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How to Spot a Liar (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Nov 2012 OP
easy... ProdigalJunkMail Nov 2012 #1
Shrugging, headshaking, flashes of glee XemaSab Nov 2012 #2
She's really pleasant to listen to..... nc4bo Nov 2012 #3
Marked for later. LeftofObama Nov 2012 #4
Very nice vid and good information. defacto7 Nov 2012 #5
Nice..... k&r... nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #6

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
1. easy...
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 05:13 AM
Nov 2012

watch Lane Kiffin talk about the football deflating last weekend. it is almost comical. like watching a 5 year-old inventing a 'story' on the fly...

not that this is what you are going for, but it is textbook body language and facial expressions for a liar...

sP

http://espn.go.com/video/clip?id=espn%3A8607776

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
5. Very nice vid and good information.
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 04:08 PM
Nov 2012

Two things come to mind. I think the one item that will be most missed in her comments will be the one about "it's human nature to make these gestures and does not constitute a lie in themselves. It when they are repeated that they tip off a lie... (paraphrased)". I think most people are more likely to overlook that point because the "idea" of catching people in a lie is too tantalizing. Her suggestions are real but not ground you can always rely on.

Her opinion is not necessarily universal either. She is talking about Westerners, mostly American and British. These gestures and attitudes can mean very different things in different cultures or even genetic background. Also you have to consider distress reactions. People under shock speak very differently that you would expect due to the need to protect themselves. I've seen more than once people who have undergone huge tragedies in war, and when talking about the losses, and of seeing atrocities, speak with a smile on their face. It isn't necessarily a lie, it's just trying desperately to not lose their mind and that is their psychological reaction.

She has some great points where Americans and other Western native English speakers are concerned, but it's not universal.

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