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I'm livid! Pissed is an understatement! (Original Post) AntivaxHunters Jul 2023 OP
Pictured: Our future. Same as our past. Aristus Jul 2023 #1
You realize that's a Court Officer and not the arresting police officer? brooklynite Jul 2023 #9
Still: White authority figure and terrified woman. Aristus Jul 2023 #10
Plus the SOB has a smirk on his face! sheshe2 Jul 2023 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author paleotn Jul 2023 #24
Yes, we realize that. What's your point? yardwork Jul 2023 #65
WTF MorbidButterflyTat Jul 2023 #84
Did you think anyone DIDN'T realize that? Because it would be pretty dumb not to, wouldn't it? Scrivener7 Jul 2023 #100
LIKE THAT MATTERS?????!!!!! pnwmom Jul 2023 #104
So, a Court Officer should be able to choose which defendants he/she brings into Court? brooklynite Jul 2023 #145
You decided to quibble over whether this representative of white male supremacy pnwmom Jul 2023 #146
For the ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #147
He's not being attacked PERSONALLY. The photo is symbolic of the patriarchy that is pnwmom Jul 2023 #149
But that ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #158
It's symbolic . Symbols aren't literal. nt pnwmom Jul 2023 #165
If that ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #166
I clearly can't explain it to you, but many women with empathy pnwmom Jul 2023 #174
Don't assume ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #175
+1 uponit7771 Jul 2023 #148
This message was self-deleted by its author krkaufman Jul 2023 #142
As were all of... alimbalt Jul 2023 #150
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2023 #168
Court officers takes woman into custody for cremating her stillborn fetus AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2023 #14
Much better. Except she was already in custody. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #37
I don't want to seem like I approve of this AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2023 #43
Agree. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #126
A woman in America today is MOMFUDSKI Jul 2023 #112
Let me fix it for you AntivaxHunters Jul 2023 #58
Except inthewind21 Jul 2023 #119
+1. maybe 2. the snark kinda' loses something stopdiggin Jul 2023 #130
What an insensitive remark. True Blue American Jul 2023 #151
no fixing necessary markie Jul 2023 #60
I've been livid since this in Indiana markie Jul 2023 #68
being a man is enough treestar Jul 2023 #115
Great job on the Fat Shaming! Jose Garcia Jul 2023 #139
He's just the bailiff doing his job. SYFROYH Jul 2023 #141
But he's fat. Dr. Strange Jul 2023 #180
This s..t is disgusting! madashelltoo Jul 2023 #2
Poeple inthewind21 Jul 2023 #105
Wow Chi67 Jul 2023 #3
register 4 people in the next two months WhiteTara Jul 2023 #56
This is legalized abuse and psychological torture bucolic_frolic Jul 2023 #4
It is all about control. Chainfire Jul 2023 #11
With mouths closed and legs wide open. calimary Jul 2023 #36
Yep and it will worsen in RepubliCon Taliban controlled States. sarcasmo Jul 2023 #91
The picture says it all. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #5
This happened before Dobbs. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #39
I read the details. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #55
... markie Jul 2023 #62
29 weeks. 3rd Trimester. maxsolomon Jul 2023 #95
No need for details/facts inthewind21 Jul 2023 #108
Uh oh treestar Jul 2023 #117
Yep inthewind21 Jul 2023 #120
nope. we're going to do our outrage, regardless of inconvenient facts. stopdiggin Jul 2023 #131
I'm through using the term GOP - these people are Nazi's. Reprehensible. walkingman Jul 2023 #6
These news stories are just getting started. OAITW r.2.0 Jul 2023 #7
"Private" Facebook messages. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #8
Right? Ligyron Jul 2023 #81
Even when Abortion was illegal I don't remember any woman being arrested for having an abortion. The Wielding Truth Jul 2023 #12
From what I read in the story, it also concerns colorado_ufo Jul 2023 #17
There's a lot more to the story than simply "government arrests girl for abortion" AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2023 #21
Thank you. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #35
I was born a seven month fetus. And I still support women's rights to choose. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #57
Looks like she was charged with illegally disposing of and concealing Kaleva Jul 2023 #20
Women have been hiding dead fetuses since time began. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #47
How is it that MuseRider Jul 2023 #77
"How is it that people do not know this?" MorbidButterflyTat Jul 2023 #87
I gotta say MuseRider Jul 2023 #89
very true, in prior centuries treestar Jul 2023 #118
K&R for visibility Blue Owl Jul 2023 #13
Another K & R for visibility. 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2023 #15
The GOP plan for the woman of America bronxiteforever Jul 2023 #16
SCOTUS has opened Pandora's box vapor2 Jul 2023 #18
This predated Dobbs AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2023 #19
This was before SCOTUS overturned Roe v. Wade Kaleva Jul 2023 #27
i have had to put a speed bump between my mouth and brain too. AllaN01Bear Jul 2023 #22
Fuckin' fuck. twodogsbarking Jul 2023 #23
This was illegal before Roe v. Wade was overturned Kaleva Jul 2023 #29
I fell for the headline. Still more to the story I would guess. twodogsbarking Jul 2023 #122
Good one. On the beat, and it rhymes. calimary Jul 2023 #80
Just some republican law and order. republianmushroom Jul 2023 #25
There it is -- patriarchal terrorism against women. Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #26
You're not the only one! leanforward Jul 2023 #28
next time she will use pills to end her own life samnsara Jul 2023 #30
There's yer campaign picture right there. Elect Democrats. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2023 #31
+1 NJCher Jul 2023 #99
Sure inthewind21 Jul 2023 #109
Your beef is with the OP. My apologies if I did not read every post in the thread before posting. nt Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2023 #127
example of creeping fascism llashram Jul 2023 #32
Old enough to vote but Retrograde Jul 2023 #33
90 days is just for disposing the miscarriage. She faces five years in prison for the other charges WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2023 #34
Her mother is facing the additional charges according to the article AZSkiffyGeek Jul 2023 #38
Whoever impregnated her should serve time too Submariner Jul 2023 #40
Awesome inthewind21 Jul 2023 #123
Copulation is a bit more than association or a casual friend. JanMichael Jul 2023 #144
because 'if he had been around - or supportive .." stopdiggin Jul 2023 #162
Huh? I didn't say that. JanMichael Jul 2023 #163
then I really blew it stopdiggin Jul 2023 #164
because he was involved in the late abortion stopdiggin Jul 2023 #132
We need to be careful about articles like this. The headline is a bit misleading. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #42
+1 Kaleva Jul 2023 #46
It makes the point that the patriarchy will jail women over pregnancy issues. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #51
Of course they will. But the details are important. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #53
What is there to be careful about? What it shows is how easy it was to lose bodily autonomy WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2023 #59
"we need to do better than Roe" markie Jul 2023 #63
I don't disagree. But I also don't want to see us lose the ability to process nuance. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #66
. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2023 #82
correct Effete Snob Jul 2023 #94
just FUCK THESE REPUBLICANS YoshidaYui Jul 2023 #44
American f*cking Taliban. CousinIT Jul 2023 #45
How did LE get the PM's? Snackshack Jul 2023 #48
I concur wholeheartedly MayReasonRule Jul 2023 #49
By Using The Fourth Amendment Effete Snob Jul 2023 #76
So inthewind21 Jul 2023 #124
"this poor girl probably did not even know there were other options" inthewind21 Jul 2023 #125
God did! dchill Jul 2023 #50
she was in the 28th week of pregnancy; third trimester orleans Jul 2023 #52
For god's sake, women have been hiding dead fetuses since caveman times. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #67
There are a lot of things done since caveman times that aren't morally or ethically acceptable now. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #70
There are not enough jails in the world to jail every woman who has Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #73
A bit inthewind21 Jul 2023 #113
If it is such an earth shattering moral issue why aren't males being jailed? Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #74
I never said it was. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #86
Pretty sure inthewind21 Jul 2023 #121
oh thanks for sharing orleans Jul 2023 #79
Disgusting and doubling disgusting with the office smiling. This has to stop. iluvtennis Jul 2023 #54
K and R Quixote1818 Jul 2023 #61
Please read facts snowybirdie Jul 2023 #64
Men are half the pregnancy equation. Why aren't they going to jail too? Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #69
This case has been discussed multiple times on DU Effete Snob Jul 2023 #71
So they wanted her to hold a funeral or what? Warpy Jul 2023 #72
"a clear violation of the Fourth Amendment unless those cops had a warrant" Effete Snob Jul 2023 #75
Actually, it did violate Roe Warpy Jul 2023 #83
"unless it wasn't" Effete Snob Jul 2023 #93
This is just the beginning of the Riech wing oppression of women! Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #78
EXACTLY B.See Jul 2023 #90
Her actions were illegal when Roe v. Wade was in effect Kaleva Jul 2023 #128
She aborted an apparently healthy fetus in the 3rd trimester NickB79 Jul 2023 #85
Simply amazing the knee-jerk reactions to this story. maxsolomon Jul 2023 #96
Pregnancy is 40+ weeks... Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #153
It was illegal in the state prior to Dobbs being overturned. It's illegal in most states. maxsolomon Jul 2023 #177
Abortion being illegal gives the State ownership of the woman's uterus. Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #178
You want abortion legal until the day of birth? maxsolomon Jul 2023 #179
I did not say I want... if abortion was legal and not stigmatized women wouldn't act desperately. Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #181
As asked above, a very straightforward question, Abolishinist Jul 2023 #182
I will tell you this... Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #183
First of all, she was not having any health problems, nor did Abolishinist Jul 2023 #184
Thanks for supporting great causes. Bluethroughu Jul 2023 #185
Yeah, I didn't know the details of this story Sympthsical Jul 2023 #98
I agree. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2023 #101
Anyone inthewind21 Jul 2023 #114
+1. people hate it when I point to the 'mirror image' stopdiggin Jul 2023 #133
My favorite this week by far Sympthsical Jul 2023 #159
it's absolute knee-jerk tribalism stopdiggin Jul 2023 #161
I notice that most who disagree with the outcome, Abolishinist Jul 2023 #173
Scared Phoenix1960 Jul 2023 #88
May inthewind21 Jul 2023 #116
My god mzmolly Jul 2023 #92
This is beyond words wendyb-NC Jul 2023 #97
She illegally aborted in the THIRD trimester when her baby was viable. THEN Hortensis Jul 2023 #106
I was drawn in by the headline wendyb-NC Jul 2023 #135
Me too, and agree. Then realized we'd seen this story before. Hortensis Jul 2023 #137
For many people in this country Glaisne Jul 2023 #102
Hmm, the rigid, inflexible damnation of all abortion Farmer-Rick Jul 2023 #103
privacy violation ??????? RANDYWILDMAN Jul 2023 #107
Next up Ohio yankee87 Jul 2023 #110
Fascists have no shame! Emile Jul 2023 #111
Her actions weren't legal when Roe v. Wade was in effect Kaleva Jul 2023 #129
"private FB messages" Skittles Jul 2023 #134
No Such Thing NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #136
well certainly FACEBOOK knows what they're typing Skittles Jul 2023 #140
May all involved receive everything they deserve. niyad Jul 2023 #138
Fascists. JanMichael Jul 2023 #143
This gut-punch should be our national women's wake up call. Timeflyer Jul 2023 #152
Where are the "Libertarians"? 617Blue Jul 2023 #154
Libertarians don't care until KarenS Jul 2023 #155
They care about "political correctness" 617Blue Jul 2023 #156
Apparently the cops read the messages orangecrush Jul 2023 #157
This image should be used in campaigns across the country against all Republicans. GoodRaisin Jul 2023 #160
A (likely Unionized) Court Officer? Of which you know nothing about his political leanings? brooklynite Jul 2023 #167
It has nothing to do with the court officer. He's just doing his job. GoodRaisin Jul 2023 #169
Yes MorbidButterflyTat Jul 2023 #172
Our homegrown Taliban Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jul 2023 #170
They want to decide who you Women have sex with and many of them want you dead if Eliot Rosewater Jul 2023 #171
This is so sad. Look at the terror on that child's face. What the eff is going on in the US? akbacchus_BC Jul 2023 #176

Aristus

(71,897 posts)
1. Pictured: Our future. Same as our past.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:45 AM
Jul 2023

Big fat smug white man exerts total power over a woman robbed of all agency just for trying to live her life.

Aristus

(71,897 posts)
10. Still: White authority figure and terrified woman.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:50 AM
Jul 2023

Any right-wingers looking at this are probably coming in their pants.

Response to brooklynite (Reply #9)

yardwork

(69,108 posts)
65. Yes, we realize that. What's your point?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:59 PM
Jul 2023

P.S. This is a highly distressing subject for a lot of people, probably a good time to dial down the snark. Won't be taken well at all. This hint is kindly meant.

Scrivener7

(58,910 posts)
100. Did you think anyone DIDN'T realize that? Because it would be pretty dumb not to, wouldn't it?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:21 PM
Jul 2023

Or is that the assumption?

pnwmom

(110,219 posts)
104. LIKE THAT MATTERS?????!!!!!
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:34 PM
Jul 2023

It's a man three times as big as she is with his hand on her, taking control.

The picture is emblematic, and disgusting.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
145. So, a Court Officer should be able to choose which defendants he/she brings into Court?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:14 PM
Jul 2023

His skin color, size and weight are irrelevant to the story.

BTW, remember when "fat shaming" was looked down on in these parts?

pnwmom

(110,219 posts)
146. You decided to quibble over whether this representative of white male supremacy
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:36 PM
Jul 2023

was an arresting officer or a court official -- a distinction that the earlier posters hadn't made at all.

It doesn't matter which kind of officer he was. The photo is of a very large older man with his hand on a small, handcuffed young woman. The picture is symbolic, a visual representation of the imbalance in power.

ForgedCrank

(3,041 posts)
147. For the
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:55 PM
Jul 2023

life of me, I can't figure out why the court officer is being attacked here.
Leading defendants into the courtroom is policy, it's for their safety as much as anyone else. They usually don't even know where to go either. I've also seen plenty of black females doing this same job, so the aggressiveness toward the guy makes no sense at all.
I think we can all agree that this is a very tragic thing all around, but we should probably pause and try to understand the situation before we take a single photo tagged with a headline at face value.
Just a general statement, not directed at anyone in particular.

pnwmom

(110,219 posts)
149. He's not being attacked PERSONALLY. The photo is symbolic of the patriarchy that is
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 03:27 AM
Jul 2023

controlling the young female's body.

ForgedCrank

(3,041 posts)
166. If that
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 02:20 PM
Jul 2023

is the bar to measure by, why don't we just stage symbolic photos or make them with photoshop? Because it would make us all look silly and dishonest.

pnwmom

(110,219 posts)
174. I clearly can't explain it to you, but many women with empathy
Sun Jul 23, 2023, 09:26 PM
Jul 2023

will see that frightened woman handcuffed and under the control of that much more powerful man and feel the reverberations into their own lives.

That photo packs a visceral punch.

ForgedCrank

(3,041 posts)
175. Don't assume
Sun Jul 23, 2023, 11:57 PM
Jul 2023

I have no empathy for this woman. What she did was leaning toward horrendous, but she was in a very difficult spot, and people don't always behave rationally in a situation such as that, especially at 19 years old.
I simply take exception to falsely framing a photo to be something it simply is not. 2 completely separate issues.
The woman and court officer in this photo is being treated like any other person would be while in custody and entering a courtroom.

Response to brooklynite (Reply #9)

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
37. Much better. Except she was already in custody.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:30 PM
Jul 2023

I guess the poster to whom you responded must have missed that little fact.

AZSkiffyGeek

(12,744 posts)
43. I don't want to seem like I approve of this
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:34 PM
Jul 2023

She shouldn't have been to the point of desparation a month or so before her kid was due.
But the journalist in me always looks deeper into these emotional headlines and there is a lot more to this than "The patriarchy is punishing an innocent girl for getting an abortion."

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
58. Let me fix it for you
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:48 PM
Jul 2023

She did it because she had to hide evidence knowing that she'd go to prison due to Nebraska's fascist abortion laws.

There.

markie

(23,956 posts)
60. no fixing necessary
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:53 PM
Jul 2023

white men continue to refuse to let women live their lives... laws have been written w/o appreciation for women and the right to control their bodies

SYFROYH

(34,213 posts)
141. He's just the bailiff doing his job.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 08:02 PM
Jul 2023

He's there to keep order of the defendant, protect her from crazies, and escort her when she needs to come and go.

Chi67

(1,281 posts)
3. Wow
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:47 AM
Jul 2023

But the GQP promised they would NEVER target women, right? Fucking LIARS!

Out they go! Every last one of them! VOTE in 2024! All our lives depend on it!

WhiteTara

(31,229 posts)
56. register 4 people in the next two months
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:46 PM
Jul 2023

and then have them register 4 more people before the holidays and so on and we could stop the madness. BUT you have to be registered to vote so that's our work now.

Welcome to DU

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
120. Yep
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:05 PM
Jul 2023

But it will end soon to start an outrage thread on how dumb and gullible MAGA'S are because they don't bother with facts.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,743 posts)
7. These news stories are just getting started.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 11:48 AM
Jul 2023

We will see more and more woman getting prosecuted for their decisions to terminate a pregnancy for whatever reasons they have. Going to be a huge issue in 2024.

Ligyron

(8,006 posts)
81. Right?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:28 PM
Jul 2023

I mean use your head, don't make it easy for them.

Still, it's not right and you'd think every female in this country would take it personally and be sure to be registered and ready to vote these clowns out of office.

Men too, of course, but you know what I mean...

colorado_ufo

(6,210 posts)
17. From what I read in the story, it also concerns
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:09 PM
Jul 2023

concealing human remains. I would like to know more details, such as was the fetus viable or perhaps very deformed? Did she have any prenatal care? This is a late abortion.

Seven months is a viable fetus.

AZSkiffyGeek

(12,744 posts)
21. There's a lot more to the story than simply "government arrests girl for abortion"
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:13 PM
Jul 2023

There's ugliness on both sides, especially the Facebook messages angle, but the mom offering to help burn the remains really stands out to me.
And trying to paint it as a result of Dobbs is disingenuous since the case predates Dobbs.

Kaleva

(40,285 posts)
20. Looks like she was charged with illegally disposing of and concealing
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:12 PM
Jul 2023

human remains. Article doesn't say she was charged with having an abortion

Irish_Dem

(80,426 posts)
47. Women have been hiding dead fetuses since time began.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:39 PM
Jul 2023

There are not enough jails in the world to address the issue.

MuseRider

(35,167 posts)
77. How is it that
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:15 PM
Jul 2023

people do not know this? It is like we are just now taking care of the things we need to without male approval (or the church which is likely the same thing) and we cannot be allowed? We do not need to be allowed to take care of ourselves. Is this an awful story? Yes. Does any one of us know what she had been going through or what she was looking at as a very young mother? No

You would think every other female on the planet was doing this just because they can, or could.

I suggest one more time of the uncountable times we have said this, "Get the fuck out of our business, our bodies and our lives!"

MuseRider

(35,167 posts)
89. I gotta say
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:44 PM
Jul 2023

I probably did know that but it is so damned hard to swallow. Even after a life time of this, even DURING Roe it always felt really iffy and always on the brink of being taken from us.

Thanks.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
118. very true, in prior centuries
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:02 PM
Jul 2023

they could conceal the whole pregnancy under the voluminous clothing and were thought to drop the born children in wells or such.

It was impossible to catch that but now we have Facebook.

Kaleva

(40,285 posts)
27. This was before SCOTUS overturned Roe v. Wade
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:17 PM
Jul 2023

From the article:

"Police opened the investigation into the mother and daughter in June 2022, before the Supreme Court overturned the nationwide right to abortion and left it to states to determine whether or how to allow the procedure."

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-66271537

AllaN01Bear

(28,931 posts)
22. i have had to put a speed bump between my mouth and brain too.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:14 PM
Jul 2023

my primary anger meter is busted . the backup is becoming that way.

NJCher

(42,772 posts)
99. +1
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:21 PM
Jul 2023

You know if the shoe was on the other foot, they meaning republicans would take
maximim value from the photo, no explanation needed.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
109. Sure
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:41 PM
Jul 2023

Make the teen who ended a 7 month pregnancy then destroyed the remains (which by the way was already illegal) BEFORE DOBS your poster child for campaign adds. Brilliant!

Question, how do you feel about Fox viewers who ignore all facts, don't even bother to get them, only take the headline and get all outraged over "mis-information"?

llashram

(6,269 posts)
32. example of creeping fascism
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:25 PM
Jul 2023

history is replete with examples of how fascists seem innocent at first and then one day, BAM!! Our rights and privileges are in the fascist toilet.

drip, drip, drip

Submariner

(13,286 posts)
40. Whoever impregnated her should serve time too
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:32 PM
Jul 2023

He should get fined and jailed just like her. Let the wayward lad share the pain. 50-50.

JanMichael

(25,725 posts)
144. Copulation is a bit more than association or a casual friend.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 10:50 PM
Jul 2023

It involved more than going out for a coffee.

Sure I don't know if the sperm donor had anything to do with the aftermath of the pregnancy but had a lot to do with the pregnancy and the desire to terminate it.

stopdiggin

(15,182 posts)
162. because 'if he had been around - or supportive .."
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 11:15 AM
Jul 2023

this young woman would certainly have had no desire to terminate ...

----- --- ---------- -------

listen to yourself. and then maybe stop attempting to contort the argument .. ?

stopdiggin

(15,182 posts)
164. then I really blew it
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 12:26 PM
Jul 2023

but I took this directly from the post I responded to - -

"but had a lot to do with the pregnancy and the desire to terminate it."


my bad ?

Pacifist Patriot

(25,208 posts)
42. We need to be careful about articles like this. The headline is a bit misleading.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:33 PM
Jul 2023

The details clearly make this case completely unrelated to the loss of bodily autonomy that was the result of the Dobbs decision.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,695 posts)
59. What is there to be careful about? What it shows is how easy it was to lose bodily autonomy
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:52 PM
Jul 2023

under Roe. We don’t need to return to Roe; we need to do better than Roe.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,208 posts)
66. I don't disagree. But I also don't want to see us lose the ability to process nuance.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:59 PM
Jul 2023

The abortion was done at 28 weeks without a medical provider. They unlawfully disposed of fetal remains. The vast majority of fetuses delivered at 28 weeks are viable and less than 10 percent have long-term health issues.

I simply believe it is important to recognize the article is reporting on something that happened pre-Dobbs rather than as a reaction to Dobbs as many seem to assume.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,695 posts)
82. .
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:29 PM
Jul 2023
The abortion was done at 28 weeks without a medical provider.
I've seen reports of her being anywhere from 20-30 weeks along, which is interesting.

They unlawfully disposed of fetal remains.
Right, which is why she's spending 90 days in jail. It's also not unusual for people to manage their miscarriages and the remains themselves.

The vast majority of fetuses delivered at 28 weeks are viable and less than 10 percent have long-term health issues.
This one was stillborn, from what I understand from reports.

I simply believe it is important to recognize the article is reporting on something that happened pre-Dobbs rather than as a reaction to Dobbs as many seem to assume.
Sure, and it's also important to recognize that at all times, legal does not mean accessible and illegal does not mean harmful.

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
94. correct
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:58 PM
Jul 2023

Not only that, but this incident has been discussed numerous times already on DU.

This case has nothing to do with overturning Roe v. Wade.

Snackshack

(2,576 posts)
48. How did LE get the PM's?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:40 PM
Jul 2023

...and the satisfied look and that court officers face is disgusting.

I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that there was no case until LE read the PM's between mom and daughter. If ever there was a real privilege needed like attorney-client a mom-daughter one should exist because reality does not care about ones phucking misguided idiotic dogmas, it operates the same way day in and day out for 13.8billion yrs now and a mother has to be able to talk to her children in a realty based framework if they are to survive until adulthood.

Religion really is one of the worst human invented ideas. It is right up there with drinking radioactive liquid done in the early 1900's and taking ivermectin for a horse to treat something one thinks is a hoax.

Edit- The thing about this that really pisses me off and always has...what these two did should have never been written down because how they handled it was wrong. But because of religious/republican bullshit this poor girl probably did not even know there were other options. One of the greatest fucking commitments a human can ever make is to bring another life into this world and there is not even 1 fucking class in schools to educate people on just basic facts, that IS pathetic...now what really pisses me off and is really phucking pathetic is how on everyone of these GD stories I have ever seen there is NEVER even a mention, hint, passing reference to the other half of this crime the MALE and until LE (like the FF court officer) starts hauling fathers in with the mothers this is nothing but religion doing the same fucking power play it always has done on women.

It is difficult to find another idea in this world that has done as much damage to it as religion has.

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
76. By Using The Fourth Amendment
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:10 PM
Jul 2023

https://www.npr.org/2022/08/12/1117092169/nebraska-cops-used-facebook-messages-to-investigate-an-alleged-illegal-abortion

Police in Norfolk, Neb., had been investigating the woman, Jessica Burgess, and her daughter, Celeste Burgess, for allegedly mishandling the fetal remains of what they'd told police was Celeste's stillbirth in late April. They faced charges of concealing a death and disposing of human remains illegally.

But in mid-June, police also sent a warrant to Facebook requesting the Burgess' private messages. Authorities say those conversations showed the pregnancy had been aborted, not miscarried as the two had said.


 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
124. So
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:33 PM
Jul 2023

I have a question. How did you feel about the FBI getting their hands on FB/Instagram/TIC TOC/ Twitter messages and posts of the J6 stormers and using those as evidence for prosecution? So if a mom and daughter are discussing committing a crime using social media it should be protected? Is that for EVERYONE (if so the J, stormers would like you to join MTG protesting the violation of their privacy) or only instances you agree with?

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
125. "this poor girl probably did not even know there were other options"
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:34 PM
Jul 2023

Seriously? This was BEFORE the SC gutted ROE.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,208 posts)
70. There are a lot of things done since caveman times that aren't morally or ethically acceptable now.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:01 PM
Jul 2023

Infanticide by exposure was routinely practiced in the ancient world. Should we start that up again?

Irish_Dem

(80,426 posts)
73. There are not enough jails in the world to jail every woman who has
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:05 PM
Jul 2023

hidden a dead fetus. I remember what it was like before abortions were legal.
It was mind blowing.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
113. A bit
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:50 PM
Jul 2023

over the top. And guess what, it's against the law to "personally handle" a corpse. Period. How many people have burned grandma in the back yard after she dies? And don't say, that's different. It's not.

Irish_Dem

(80,426 posts)
74. If it is such an earth shattering moral issue why aren't males being jailed?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:07 PM
Jul 2023

It takes two to tango.

Why do the men get off Scott free and the women go to jail?

How moral is that?

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
121. Pretty sure
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:15 PM
Jul 2023

in this case the male isn't the one who burned a dead baby. I'm going to go out on a limb and say if the father were involved, he would be arrested too. It's clear you aren't fond of males. I will agree there should be shared responsibility for a child. But to call for the father of a baby to be jailed too when you have no idea if the father even knew of the pregnancy let alone helped "get rid" of it. And since there was an investigation, and the mom and the girl were busted but don't appear to be claiming there was a male involved, I have to assume they were they only ones involved until some facts present that say otherwise. Unless now you'd want to try and convince me that the investigators are just protecting the male.

snowybirdie

(6,610 posts)
64. Please read facts
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 12:57 PM
Jul 2023

I'm a very strong supporter of abortion rights. However, this young woman aborted a 30 week fetus. That is well beyond the acceptable timing of previous abortions. I have twin grandsons who survived after early birth at 29 weeks. We are thankful.
This woman waited too long and paid a price for burying and digging up a dead child. Not for an abortion. These types of aberrational stories give the other side ammunition to fight us.

Irish_Dem

(80,426 posts)
69. Men are half the pregnancy equation. Why aren't they going to jail too?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:01 PM
Jul 2023

Nope, men get congratulated for being "real men" while the pregnant women goes to jail.

Warpy

(114,507 posts)
72. So they wanted her to hold a funeral or what?
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:03 PM
Jul 2023

The girl is lucky in a way, the charge could be manslaughter since 24 weeks is considered the age of viability. I suppose without an intact fetus/induced birth to autopsy, they couldn't determine if it had been born alive and had taken a breath or not. My best guess says not.

Meanwhile, the man who did it to her skates away without consequences, undoubtedly impregnating other young women because he doesn't like condoms.

In any case, the way the evidence was obtained is a clear violation of the Fourth Amendment unless those cops had a warrant to do so.

Fucking men and their religions: male gods, male officiants, lots of insane rules aimed at controlling womens' bodies.

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
75. "a clear violation of the Fourth Amendment unless those cops had a warrant"
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:09 PM
Jul 2023

Well, yes, and the prosecution was a clear violation of what her rights would have been under Roe unless it wasn't.

Which... it wasn't.

Pretty sure any defense attorney, even a public defender, would have wanted to see the warrant issued to Facebook, which has an entire department that does nothing but subpoena and warrant compliance all day.

But why make accusations like that, when it takes about five seconds to find the answer:

https://www.npr.org/2022/08/12/1117092169/nebraska-cops-used-facebook-messages-to-investigate-an-alleged-illegal-abortion

Police in Norfolk, Neb., had been investigating the woman, Jessica Burgess, and her daughter, Celeste Burgess, for allegedly mishandling the fetal remains of what they'd told police was Celeste's stillbirth in late April. They faced charges of concealing a death and disposing of human remains illegally.

But in mid-June, police also sent a warrant to Facebook
requesting the Burgess' private messages. Authorities say those conversations showed the pregnancy had been aborted, not miscarried as the two had said.


Warpy

(114,507 posts)
83. Actually, it did violate Roe
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:30 PM
Jul 2023

because it was so late. The cutoff for viability is 24 weeks and she was supposedly 28 weeks pregnant. That means the fetus could have survived outside her body and that, I suppose, is why they're all so upset over it.

After 24 weeks, a physician assisted delivery of any type, and some are induced with mifepristone, is considered a premature birth and all efforts are made to preserve the life of any who draw breath.

Roe was very clear on a pre viability cutoff period for routine abortion. After viability, the state had a vested interest in preserving the lives of both the mother and the fetus.

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
78. This is just the beginning of the Riech wing oppression of women!
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:16 PM
Jul 2023

It's disturbing, disgusting, and get ready for these slobs, are going to make our lives a living HELL.

NickB79

(20,281 posts)
85. She aborted an apparently healthy fetus in the 3rd trimester
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 01:35 PM
Jul 2023

If it had been delivered in a hospital, there would have been a good chance it would have survived.

And, the state law she was charged under was in effect pre-Dobbs, when Roe was still law. If Roe was still law today, she'd have faced the same charges.

I'd wager that a majority of Americans today, if polled, would agree with this verdict. Including a sizeable number of Democrats.

maxsolomon

(38,408 posts)
96. Simply amazing the knee-jerk reactions to this story.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:03 PM
Jul 2023

Few posting in reaction are reading the salient details. 29 weeks. 3rd trimester.

It's been the same every time this story has been in GD, and I think this may be the 4th OP about it.

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
153. Pregnancy is 40+ weeks...
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 08:46 AM
Jul 2023

Some people can get there and not know how far along they are, or that they were even pregnant.

Would I get an Abortion, I don't know, but all of this "people knee-jerk reaction" talk is just that. You don't know what her circumstances are, who's the father? What the factors are that she didn't want to bring that pregnancy to term.

If we start deciding it's okay who's a good girl and who's the bad girl, were doomed.

maxsolomon

(38,408 posts)
177. It was illegal in the state prior to Dobbs being overturned. It's illegal in most states.
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 10:29 AM
Jul 2023

Third trimester is considered viability. She was convicted of illegally disposing of the body, not the abortion itself.

The knee-jerk reactions are from people who did not bother to read the details.

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
178. Abortion being illegal gives the State ownership of the woman's uterus.
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 12:31 PM
Jul 2023

Medical services are between a person and their physician.

When does the man go to prison for getting a women pregnant without a contract to do so?

Yes, I'm a woman with two children, married for almost 30 years, and have never had an abortion, BUT if I had a pregnancy I didn't want, then I should be able to end it! It's my body! Giving birth is the hardest thing I've ever had to do after raising my children.

No one should have to put their body and mind through it unless they want to.

Just because a group of men and I'm including Coney-Barrett, because she is subservient to her husband and religion, OVERTURNED LAW for their benefactors does not make it right.

maxsolomon

(38,408 posts)
179. You want abortion legal until the day of birth?
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 12:37 PM
Jul 2023

You want a law that says it is a crime to impregnate a woman without a pre-existing contract?

Good luck with these priorities.

There was no Physician involved. The abortion was carried out with drugs outside of a clinic. This case has nothing to do with the changes to laws occuring after Dobbs.

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
181. I did not say I want... if abortion was legal and not stigmatized women wouldn't act desperately.
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 12:48 PM
Jul 2023

You say this happened when it was legal, but obviously this person was desperate, without options to seek professional help...all because the religious fascist echo machine working against women daily.

Abortion needs to be legal and without threat of harm or community shame so people can make a safe and rational choice.

Why shouldn't men be responsible for something? If they can impregnate a women, then they should provide the contraception or contract to pay.

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
183. I will tell you this...
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 09:27 PM
Jul 2023

I am not a physician.
I believe abortion is about the women's body, and should be conducted by a physician.

I'M NOT IN NEED OF AN ABORTION IN MY LIFE RIGHT NOW, but if I ever need one, I would prefer care by a doctor familiar with womens' health and procedures.

If this means that an abortion takes place at the end of term, then that is a decision that is made by a doctor and their patient. I'm sure it is not entered in lightly by either party.

If you are so worried about the babies' lives, then advocating for the poor, hungry, and homeless families would be a great place to start.


Abolishinist

(2,911 posts)
184. First of all, she was not having any health problems, nor did
Tue Jul 25, 2023, 07:27 PM
Jul 2023

she seek advice from a physician. She decided to end her pregnancy on her own, and it's even possible the 'baby' was alive outside of her womb for a time. And as she is the one in the relationship with the ability to conceive, perhaps SHE should have insisted that her 'partner' wear a condom.

But at least, after texting her mother "Remember, we burn the evidence", several minutes later she said "I will finally be able to wear jeans".

And as far as your non-sequitur regarding babies' lives and advocating for the poor, hungry, and homeless, we've been giving for years. A week ago we sent $1,000 to our local Jacobs and Cushman Food Bank, and earlier in the month $500 to Doctors Without Borders along with $1,000 to PETA (we like animals as well).

Bluethroughu

(7,215 posts)
185. Thanks for supporting great causes.
Wed Jul 26, 2023, 12:57 AM
Jul 2023

I support patients and Dr's having privacy to make a sound medical decision. As far as Her having to convince a man to use protection, maybe the MAN wouldn't. Maybe, we don't know her circumstances.

Like I said before, if access and unstigmatized womens' healthcare was easily available, we'd have less bad decisions and better outcomes for all involved.

Sympthsical

(10,904 posts)
98. Yeah, I didn't know the details of this story
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:14 PM
Jul 2023

Saw headlines and posts floating around and thought, "That's some shit. What post-Dobbs hell is this?"

Then I actually read the story.

Welp. That was nowhere near what was advertised.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
114. Anyone
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:57 PM
Jul 2023

unclear how the country got to where it is now? Thread after thread of smack talking MAGA for being dumb as a box of rocks and only believing headlines and mis-information. Then Wa-La, same thing. Outrage over a headline without bothering to get the actual facts.

stopdiggin

(15,182 posts)
133. +1. people hate it when I point to the 'mirror image'
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 05:25 PM
Jul 2023

we seem more than eager to recreate over here on 'this' side of the aisle.

Short on facts? No matter. 'Furious' anyway. Because - something!

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Sympthsical

(10,904 posts)
159. My favorite this week by far
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 10:30 AM
Jul 2023

Outrage over a movie. Outrage over a country song. Like just on and on going on two weeks for the movie and a full week for the song. I do not care, but the amount of ink being spilled. Squid should be out protesting.

And then.

"Look at those stupid idiots mad about Barbie!"

It's like . . . are we vampires? Are there no mirrors in the house? Should I conceal the family silver?

I just don't understand why self-awareness is not a thing in so many adults. How is it that bad?

stopdiggin

(15,182 posts)
161. it's absolute knee-jerk tribalism
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 11:09 AM
Jul 2023

and I have no idea why we have so much trouble 'seeing' our own behavior (and prejudices) ....

Abolishinist

(2,911 posts)
173. I notice that most who disagree with the outcome,
Sun Jul 23, 2023, 04:31 PM
Jul 2023

for some reason aren't willing/able to enter into a rational discussion about the case.

Thanks to you, those in this sub-thread, and others who pointed this out, unfortunately to no avail.

Instead, the court officer, only doing his job, is referred to as a big fat smug white man, others believe the one who impregnated her should go to jail as well, that this would be a great campaign ad for Dems (I can't wait to see how THAT would turn out), etc. etc.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
116. May
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:59 PM
Jul 2023

I suggest you do a little more research and read the whole story before you go tossing around Nazi Germany and Mussolini.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
106. She illegally aborted in the THIRD trimester when her baby was viable. THEN
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:35 PM
Jul 2023

Last edited Fri Jul 21, 2023, 03:08 PM - Edit history (1)

she illegally disposed of the body.

Over most of the planet, she'd be arrested, and that includes most advanced European nations, most of which have more restrictive abortion laws than Roe was. In NY she got 90 days, not for ending the new, completely helpless life after viability, but for burning his or her tiny body.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

Yeah, tell THAT to tRump. We'll never know how many late abortions he paid for, and perhaps coerced.

wendyb-NC

(4,639 posts)
135. I was drawn in by the headline
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 07:01 PM
Jul 2023

I will try to verify in the future, by getting the whole story, not just react to the Headlines. This is a very different situation. It stands to reason that she was charged and spent time in jail.

When I read it, I assumed she was less than 12 weeks pregnant, when medication abortions are used. The idea of throwing a person in jail for a 12 week abortion, is outrageous, in its cruelty.

Thank you, for pointing out the truth.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
137. Me too, and agree. Then realized we'd seen this story before.
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 07:10 PM
Jul 2023

Most people on that thread were not at all sympathetic to her/their illegally aborting a viable fetus/baby long after it would also have been illegal under Roe.

Farmer-Rick

(12,533 posts)
103. Hmm, the rigid, inflexible damnation of all abortion
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:32 PM
Jul 2023

With Draconian abusive laws used to enforce such religious beliefs, maybe a cause of this kind of behavior.

First, it keeps scared pregnant girls afraid of finding out for sure if they are pregnant for fear of draconian and abusive consequences. This prevents many young girls from preparing to leave forced birth states or take action to prevent the unwanted birth.

Second, once facing the fact of their pregnancy, and doing research, the women realize a lot more resources and help will be required to prevent this birth. More resources and help than most young women have in reality and would not be required if not for these forced birth laws.

Third, these forced birth laws ensure all actions to end the pregnancy must be hidden and done in secret just like in the 1950s and further delays taking action to prevent a birth.

So more and more girls will be having later and later abortions thanks to forced birth laws. It won't ever, ever stop women from getting abortions but it will make life miserable for women and children in red states.

At 28 weeks, this fetus had a 80 percent chance of living but only about a 10 percent chance of ever being healthy. We can partially blame the forced birth religious zealots, for turning dogma into law, for these consequences.

RANDYWILDMAN

(3,139 posts)
107. privacy violation ???????
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:36 PM
Jul 2023

F, big brother for sure


Could have been my daughter and my mother was born in fremont, that just sucks and thanks Supreme court, you entitled assholes

yankee87

(2,785 posts)
110. Next up Ohio
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 02:44 PM
Jul 2023

Trying to do this in Ohio. I’m a father, grandfather and husband and I couldn’t be more pissed off and willing to help any way I can.

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
136. No Such Thing
Fri Jul 21, 2023, 07:05 PM
Jul 2023

Anything on the internet isn't really private. Unless you are using TOR and a complete fake identity it's all traceable.

KarenS

(5,050 posts)
155. Libertarians don't care until
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 09:09 AM
Jul 2023

it affects them directly. Then they do what they want to do because the rules aren't for them.

617Blue

(2,236 posts)
156. They care about "political correctness"
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 09:17 AM
Jul 2023

they want to be able to smoke in restaurants and refer to people by whatever disparaging labels they choose.

Actual authoritarianism doesn't bother them. Not a peep about fundamentalist "Christians" shoving their warped an insane worldview down everyone's throats.

orangecrush

(29,410 posts)
157. Apparently the cops read the messages
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 09:18 AM
Jul 2023


And THEN GOT A WARRANT SO THEY COULD USE THEM AS EVIDENCE.

What Judge Bozo approved this?

So apparently Facebooks algorithm uses "abortion" and "miscarriage" as alert trigger words, and then hands messages over to LE without a warrant?

WTAFF?

GoodRaisin

(10,814 posts)
160. This image should be used in campaigns across the country against all Republicans.
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 10:45 AM
Jul 2023

“Is this what the people really want?” Terrorizing women and girls with prison? People, this is a party of assholes - trying to turn the United States into a shithole country.

Fuck this party of assholes and their religious bullshit they are trying to push down our throats.

GoodRaisin

(10,814 posts)
169. It has nothing to do with the court officer. He's just doing his job.
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 05:39 PM
Jul 2023

It’s about the law makers. Hopefully most people who look at this picture are smart enough to discern what that image is about.

Eliot Rosewater

(34,282 posts)
171. They want to decide who you Women have sex with and many of them want you dead if
Sun Jul 23, 2023, 02:47 PM
Jul 2023

you disobey.

Some of us said this YEARS ago but people fucked around anyway in 2016.

akbacchus_BC

(5,827 posts)
176. This is so sad. Look at the terror on that child's face. What the eff is going on in the US?
Mon Jul 24, 2023, 02:49 AM
Jul 2023

It is so sad and ugly to see how quickly the US is regressing under rethuglicans. Poor baby, my heart goes out to you and all the other babies who are victims of thugs.

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