A few suggestions to older men in important jobs...(or unimportant jobs, for that matter

[SoCalDem]

I'm sure that "old" wife you find yourself with now may not be as sexy or exciting as she was when you two first got together.

BUT

You are probably not "all that" either.
She might still be with you because she is loyal to you, and feels comfortable with you..and she may not be after extra-special "excitement". She may also know want to upset the family , who are probably grown now, and that family now includes grandkids.


If you are younger looking than she is, and are surrounded by younger women who deem more appealing to you, all you need to do (if you want to go out and play) is Go to your wife...Tell her..Give her half the "stuff"..Move out..Let her have her freedom from a cheating louse and let her have the dignity of being the one to end it..

Then go out and play the field..

No one really cares if you want to date young women.. Good for you, if they want to date you.. Just don't sneak around ..Cut your ties to family FIRST..

[seabeyond]

1. point on. that "old" wife will probably be just fine, lol. nt

[SoCalDem]

2. Especially once the louse is gone

[seabeyond]

5. that is how i see it and what i am thinking. nt

[Sedona]

3. That goes double for older men in UNIMPORTANT jobs.

[seabeyond]

6. bah hahahaha. lol. so true.

i love you women.

[MineralMan]

4. Excellent advice. nt

[HappyMe]

7. That's good.

To be fair, as it takes 2 to have an affair. I would also say to women - if you know the man is married, say NO.

[seabeyond]

8. ya know. just have your boundaries, that being one.

i agree.