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Johnny2X2X

(19,109 posts)
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:38 AM Apr 2023

Where are the screams of "Why does Melania stay?"

I remember when Bill Clinton was caught cheating, there was an endless drone of media asking, "Why does Hillary stay?" It was literally on the cover of magazines.

Well Donald Trump has been caught paying off a porn star he had sex with when Melania was back in Flordia in the hospital recovering from the brith of thier child. He got caught paying off a Playboy model who he had a several years long affair with while married to Melania. And he got caught paying off a door man who had information about an illegitimate child Trump fathered with another woman he cheated on his wives with. This is all public and humiliating for his wife.

So where are the endless media asking, "Why does Melania stay?" And they also said, "What about poor Chelsea?" Well, what about poor Barron?

The pearl clutching over Clinton and Monica was epic. "I had to explain to my kid what oral sex was! Oh the huge manitee!" Well, parents are having to explain to their kids what porn stars are and why the former Preisdent paid one money to keep quiet. Where is the outrage from the pearl clutching set?

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Where are the screams of "Why does Melania stay?" (Original Post) Johnny2X2X Apr 2023 OP
Money. Why else would she have married him in the first place? Ocelot II Apr 2023 #1
This. I really doubt she even wants to have sex with him so doesn't really care about his affairs. JoanofArgh Apr 2023 #3
In that situation, I would PRAY nonstop for affairs to keep him... occupied. deurbano Apr 2023 #37
Oh, definitely PatSeg Apr 2023 #39
It's all about the Benjamin's MustLoveBeagles Apr 2023 #54
Only thing I can come up with is... edisdead Apr 2023 #2
Excellent analysis. PCIntern Apr 2023 #27
This is perfect. Can I paraphrase to a few MAGAts I work with? AllyCat Apr 2023 #33
Shit yeah! edisdead Apr 2023 #46
This entire thread canetoad Apr 2023 #56
Yeah shits scary! edisdead Apr 2023 #58
well shit, that nails it! Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #34
If I can paraphrase that, while also quoting our great media's 8 year quest to robbob Apr 2023 #48
Money makes her world go round. Autumn Apr 2023 #4
It is a transaction arrangement relationship (TAR as in she is stuck to him) lapfog_1 Apr 2023 #5
Because her boss putin has not yet ordered her to leave? niyad Apr 2023 #6
Same as Lindsey Graham but a lot worse Tetrachloride Apr 2023 #7
It is the Evangelicals that stick with TIFG that baffles me. ProudMNDemocrat Apr 2023 #8
How is he opposite? ExWhoDoesntCare Apr 2023 #55
Seriously? I can think of a BILLION reasons Shanti Shanti Shanti Apr 2023 #9
Oh, she will not get much Johnny2X2X Apr 2023 #13
She really don't care, so Emile Apr 2023 #10
Maybe Putin won't let her leave? gab13by13 Apr 2023 #11
Hey, we agree on something! AZSkiffyGeek Apr 2023 #21
She is still a paid escort and is fine with that role. Freethinker65 Apr 2023 #12
I don't care about anyone's marriage or how it works. BlackSkimmer Apr 2023 #14
The US taxpayers spend a fortune on this grifter's upkeep. Irish_Dem Apr 2023 #20
Melania is being paid by the taxpayers? BlackSkimmer Apr 2023 #24
POTUS retirement and perks benefit her. She has free healthcare and widow's pension. Irish_Dem Apr 2023 #47
And what will your questions accomplish? BlackSkimmer Apr 2023 #50
Melania doesn't want to give up all the freebies, perks, security of being former First Lady. Irish_Dem Apr 2023 #15
hell i would stay too!!!! Women can..and do.. tolerate a lot for the security of their child and she samnsara Apr 2023 #16
Perhaps she'd nothing from him, but there would be huge book deals. Earth-shine Apr 2023 #29
She doesn't need it. She has plenty of money of her own. Mariana Apr 2023 #62
Maybe you don't understand rich people. Plenty is never enough. Earth-shine Apr 2023 #63
Exactly. She stays with him because she wants to. Mariana Apr 2023 #65
She is very wealthy in her own right. Mariana Apr 2023 #61
Does she take over everything if multigraincracker Apr 2023 #17
After all this is over he may again have a negative net worth by the time he checks out. Marcuse Apr 2023 #44
Sometimes people stay together so that neither one is happy. twodogsbarking Apr 2023 #18
When people asked about the Clintons sarisataka Apr 2023 #19
Exactly. BlackSkimmer Apr 2023 #25
TFG cheated WITH Melania before he cheated ON her. This was a financial calculation from the get-go. Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2023 #22
Who cares? relayerbob Apr 2023 #23
Because Hillary is Satan, personally responsible for the deindustrialization of America because of betsuni Apr 2023 #26
'Melania knew exactly the kind of man she was getting' Earth-shine Apr 2023 #28
Epstein Johnny2X2X Apr 2023 #35
She has lots of hunky SS guys around orthoclad Apr 2023 #30
I think the reasons no one is asking Just A Box Of Rain Apr 2023 #31
No one expects any better from Trump. Everyone knows he's a scum bucket. Gaugamela Apr 2023 #32
Who cares. republianmushroom Apr 2023 #36
Citizenship Question nwliberalkiwi Apr 2023 #38
She's a Soviet/Russian asset. Joinfortmill Apr 2023 #40
She's been pretty scarce, she doesn't want to be a White House appendage Warpy Apr 2023 #41
How do you know she's still staying? Amaryllis Apr 2023 #42
For a long time I though that until she wore the " I don't care, Do you", coat. BradBo Apr 2023 #43
Who says she did? Does anyone know where she is, really? dchill Apr 2023 #45
Melania is worse than Trump if you can even imagine that. Hamlette Apr 2023 #49
Spot on! Emile Apr 2023 #57
and both she and Trump love that her nude photos are out there Hamlette Apr 2023 #59
Because inthewind21 Apr 2023 #51
I'll answer your actual question. maxsolomon Apr 2023 #52
You're right about the double standard, but also, nobody gives a shit about melania ecstatic Apr 2023 #53
I don't care why she stays. I don't care if she runs over him with his 757. I hope they both rot Autumn Apr 2023 #60
The reason is that Melania, a former soft core porn model, who Trump cheated with when married to karynnj Apr 2023 #64

Ocelot II

(115,829 posts)
1. Money. Why else would she have married him in the first place?
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:41 AM
Apr 2023

He's fat, unattractive, boastful and mean-tempered, and he has a little dick shaped like a mushroom. It had to have been the money.

PatSeg

(47,577 posts)
39. Oh, definitely
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:21 PM
Apr 2023

I'm sure she was glad that he found someone(s) else to satisfy his needs, so she didn't have to deal with him. Though she probably would have preferred that he be more discreet and not humiliate her in public.

edisdead

(1,956 posts)
2. Only thing I can come up with is...
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:42 AM
Apr 2023

A piece of shit is expected to be a piece of shit. Whenever they act like something just a bit better than a piece of shit they get lauded and told how great they were for not being a piece of shit. When really, they are just a shitty piece of shit.... So they are expected to be a piece of shit.

robbob

(3,538 posts)
48. If I can paraphrase that, while also quoting our great media's 8 year quest to
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:49 PM
Apr 2023

provide hard hitting “journalism”…

“Oh, that’s just tRump being tRump…”

lapfog_1

(29,219 posts)
5. It is a transaction arrangement relationship (TAR as in she is stuck to him)
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:46 AM
Apr 2023

pretty sure she gets next to nothing if she divorces him. Right now she gets enough to go on shopping trips, host parties, take on various lovers, send her son to private schools, travel.

Doesn't mean she had to sleep with him every night (if ever) or do more than appear at his side occasionally. I am certain she hated being First "Lady" because she had to make so many more appearances with him and it probably also impacted her sex life.

She is still hoping that he will have a cheeseburger induced heart attack and there will be a few million for her not taken by the IRS, the greedy children, and the creditors.

ProudMNDemocrat

(16,787 posts)
8. It is the Evangelicals that stick with TIFG that baffles me.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:50 AM
Apr 2023

He is the OPPOSITE of what a Christian is who follows Christ and His teachings.

With this being HOLY WEEK, I find the irony most amusing.

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
55. How is he opposite?
Thu Apr 6, 2023, 01:15 AM
Apr 2023

How many televangelicals have been caught committing adultery? Even when they're caught, they're able to come back from it and attract followers yet again--usually the same ones they had before.

I witnessed a televangelical do it three times--three sex scandals, new churches after each one, with plenty of gullible fools to go with them. I was betting he'd do it a fourth time, but he died before he could get caught at it.

And it's not just the evangelicals being naughty. Mainstream ministers, priests and even popes have had scandalous sex lives, too. Lucrezia Borgia's father was Pope Alexander VI. Her mother was known as the main, but not the only, squeeze of Alexander, as in, he often had multiple mistresses at once.

Given that history, why expect christians to have a problem now with any of their chosen leaders being adulterers? The evidence indicates that they've rarely had a problem with it.

Irish_Dem

(47,334 posts)
20. The US taxpayers spend a fortune on this grifter's upkeep.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 10:06 AM
Apr 2023

Makes it my damn business.

ETA If Melania doesn't want me asking questions she can get off the taxpayer dole.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
24. Melania is being paid by the taxpayers?
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 10:26 AM
Apr 2023

I doubt Melania cares whether you ask questions or not at any rate.

Melania doesn't know you or any of us and her marriage to that cretin is her business.

Irish_Dem

(47,334 posts)
47. POTUS retirement and perks benefit her. She has free healthcare and widow's pension.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:49 PM
Apr 2023

Security for life. The list goes on and on. She is a Trump grifter.

We don't know the half of what these two grifters have
stolen from the American taxpayer.

Of course she doesn't care about what we are paying for, but some of us do.

As long as she is ripping off the taxpayer and part of the Trump Crime Family,
I am going to ask questions.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
50. And what will your questions accomplish?
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 01:22 PM
Apr 2023

You just listed what she is eligible for. Do you think you can change that?

Ask all the questions you want. They are gone from office. Stop feeding them.

Silliness.

Irish_Dem

(47,334 posts)
15. Melania doesn't want to give up all the freebies, perks, security of being former First Lady.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:57 AM
Apr 2023

She is about the money.

samnsara

(17,635 posts)
16. hell i would stay too!!!! Women can..and do.. tolerate a lot for the security of their child and she
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 09:58 AM
Apr 2023

.. knows once shes outta there she and Baron would get crumbs.

 

Earth-shine

(4,044 posts)
29. Perhaps she'd nothing from him, but there would be huge book deals.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 11:06 AM
Apr 2023

She can humiliate him and profit at the same time.

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
19. When people asked about the Clintons
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 10:05 AM
Apr 2023

My reply was "that's their business, not mine."

I have the same answer now.

betsuni

(25,610 posts)
26. Because Hillary is Satan, personally responsible for the deindustrialization of America because of
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 10:31 AM
Apr 2023

NAFTA, throwing everyone in jail because of the 1994 Crime Bill, personally responsible for the Iraq War, something about Wall Street because she gave a speech at Goldman Sachs and was paid for it ( ), somehow rigging elections. That wasn't the right-wing demonizing her. Sickening.

Gaugamela

(2,496 posts)
32. No one expects any better from Trump. Everyone knows he's a scum bucket.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:02 PM
Apr 2023

Even those who think he’s the Messiah.

republianmushroom

(13,670 posts)
36. Who cares.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:09 PM
Apr 2023

That's like the ads seen here lately about tiger woods and garth brooks divorces,
do any of you really care and want to know the details ?

Warpy

(111,332 posts)
41. She's been pretty scarce, she doesn't want to be a White House appendage
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 12:30 PM
Apr 2023

with responsibilities ranging from chief hostess and servant wrangler to Xmas decoration designer.

She hasn't left because she'd be flayed alive for deserting the poor thing in his time of greatest need.

Besides, he's still a great meal ticket, which is why she married him and produced a kid.

Hamlette

(15,412 posts)
49. Melania is worse than Trump if you can even imagine that.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 01:03 PM
Apr 2023

When she wore the "I don't care" coat when she went off to see children in cages, I bought into the "stupid rookie mistake by someone not familiar with the language or something or other". Then I read her friends book. Melania is a cold hearted, self-centered, cruel, shallow, mean to her very core woman who exercises more control over Donald than he does over her.

I can't even think of any historical figure as bad.

Hamlette

(15,412 posts)
59. and both she and Trump love that her nude photos are out there
Thu Apr 6, 2023, 11:08 AM
Apr 2023

I don't care about the pictures. I think our society can survive a bit of nudity. What troubles me is how cruel they both are. That sort of shit rubs off on people and makes it okay to be cruel.

maxsolomon

(33,384 posts)
52. I'll answer your actual question.
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 01:34 PM
Apr 2023

Trump broke the norm where a President's infidelity could be considered a shocking transgression.

Uptight Cons who got the vapors over Clinton's dalliances decided 7 years ago that Stigginit had priority over moral outrage. They fully knew what they were buying in 2016, and they didn't care (or perhaps the Cons that truly were shocked by Clinton had passed on by the time of Trump).

Every bit of outrage expressed in 1998, a quarter century ago, was performative and for political advantage.

ecstatic

(32,729 posts)
53. You're right about the double standard, but also, nobody gives a shit about melania
Wed Apr 5, 2023, 01:44 PM
Apr 2023

Nobody likes her or cares. She is a fake who pretended to be concerned about bullying while married to the biggest troll on the planet. Also, she's a gold-digger. She knew what she was signing up for.

Regarding our media--the epiphany I've come to recently is that many of them are harder on Democrats due to having more interest / more emotional investment in Democrats. Also, Democrats are easier to approach, whereas repubs act like thugs and are more intimidating to them. So all of their attention is focused on us while the gop is completely lawless / getting away with murder.

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
60. I don't care why she stays. I don't care if she runs over him with his 757. I hope they both rot
Thu Apr 6, 2023, 11:12 AM
Apr 2023

together. Barron is a trump he will be fine, and probably an ass.

karynnj

(59,504 posts)
64. The reason is that Melania, a former soft core porn model, who Trump cheated with when married to
Thu Apr 6, 2023, 12:52 PM
Apr 2023

his second wife had more reason to believe Trump would cheat on her than any expectation he would be faithful. Hillary had far more right to be angry at her husband, both for his unfaithfulness and that he would jeopardize all their shared political goals. However, it was HER decision whether her marriage going forward was a net plus or minus. It is none of our business.

I DO agree that there is a huge double standard, but that was more in GOP voters accepting the gross Trump and Melania. The criticism of EVERY Democratic wife going back at least as far as the amazing Rosalyn Carter when all were very accomplished, credible women while ALL Republican wives have been praised and Melania is probably the strongest example of them accepting someone who is pretty unacceptable - with the base actually routinely calling her "classy". Consider that Hillary was too feminist, Teresa too foreign, Michelle unAmerican (which I think translated as too black - consider Melania plagerized Michelle's convention speech - so they were clearly ok with Michelle's values), and Jill Biden, who earned a PHD had the nerve to be sometimes called Dr Biden. Yet Melania was OK?????

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