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babylonsister

(172,746 posts)
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 08:17 AM Apr 2023

What Kind of Man Would You Be If...

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What Kind of Man Would You Be If…
by Jaime O’Neill | April 19, 2023 - 6:53am


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What kind of man would you have to be to like a guy who would build a political career on the backs of frightened teenage girls, other people's daughters who are struggling with unwanted pregnancies? Who but the most ruthless of bullies would choose this particular age group and gender to use as his stepping stone to greater power, fame, and fortune? Who would be capable of thinking up ever new ways to torment this vulnerable group of women at one of the most wrenching moments of their young lives? Who would seek to make them even more fearful, anxious, and shamed than so many of them feel without assistance from bullies like DeSantis, Gregg Abbott, or other men who should have better things to do to earn their offices, their salaries, or their membership in the human race?

If you were a man who had such power, what kind of man would you be if you used the most vulnerable people as targets for hate and harassment, making a show of spending taxpayers money to send immigrants to cities up north without even letting those people know where they're bound?

What kind of man would you be if you had the power to improve things for people, but chose instead to restrict speech, ban books, and use small children as pawns in your game?

What sort of person seeks to disturb the peace by riling up the most volatile and angry people, riling up their paranoia and rage, then directing them toward school board meetings and parents' nights at elementary schools?

What kind of men think they are doing a damn bit of good by making it legal for anyone at all to carry unregistered hand guns? What kind of man can't see the consequences to come from such a corrupted idea of what freedom means?

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What Kind of Man Would You Be If... (Original Post) babylonsister Apr 2023 OP
The kind claudette Apr 2023 #1
What kind of PERSON would you be... Ferrets are Cool Apr 2023 #2
Tens of millions of our neighbors is who. What a shithole NoMoreRepugs Apr 2023 #3
There is also a disturbing number of women like this. ShazzieB Apr 2023 #4
What's the line - they tolerate the misogyny because they support the racism? Probatim Apr 2023 #7
I'm convinced that a lot of them support both. ShazzieB Apr 2023 #9
Women tolerate the misogyny because it gives them status. haele Apr 2023 #10
Excellent. pandr32 Apr 2023 #16
The women I know who speak out against abortion rights... Hope22 Apr 2023 #8
Kick and Rec Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #5
KNR niyad Apr 2023 #6
Answer: a repuglikan. lastlib Apr 2023 #11
you would be the kind of man that would be part of todays repuke party. nt Javaman Apr 2023 #12
The kind Cherokee100 Apr 2023 #13
K & R democrank Apr 2023 #14
I think I know! Jean Genie Apr 2023 #15
Why, I'd be a Repubican, of course. Scalded Nun Apr 2023 #17
 

claudette

(5,455 posts)
1. The kind
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 08:25 AM
Apr 2023

who have the money and wherewithal to provide an abortion for any girl/woman in their family even though they are responsible if others have to suffer

ShazzieB

(22,560 posts)
4. There is also a disturbing number of women like this.
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 08:44 AM
Apr 2023

If anything, I have an even lower opinion of them than I do of the men.

haele

(15,376 posts)
10. Women tolerate the misogyny because it gives them status.
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 09:43 AM
Apr 2023

Their husband's or their father's position gives them a status their minds and egos don't have to work for. They're princesses in public, no matter what anger they have to swallow because they're trapped with house and kids.
The most important thing to them is that buying into the authoritarian patriarchy gives them a perception of privilege, a position from which socially they can look down on other women who have either exercised their choice to go another way or have fallen through the cracks because there wasn't a male to support them.

There is a mix of greedy pride and fear in such women. In a patriarchy, a woman's reputation is the only measure of freedom she has - but it can be a powerful measure if that patriarchy is the only culture she knows.

Haele

pandr32

(14,240 posts)
16. Excellent.
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 11:32 AM
Apr 2023

You perfectly described many of the women (wives) of the affluent neighborhoods. They have their "Teas" where they throw their support behind something, but it is usually something safe. Many of them sit on "Boards". They belong to their local county clubs and constantly attend "Dinners" on their husbands' arms. Behind the scenes they hide their problems and stuff down their personal issues with alcohol, drugs, eating disorders, therapies, and plastic surgeries. There is also abuse in those marriages as well as affairs, but the wives stuff those down as well. There is a hierarchy in their social circles and they strive to rise within, or at least never slide to the lower levels and would hate themselves if they did, even more than they probably already do.

Hope22

(4,723 posts)
8. The women I know who speak out against abortion rights...
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 09:25 AM
Apr 2023

All had abortions. It’s not a huge sample but still eye opening. The ones who are talking seem to want to restrict the rights of others to absolve their own perceived ‘sins’. It is seriously a messed up mission!

Cherokee100

(454 posts)
13. The kind
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 09:59 AM
Apr 2023

The kind of man who would threaten, the entire planet with nuclear weapons. But here we have 400 million guns. 'Thankyou republicans'.

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