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"Karen, deeply offended" (Original Post) kpete Jul 2023 OP
Hilarious Ohio Joe Jul 2023 #1
Nicely played, Hannah. The Unmitigated Gall Jul 2023 #2
"I need to speak to the second grade class President, please." Nt spooky3 Jul 2023 #3
"Or the manager. Whoever isn't on recess" A HERETIC I AM Jul 2023 #7
Karens never care if someone is "on recess", they want them NOW! JHB Jul 2023 #12
Wouldn't that be Pendejo45 himself? He always acts like at petulante 8 year old. n/t aggiesal Jul 2023 #15
It's too late to change but the name should be 'Ivanka'. keithbvadu2 Jul 2023 #4
Also, FWIW, if you ever refer to your OWN hairstyle as "chic"... RockRaven Jul 2023 #5
This! Scottie Mom Jul 2023 #6
LOL Right? SunSeeker Jul 2023 #10
Winner! LoisB Jul 2023 #16
Yep. calimary Jul 2023 #20
During the pandemic... PJMcK Jul 2023 #47
I can almost literally sit on mine. calimary Jul 2023 #48
I did too soldierant Jul 2023 #49
My hairdo is called "Cut off as much as possible short of a full on buzz!" ShazzieB Jul 2023 #52
Adult bullies have to start at about age 8 or younger delisen Jul 2023 #8
Or you could just apply Occam's razor... bluesbassman Jul 2023 #9
Yup, she must have done something really annoying to even get the kids' attention. SunSeeker Jul 2023 #11
Are suppositions facts nowadays? delisen Jul 2023 #29
We can apply our life experiences. Jurors do it all the time with the facts available. SunSeeker Jul 2023 #31
I mean so many women people see as naughty. delisen Jul 2023 #35
I don't think "naughty" is the word, but I get your point. SunSeeker Jul 2023 #56
Only for some of us, it seems. n/t whathehell Jul 2023 #42
What did the woman do to provoke the children? Anything? delisen Jul 2023 #25
Maybe Karen lives in the Village of the Damned (old 60s horror flick). Was about kids with allegorical oracle Jul 2023 #27
or that Twilight Zone episode with Bill Mumy ZonkerHarris Jul 2023 #28
Oh please, her response tells you all you need to know. bluesbassman Jul 2023 #46
Did you think this really happened? delisen Jul 2023 #58
Kevin or Ken zipplewrath Jul 2023 #60
Lol whathehell Jul 2023 #63
They tell like they see it, Karen. sheshe2 Jul 2023 #13
Ummm Rebl2 Jul 2023 #14
Ask to speak to the kids' manager. Dr. Strange Jul 2023 #17
LOL! Best reply in this thread! John1956PA Jul 2023 #26
The original Karens were women integrating fine restaurants delisen Jul 2023 #30
You mean the parents? whathehell Jul 2023 #43
I can't believe this is for real. It's got to be a spoof. Biophilic Jul 2023 #18
Yes it is a parody. delisen Jul 2023 #32
Thanks, it's getting harder and harder to tell reality from spoof. That makes me sad. Biophilic Jul 2023 #33
It is an anti- female meme.. whathehell Jul 2023 #41
Sadly, I agree. soldierant Jul 2023 #51
Call the cops and tell them you feel threatened by the little tykes. 11 Bravo Jul 2023 #19
That would seal the deal! bluesbassman Jul 2023 #21
The most Karen take ever Hassler Jul 2023 #22
Karen, Deeply Offended geardaddy Jul 2023 #23
i googled and found this posted on ifunny dot co orleans Jul 2023 #24
Offended by eight year old kids acting like, well eight year old kids Torchlight Jul 2023 #34
The 8 yr old kids I know do not act this way delisen Jul 2023 #36
Different experiences, different observations. Torchlight Jul 2023 #37
"Karen" is now a pejorative term intended to shame an individual partly based on appearance and... Progressive Lawyer Jul 2023 #38
Yup.. whathehell Jul 2023 #44
If the shoe fits, wear it ironflange Jul 2023 #39
Yes, except that particular "shoe" fits both genders whathehell Jul 2023 #61
I think she is my neighbor. The Jungle 1 Jul 2023 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Jul 2023 #45
Honestly... Mossfern Jul 2023 #50
Oh boo-hoo. calimary Jul 2023 #53
This was a joke GenThePerservering Jul 2023 #54
Yes. "Chic hairstyle" legal action "deeply offended." Of course a joke. betsuni Jul 2023 #55
It'll go to the supreme Court Conjuay Jul 2023 #57
Aww.. whathehell Jul 2023 #62
Probably legal action wouldn't help cannabis_flower Jul 2023 #59
My apologies, I intended to post this yesterday FakeNoose Jul 2023 #64

aggiesal

(10,780 posts)
15. Wouldn't that be Pendejo45 himself? He always acts like at petulante 8 year old. n/t
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:21 PM
Jul 2023

calimary

(89,951 posts)
20. Yep.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:36 PM
Jul 2023

My hairstyle is the “I gave up” style. It’s grown as long as it seems to want to, and it’s always had a mind of its own.

calimary

(89,951 posts)
48. I can almost literally sit on mine.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 11:32 PM
Jul 2023

Another two inches and it would actually be possible!

ShazzieB

(22,565 posts)
52. My hairdo is called "Cut off as much as possible short of a full on buzz!"
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 12:13 AM
Jul 2023

I had long hair in college, but my hair is so thick that washing and drying it was pretty much an all day job, and I got tired of it.

Part of me wishes it was long again so I wouldn't have to spend so much money on haircuts to keep it from turning into a bush, but every time I have tried, it drove me absolutely bonkers. Growing hair out from a short layered haircut is such a pita.

delisen

(7,353 posts)
8. Adult bullies have to start at about age 8 or younger
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 04:41 PM
Jul 2023

Having bullies for parents is a great help because they can model the behavior for their children. If the children do not have solid American bullies as parents, the may be fortunate enough to have sympathetic pro-bully strangers egg them on or laugh at their antics.

bluesbassman

(20,383 posts)
9. Or you could just apply Occam's razor...
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 04:45 PM
Jul 2023

And she really is just a Karen. Kids often see right to the heart of the matter.

SunSeeker

(58,255 posts)
11. Yup, she must have done something really annoying to even get the kids' attention.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:02 PM
Jul 2023

Most kids look right past other kids' parents like they're not even there.

SunSeeker

(58,255 posts)
31. We can apply our life experiences. Jurors do it all the time with the facts available.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 06:52 PM
Jul 2023

As a woman who has raised a child and dropped him off and picked him up on a daily basis from elementary school for 6 years, I can say with quite a bit of certainty that I would pretty much have to be doing something very weird or obnoxious for the kids to even notice or acknowledge me, which they never did.

Why do you think there are "so many naughty women"? I don't. I think most women, and most people, are pretty decent. There are glaring exceptions of course...

delisen

(7,353 posts)
35. I mean so many women people see as naughty.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 07:20 PM
Jul 2023

Women seem to come in for a lot of criticism about behavior, looks, dress.

I do believe that children should not engage in name-calling no matter how a person presents.

In any case the post about seeking advice was not real but just someone capitalizing on the Karen meme.

SunSeeker

(58,255 posts)
56. I don't think "naughty" is the word, but I get your point.
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 05:46 AM
Jul 2023

But honestly, I've never had other people's kids call me names, have you?

delisen

(7,353 posts)
25. What did the woman do to provoke the children? Anything?
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:59 PM
Jul 2023

Do you know? Was it mentioned? I did not see any incident mentioned, perhaps it was there.

Were these children with magical powers ? I think the heart of the matter in this scenario is that they knew they could be rude without repercussions.

Women being killed as witches is still happening in the world. In our country last year women lost the right to bodily autonomy. (Justice Alito managed to reference in his opinion an esteemed medieval witchcraft believe to bolster his argument against female autonomy.)

In some parts of our country women are being denied basic healthcare because they are being now valued as of less worth than a potential life.

Why is it that the enduring female “busybody” theme is now so popular while attempts to equalize with a male “Ken” have not gained traction?

The fact is men have been and still are the majority in power and muscle positions in our country and our system is male centered and male driven.

I don’t think the gleeful focus on this 21st century version of the Karen stereotype is accidental. It serves to get us to focus negative attention on women instead of the mostly powerful men who are taking away our rights and aiming to further impoverish us.

We all know who Karen is; how many of us s know who Leo is?

The fact is many men and women fear going against male authority, when timid people get
scared there is a tendency to scapegoat. The Karen meme is meant to conjure up the image of a middle-aged who should shut up. Where will that get us in today’s America.

allegorical oracle

(6,466 posts)
27. Maybe Karen lives in the Village of the Damned (old 60s horror flick). Was about kids with
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 06:17 PM
Jul 2023

supernatural mind-reading powers. Could kill adults by staring at them.

bluesbassman

(20,383 posts)
46. Oh please, her response tells you all you need to know.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 10:30 PM
Jul 2023

They laughed at her hairstyle. That deserves a law enforcement intervention? Give me a break.

delisen

(7,353 posts)
58. Did you think this really happened?
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 07:00 AM
Jul 2023

Do you think this event actually happened or do you think it is a story made up by an individual who is capitalizing on the popularity of the Karen meme in American society?

I study the Karen meme as a sexist meme (there is no popular male equivalent) which is serving a group binding function in our society.

I would appreciate your sharing.



whathehell

(30,460 posts)
63. Lol
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 02:40 PM
Jul 2023

"I've heard both Kevin and Ken"...Sure, but how many times?..Anything even close to that of the Karen memes?

delisen

(7,353 posts)
30. The original Karens were women integrating fine restaurants
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 06:47 PM
Jul 2023

Last edited Tue Jul 11, 2023, 07:21 PM - Edit history (1)

Back in those days we were treated badly on business trips and expected to order room service in the hotel. Classy restaurants would give us bad tables and slow service. If we demanded to be treated as well as men we were referred to as Karen, with snickers and eye rolling.

Imagine the nerve of single women wanting to be treated with the same respect afforded men in a public establishment.

We won that battle but when one lives in an unequal society the struggle never ends.


Biophilic

(6,540 posts)
18. I can't believe this is for real. It's got to be a spoof.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:25 PM
Jul 2023

Who worries if 8 year olds don’t like your “chic”? Nope this isn’t for real. And if it is real this person shouldn’t be allowed near children.

delisen

(7,353 posts)
32. Yes it is a parody.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 07:01 PM
Jul 2023

I follow the Karen meme as it pops up on some sites I use. It is basically an ant-female or sexist meme. I follow it to gauge how much sexism there is within a site.

whathehell

(30,460 posts)
41. It is an anti- female meme..
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 09:21 PM
Jul 2023

and I too follow it only to gauge how much sexism there is within the site. I think you'll find there's no shortage of it here. As writer Katha Politt has noted, "Misogyny is the last acceptable bigotry of the Left"

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soldierant

(9,348 posts)
51. Sadly, I agree.
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 11:47 PM
Jul 2023

I also think it has a lot more to do with Hillary not getting elected President than any other factor - certainly a lot more than her emails.

orleans

(36,896 posts)
24. i googled and found this posted on ifunny dot co
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 05:51 PM
Jul 2023

back in 2020 -- reading some of the replies
(du has far better remarks)

anyway, i was scrolling and found this on the same website; an insanely long limousine before and after

(i tried to download pics to post them but it's a webfile that i can't download)

https://ifunny.co/picture/the-american-dream-now-an-abandoned-limousine-i-CzvxiVLbA

Torchlight

(6,792 posts)
34. Offended by eight year old kids acting like, well eight year old kids
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 07:19 PM
Jul 2023

is something an eight year old kid would do. She has really well developed grammar for an eight year old. Go public schools!

delisen

(7,353 posts)
36. The 8 yr old kids I know do not act this way
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 07:30 PM
Jul 2023

Rudely harassing a person by yelling Karen at her?

Of course it is just fiction written for clicks, hoping to capitalize on a sexist meme.

 

Progressive Lawyer

(617 posts)
38. "Karen" is now a pejorative term intended to shame an individual partly based on appearance and...
Tue Jul 11, 2023, 08:33 PM
Jul 2023

...assumed gender.

Please do not condone this activity, thank you.

whathehell

(30,460 posts)
61. Yes, except that particular "shoe" fits both genders
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 01:52 PM
Jul 2023

so the question is, why is it being thrown at only one?



Response to kpete (Original post)

calimary

(89,951 posts)
53. Oh boo-hoo.
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 01:30 AM
Jul 2023

How about just sucking it up and rising above it, girlfriend?

Maybe if you didn't take yourself so damn seriously and laughed along with them the whole "incident" would be forgotten in a couple of minutes.

Conjuay

(3,058 posts)
57. It'll go to the supreme Court
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 06:36 AM
Jul 2023

They will side with Karen (of course) and the kids will be giving her their lunch money and allowance till middle school.

cannabis_flower

(3,931 posts)
59. Probably legal action wouldn't help
Wed Jul 12, 2023, 07:39 AM
Jul 2023

Maybe buying candy for everyone would shut them up.

And have you ever thought it might not be just the “chic” hairstyle?

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