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Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
Fri May 5, 2023, 12:58 PM May 2023

I am so proud of Meghan Markle not going to the Coronation!!!!

And very happy that Prince Harry did. It is his father and I truly think he would have regretted it 20 years from now!! But Meghan needed to stand her ground and not be pulled into that misogynistic nightmare that the British Tabloids promote non stop.

I keep hearing about how Katherine had to go through the gauntlet.. and Camilla had to go through it.. Well damn it all to hell if you keep letting yourself be pulled through that, it will never end. You have to stand up and say enough is enough and not just think "whew, its the next woman's turn to be put on the rack"..

So good on you Meghan!! I know the tabloids are foaming, just foaming like mad dogs because you did not go over so they could tear you apart to sell a million newspapers or looks online.

And Harry proud of you too for standing up to Murdoch and his ilk in England, and suing the shorts off of them. I know the Heritage Foundation here is coming after you probably because Murdoch told them too.. hang in there.. hang tough..







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I am so proud of Meghan Markle not going to the Coronation!!!! (Original Post) Peacetrain May 2023 OP
The constant bashing of MM pisses me off......................... Lovie777 May 2023 #1
same here. If I remember correctly, it started when her first yellowdogintexas May 2023 #35
I found the father and sisters pulling those stunts absolutely appalling! liberalla May 2023 #70
Same Here RobinA May 2023 #59
When Harry and Meghan explain WHY the bashing happens Saoirse9 May 2023 #96
There are better things to do than be a royal or Tetrachloride May 2023 #2
I am quite indifferent, not sure why anyone in the US would care Ocelot II May 2023 #3
She's American BuddhaGirl May 2023 #6
She married into that family; she can go to the big family party or not. Ocelot II May 2023 #9
It appears she did not have a full understanding. maxsolomon May 2023 #15
Read "Revenge" mgardener May 2023 #114
Tom Bower... is that the guy that claimed Meghans Mom was a drug dealer??? Peacetrain May 2023 #123
There is stuff happening now that I didn't see even in The Queen. Ilsa May 2023 #48
You really can't help who you fall in love with and I give her props for at least trying. catbyte May 2023 #52
Diana and Camilla were not subject to racist harassment Sky Jewels May 2023 #74
They were Rebl2 May 2023 #116
Exactly Rebl2 May 2023 #115
The couple are still celebrities so there will be interest. LakeArenal May 2023 #120
Same here JohnSJ May 2023 #7
She is an American, and the victim of systematic racism obamanut2012 May 2023 #12
Most Americans have rejected the concept of royalty since we fought a war for independence pnwmom May 2023 #45
I've posted before, watching a coronation is very different from Ilsa May 2023 #50
Yes, a wedding is a bigger version of fancy US weddings. But most US people pnwmom May 2023 #57
Not just US citizens, most Canadians don't much care for the monarchy either. canuckledragger May 2023 #58
Well, he thinks he's your king -- which must be annoying! nt pnwmom May 2023 #62
The inbred moron can think whatever he wants. canuckledragger May 2023 #67
Personally, I don't remember the Revolutionary War, although I'm rather old, Ocelot II May 2023 #60
Hardy har har. I remember what I learned about it in school, which most of the pnwmom May 2023 #63
Of course, but like I said, it's their country, not ours, Ocelot II May 2023 #66
Sure they can, but why does it have to be spread all over AMERICAN media? pnwmom May 2023 #77
It's all over American media because a lot of Americans are interested. Ocelot II May 2023 #80
We have a major ongoing problem here because of the "all MEN" part. John niyad May 2023 #119
Yes, he should have. nt pnwmom May 2023 #122
My sentiments also vlyons May 2023 #56
Rich people problems Effete Snob May 2023 #4
👍 Joinfortmill May 2023 #5
Prince Charles walked her down the aisle. Remember that? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #8
That is just bull hockey Skimmer... Peacetrain May 2023 #13
Why did King Charles walk her down the aisle? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #29
I agree. pandr32 May 2023 #37
What in the world has Charles walking her down the aisle have to do with millions being spent Peacetrain May 2023 #43
You really should read more - especially in respected outlets. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #54
Back it up.... at what point in time would PRINCE Harry want to give up the heriditary titles for Peacetrain May 2023 #61
The Princess Royal does not have titles for her children. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #64
Hmm wonder why you think it is Meghan Peacetrain May 2023 #68
You really think Harry has any say? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #72
As grandchildren of the Monarch, phylny May 2023 #105
LOL! BuddhaGirl May 2023 #71
So spending money acceptance? Ms. Toad May 2023 #81
I agree too! mgardener May 2023 #76
Lol it's Harry & mm that "sell the whispers " questionseverything May 2023 #44
Thank you. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #65
The RF spent millions of pounds as a PR stunt. She and Harry had the private ceremony pnwmom May 2023 #46
You realize SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #84
Legally, no. But in their minds the simple private ceremony was the meaningful one. pnwmom May 2023 #86
I'm guessing SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #88
They didn't lie about the first wedding. That was the one between them and the Vicar, pnwmom May 2023 #89
Of course they lied SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #91
For you, it wasn't true. I knew exactly what she meant, because I've known people pnwmom May 2023 #94
Oh honey Saoirse9 May 2023 #97
I don't read the Daily Mail SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #99
Could have fooled me! Saoirse9 May 2023 #103
Their interview with Oprah n/t SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #121
Yes, that kind of money would be spent treestar May 2023 #100
Oh sure. Sympthsical May 2023 #10
I love your posts XanaDUer2 May 2023 #92
I just cannot make myself care. ggma May 2023 #11
It's a "Royal" example of racism. Duppers May 2023 #49
That's why YOU care. I don't. ggma May 2023 #75
Gee, I'm sorry you don't care about prime examples of Racism. Duppers May 2023 #95
When I chose a career path, I turned down royalty. usonian May 2023 #14
There should be some pretty good hats at this show. Ocelot II May 2023 #18
Please, oh please, don't let that style trend here. zanana1 May 2023 #32
I never understood precisely who did what to Meghan. I know it was racial. maxsolomon May 2023 #16
"Was it Charles? Camilla? Elizabeth Regina? Phillip? Royal Household Staff? The Tabloids?" AZ8theist May 2023 #42
It's also about the royal institution setting up gossip to keep the Ilsa May 2023 #53
there are several examples of them treestar May 2023 #101
Jill Biden is going, though. Ocelot II May 2023 #17
The Brits need a touch of class. usonian May 2023 #19
No President has ever gone to a Coronation of a British Monarch.. and no Monarch as far as I know Peacetrain May 2023 #20
I don't recall ever reading that they went to the coronation of any other monarch, either. GoCubsGo May 2023 #27
Exactly. It's a ceremony for the country that's having it. Ocelot II May 2023 #55
Most guests at prior coronations were other European monarchs, Ocelot II May 2023 #28
Originally it had to do with the fact that the US fought a revolution to not bow down to royalty. halfulglas May 2023 #40
I agree LetMyPeopleVote May 2023 #21
Sick of hearing about Harry and his wife! PortTack May 2023 #22
They want out of the limelight but are always saying something or doing something to get noticed. jimfields33 May 2023 #24
They've made 135 million in deals madville May 2023 #26
Good point. Nope wouldn't stop either. jimfields33 May 2023 #39
Nailed it. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #30
+1 pandr32 May 2023 #38
They never said that. They did say they wanted to control their own appearances Arazi May 2023 #82
+1 BuddhaGirl May 2023 #83
Yup. Basically just another Hollywood couple. pinkstarburst May 2023 #85
They've made a very lucrative career out of it madville May 2023 #25
They've already changed their supposed "charitable" foundation into now BlackSkimmer May 2023 #33
Me too, sick to death of them 🤢🤮 nt Raine May 2023 #113
I have a hard time sympathizing madville May 2023 #23
Hey, why in the world would mm want to keep a title from such a racist institution? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #31
I will say her staying home has forced the tabloids Tree Lady May 2023 #34
You might find Harry's book "Spare" informative. vanlassie May 2023 #36
These people remind me of the Kardashians. tritsofme May 2023 #41
Anti-Markle people tend to be unadulterated a**holes. OneBro May 2023 #47
was she invited? I haven't read a post if she was or not. If she was not invited, then I agree with debm55 May 2023 #90
+1. Nt obnoxiousdrunk May 2023 #98
I think the anti-Markles are the same as trumpers Saoirse9 May 2023 #106
nonsense Skittles May 2023 #112
They see what they want to see. OneBro May 2023 #124
so do you Skittles May 2023 #125
They are racist trolls. I am so glad she didn't go. onecaliberal May 2023 #51
Charles is a scumbag...hope he is the last of the useless royals. Demsrule86 May 2023 #69
Piers Morgan & why he hates Meghan... Whatthe_Firetruck May 2023 #73
Meghan was never invited. But they wanted Harry there so badly, they paid him and/or cut a deal Rocknation May 2023 #78
The royal family are expensive mascots with a reality show. tblue37 May 2023 #79
I'm glad she's not going too ripcord May 2023 #87
correct Skittles May 2023 #111
Wisest move Saoirse9 May 2023 #93
They've given up their royal titles? SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #102
Oh come on now Saoirse9 May 2023 #104
First, I'm not a "Miss" SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #107
Post removed Post removed May 2023 #108
Ignorance apparently knows no bounds n/t SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #109
I'm glad she's not there Skittles May 2023 #110
I'm surprised that people give a shit. I don't give one fucking shit what these people do or don't GuppyGal May 2023 #117
I hope nobody from the Irish govt. is showing up either. Crowman2009 May 2023 #118

yellowdogintexas

(23,694 posts)
35. same here. If I remember correctly, it started when her first
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:26 PM
May 2023

pregnancy was announced.

All of a sudden, it was a complete 180 turn in terms of her treatment by the press. A complete no holds barred barrage of the worst gossip.

Of course, it didn't help that her father and sisters did their damndest to stir the pot before the wedding. That was the first blow.

I have been seeing all sorts of speculation that Meghan is actually planning an extravaganza star studded for Archie's birthday party, when the official word is a low key family affair.

She is never going to do anything right as far as the British Press is concerned.

Kudos to Harry for standing up for her.

liberalla

(11,088 posts)
70. I found the father and sisters pulling those stunts absolutely appalling!
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:37 PM
May 2023

What the hell is wrong with people?? So petty, ugly and vindictive...

They looked 100 times worse than anything they were accusing her of !

RobinA

(10,478 posts)
59. Same Here
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:24 PM
May 2023

and I'm not even a fan. Or a nonfan. Just think a lot of the things said about her are more than a bit much.

Saoirse9

(3,953 posts)
96. When Harry and Meghan explain WHY the bashing happens
Fri May 5, 2023, 07:05 PM
May 2023

it just makes my blood boil. She is used as a distraction and a scapegoat. They use her to sell papers and they will literally say anything. Anything. If she has a new hairstyle she is only having that hairstyle to wreck the coronation.

I hope Harry destroys Murdoch.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
3. I am quite indifferent, not sure why anyone in the US would care
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:03 PM
May 2023

one way or the other. The coronation is Britain's party, not ours.

BuddhaGirl

(3,708 posts)
6. She's American
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:13 PM
May 2023

and royalty is an abhorrent.

Bravo to her for not going and subjecting herself to more b.s. from the Windsors and the British press.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
9. She married into that family; she can go to the big family party or not.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:16 PM
May 2023

But she must have had some idea what she was getting into.

maxsolomon

(38,698 posts)
15. It appears she did not have a full understanding.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:25 PM
May 2023

At least of the level of someone who'd paid attention during Charles' & Diana's marriage. Or watched "The Queen".

She was a kid when all the scandals occurred.

mgardener

(2,357 posts)
114. Read "Revenge"
Sat May 6, 2023, 11:08 AM
May 2023

By Tom Bower
Meagan is not the innocent she portrays.

She may not have know the fully what marrying into the royal family entailed, but she refused to listen when people tried to tell her.

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
123. Tom Bower... is that the guy that claimed Meghans Mom was a drug dealer???
Sat May 6, 2023, 01:05 PM
May 2023

If so, that is one guy who is brick short of a full load.. He and Wooten have joined Piers in a non stop hate fest.. they are more than a little scary..

Ilsa

(64,361 posts)
48. There is stuff happening now that I didn't see even in The Queen.
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:57 PM
May 2023

There is a real relationship between the royal office and certain media to always have someone in the barrel and avenues for stirring up controversy where none exists. I don't think there was any way to know how deep the plot was, or that the media would intentionally put their lives in jeopardy.

catbyte

(39,147 posts)
52. You really can't help who you fall in love with and I give her props for at least trying.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:09 PM
May 2023

She knew what a nightmare the British press was going to be, but I'm afraid both she and Harry were a little too optimistic about the support they'd have from Buckingham Palace. It's a shame all around.

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
74. Diana and Camilla were not subject to racist harassment
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:59 PM
May 2023

from inside and outside of the royal family.

Rebl2

(17,731 posts)
115. Exactly
Sat May 6, 2023, 11:11 AM
May 2023

I had a feeling before they were even married, she would never be totally accepted. The thing I don’t understand is they came to the United States to get away from scrutiny, but they are always doing things to attract attention to themselves.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
120. The couple are still celebrities so there will be interest.
Sat May 6, 2023, 12:30 PM
May 2023

I think if anyone wants to be very public it’s up to them.

I’m not sure they are avoiding scrutiny. They know they are famous.

I think they left to avoid the day to day bs in the family. Not necessarily the public.

obamanut2012

(29,359 posts)
12. She is an American, and the victim of systematic racism
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:21 PM
May 2023

At a very high level, coordinated LITERALLY between the Royal Family and Murdoch, Morgan, etal.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
45. Most Americans have rejected the concept of royalty since we fought a war for independence
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:54 PM
May 2023

against the United Kingdom.

The coronation, for most of us, is a reminder of that Revolutionary War.

Ilsa

(64,361 posts)
50. I've posted before, watching a coronation is very different from
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:06 PM
May 2023

watching a royal wedding. The wedding is a big, overblown party. The coronation is an adoration of an undemocratic process and philosophy about some people being better than others and chosen by God!

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
57. Yes, a wedding is a bigger version of fancy US weddings. But most US people
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:19 PM
May 2023

are repulsed by the idea of a family specially chosen by God to lead the country . . .

at least, non MAGA people.

 

canuckledragger

(1,992 posts)
58. Not just US citizens, most Canadians don't much care for the monarchy either.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:23 PM
May 2023

He's not my king, he's just a spoiled pompous moron born into money and power he never earned.

 

canuckledragger

(1,992 posts)
67. The inbred moron can think whatever he wants.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:34 PM
May 2023

I'll never be anyone's 'subject'.

The British monarchy might have a representative here, the 'Governor General' but they have no power in Canada.

Conservatives attempt to 'rule' here, but that never works out for them very well.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
60. Personally, I don't remember the Revolutionary War, although I'm rather old,
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:24 PM
May 2023

and the coronation of Charles III is at this point in history merely a traditional relic unique to Britain and a few other countries (though the other European monarchies are bit more low-key about it). I don't regard it as an affront to American democracy (we are having enough problems holding that up on our own); it's just a thing that's going on in England and is a big deal for them, not for us. Not our circus, not our monkeys.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
63. Hardy har har. I remember what I learned about it in school, which most of the
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:29 PM
May 2023

royalty fans seems to have forgotten.

The concept of a Royal Family goes directly against the American belief that All Men Are Created Equal.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
66. Of course, but like I said, it's their country, not ours,
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:33 PM
May 2023

and they can have a king and a big fancy coronation if they want to. It's a constitutional monarchy now, not an absolute one, and it can be abolished by an act of Parliament if that's what the people of the UK want. And I'm not so sure that Americans, or at least a significant percentage of them, think all men are created equal, either.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
77. Sure they can, but why does it have to be spread all over AMERICAN media?
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:05 PM
May 2023

I wouldn't mind if they could keep their coronation to themselves.

And of course not all Americans believe all men are created equal. The magas certainly don't -- they think rich guys are better than everyone else. The Brits think rich guys with crowns are better than everyone else.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
80. It's all over American media because a lot of Americans are interested.
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:20 PM
May 2023

If they weren’t it wouldn’t be. Anyone who doesn’t want to watch doesn’t have to; it will mostly be over by noon US time and will not interfere much with our usual fare of mass shootings and Trump.

niyad

(132,380 posts)
119. We have a major ongoing problem here because of the "all MEN" part. John
Sat May 6, 2023, 12:15 PM
May 2023

should have listened to Abigail.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
56. My sentiments also
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:18 PM
May 2023

I'm an American, and Charlie Windsor as a human being is not one of my current inspirational figures. He could grow and evolve into one, if he aspired to do so. I wonder if he will?

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
8. Prince Charles walked her down the aisle. Remember that?
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:15 PM
May 2023

The RF spent millions of pounds to accept her into the family. She chose another route.

It’s widely known that she was not invited.

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
13. That is just bull hockey Skimmer...
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:22 PM
May 2023

They would not just invite Harry.. That would have blown up everywhere.. and the RF has been kow towing to the Tabloids since Phillip.. and what do they get for it? Frankly what do we get for it? That damn Fox News that has almost destroyed our country and it came out of the freaking Tabloids (Murdoch) .. The lies the tabloids push has hurt so many.. And what the hell does Harry get for standing up to them (of course they pay money to settle out of court because they make so much money on the bile they write).. not one ounce of support.. They begged for help and the gutless RF walked away.. because they are under the thumbs of the Tabloids and those who sell the whispers..

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
29. Why did King Charles walk her down the aisle?
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:03 PM
May 2023

Please tell me that. Make that make sense dear.

They bent over backward for her.

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
43. What in the world has Charles walking her down the aisle have to do with millions being spent
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:53 PM
May 2023

to make her part of the royal family .. (paraphrasing your post).. It was a decent thing to do especially since her trashy family tried to make a buck on it and got pulled into the tabloids.. personally she should have just walked herself.. she is a grown woman.. this whole business' of being given away by a father to a husband is pretty lame.. but again it was a decent thing to do since Meghan's father was not there.. That big ass wedding (which I am guessing you are referring to by millions) was what blew things up in the first place.. that and the totally detached from reality portion of the Markle family (they are not all grifters.. but dad sis and brother sure are)..I have grave doubts it was Meghan that needed the big wedding..Just about destroyed their lives..

What do you think of the Heritage Foundation trying to pull Harrys info to be in America? Why can you not see that the tabloids are at the center of all this right wing insanity that took on Brexit.. to Jan. 6th here.. and guess who is in the trenches fighting those bastards.. Harry and Meghan.. so I am in their corner all the way.. Harry wrote a book and put it all out there so there would be no more dribbles dribbles dribbles in an attempt to hold them hostage.. and he is fighting them tooth and nail..

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
54. You really should read more - especially in respected outlets.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:16 PM
May 2023

The Queen, the family…they did everything they could to make her feel accepted. Look up how much money they spent. Look up all the newspaper articles about her before the truth began to leak out.

Easy to find hon.

Harry’s book is nonsense.

There are several books with the truth. Harry has not sued those authors because the truth is in those books.

Oprah’s interview disappeared after so much was debunked.

Why is Megan still keeping a title? Why did she want a title for her kids?

Too funny.

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
61. Back it up.... at what point in time would PRINCE Harry want to give up the heriditary titles for
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:25 PM
May 2023

his kids.. I read what they said.. they would let the kids make the decisions on that.. it is their heritage.. Harry is a Duke.. he is married, so Meghan is a Duchess because she is married to a Duke.. How about those truths... why do you have this need to make everything something that Meghan did.. Meghan did not make the kids Princes and Princesses.. their Dad did through his heritage..


Lord have mercy.. do you ever read what you type??

Besides you owe me an answer.. to the Heritage Foundation going after Harry.. the right wing tabbies went after Meghan in England and now we have a political arm of the right side backed up by Murdoch going after Harry here in this country.. Do you thing that is right??

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
68. Hmm wonder why you think it is Meghan
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:35 PM
May 2023

who is holding on for the titles.. beside Anne should have let the kids make up their minds on that. (my opinion). I happen to agree with them.. let the kids keep or drop the titles when they come of age.. that is their heritage..

phylny

(8,818 posts)
105. As grandchildren of the Monarch,
Fri May 5, 2023, 09:17 PM
May 2023

Archie and Lillibet are entitled to the titles of Prince and Princess respectively. They can choose not to use them when they are older.

BuddhaGirl

(3,708 posts)
71. LOL!
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:41 PM
May 2023

I see a LOT of Daily Mail drivel accepted as reality.

Nobody knows the absolute truth about this including you, dear!

Ms. Toad

(38,630 posts)
81. So spending money acceptance?
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:22 PM
May 2023

Not in my book, not to mention that acceptance is a lot like tolerance: we'll put up with you being here, but don't expect a warm embrace.

mgardener

(2,357 posts)
76. I agree too!
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:01 PM
May 2023

Try reading the book Revenge by Tom Bower.

Ms Markle does not appear to be the person people think she is.

questionseverything

(11,834 posts)
44. Lol it's Harry & mm that "sell the whispers "
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:53 PM
May 2023

I don’t understand why harry gets to live or even visit the United States when he has bragged about his illegal drug use , he seems to think he’s above the law. He must of lied on his visa application.

Also it’s offensive that they have given their children “titles “ considering the children are American citizens and we are not supposed to accept that shit

Somewhere down the road, mm will be doing a “tell all” about oprah and tyler

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
65. Thank you.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:32 PM
May 2023

Eventually the truth will become true to their followers.

Many of us caught on fast.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
46. The RF spent millions of pounds as a PR stunt. She and Harry had the private ceremony
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:56 PM
May 2023

by themselves, with the vicar, because the fancy wedding had little meaning to them.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
86. Legally, no. But in their minds the simple private ceremony was the meaningful one.
Fri May 5, 2023, 05:37 PM
May 2023

The other one was just a big Royal Family extravaganza -- done to ingratiate the Royal Family with the public, not to please Harry and Megan.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
88. I'm guessing
Fri May 5, 2023, 05:56 PM
May 2023

That the legal wedding was meaningful to them as well, seeing as it’s the only one that could give Meghan her title.

I would say it’s odd that they chose to lie about the “first” wedding, but I find most of that they say to be odd.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
89. They didn't lie about the first wedding. That was the one between them and the Vicar,
Fri May 5, 2023, 05:58 PM
May 2023

so in their minds that was the real one, not the big show.

When they said their vows in the private ceremony, they meant them.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
91. Of course they lied
Fri May 5, 2023, 06:28 PM
May 2023

She very clearly said they got married three days prior to their actual wedding ceremony…which was, of course, untrue.

pnwmom

(110,259 posts)
94. For you, it wasn't true. I knew exactly what she meant, because I've known people
Fri May 5, 2023, 06:56 PM
May 2023

who had separate religious and civil ceremonies, and they considered the religious ceremony to be the real one.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
99. I don't read the Daily Mail
Fri May 5, 2023, 07:48 PM
May 2023

Or any British media, although I do enjoy watching BBC America on occasion.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
100. Yes, that kind of money would be spent
Fri May 5, 2023, 07:56 PM
May 2023

no matter who he married; he's a prince. His brother's wedding would have been expensive too. And Charles' first one and all of them.

Sympthsical

(10,962 posts)
10. Oh sure.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:18 PM
May 2023

I don't want to go to a wedding and I'm being "difficult"

Some random rich person who wouldn't piss on her admirers if they were on fire doesn't go to a party and she's heroic.

Whatever. I'm still not going to the wedding.

(It will never not be weird how people identify with fabulously wealthy celebrities who do not care about them. It's just royalty under another name)

ggma

(711 posts)
75. That's why YOU care. I don't.
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:00 PM
May 2023

I have as much right to my opinion as you have to yours.

gg

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
95. Gee, I'm sorry you don't care about prime examples of Racism.
Fri May 5, 2023, 06:57 PM
May 2023

I'll add you to my "ignore list."

usonian

(25,261 posts)
14. When I chose a career path, I turned down royalty.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:23 PM
May 2023

Look, I'm way more comfortable in jeans than a four-square suit, and let's talk about hats, can we?

A ballcap keeps the sun out of my eyes.
These don't.


And they attract wasps, as well.
More here:
http://njoymillinery.co.uk/the-most-outrageous-ascot-hats/

I'll never get my ascot!

maxsolomon

(38,698 posts)
16. I never understood precisely who did what to Meghan. I know it was racial.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:29 PM
May 2023

Was it Charles? Camilla? Elizabeth Regina? Phillip? Royal Household Staff? The Tabloids?

I know for sure it wasn't the band Dry Cleaning:

AZ8theist

(7,365 posts)
42. "Was it Charles? Camilla? Elizabeth Regina? Phillip? Royal Household Staff? The Tabloids?"
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:51 PM
May 2023

YES

Ilsa

(64,361 posts)
53. It's also about the royal institution setting up gossip to keep the
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:12 PM
May 2023

media happy so they won't go after Charles, Camilla, William or Kate. The RF made H&M the bogeyman to help the media sell product. In turn, the media stays out of Charles, Camilla's etc business.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
101. there are several examples of them
Fri May 5, 2023, 07:59 PM
May 2023

bashing Meghan for doing a thing and praising Catherine for doing exactly the same thing.

The media wants the rivalry drama.

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
20. No President has ever gone to a Coronation of a British Monarch.. and no Monarch as far as I know
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:48 PM
May 2023

has ever gone to a Presidential Inauguration.. that is what makes our special relationship..

GoCubsGo

(34,899 posts)
27. I don't recall ever reading that they went to the coronation of any other monarch, either.
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:01 PM
May 2023

British or otherwise. The same goes for swearings in of any foreign leaders. I don't recall foreign leaders/monarchs attending a Presidential inauguration, either. Ever. Funny how it was never an issue up until now. I'm getting really sick of this whole "Why isn't Biden there?" shit, when no other President was "there" previously. I don't care if it's a coronation or a damn train derailment. It's such bullshit.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
55. Exactly. It's a ceremony for the country that's having it.
Fri May 5, 2023, 03:17 PM
May 2023

Other world leaders might or might not be invited, depending on the relationship, but if a US president doesn't attend a ceremony that no other president has ever attended - whether or not invited - nothing should be read into it other than that it's a thing presidents don't go to. They send representatives if invited to do so. Foreign heads of states are not invited to and don't attend US presidents' inaugurations, so why should it be the other way around? The person making the biggest stink about Biden not attending is, of course, TFG, who is certain that he would have been invited if he'd still been president and is mad that he wasn't now.

Most of the foreign heads of state attending the coronation are other European royalty, most of whom are related to the British royal family anyhow.

Ocelot II

(130,506 posts)
28. Most guests at prior coronations were other European monarchs,
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:02 PM
May 2023

mostly relatives of the British royals, and heads of state of colonies. There was no reason for a US president to attend. Before the reign of Queen Victoria, the US-UK relationship was largely adversarial, and Van Buren didn't attend Victoria's coronation because travel was more difficult at that time; traveling overseas wasn't practical before transatlantic air travel began in 1939, three years after the coronation of King George VI. Eisenhower, embroiled in the Korean War, chose to send an envoy to Elizabeth's coronation. Some noses are out of joint because Biden isn't going, but since US presidents have never attended a coronation before, the royals are not taking offense.

halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
40. Originally it had to do with the fact that the US fought a revolution to not bow down to royalty.
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:37 PM
May 2023

And just continued the tradition of not attending the coronation of subsequent regents.

Personally, they will be doing wall to wall coverage on American TV and I'm not watching it. I didn't watch the funeral either, just watched some of the news highlights. I find it a bit unseemly the slavish way American TV covers the royal family almost as if they wish we had one. (Trump tried) We don't have to ignore it, but I'm tired of the royal worship.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
24. They want out of the limelight but are always saying something or doing something to get noticed.
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:56 PM
May 2023

Very weird couple.

Arazi

(8,887 posts)
82. They never said that. They did say they wanted to control their own appearances
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:24 PM
May 2023

Media. And PR.

They didn’t want to leave any of that up to the Royal Family anymore who were fucking around with the tabloids to screw them over.

pinkstarburst

(2,020 posts)
85. Yup. Basically just another Hollywood couple.
Fri May 5, 2023, 05:07 PM
May 2023

I see H/M as no more or less virtuous than any of the other royals.

madville

(7,847 posts)
25. They've made a very lucrative career out of it
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:58 PM
May 2023

You’d think they want everything to be a drama since they literally make 10s of millions of dollars a year from all this attention.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
33. They've already changed their supposed "charitable" foundation into now
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:12 PM
May 2023

a “content creation” entity.

Hilarious how many fall for these grifters.

madville

(7,847 posts)
23. I have a hard time sympathizing
Fri May 5, 2023, 01:55 PM
May 2023

With folks who complain about all the attention and being in the limelight, while they simultaneously make 10s or 100s of millions voluntarily doing TV shows, selling interviews, speaking engagements, selling books, etc complaining about getting the attention. It has turned into a very lucrative career for them.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
31. Hey, why in the world would mm want to keep a title from such a racist institution?
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:10 PM
May 2023

Please explain.

Tree Lady

(13,280 posts)
34. I will say her staying home has forced the tabloids
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:18 PM
May 2023

over there to pick other rumors to jump on. The latest is William having affairs. Could be truth or lie who knows who cares, but they have moved on from Meghan. I think she did the right thing to stop the massive crap of attention and rumors about her.

That said, she must have heard about all Diana went through, even though she was young when it happened once she met Harry surely she would have read up on his family. Doesn't take much reading to see how it destroyed Diana, gave her eating disorder and no happiness until she left.

Maybe she thought being an actress would make her rise above racism.

OneBro

(1,159 posts)
47. Anti-Markle people tend to be unadulterated a**holes.
Fri May 5, 2023, 02:57 PM
May 2023

Some right-wingers, some lefties, some devout racists and some “I can’t be racist because I voted for Obama” types, but the hate has become a religion with predictable themes:

1. The UK and the Royals welcomed her at great expense like family;

2. They asked for privacy, then had the audacity to publicly respond to the tabloid hatefest;

3. She’s rich now. How dare she complain about supposed racism she supposedly experienced in a supposedly racist UK and - perish the thought! - racist Royals?!;

yada, yada, yada . . .

Tabloids give bottom-feeders exactly what they want each time they publish another vapid article citing “Royal sources,” and that some supposed liberals will happily feed at the same trough is no more shocking than butter on toast.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-double-standards-royal

debm55

(60,492 posts)
90. was she invited? I haven't read a post if she was or not. If she was not invited, then I agree with
Fri May 5, 2023, 06:07 PM
May 2023

Last edited Sat May 6, 2023, 12:47 PM - Edit history (2)

Saoirse9

(3,953 posts)
106. I think the anti-Markles are the same as trumpers
Fri May 5, 2023, 09:20 PM
May 2023

just deplorable 100%.

That or they have had a steady diet of Daily Mail and Fox news all their lives and know nothing else.

Rocknation

(45,006 posts)
78. Meghan was never invited. But they wanted Harry there so badly, they paid him and/or cut a deal
Fri May 5, 2023, 04:11 PM
May 2023

Last edited Fri Nov 24, 2023, 01:13 PM - Edit history (18)

In exchange for Harry's attending solo (in order to publicly rub his face in what he will never have for refusing his royal duty banishment -- oops, I mean assignment -- in Africa with his "well-qualified" wife), and Meghan "babysitting" back home, their children got an upgrade to their previously withheld (but nonetheless still quite worthless) royal titles.


Rocknation

 

ripcord

(5,553 posts)
87. I'm glad she's not going too
Fri May 5, 2023, 05:44 PM
May 2023

Would have just been more fodder for the gossip rags when she complained about being seated in the 7th row, appearance is very important to her.

Skittles

(171,687 posts)
111. correct
Fri May 5, 2023, 11:23 PM
May 2023

she bailed when she realized she would always be second fiddle to Kate, she took the ball, er, Harry, and went home

Saoirse9

(3,953 posts)
93. Wisest move
Fri May 5, 2023, 06:54 PM
May 2023

I am so impressed with this couple. Harry fighting Murdoch -- for all of us. For his wife yes, but his fight benefits all of us.

I don't thik they have put a foot wrong since they met. Handled so much bullshit with grace dignity and foritude. And balls. Geebus they are such fighters. They very politely told their wealthy powerful family just where to stick their royal titles.

Thanks for posting this -- I live for Harry and Meghan, hate the royal "family". More like the mafia than an actual family.

Saoirse9

(3,953 posts)
104. Oh come on now
Fri May 5, 2023, 09:15 PM
May 2023

Go back to the Daily Mail comment boards and lay off the nice people.

Miss "I don't read the Daily Mail". I call bullshit.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
107. First, I'm not a "Miss"
Fri May 5, 2023, 09:29 PM
May 2023

I'm a Mister.

You're the one who said they told the royal family where to shove their titles, so what exactly did you mean by that?

And you can believe whatever you choose to believe, but it's rather shallow to believe that just because someone disagrees with your opinion on a given subject, they must, by default, be obtaining their information from unreliable sources.

Response to SickOfTheOnePct (Reply #107)

GuppyGal

(1,748 posts)
117. I'm surprised that people give a shit. I don't give one fucking shit what these people do or don't
Sat May 6, 2023, 11:47 AM
May 2023

do.

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