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I know I'm not the only one who sees it this way. It was RAPE. (Original Post) LuckyCharms May 2023 OP
You're not alone Ohioboy May 2023 #1
DIT...Freakin....To Traildogbob May 2023 #90
Trump INSISTS he is innocent... AZ8theist May 2023 #95
Nothing is funny about the situation... AZ8theist May 2023 #96
Agree - gotta think the MAGA juror voted against that rurallib May 2023 #2
The jury had to follow the New York state statutes. yardwork May 2023 #41
You are NOT ALONE bluestarone May 2023 #3
I agree... Spazito May 2023 #4
Carroll admitted she couldn't tell whether TFG used his tiny fingers Ocelot II May 2023 #5
Plus his hulking gluttonous gut shielded the whole thing from view Blue Owl May 2023 #7
He sure as hell can to his knuckle-dragging Cult because most will NEVER HEAR about the full outcome Hugh_Lebowski May 2023 #10
Or.... OnDoutside May 2023 #13
Tiny dick COL Mustard May 2023 #85
Button mushroom even. The Unmitigated Gall May 2023 #86
We know it's a mushroom COL Mustard May 2023 #87
Donald J. Rape DJ Porkchop May 2023 #6
NY rape law requires a finding of penetration by the penis Nevilledog May 2023 #8
I know, but that won't stop me from LuckyCharms May 2023 #9
We are in agreement.... He's a rapist. Nevilledog May 2023 #16
Same here malaise May 2023 #72
We are none of us involved in this case, so we can, and do, call him whatever niyad May 2023 #91
How does NY view oral sex rape? ecstatic May 2023 #53
Sexual misconduct Nevilledog May 2023 #79
The FBI agrees with you NullTuples May 2023 #11
Post removed Post removed May 2023 #12
Wow, just wow. Spazito May 2023 #14
Disgusting Tree-Hugger May 2023 #15
SMDH. MrsCoffee May 2023 #17
Really, what's the goddamn difference? LuckyCharms May 2023 #18
What the fuck? boston bean May 2023 #19
See the Tree-Hugger May 2023 #20
Well, it has been removed, at least. ShazzieB May 2023 #92
+1 leftstreet May 2023 #33
Please tell me I am not reading this correctly? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #21
Okay, meant to say PENILE rape. It's not the only kind of rape, but Hortensis May 2023 #24
Nope Tree-Hugger May 2023 #29
Yes, a broomstick is not the traditional ultimate weapon of Hortensis May 2023 #32
Stop yourself Tree-Hugger May 2023 #35
Godalmighty, I give up. Good luck to you! And thank you!. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #38
I need eye bleach Tree-Hugger May 2023 #42
I have to admit, that though I was unsurprised to see it here, I was surprised to see it from that BlackSkimmer May 2023 #45
Yes. It's like aliens have taken over the body. Scrivener7 May 2023 #68
Ha! Perhaps! BlackSkimmer May 2023 #77
Not overly surprised myself. boston bean May 2023 #80
I agree. It's been that way for a while. Scrivener7 May 2023 #81
That poster is stating being penetrated by anything other than a penis boston bean May 2023 #83
MUST BE A (CHRONOLOGICAL) MAN. Haggis 4 Breakfast May 2023 #93
Huh? BlackSkimmer May 2023 #99
Personally, I'd like people to apply this passion to insistence that Hortensis May 2023 #46
WTAF WILL YOU JUST STOP STOP STOP obamanut2012 May 2023 #63
You really need to stop -- you are being so offensive obamanut2012 May 2023 #61
What the fuck. You need to stop. Scrivener7 May 2023 #66
You are reading correctly Tree-Hugger May 2023 #36
Wow, just wow right back. Recommend reading even one article Hortensis May 2023 #22
Stop it now Tree-Hugger May 2023 #34
Thank you. I'm actually shocked to read this crap here. yardwork May 2023 #47
I guess I won't post links to organizations dedicated to fighting rape Hortensis May 2023 #58
wtf obamanut2012 May 2023 #69
Exactly! mvd May 2023 #56
I am enraged, and they just keep saying more and more and more obamanut2012 May 2023 #67
Please stop. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #43
I'm going to assume you meant to post this to me and not to yourself... Spazito May 2023 #54
Wtf... "genuine rape"?! demmiblue May 2023 #26
Would you think the same if a baton was used, or a broom handle? chowder66 May 2023 #30
That was clarified Tree-Hugger May 2023 #39
Traditional. That's just so wrong. chowder66 May 2023 #57
They said upthread a broomstick isn't actually rape either obamanut2012 May 2023 #70
That's so wrong in my opinion. chowder66 May 2023 #84
I strongly disagree. yardwork May 2023 #44
:) A voice of relative moderation. And I said, "to me." Hortensis May 2023 #52
Well RobinA May 2023 #65
Glad to know "non traditional" rape is a joke to you obamanut2012 May 2023 #71
Yes. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #88
Btw, do we know yet why the jury returned a verdict of sexual assault? Hortensis May 2023 #55
"Genuine rape" obamanut2012 May 2023 #59
Wow. That was actually posted? edisdead May 2023 #75
What is this, the ninth edit? Still gross, though. Scrivener7 May 2023 #78
He did it by force, against her will, and I would call it rape FakeNoose May 2023 #23
Agreed, but it's not the jury's fault. The statute must be changed. nt Maru Kitteh May 2023 #25
Agree. The jury followed the law as written. n/t LuckyCharms May 2023 #28
Damned right it was rape. Legal technicalities are irrelevant Tarc May 2023 #27
Agreed. chowder66 May 2023 #31
He is rapist piece of shit ismnotwasm May 2023 #37
The law is the law. New York law does not agree with you so accept it. Lettuce Be May 2023 #40
Well, I never accepted the OJ verdict. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #48
Most people don't carry law books around with them. LuckyCharms May 2023 #49
I'm not a citizen of New York. NutmegYankee May 2023 #64
The law used to call black people 3/5 of a person. The law says a lot of things that make Scrivener7 May 2023 #73
I've been waiting for someone to post the law Hortensis May 2023 #76
we do know the reason was not because of what you state. boston bean May 2023 #82
I agree. These laws need to be changed. yardwork May 2023 #50
You are by no means alone Hekate May 2023 #51
According to Trump if you are a STAR like himself it's not rape. Emile May 2023 #60
I realize legal and conversational definitions often vary. Torchlight May 2023 #62
This. Well said. Scrivener7 May 2023 #74
+1, uponit7771 May 2023 #98
Another aspect to think about Marthe48 May 2023 #89
He'll never be anything but a scumbag rapist to me. llmart May 2023 #94
This was a civil case, but the act was rape Kennah May 2023 #97
It all depends on the laws of the state. New York's are different.... nt LAS14 May 2023 #100

Traildogbob

(8,812 posts)
90. DIT...Freakin....To
Tue May 9, 2023, 07:34 PM
May 2023

That MFer’s tiny fingers have been worse places than his fuckin mushroom cap. Any mother or dad of a daughter thinks the same, and would love to kick his fat ass.
Running for President with high approval…… ya gotta be Fuckin jokin. What a shit hole country. Approved by their Gawd and Jesus. The white one according to Megan Kelly. And if you’ve heard her comments on the shootings and second amendment, fuck her and her White Gawd. Sorry, I am pissed as a dad, only surviving parent of a daughter.
Megan must think they will bring her racist ass back in Tuckums slot.
I would use Tuckums C word for her, but that high road shit will not allow me to.

AZ8theist

(5,495 posts)
96. Nothing is funny about the situation...
Tue May 9, 2023, 08:10 PM
May 2023

But Dear Koresh I HATE THIS MOTHERFUCKER WITH ALL OF MY BEING.

I just hope this is the start of MULTIPLE TRIALS for crimes AGAINST AMERICA that throw this jerkoff in prison till his DEATH.

yardwork

(61,711 posts)
41. The jury had to follow the New York state statutes.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:12 PM
May 2023

New York defines rape in a very specific way. Carroll's testimony indicated that that requirement might not have been met. That's the law. I don't agree with the law either, but the jury had no control over that.

I doubt there was a MAGA on the jury. The made unanimous decisions very quickly.

Spazito

(50,477 posts)
4. I agree...
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:01 PM
May 2023

the legal definition needs to be updated in New York State and anywhere else that retains the narrow and outdated definition that only allows penis penetration to be classified as rape.

Ocelot II

(115,858 posts)
5. Carroll admitted she couldn't tell whether TFG used his tiny fingers
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:02 PM
May 2023

or his tiny dick, so they had to decide as they did per the jury instructions. But TFG can hardly brag about that.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
10. He sure as hell can to his knuckle-dragging Cult because most will NEVER HEAR about the full outcome
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:10 PM
May 2023

All most of them will ever hear from the RW media bubble is that IQ45 was exonerated of rape charges against Carroll. And she said it was rape. So obviously she lied.

Or thereabouts.

In Trump Fantasy-News World, this was a victory.

Nevilledog

(51,200 posts)
8. NY rape law requires a finding of penetration by the penis
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:07 PM
May 2023
https://nycourts.gov/judges/cji/2-PenalLaw/130/130.35%281%29.pdf

Carroll testified that she was attacked from behind and couldn't tell if it was fingers or penis.

Harry Litman on the verdict:

niyad

(113,576 posts)
91. We are none of us involved in this case, so we can, and do, call him whatever
Tue May 9, 2023, 07:42 PM
May 2023

we want. F'n, murdering, orange, RAPIST TRAITOR** works for me.

ecstatic

(32,731 posts)
53. How does NY view oral sex rape?
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:22 PM
May 2023

uggh... Clearly their law needs to change ASAP. Must have slipped under the cracks somehow.

Response to LuckyCharms (Original post)

LuckyCharms

(17,459 posts)
18. Really, what's the goddamn difference?
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:30 PM
May 2023

She was penetrated.

I'm not talking about the legal definition.

What I'm talking about here is using a word that emphasizes the magnitude what happened to her.

She was penetrated without her consent.

"Assault" doesn't cut it for me.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
20. See the
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:34 PM
May 2023

....multiple edits on the post, too. At least 5 edits, none of which delete any of the offending nonsense.

This needs needs a delete and ban.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
21. Please tell me I am not reading this correctly?
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:35 PM
May 2023

How about a broomstick? A dildo? A mop handle?

Are you actually being serious here?

GENUINE rape?

God, I have read it all here, truly.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
24. Okay, meant to say PENILE rape. It's not the only kind of rape, but
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:53 PM
May 2023

it is by far the most profound, insulting, and conquering means men have of victimizing women -- and their societies. Broomsticks aren't in it, though they can be used to cause severe physical damage. And I stand on that.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
29. Nope
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:01 PM
May 2023

You said "big difference between penis and fingers" and then you added "genuine rape." You edited your post at least 5 times and have not removed any of those words, so we're not going to pretend there is a slip up or confusion.

"Broomsticks aren't in it...." ?????? WTF?

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
32. Yes, a broomstick is not the traditional ultimate weapon of
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:05 PM
May 2023

degrading and conquering women.

The one tRump meant when he spoke proudly of a million years of men attacking women. And the implied benefit to society of strong men overpowering and impregnating unwilling women. That's where his sense of right to rape comes from, besides the rights conferred merely by size and strength of course -- his ability to impregnate.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
35. Stop yourself
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:08 PM
May 2023

You'd do well to delete your posts. "A broomstick is not the 'traditional' ultimate weapon" ???? Fuck tradition.

Unwanted penetration whether it is penile, digital, or by object is rape. Full stop.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
38. Godalmighty, I give up. Good luck to you! And thank you!.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:10 PM
May 2023

It's really amazing.

I suppose that poster doesn't think men can be victims of rape either? Holy crap.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
45. I have to admit, that though I was unsurprised to see it here, I was surprised to see it from that
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:14 PM
May 2023

poster.

Yikes.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
80. Not overly surprised myself.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:55 PM
May 2023

Every interaction I experienced is contrarian. I don’t believe with goodwill either.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
83. That poster is stating being penetrated by anything other than a penis
Tue May 9, 2023, 07:01 PM
May 2023

Is not as bad or “genuine enough” for a woman to feel the same exact violation.

It is disgusting and maddening. And deserves a permanent ban n

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
46. Personally, I'd like people to apply this passion to insistence that
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:15 PM
May 2023

society and the media call rape what it is, not diminishing the reporting of this huge violent crime by ilumping it n with a whole bundle of undifferentiated uninvited sexual abuses, like pinching a nipple or grinding a groin against a derriere.

Oh, btw, I'm not what you rightly fear. There are much better targets than your own. Assuming you are on the same side as me in the great battle for our future, of course.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
63. WTAF WILL YOU JUST STOP STOP STOP
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:38 PM
May 2023

"not diminishing the reporting of this huge violent crime by ilumping it n with a whole bundle of undifferentiated uninvited sexual abuses, like pinching a nipple or grinding a groin against a derriere. "

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
36. You are reading correctly
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:09 PM
May 2023

And they are doubling down. How any of this is still standing is......well, not surprising, actually.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
22. Wow, just wow right back. Recommend reading even one article
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:41 PM
May 2023

about the use of violent penile penetration and ejaculation as a weapon of hate and systematic war crime -- and the ongoing suffering of victims. Up to 50,000 females were victims of mass rape, including systematic goals of impregnating as many as possible in Bosnia-Herzegovina alone during that war, most carried out by Serbian soldiers. Thousands of them bore children of rape. But it happens everywhere as an ultimate form of attack by men on women (mostly), including here.

This victim's description of profound lifelong emotional damage is typical of penile rape.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
34. Stop it now
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:06 PM
May 2023

No one is debating whether rape is used as a weapon of war. No one is denying it. At issue are your assertion about "big difference between penis and fingers" as well as "genuine rape."

Non-penile penetration causes profound lifelong emotional damage. Non-penetrative sexual assault causes profound lifelong emotional damage.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
58. I guess I won't post links to organizations dedicated to fighting rape
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:33 PM
May 2023

as a crime against women and humanity, and to bringing perpetrators to justice.

Anyone strong enough to be shocked for real knows how to find them.

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
67. I am enraged, and they just keep saying more and more and more
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:40 PM
May 2023

I was digitally raped in college and also by my ex wife, but I guess I wasn't raped, and it wasn't an actual thing for me, just something silly and light.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
43. Please stop.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:12 PM
May 2023

Many of those victims that you are not using to "defend" yourself were also raped by objects. A "penis" has absolutely NOThiNG to do with this.

This is horrid to me, that anyone here does not know this,

Spazito

(50,477 posts)
54. I'm going to assume you meant to post this to me and not to yourself...
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:23 PM
May 2023

To use war crimes to back up your appalling use of "genuine rape" is beyond belief. You are digging yourself an ever deepening hole, imo.

chowder66

(9,081 posts)
30. Would you think the same if a baton was used, or a broom handle?
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:02 PM
May 2023

Or if the victim was a baby or a toddler?

obamanut2012

(26,142 posts)
70. They said upthread a broomstick isn't actually rape either
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:42 PM
May 2023

Because it isn't "traditionally" used like a penis.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
65. Well
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:39 PM
May 2023

You went against the groupthink. Although your "to me" pretty much said what needed to be said. Some people we aren't allowed to tell what to think and others should be banned for how they think.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
55. Btw, do we know yet why the jury returned a verdict of sexual assault?
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:24 PM
May 2023

Was it just that the evidence presented was not able to rise to the legal definition of rape? And what are the legal definitions of rape and sexual assault used in this court?

FakeNoose

(32,767 posts)
23. He did it by force, against her will, and I would call it rape
Tue May 9, 2023, 05:41 PM
May 2023

... however I think the jury's award of $5 million will go a long way towards making things right for E. Jean Carroll.

Originally she tried to get him charged with rape under a criminal complaint and the DA could never see it that way. Or maybe he was scared of trying to indict Chump for anything, I don't know. If there had been criminal charges - if Chump had been convicted - it could have sent him to prison but it wouldn't have resulted in the money damages to the plaintiff. Ms. Carroll is actually better off now with her victorious civil suit.



ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
37. He is rapist piece of shit
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:09 PM
May 2023

And I’m sorry that E. Jean Carrol had to go through this for the smallest piece of justice. That motherfucker went with zero repercussions, while she suffered.

Lock him up.

Lettuce Be

(2,337 posts)
40. The law is the law. New York law does not agree with you so accept it.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:11 PM
May 2023

If you believe in the law, then you must accept the law.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
48. Well, I never accepted the OJ verdict.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:17 PM
May 2023

Nor do I accept the failure of the Senate to convict tfg.

So, oh well.

LuckyCharms

(17,459 posts)
49. Most people don't carry law books around with them.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:18 PM
May 2023

I do accept the law.

If I was on that jury, I would have followed the law, as they did.

That being said...he's a rapist.

NutmegYankee

(16,201 posts)
64. I'm not a citizen of New York.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:39 PM
May 2023

I'm free to apply the commonly used definitions, such as the FBI definition.

Scrivener7

(51,014 posts)
73. The law used to call black people 3/5 of a person. The law says a lot of things that make
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:44 PM
May 2023

no sense. And no, I do not have to accept that.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
76. I've been waiting for someone to post the law
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:46 PM
May 2023

and reasoning the jury based its verdict on. No doubt it'll be discussed at length in coming days, though.

yardwork

(61,711 posts)
50. I agree. These laws need to be changed.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:18 PM
May 2023

North Carolina has the same narrow definition of rape, allowing horrific attacks to be classified as other than rape.

Torchlight

(3,361 posts)
62. I realize legal and conversational definitions often vary.
Tue May 9, 2023, 06:38 PM
May 2023

So when I call Trump a rapist, I'm not speaking as a lawyer, just as an informal citizen. When I call the J6ers terrorists, again not a legal definition. When I tell people I discovered the Beatles in 1980, I'd most likely giggle at anyone who inferred I discovered The Beatles.

Marthe48

(17,027 posts)
89. Another aspect to think about
Tue May 9, 2023, 07:32 PM
May 2023

The shit line from traitor when he denied raping Ms. Carroll 'she's not my type' is bs. Rapists care about opportunity. Period.

There are serial rapists and child molesters who get more provoked when they see a certain hair color or age group, but mainly, if a rapist can rape, he will. Rape is not an act of needing physical relief, it is not a primordial urge and it is not a response to looks or apparel. It is a sadistic need to overpower, punish and control.

Anyway, let's keep educating people about the underlying reasons for rape, and maybe there will be fewer victims someday.

llmart

(15,553 posts)
94. He'll never be anything but a scumbag rapist to me.
Tue May 9, 2023, 08:06 PM
May 2023

I will continue to use the word rape whenever I talk with anyone about this case. If the GOP can co-opt words and repeat them we need to follow their example.

Hang that moniker around the orange scumbag's neck for the rest of his miserable life.

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