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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI went crazy for awhile yesterday. My BIL and I went to breakfast together which is something
We do sometimes since my sister died a year ago. Im lonely and have no car so I rely on him to go places and do things. We both believe differently about trump, he only watches fox. In the middle of breakfast I said, please dont vote for trump.he said Biden will be too old, 82. I answered at least hes intelligent and he guffawed like Biden was stupid and senile.
I answered that trump was evil. He got really mad at me and said dont call trump evil. His vibe was scary. I rushed out the door. We stopped so I could get some cigarettes at the tobacco store. There were several people inside so on a whim I blurted, are you trump people? Hell no they answered loudly. I felt better going home. Maybe I went too far but this is how I really feel about trump.
lpbk2713
(43,275 posts)Don't worry about it.
Carlitos Brigante
(26,848 posts)Trump....
IA8IT
(6,424 posts)I declined attempt to be the neutral holiday location host. Did that many years while my wife was alive. Done.
pandr32
(14,281 posts)Why would 3 1/2 years be a factor? Biden will not yet be 82 on election day and Trump will be 78 1/2. Where is the too old cut-off point there?
Also, it isn't Biden who is stupid and senile.
Why would your BIL get scary mad defensive when you call Trump evil and not be more caring about our nation's POTUS now? Ask him if he gives a damn about this country. Biden is his president, too. We had to put up with Trump even though we know he was not legitimately elected through free and fair elections. He didn't do any work as POTUS at all--save some photo ops throwing paper towels and pretending to be working in front of stacks of blank paper.
I don't know how you can deal with your BIL. A medal for you!
SouthernDem4ever
(6,619 posts)They are just too weird. They want to live in a bizzaro world that is completely devoid of reality. That video of CNN asking fux viewers if they will still watch after they have admitted to lying about the election, 3 out of 4 raised their hands. The one dude said he watches fux so he can hear what he wants to hear - then says they should tell the truth. What a moron.
viva la
(4,599 posts)consider joining a church, preferably a more liberal one like the Presbyterians or Quakers. (they won't make you swear you believe.
They often provide help for people who need rides and such. I am not a believer, but I like church music and the people are often very kind, and there's a "stewardship committee" that sets up aid for people attending the church.
It might be good to have an option other than Trumpy bil!
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Cha
(319,158 posts)to "have to rely" on one of the trump cult.
fux sewer sux propaganda Lies that Pres Biden is "senile".. they're FULL of Shit and should be called out on it. They paid over 1/2 Billion $$$$ to Dominion bc they LIE.
Tell your BIL to put that in his fux pipe and suck on it.
SWBTATTReg
(26,262 posts)mine a couple of years ago, as well as 3 other members of my family, due to a various mix (old age, disease, drinking), but still have one precious sister left.
Ignore these trump-nuts, we all know that they are beyond reasoning for the most part (and actually, I've been surprised how many of them have finally 'saw the light', saw his conning ways, was there only to rip off money from his 'tricks' or stooges. He's a con man and nothing less. Stupid as a rock (probably dumber).
You witnessed it too, that crowd sentiment is changing re. tRUMP, when you blurted out 'are you tRUMP people' and they said 'HELL NO'!
That is a nice pick-me-up and I enjoyed hearing it via your post, so thank you.
1WorldHope
(2,055 posts)Think how it would have sucked if they all said, hell yeah, go Brandon! Whew
GuppyGal
(1,748 posts)bring it up and vice versa. Sometimes it's just better that way.
Rebl2
(17,750 posts)ago after my Mom went into a nursing home if she saw tfg on tv she would yell at him and change the channel. She really didnt like him!
LiberalFighter
(53,544 posts)orleans
(36,931 posts)only she was at home, watching the tv, with me who wanted to keep watching the news or olbermann or rachel.
tv: shows a clip of bush
my mom: click
me: turn it back! i want to know what that asshole said/did
mom: i can't stand to look at him/hear him
me: neither can i but i still want to know
(pause)
my mom finally turns the channel back on
Rebl2
(17,750 posts)Mom didnt mind him and Dad liked him too, until he got us into unnecessary war. My Dad never voted again. He decided shrub was not all that great after all. He also didnt like tfg.
LiberalFighter
(53,544 posts)Shellback Squid
(10,087 posts)Emile
(42,316 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(24,686 posts)You said that in the middle of breakfast, YOU brought up the topic of Trump. Not BIL.
Don't poke the bear.
Next time, argue about eggs: over easy or more well-done. Tabasco or not. Nothing you can ever say will make BIL vote for Biden, or (gasp, shudder) Hillary.
Ohioboy
(3,893 posts)Emotionally, Trump is much younger and acts like a nine- year- old. No offense to actual nine-year-olds.
pnwmom
(110,261 posts)Raine
(31,180 posts)sounds like you both need each other and you relay on him so you need him more. Be smart, you know what sets him off so don't do it!
hydrolastic
(547 posts)I don't anymore since after the second impeachment I will argue any politics with anyone at work. There is one know it all that we get into it for so long and hard that my other coworkers beg for us to stop. Since the second impeachment. I have found out that the right wingers don't get the full story and don't even know what the real news is.
I got a t-shirt from kirschners site that says Justice matters on it. I wore it when the hearings were going on. I stood up and announced that when I wear this shirt that it means that something big is happening. I wore it when he was arrested. They did not even know why and/or if it was serious. But they know all about Hunter's laptop and ALWAYS try and say it's an equivalent crime.
I think in a lot of ways being liberal has meant to be more accepting of things, which has allowed us to be trampled on. Not anymore for me.
Oh and I feel for you and your BIL. I have lost my sister. But I got tired of listening and being all accepting of her viewpoint. She is a mild bible thumper. Now the table is turned. if she doesn't want to talk politics don't bring it up or even defend the right wing viewpoint.
I don't think I am being a bully I am a well rounded person and can tell right from wrong. If you think Trump is being pursued, then I will tell you he is and exactly why he is.
The up side to this is when he goes to jail. I will not ever let my coworkers defend him. Not ever. I tell them today that Trump is going to jail for the biggest crime in American history! They are really tired of me saying that.