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BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 09:11 PM Jul 2023

Got a call last week from my credit card company

Did you use your credit card at a casino in New Jersey? NO. What a pain. Credit Card Company on it. New Card. Charges cancelled. Now I’m trying to make right the automatic payments. I often get computer usage anxiety. I made that up (I think) but it’s real for old people. Sometimes I’m afraid to touch any button on a financial website thinking I’ll end our life as we know it.

What the hell, the Phillies won tonight. I’ll drink to that.

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Got a call last week from my credit card company (Original Post) BOSSHOG Jul 2023 OP
I hear you, what a pain. Good night for baseball! MLAA Jul 2023 #1
Phillies are gonna be fun to watch right to the end BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #5
Ok, you got me I'll cheer for the Phillies along with the Dbacks. MLAA Jul 2023 #10
I'm kinda an obnoxious Phillie Fan BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #21
Love baseball. MLAA Jul 2023 #23
It's called technophobia TexasTowelie Jul 2023 #2
I'm happy with my credit card company BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #6
Thank a liberal democrat for credit card companies not being allowed to charge you Eliot Rosewater Jul 2023 #8
Ain't it intensely clear BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #9
Mine is also good that way. soldierant Jul 2023 #17
An Early Happy Birthday to you Soldierant. BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #22
** soldierant Jul 2023 #31
go to your bank or library to help on automatic payments Tetrachloride Jul 2023 #3
Thanks very much. We are muddling through. BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #7
Did you watch the movie Hidden Figures? It was amazing. Brought me to tears. MLAA Jul 2023 #11
Great movie. Shows what those brilliant, Black women had to go thru. brush Jul 2023 #16
Amazing. MLAA Jul 2023 #20
Yes we did BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #24
Wow, 2200 piece space shuttle. What are the dimensions of that marvel? MLAA Jul 2023 #25
22 inches long, 14 inch wing span BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #27
👍 Joinfortmill Jul 2023 #4
I've spent every moment of the last 3 days trying to undo 1WorldHope Jul 2023 #12
I get my passwords out of the real estate and obituary section of the newspaper. BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #28
That happened to me a year or two ago, scared me, too, besides being a PIA Rhiannon12866 Jul 2023 #13
I totally feel your pain, Boss! Stinky The Clown Jul 2023 #14
It's easing BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #26
I have one credit card for this reason. BigmanPigman Jul 2023 #15
I am with you having only one credit card and I refuse to use debut due to the stricter rules. n/t. airplaneman Jul 2023 #18
It is easy to keep track of too. BigmanPigman Jul 2023 #19
Yeah, I've bounced back and forth between cards for that. Igel Jul 2023 #29
Criminals can hurt us from thousands of miles away. BOSSHOG Jul 2023 #30

MLAA

(19,656 posts)
1. I hear you, what a pain. Good night for baseball!
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 09:14 PM
Jul 2023

Diamondbacks just took the lead over Atlanta 16 to 13 in the top of the ninth.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
21. I'm kinda an obnoxious Phillie Fan
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:09 PM
Jul 2023

Is there any other kind? But they really are fun to watch this year. Schwarber started off three games this year with a first pitch homer. And trea turner is a ballerina at short. Pitching is kinda hard on the fans. And they got the best mascot and best uniforms. Told ya I’m obnoxious. Enjoy all the games you watch my friend.

MLAA

(19,656 posts)
23. Love baseball.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:16 PM
Jul 2023

DBs won last night in Atlanta after getting swept by Toronto. Final was 16 to 13. Cheer harder Phillies tied bottoms of the 6th. The Brewers manager, Craig Counsell was a long time Diamondback way back when. Great utility player.

TexasTowelie

(125,095 posts)
2. It's called technophobia
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 09:17 PM
Jul 2023

and I think everybody over the age of 55 had it or has it. By coincidence, I had a disputed charge appear on my debit card so I'm going through the process of updating my information.

Eliot Rosewater

(34,282 posts)
8. Thank a liberal democrat for credit card companies not being allowed to charge you
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 09:39 PM
Jul 2023

when fraud happens.

If the GOP was in charge of this stuff you and we would be on the hook for everything.

soldierant

(9,252 posts)
17. Mine is also good that way.
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 11:49 PM
Jul 2023

I'vee had it happen a few times. It's annoying as all get out, butit hasn't affected my credit score. I use my bookmarks to keep together all the links I need to update automatic payments. BTW I'm - gee, I was going to say I'm 77, which is true, but in 2 weeks I"ll be 78. We seniors can handle it.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
22. An Early Happy Birthday to you Soldierant.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:13 PM
Jul 2023

I’m on the precipice of 70, and still doing good physically. I’m cool, calm and collected except for computer crime.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
7. Thanks very much. We are muddling through.
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 09:31 PM
Jul 2023

NASAs 65th birthday is coming up. We lived down the road from Stennis Space Center in Mississippi. Totally professional organization. Loved those rocket scientists.

MLAA

(19,656 posts)
11. Did you watch the movie Hidden Figures? It was amazing. Brought me to tears.
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 10:24 PM
Jul 2023

I went to engineering school in the late seventies so I felt a kinship with the women in the movie and I also worked for IBM who provided the first mainframe to NASA which was in the movie.

 

brush

(61,033 posts)
16. Great movie. Shows what those brilliant, Black women had to go thru.
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 11:45 PM
Jul 2023

Catherine Johnson did the actual calculations by hand of John Glenn's flight trajectory...better than the computer. Amazing.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
24. Yes we did
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:17 PM
Jul 2023

And we got the book, have yet to read it. Glad such work and achievement finally gets recognized. And thanks for your assist with the space program. I did a 2,200 hundred piece Lego of a space shuttle and the hubble telescope. Proudly displayed in our NASA room.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
27. 22 inches long, 14 inch wing span
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:27 PM
Jul 2023

Most of the pieces are internal and unseen.

I had a great time doing it. Took me about three months. 15 minutes here, 30 minutes there. I found it almost therapeutic. You gotta be on your toes keeping up with the parts.

1WorldHope

(1,827 posts)
12. I've spent every moment of the last 3 days trying to undo
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 10:30 PM
Jul 2023

what may or may not have been compromised by using the same password on 93 apps. Don't do what I have done. 🤮

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
28. I get my passwords out of the real estate and obituary section of the newspaper.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:29 PM
Jul 2023

No connection to me, that I know of.

I got each one on a 3x5 card locked in a safe in the basement. They only come out when I need them. I got about 30.

Rhiannon12866

(249,177 posts)
13. That happened to me a year or two ago, scared me, too, besides being a PIA
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 10:37 PM
Jul 2023

The bank guy I spoke with couldn't have been more helpful, deleted the bogus charge (In CA and I'm in New York!) and told me that the most common places cards are compromised are at gas stations. But I told him that I always pay cash for gas (it's a few cents off a gallon at Sunoco) so the only place I could figure it happened was at the car wash, so I've been reluctant to go there since.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
26. It's easing
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 07:20 PM
Jul 2023

I get the impression that the credit card companies have the gloves off dealing with this nonsense.

BigmanPigman

(54,531 posts)
15. I have one credit card for this reason.
Tue Jul 18, 2023, 10:50 PM
Jul 2023

I can't feel confident with tech and $$$ and do not trust anyone or anything at this point in my life. I have had the same credit card for over 20 years and they call ME when they see large purchases. They never charge me for anything that was bought without my knowledge. It has only happened once, I am happy to say.

airplaneman

(1,366 posts)
18. I am with you having only one credit card and I refuse to use debut due to the stricter rules. n/t.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 01:22 AM
Jul 2023

BigmanPigman

(54,531 posts)
19. It is easy to keep track of too.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 06:19 AM
Jul 2023

I have a spare one in my closet but that is for a backup emergency situation (like a lost wallet). I lived in New York City in the late 70s/early 80s and crime was really bad. I only carried what I could afford to lose but my father always advised me to keep a $10, and not the $5 I planned. His theory was that if the muggers don't get a little something they could get pissed off.

Igel

(37,256 posts)
29. Yeah, I've bounced back and forth between cards for that.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 09:26 PM
Jul 2023

Finally came up with a list of payments through CC. When one's screwed, I flip everything to the other the same day--and have to change one word in my list: "Billed to __________ card: < then the list >."

Feel the need to have at least two CC just for that. One's cancelled, it can take a few days to learn your new number and payment can bounce.

BOSSHOG

(44,563 posts)
30. Criminals can hurt us from thousands of miles away.
Wed Jul 19, 2023, 09:30 PM
Jul 2023

Relative to personal finances computers unnerve me.

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