who've been here between one to two decades message me here or on social media stating they've noticed how much it has changed. This thread hit a nerve.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
193. not common
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 04:33 PM
Mar 2023

I saw something like that, but it's not the usual.

People need to lighten up. Going to be hurt by these things is ridiculous. There's more important things to worry about.

I went to college in the south and got a lot of dumb remarks about how polluted Yankee territory must be, and how it's unfriendly, and how my daddy was their enemy because he worked at a rival company. There are idiots in every state.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
183. I currently live in TN and and am also sick of the South bashing
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 09:23 AM
Mar 2023

Our politicians here beat us down constantly and then my fellow Democrats blame progressives here for either not fighting back or not packing up and leaving. Think of us as an abused spouse before spouting off such hurtful declarations.

187. Indiana agrees
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 10:23 AM
Mar 2023

As a lifelong resident of the land of Pence and Quayle, I can relate and agree. I vote in EVERY election and work my butt off to spread truth, encourage Dem voters and counter RW BS. It's daunting, thankless work from a state many Democrats outside of it forget exists.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
190. But we're just trying be play victim, right?
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 11:45 AM
Mar 2023

That's been stated here in this very thread today.

I see you, I know how hard you're trying and I know what you're going through.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,965 posts)
192. I'm just a blue dot
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 02:27 PM
Mar 2023

in a big red district, but I'm not playing victim. I live near a college town which is very blue, and there are two other big blue spots in this district, one of which is also a college town. Virginia is a bluish state which elected a RepubliKKKan governor last time and I think is already having buyer's remorse but has no way of getting rid of the dude until the next election. Funny thing about my district though---the Democratic candidate, who has now run twice, got 36% of the vote, which was better than she did last time. If she runs again, maybe she can beat our spineless slug of a congresscritter, who has done exactly nothing since he's been there.

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