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notdarkyet

(2,226 posts)
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 03:27 PM Apr 2023

I went crazy for awhile yesterday. My BIL and I went to breakfast together which is something

We do sometimes since my sister died a year ago. I’m lonely and have no car so I rely on him to go places and do things. We both believe differently about trump, he only watches fox. In the middle of breakfast I said, please don’t vote for trump.he said Biden will be too old, 82. I answered at least he’s intelligent and he guffawed like Biden was stupid and senile.
I answered that trump was evil. He got really mad at me and said don’t call trump evil. His vibe was scary. I rushed out the door. We stopped so I could get some cigarettes at the tobacco store. There were several people inside so on a whim I blurted, are you trump people? Hell no they answered loudly. I felt better going home. Maybe I went too far but this is how I really feel about trump.

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I went crazy for awhile yesterday. My BIL and I went to breakfast together which is something (Original Post) notdarkyet Apr 2023 OP
We all have to open up the pressure relief valve some times. lpbk2713 Apr 2023 #1
Yeah, that super coherent, spry, energetic teenager Carlitos Brigante Apr 2023 #2
MAGA BIL shouting match with my other BIL ended with MAGA keeping his ass in FL. IA8IT Apr 2023 #3
There is only 3 1/2 years of difference in age between them. pandr32 Apr 2023 #4
Same here. I can't associate with brainwashed cult members any longer SouthernDem4ever Apr 2023 #15
If you need friendly help-- viva la Apr 2023 #5
Also the Unitarians... Hekate Apr 2023 #13
Wow Sorry that must be so hard Cha Apr 2023 #6
I know that it's hard, being that you lost your sister. Hang in there, keep the faith up! I lost SWBTATTReg Apr 2023 #7
I'm so glad you found positive confirmation. 1WorldHope Apr 2023 #8
I don't think you guys should talk politics. If you bring it up he needs to remind you to not GuppyGal Apr 2023 #9
Several years Rebl2 Apr 2023 #10
Love it! LiberalFighter Apr 2023 #12
my mom used to do the same thing whenever shrub came on tv orleans Apr 2023 #14
Unfortunately my Rebl2 Apr 2023 #16
It proves you are not alone. LiberalFighter Apr 2023 #11
it does not hurt to ask him about not voting for trump Shellback Squid Apr 2023 #17
It's like we are all living in the same nightmare! Emile Apr 2023 #18
Have you considered that you brought this on yourself? That you started it? JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2023 #19
Trump is only 4 years younger than Biden Ohioboy Apr 2023 #20
Biden's only 3 and a half years older and in much better shape, both physically and mentally. nt pnwmom Apr 2023 #21
Agree to disagree and leave politics out of it Raine Apr 2023 #22
I used to feel like that " just agree to disagree" But hydrolastic Apr 2023 #23

IA8IT

(6,424 posts)
3. MAGA BIL shouting match with my other BIL ended with MAGA keeping his ass in FL.
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 03:54 PM
Apr 2023

I declined attempt to be the neutral holiday location host. Did that many years while my wife was alive. Done.

pandr32

(14,281 posts)
4. There is only 3 1/2 years of difference in age between them.
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 03:54 PM
Apr 2023

Why would 3 1/2 years be a factor? Biden will not yet be 82 on election day and Trump will be 78 1/2. Where is the too old cut-off point there?
Also, it isn't Biden who is stupid and senile.
Why would your BIL get scary mad defensive when you call Trump evil and not be more caring about our nation's POTUS now? Ask him if he gives a damn about this country. Biden is his president, too. We had to put up with Trump even though we know he was not legitimately elected through free and fair elections. He didn't do any work as POTUS at all--save some photo ops throwing paper towels and pretending to be working in front of stacks of blank paper.
I don't know how you can deal with your BIL. A medal for you!

SouthernDem4ever

(6,619 posts)
15. Same here. I can't associate with brainwashed cult members any longer
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 05:41 PM
Apr 2023

They are just too weird. They want to live in a bizzaro world that is completely devoid of reality. That video of CNN asking fux viewers if they will still watch after they have admitted to lying about the election, 3 out of 4 raised their hands. The one dude said he watches fux so he can hear what he wants to hear - then says they should tell the truth. What a moron.

viva la

(4,599 posts)
5. If you need friendly help--
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 03:57 PM
Apr 2023

consider joining a church, preferably a more liberal one like the Presbyterians or Quakers. (they won't make you swear you believe. They often provide help for people who need rides and such. I am not a believer, but I like church music and the people are often very kind, and there's a "stewardship committee" that sets up aid for people attending the church.
It might be good to have an option other than Trumpy bil!

Cha

(319,158 posts)
6. Wow Sorry that must be so hard
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 04:00 PM
Apr 2023

to "have to rely" on one of the trump cult.

fux sewer sux propaganda Lies that Pres Biden is "senile".. they're FULL of Shit and should be called out on it. They paid over 1/2 Billion $$$$ to Dominion bc they LIE.

Tell your BIL to put that in his fux pipe and suck on it.

SWBTATTReg

(26,262 posts)
7. I know that it's hard, being that you lost your sister. Hang in there, keep the faith up! I lost
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 04:29 PM
Apr 2023

mine a couple of years ago, as well as 3 other members of my family, due to a various mix (old age, disease, drinking), but still have one precious sister left.

Ignore these trump-nuts, we all know that they are beyond reasoning for the most part (and actually, I've been surprised how many of them have finally 'saw the light', saw his conning ways, was there only to rip off money from his 'tricks' or stooges. He's a con man and nothing less. Stupid as a rock (probably dumber).

You witnessed it too, that crowd sentiment is changing re. tRUMP, when you blurted out 'are you tRUMP people' and they said 'HELL NO'!

That is a nice pick-me-up and I enjoyed hearing it via your post, so thank you.

1WorldHope

(2,055 posts)
8. I'm so glad you found positive confirmation.
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 04:32 PM
Apr 2023

Think how it would have sucked if they all said, hell yeah, go Brandon! Whew

GuppyGal

(1,748 posts)
9. I don't think you guys should talk politics. If you bring it up he needs to remind you to not
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 04:32 PM
Apr 2023

bring it up and vice versa. Sometimes it's just better that way.

Rebl2

(17,750 posts)
10. Several years
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 04:40 PM
Apr 2023

ago after my Mom went into a nursing home if she saw tfg on tv she would yell at him and change the channel. She really didn’t like him!

orleans

(36,931 posts)
14. my mom used to do the same thing whenever shrub came on tv
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 05:26 PM
Apr 2023

only she was at home, watching the tv, with me who wanted to keep watching the news or olbermann or rachel.



tv: shows a clip of bush
my mom: click
me: turn it back! i want to know what that asshole said/did
mom: i can't stand to look at him/hear him
me: neither can i but i still want to know
(pause)
my mom finally turns the channel back on

Rebl2

(17,750 posts)
16. Unfortunately my
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 05:42 PM
Apr 2023

Mom didn’t mind him and Dad liked him too, until he got us into unnecessary war. My Dad never voted again. He decided shrub was not all that great after all. He also didn’t like tfg.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,686 posts)
19. Have you considered that you brought this on yourself? That you started it?
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 06:03 PM
Apr 2023

You said that in the middle of breakfast, YOU brought up the topic of Trump. Not BIL.

Don't poke the bear.

Next time, argue about eggs: over easy or more well-done. Tabasco or not. Nothing you can ever say will make BIL vote for Biden, or (gasp, shudder) Hillary.



Ohioboy

(3,893 posts)
20. Trump is only 4 years younger than Biden
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 06:17 PM
Apr 2023

Emotionally, Trump is much younger and acts like a nine- year- old. No offense to actual nine-year-olds.

pnwmom

(110,261 posts)
21. Biden's only 3 and a half years older and in much better shape, both physically and mentally. nt
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 06:30 PM
Apr 2023

Raine

(31,180 posts)
22. Agree to disagree and leave politics out of it
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 07:34 PM
Apr 2023

sounds like you both need each other and you relay on him so you need him more. Be smart, you know what sets him off so don't do it!

hydrolastic

(547 posts)
23. I used to feel like that " just agree to disagree" But
Sun Apr 23, 2023, 09:31 PM
Apr 2023

I don't anymore since after the second impeachment I will argue any politics with anyone at work. There is one know it all that we get into it for so long and hard that my other coworkers beg for us to stop. Since the second impeachment. I have found out that the right wingers don't get the full story and don't even know what the real news is.
I got a t-shirt from kirschners site that says Justice matters on it. I wore it when the hearings were going on. I stood up and announced that when I wear this shirt that it means that something big is happening. I wore it when he was arrested. They did not even know why and/or if it was serious. But they know all about Hunter's laptop and ALWAYS try and say it's an equivalent crime.
I think in a lot of ways being liberal has meant to be more accepting of things, which has allowed us to be trampled on. Not anymore for me.
Oh and I feel for you and your BIL. I have lost my sister. But I got tired of listening and being all accepting of her viewpoint. She is a mild bible thumper. Now the table is turned. if she doesn't want to talk politics don't bring it up or even defend the right wing viewpoint.
I don't think I am being a bully I am a well rounded person and can tell right from wrong. If you think Trump is being pursued, then I will tell you he is and exactly why he is.
The up side to this is when he goes to jail. I will not ever let my coworkers defend him. Not ever. I tell them today that Trump is going to jail for the biggest crime in American history! They are really tired of me saying that.

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