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GOP candidate says teachers "poisoned" his child & turned them nonbinary bisexual
Phillip Andrew Hamilton, a Republican candidate running for the Virginia state senate, says schools simply must be indoctrinating children and poisoning their minds because his own 13-year-old child is a nonbinary bisexual.
repeatedly misgendering his child while appearing on the right-wing web show In The Trenches With Teddy Daniels, Hamilton said, Last year, she came out to me and said, Well, Dad, Im bisexual. And this is when she was 12 years old. I said, Youre too young to be really going into whether or not youre bisexual. Youre not a dating age. And she dismissed me, unfortunately.
I found out later on last year that the problem was much worse than just being bisexual, Hamilton added. She came out and said, Well, Im no longer being identified as a she. Im a they/them.
Hamilton then said that, even though his ex-wife and her family supported the childs identities, he wouldnt.
I told my daughter, You need to go to the church. You need to realize that this is not the right path for you, he said. I asked her, What teachers indoctrinated you with this? and she refused to tell me. And it infuriates me to this day that the public education system has poisoned the mind of my own daughter.
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/gop-candidate-says-teachers-poisoned-his-child-turned-them-nonbinary-bisexual/ar-AA19AUWi
Wounded Bear
(64,619 posts)RainCaster
(13,886 posts)No wonder he's no longer married.
Bettie
(19,868 posts)you get better!
Or so I'm told!
Basic politeness indicates that you call people what they ask to be called.
sakabatou
(46,322 posts)Coventina
(29,936 posts)ExWhoDoesntCare
(4,741 posts)It's too bad internal problems shattered that band. They had something special.
Of course, it helped to have a lead singer of such awesome talent, and a powerful stage presence.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)Timeflyer
(3,794 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)motivated by disgust reactions. Hopefully some won't be immune to this kind.
ExWhoDoesntCare
(4,741 posts)Even the scumbag acknowledged as much:
"Hamilton then said that, even though his ex-wife and her family supported the childs identities, he wouldnt."
So Mom and her family is on board.
They will turn out fine.
Chainfire
(17,757 posts)Why, I wonder, would a conservative believe that the school had more power of the nature and nurture of a student than a parent?
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)Celerity
(54,838 posts)lpbk2713
(43,295 posts)Get your mind really screwed up.
WhiskeyGrinder
(27,227 posts)BlueWaveNeverEnd
(14,953 posts)Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)Shes in 6th grade and confided to me that she has a huge crush on one of her female friends.
Instead of blaming others or disparaging her in any way for crushing on another girl, without missing a beat I told her about the first crush I had. I went on to tell her that crushes at that age arent easy and I tried to normalize what shes going through.
I felt honored that my daughter felt comfortable enough with me to share her most secret and innermost of feelings.
I know Im preaching to the quire here, but the last thing any child needs is to feel like something about who they are is wrong.
What a shitty father that guy is.
Caliman73
(11,767 posts)I know, religion... but being gay/lesbian/bi ... does not do anyone harm. You love, just like everyone else loves. You are attracted just like everyone else is attracted, just to people who are the same gender, etc...
You aren't saying, "hey mom/dad, I have come to the realization that I like to go out and set other people's homes on fire..." Kids have a hard enough time finding out who they are and where they fit in the world. Why would asshole parents make it even harder by not accepting who they are and as you said, just going with it, until they land on something solid. Being supportive makes a very turbulent time, at least a little bit more tolerable for everyone.
Shitty father indeed!!
underpants
(197,148 posts)DET
(2,599 posts)From his twitter: I am a former Republican candidate for the Virginia House of Delegates and Im currently running for Virginia Senate in the 11th District! Hes supported by Amanda Chase (Trump in heels). Thats just great. But I dont know anything about the 11th District, so I have no idea if he could be competitive.
underpants
(197,148 posts)DET
(2,599 posts)obamanut2012
(29,508 posts)It is bluer than Berkeley have the time.
Turbineguy
(40,201 posts)You have to be bad enough to get elected (as a republican) and then you get a nice paycheck, gubmint health care and a fat retirement. And all you have to do is say stupid shit.
haele
(15,590 posts)Kidlet went through all sorts of stages when she was going through tween/teen ages, and most of her stages were based off her peers, not her teachers or any other adults around.
Kids at 11 - 16 are caught emotionally between bouts of hormones and the desire to for in. They're going to say all sorts of things one just has to roll with, but the most important thing to watch for is what makes them physically distressed or clinically depressed.
Haele
NowISeetheLight
(4,002 posts)Virginia doesnt allow therapy to cure LGBT kids. You need to go to church? I suspect theyve probably been there already all the years growing up.
Trenzalore
(2,575 posts)You fucking dirty bastard, you are already breaking biblical law by getting a divorce. Your wife probably left you because you are such a douche.
Caliman73
(11,767 posts)Liberals see this as: The young person has been given language and empowerment to express their identity and sexual orientation. They are being given the tools to live a more authentic life. Given an open society, this young person will be able to explore their identity, love who they want to love, and express themselves.
This is the Conservative mindset: They don't see things how I see them so ... indoctrination. They think that you can repress someone into conforming by denying them support and the constructs they need to live their lives.
What you actually do is just make a person's life miserable. They would still be non-binary and bisexual, they would simply have to suppress any thoughts and behaviors associated with expressing themselves and being with and loving others who accept them.
Conservatives do not understand, or maybe they do and it scares them; that people have ideas about their gender identity and sexual orientation even if they don't have the language to adequately express it. Children are sexual beings and can tell in their way, what they are attracted to, both sexually and by affinity, who they identify with.
Conservatives keep wanting to shove the square peg into the round hole and it is hurting people. We all suffer because of their hang ups.
BlueWaveNeverEnd
(14,953 posts)patphil
(9,219 posts)Phoenix61
(18,887 posts)I cant make them do their homework but you think I can make them gay?
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ExWhoDoesntCare
(4,741 posts)When they knew they were straight. Tell us about that exact moment, what age you were, what made the light bulb come on--everything. They usually can't answer, because they've never thought about it or how they "became" straight.
Well, Dad, Im bisexual. And this is when she was 12 years old. I said, Youre too young to be really going into whether or not youre bisexual. Youre not a dating age. And she dismissed me, unfortunately.'
She was right to dismiss your stupidity. Most of us know by that age which way our proclivities lie. Some might try to bury it if it's LGBT+, but down deep? They usually know by that age what they are.
I knew by the time I was, oh, five that the opposite sex was my jam. I even knew there were kids the same age whose tastes weren't the same, even if they never said anything about it. And I didn't care or expect them to say anything about it. Who cared who someone else liked or if they thought they were a boy, not a girl, as long as they weren't mean? That's all I cared about--mean or not mean.
Come to think of it, that's still what I care about: Mean or not mean.
NickB79
(20,400 posts)Maybe finding his dad's Playboy stash, or another friend's dad's stash.
He was having...gasp...sexual thoughts!
But his daughter had a sexual thought at the same age, and his mind is blown.

