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PCIntern

(25,544 posts)
Mon May 29, 2023, 07:50 AM May 2023

A moment of reflection on this Memorial Day...

The first thing I do every morning is to check the General Discussion page of DU to see if anything occurred while I was asleep, and the second thing I do is check my local Legacy.com in order to see who passed away. It is something I’ve done for decades and unfortunately, since death notices have apparently become fairly pricey, very few are “printed“ online and in the paper.

This morning, in a moment of whatever, I was looking at the new format of the website, and they have a button which will take you to celebrity deaths, starting with the most recent. I had no idea so many notable people have passed away in the last year and a half, which is where I stopped. As far as I know, a little or no mention, was made of many if not most of these passing in any milieu, which I saw, and was surprised, but certainly not shocked to see a lot of names which were a significant part of my youth and middle age.

Since I’m in my eighth decade, I have begun to reflect upon those whose lives were cut short, as well as those who lived extremely long and productive existences. I also think about my father, who was a four-year veteran of the Pacific theater in World War II, somehow survived, came back, a changed and forever affected man, and in a way he sacrificed not his life, but his sanity to some extent, and I pay tribute to him today, as well as all of those who sacrificed in the charnel house of War.

As an aside, as I was leaving my office on Thursday, which was my last day of work prior to the holiday, some of my coworkers wished me a “happy Memorial Day”and I thought that was both quite interesting and disheartening in many ways. And I wish everyone here, a tranquil day of reflection and enjoyment of life, for we never know how long we each have here on this Earth.

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A moment of reflection on this Memorial Day... (Original Post) PCIntern May 2023 OP
Happy Memorial Day is inappropriate. Boomerproud May 2023 #1
Mattress sales on President's Day? PCIntern May 2023 #2
Robert Klein once did a whole bit on the monetization of patriotism. Aristus May 2023 #8
"observed, not celebrated".... anciano May 2023 #3
I have Rebl2 May 2023 #4
Nice read! And yes, looking back, I feel lucky to have made TeamProg May 2023 #5
We are here today because people before us gave their lives to make it possible. wnylib May 2023 #6
And wise words to remember. calimary May 2023 #7

Boomerproud

(7,952 posts)
1. Happy Memorial Day is inappropriate.
Mon May 29, 2023, 08:37 AM
May 2023

Memorial Day is to be observed, not celebrated. Of course take the time and enjoy the long weekend with friends and family the way you wish.
BTW, all those Memorial Day sales ads I see on TV piss me off as well.

Aristus

(66,349 posts)
8. Robert Klein once did a whole bit on the monetization of patriotism.
Mon May 29, 2023, 11:09 AM
May 2023

“I’m sure George Washington would be very, very thrilled to know that we sacredly observe his birthday every year with a mattress sale.

Used car dealers - ‘I’m Bill Duncan from Bill Duncan Dodge, and I got vans for Nine, nine, ninety-nine, right George?’

And he’s got this poor actor who gets fifty bucks, and has a bad wig and a hatchet - ‘That’s right, Bill. I’m chopping down those prices! A veritable cherry tree of savings!’

Do they do this in any other country on Earth?”

It’s funny because it’s true.

Rebl2

(13,506 posts)
4. I have
Mon May 29, 2023, 09:53 AM
May 2023

often wondered why people say happy Memorial Day because of what the day represents. I don’t think of it as exactly happy. It, to me, should be a day of reflection and reverence.

TeamProg

(6,129 posts)
5. Nice read! And yes, looking back, I feel lucky to have made
Mon May 29, 2023, 10:23 AM
May 2023

it to 20.

Happy birthday

Happy New Year

Happy Independence Day

Happy Thanksgiving..

Happy Easter?

Happy Presidents’ Day?

Happy Memorial Day - this a strange phrase.

wnylib

(21,450 posts)
6. We are here today because people before us gave their lives to make it possible.
Mon May 29, 2023, 10:42 AM
May 2023

That's a sobering thought.

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