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Nevilledog

(51,196 posts)
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:45 PM Apr 2023

Florida Woman Denied Abortion Miscarried in Hair Salon Bathroom, Lost Half Her Blood

https://jezebel.com/florida-woman-denied-abortion-miscarried-in-hair-salon-1850320023

A devastating new story in the Washington Post details how Florida’s 15-week abortion ban almost killed a woman, despite the fact that the ban nominally has exceptions in place for the health of the pregnant person. The reporting comes as the state works to finalize a ban after six weeks of pregnancy, which likely presidential contender Gov. Ron DeSantis (R) is expected to sign.

In mid-December, Anya Cook was nearly 16 weeks pregnant when her water broke—long before a fetus could survive outside the womb. Cook went to an emergency room in Coral Springs, Florida, where the doctor said she was experiencing a rare complication that occurs in less than one percent of pregnancies called pre-viability premature rupture of the membranes, or PPROM. Once the amniotic sac breaks, there’s a risk of infection, which can be life-threatening even in pregnancies several weeks further along than Cook’s, per the Society for Maternal-Fetal Medicine.

Typically, doctors would induce labor or perform an abortion, but the ER doctor said they couldn’t induce her due to the state’s abortion ban, so they sent her home. A nurse gave her antibiotics and promised to pray for her. The next day, Cook ended up miscarrying her daughter, who she’d planned to call Bunny, in the bathroom of a hair salon. Her husband Derick had to sever the umbilical cord by pulling it apart with his hands. Cook told the Post that blood splattered across the floor, and according to medical records, she lost roughly half the blood in her body over the course of the day.

Paramedics rushed her to the hospital to stabilize her and remove any remaining pregnancy tissue from her uterus. The OB/GYN on call that day told Derick that Anya could die in the operating room. “I will do my very best,” the doctor said. “But the rest is up to God.” (The doctor shared this information with Anya’s consent.) She was hospitalized for six days.

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Florida Woman Denied Abortion Miscarried in Hair Salon Bathroom, Lost Half Her Blood (Original Post) Nevilledog Apr 2023 OP
I don't think this is over! atreides1 Apr 2023 #1
The bdamomma Apr 2023 #2
The same God that didn't do jack shit to stop slavery, Native genocide, Black Death & the Holocaust? Sky Jewels Apr 2023 #9
"but he loves you..." G. Carlin Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #20
And he's in need of your cash. Sky Jewels Apr 2023 #22
What about the warning of "money-changers?" I know zero of theology but seems like he knew something Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #53
"A nurse gave her antibiotics and promised to pray for her." dalton99a Apr 2023 #3
Nothing fails like prayer. Sky Jewels Apr 2023 #10
‼️‼️‼️‼️ live love laugh Apr 2023 #48
In Florida, that's all you can do jmowreader Apr 2023 #49
She should sue the hell out of hospital/doctors for malpractice. scarletlib Apr 2023 #4
One part I don't get: snot Apr 2023 #5
Guessing shock on his part & the need to act quickly. scarletlib Apr 2023 #7
That is a man who is going to be traumatized for life. This is something he never expected ... Hekate Apr 2023 #12
She asked him to break the cord. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2023 #27
And?She was losing half her blood volume. I don't think she was in any shape to be giving directions Hekate Apr 2023 #28
I'm guessing that the miscarried pregnancy was pulling on the cord and causing extreme pain by WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2023 #35
Not a medical professional, not an EMT, not a veterinarian, not trained for this bloody emergency... Hekate Apr 2023 #40
Derrick says in the full article that he had no scissors. The article also explains about the WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2023 #25
There's dozens of scissors in hair salons... Duppers Apr 2023 #38
Generally, not in the bathroom UpInArms Apr 2023 #45
Of course, but open the door & yell for... Duppers Apr 2023 #47
They were going through a deeply painful and personal event. progressoid Apr 2023 #52
DeSantis might send thoughts and prayers. Then again, he might not care. keithbvadu2 Apr 2023 #6
Heartbreaking to read. WaPo reported on it as well, here: In It to Win It Apr 2023 #8
lawmakers must be held medically liable if they're going to make medical policy elias7 Apr 2023 #11
+1 area51 Apr 2023 #34
The statement that "women will die" is starting to gravel me. Dead women cannot speak out... Hekate Apr 2023 #13
I'm sure some already have Freddie Apr 2023 #15
The Florida AG will probably be filing murder charges over the incident. Chainfire Apr 2023 #14
Murder charges against whom? PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2023 #24
Not really intended as sarcasm, I would not surprise me a bit. DeSatan is capable of anything. Chainfire Apr 2023 #42
we are literally back to the days lapfog_1 Apr 2023 #16
i hope she can bring a lawsuit. barbtries Apr 2023 #17
Not unless she can get a pro bono lawyer to bring a class action lawsuit Hekate Apr 2023 #29
K & R for exposure. SunSeeker Apr 2023 #18
Ron DeSantos! YoshidaYui Apr 2023 #19
Fuck Death Sentence DeSatan. This is on you. Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #21
This makes Delphinus Apr 2023 #23
GOP: It's not life-threatening until the woman is already on her way to dying NullTuples Apr 2023 #26
Exactly. Hekate Apr 2023 #30
Her husband is a hero bucolic_frolic Apr 2023 #31
Vaya con Dios. ( Go with God. ) dchill Apr 2023 #32
FUCK EVERY SINGLE WOMAN-HATING, THEOCRATIC, CHRISTOFASCIST niyad Apr 2023 #33
+1 UpInArms Apr 2023 #46
I hope they collect all these women's stories Fiendish Thingy Apr 2023 #36
Why is no one talking about the economics of this situation? perdita9 Apr 2023 #37
Because economics is not the point. The cruelty is the point. Subjugation is the point,, Hekate Apr 2023 #41
But money is the great motivating factor with the GOP perdita9 Apr 2023 #50
K&R Solly Mack Apr 2023 #39
I have a question DemForLife Apr 2023 #43
I am so so sorry for your terrible losses.... Hekate Apr 2023 #51
Good God. roamer65 Apr 2023 #44

atreides1

(16,093 posts)
1. I don't think this is over!
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:53 PM
Apr 2023

I have a bad feeling that law enforcement will be ordered to investigate this situation...and will likely already have orders to find a crime!

And before anyone says this can't happen...remember this is Florida and little Benito DeSantis is the Generalissimo!!!

bdamomma

(63,919 posts)
2. The
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:54 PM
Apr 2023

"rest is up to God"..........WTF...............we will hear more of these tragic situations, if this is not stopped.

Sky Jewels

(7,136 posts)
9. The same God that didn't do jack shit to stop slavery, Native genocide, Black Death & the Holocaust?
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:13 PM
Apr 2023

Seems like a flawed strategy to have "faith" in that guy.

Sky Jewels

(7,136 posts)
10. Nothing fails like prayer.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:14 PM
Apr 2023

It's mind-blowing that we're back in the Dark Ages with this shit in modern-day USA.

jmowreader

(50,562 posts)
49. In Florida, that's all you can do
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 02:13 AM
Apr 2023

I think I'd be like, "no, pray for the Lord to call Ron DeSantis home."

scarletlib

(3,418 posts)
4. She should sue the hell out of hospital/doctors for malpractice.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:00 PM
Apr 2023

Endangered her life because they failed to act. Medical bills should be absorbed by hospital or paid by Florida government.

snot

(10,538 posts)
5. One part I don't get:
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:03 PM
Apr 2023

She miscarried "in the bathroom of a hair salon. Her husband Derick had to sever the umbilical cord by pulling it apart with his hands."

Were there no scissors? Did the blood come from the umbilical cord, as the article seems to suggest, or from someplace else? If it was spurting from the umbilical cord, did no one think to apply a tournequet? The law is awful, of course; but these aspects of the story make no sense to me.

Hekate

(90,787 posts)
12. That is a man who is going to be traumatized for life. This is something he never expected ...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:19 PM
Apr 2023

This is something he had no training for, or any expectation of needing training for. His behavior seems to have been out of sheer panic and ignorance.

Hekate

(90,787 posts)
28. And?She was losing half her blood volume. I don't think she was in any shape to be giving directions
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:17 PM
Apr 2023

I don’t understand your point.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,429 posts)
35. I'm guessing that the miscarried pregnancy was pulling on the cord and causing extreme pain by
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:32 PM
Apr 2023

threatening to invert her uterus. She was in distress and asking for something she thought would help, and he did it. I'm pushing back on your use of "ignorance," that's all.

Hekate

(90,787 posts)
40. Not a medical professional, not an EMT, not a veterinarian, not trained for this bloody emergency...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 09:05 PM
Apr 2023

Not a battlefield medic, not a nurse. There must have been blood everywhere, as the article points out she lost half her blood volume.

“Ignorant” of what to do. As I am. When I say, “Trust me, I’m a doctor” it’s a family joke, because my doctorate is in the humanities and not in medicine.

And you?

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,429 posts)
25. Derrick says in the full article that he had no scissors. The article also explains about the
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:03 PM
Apr 2023

different kinds of hemorrhaging this kind of condition can cause or be associated with.

Duppers

(28,126 posts)
38. There's dozens of scissors in hair salons...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:42 PM
Apr 2023

Last edited Tue Apr 11, 2023, 10:07 PM - Edit history (1)

That was my first thought too.

Duppers

(28,126 posts)
47. Of course, but open the door & yell for...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 11:43 PM
Apr 2023

Scissors.

And DUer Snot, above, thought the same thing!

progressoid

(49,998 posts)
52. They were going through a deeply painful and personal event.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 05:02 PM
Apr 2023

Perhaps they didn't want the entire salon involved by shouting for a scissors.

area51

(11,920 posts)
34. +1
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:28 PM
Apr 2023

If lawmakers were forced to pay for women's medical bills, it might even push us closer to universal healthcare.

Hekate

(90,787 posts)
13. The statement that "women will die" is starting to gravel me. Dead women cannot speak out...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:22 PM
Apr 2023

Given the severity of these “near deaths,” I’ll bet you anything that women ARE dying.

Freddie

(9,273 posts)
15. I'm sure some already have
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:42 PM
Apr 2023

And the “pro-life” folks continue to deny that it’s a problem (“but the law has exceptions!”). No they should not sue the doctor and hospital, they followed the guidelines. Sue the State of Florida for making the guidelines. Find women with similar cases and file a class action suit like in Texas.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,895 posts)
24. Murder charges against whom?
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:54 PM
Apr 2023

I'll guess against the woman, given she didn't keep her baby alive.

A bit of angry sarcasm there.

lapfog_1

(29,222 posts)
16. we are literally back to the days
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:33 PM
Apr 2023

find some straw, sheep dung, and rosemary... and we will make a poultice to put in her "dirty whore place".

Skyance... who needs skyance.

barbtries

(28,811 posts)
17. i hope she can bring a lawsuit.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:34 PM
Apr 2023

one that held the potential of overturning this cruel and unusual ban.

Delphinus

(11,840 posts)
23. This makes
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:53 PM
Apr 2023

me so GD angry!

That POS female repuke said "we value life" - no, they fuckin' do NOT value life!

bucolic_frolic

(43,277 posts)
31. Her husband is a hero
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:20 PM
Apr 2023

He did more than the medical system was allowed to do by law. Necessity is the mother of invention, or at least common sense when it counts.

niyad

(113,550 posts)
33. FUCK EVERY SINGLE WOMAN-HATING, THEOCRATIC, CHRISTOFASCIST
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:22 PM
Apr 2023

GESTATIONAL SLAVER EVERY SINGLE PERSON AND INSTITUTION THAT BROUGHT US HERE.

perdita9

(1,144 posts)
37. Why is no one talking about the economics of this situation?
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:41 PM
Apr 2023

What would a D&C have cost this woman compare to what antibiotics, an ambulance ride and 6 days in the hospital cost?

The Forced Birthers are not just denying needed healthcare to women, they are running up the costs to the point where some women could go bankrupt trying to pay the bills.

perdita9

(1,144 posts)
50. But money is the great motivating factor with the GOP
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 09:10 AM
Apr 2023

That their policies are costing women thousands of unnecessary dollars in medical care should be an issue

DemForLife

(59 posts)
43. I have a question
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 09:38 PM
Apr 2023

There were two of my pregnancies that ended in stillborn births. Both of my sons were determined to not have a heartbeat before I went into labor. The first one I only found out after going into labor at 8 months and the second one at my doctors appointment in my 7th. month. If this happened today, what would happen to me? No one knows what this kind of horror does to a couple . I say couple because this is something that both have to live with, grieve over and finally move on with a piece of your heart broken forever. Fortunately, we went to a specialist and were able to have another child who has given us our only grandchidren. My sons are still in my heart to this day.

Hekate

(90,787 posts)
51. I am so so sorry for your terrible losses....
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 12:06 PM
Apr 2023


Unfortunately, what we have at large in this country today are people who fetishize fetuses at all stages of development, value them over the lives and health of women and little girls, and have an overriding desire to control women at all costs.. Their attitude toward pregnancies that go wrong is punitive.



roamer65

(36,747 posts)
44. Good God.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 09:52 PM
Apr 2023

Ugh.

This is just medieval.



This is why I have always been pro-abortion. Women need full access to the procedure at anytime, no restrictions.

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