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RandySF

(84,324 posts)
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 01:00 AM Jul 2023

Professional dancer stabbed to death for voguing shirtless with pals at Brooklyn gas station

A professional dancer voguing at a Brooklyn gas station after a trip to the Jersey Shore with his friends was stabbed to death during a confrontation Saturday night with a group of Muslim men who said the victim’s impromptu performance offended their faith, witnesses and friends told the Daily News.

O’Shea Sibley, 28, a professional dancer who has performed at Lincoln Center as part of an all-queer dance group, was blasting music and dancing with his pals at the Midwood Mobil station on Coney Island Ave and Avenue P just after 11 p.m. when their antics drew homophobic protests from a group of men nearby, authorities and witnesses said.
That’s when a group of men exiting the Mobil station started harassing the 28-year-old victim, clad in pink swim trunks, and his pals, according to Summy Ullah, 32, who witnessed the argument and slaying.

“They were saying, ‘Oh, we’re Muslim, so don’t do this in front of me,’” said Ullah. “From that I think it looks like a hate crime.

“Nothing else was going on. They were only dancing,” he added. “This guy was dancing in underwear and the suspect was like ‘Why are you dancing in your underwear?’”



https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/nyc-crime/ny-man-fatally-stabbed-brooklyn-fight-gas-station-20230730-nkyx7enjqzcxhpv3bfp3iak2vm-story.html

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Professional dancer stabbed to death for voguing shirtless with pals at Brooklyn gas station (Original Post) RandySF Jul 2023 OP
What a horrible loss. I hope they catch the murderer. chowder66 Jul 2023 #1
I normally have little sympathy for anyone dancing almost... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #2
He was shirtless, not naked. RandySF Jul 2023 #5
Close enough to near naked-- he was described as wearing... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #7
What? Do you avoid beaches because of almost naked people in swim trunks NoRethugFriends Jul 2023 #19
No, but I avoid gas stations and shopping malls that encourage... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #20
Wtf what is wrong with pink swim trunks obamanut2012 Jul 2023 #22
Nothing, except maybe missing the point of the story. TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #23
What is the "point of the story" in your view? Arazi Jul 2023 #26
Pretty much mine, too. So why the obsession with my largely... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #27
Why make those comments? They *are* irrelevant Arazi Jul 2023 #29
Why make any comments at all, then. Reports do say that the victim... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #30
Are pink shorts less cool "to bounce around in" then blue shorts? Tom Rinaldo Jul 2023 #34
Maybe, but wasn't that the idea? Dancing in pink in front of a... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #35
You just cannot say you shouldn't have said that and apologize obamanut2012 Jul 2023 #36
I didn't miss teh point of teh story, and I don't think pink is "girly" or "gay" obamanut2012 Jul 2023 #37
offended their faith? what about the faith of the guy who was murdered? oh, right..... n t msongs Jul 2023 #3
With this SCOTUS... Yavin4 Jul 2023 #4
Our community needs to be armed vercetti2021 Jul 2023 #6
I don't LittleGirl Jul 2023 #10
Why aren't you getting in your car and leaving? lame54 Jul 2023 #8
short shirtless guy tried to get his group to leave. He claps his hands at them, grabs pink shorts BlueWaveNeverEnd Jul 2023 #14
No - the men "exiting the Mobil station " should have kept exiting lame54 Jul 2023 #33
"offended their faith" Skittles Jul 2023 #9
THIS!!☝️ onetexan Jul 2023 #12
Exactly! 2naSalit Jul 2023 #18
The figures looked more or less human. And they were engaged in religion. GoneOffShore Jul 2023 #11
i watched the entire video. shortest guy of shirtless group tried and tried to get pink shorts to BlueWaveNeverEnd Jul 2023 #13
I mean he was basically asking to br murdered! edisdead Jul 2023 #39
So the murderer said he did want to see the pink shorts guy, but then he videotapes him? SunSeeker Jul 2023 #15
Hmmm... Chicago1980 Jul 2023 #16
It depends RandySF Jul 2023 #17
If you can't be drunk AND stupid in Brooklyn, is this really America? Mopar151 Jul 2023 #21
So if this isn't about religion edhopper Jul 2023 #24
Amen! edisdead Jul 2023 #40
Sickening. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #25
If only religion could be restricted to church and homes only. LiberalFighter Jul 2023 #28
How about minding your own business, you psychotic dickheads? nt Carlitos Brigante Jul 2023 #31
The fact that organized religion is still so popular redqueen Jul 2023 #32
So true Mysterian Jul 2023 #38

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
2. I normally have little sympathy for anyone dancing almost...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 01:22 AM
Jul 2023

naked in a gas station, but it is not a cause for death. Complain all you want, but don't hurt.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
7. Close enough to near naked-- he was described as wearing...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 01:39 AM
Jul 2023

swim trunks.

But even pink ones are no reason to kill him.

Arazi

(8,887 posts)
26. What is the "point of the story" in your view?
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 09:18 AM
Jul 2023

I see a murder done by a religious fanatic.

You?

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
27. Pretty much mine, too. So why the obsession with my largely...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 09:52 AM
Jul 2023

irrelevant comments?

Some people seem to think my comments about him dancing around in pink bath shorts is worse than stabbing him.

And, btw, who started the fight in the first place? The video and reports seem to be vague about that.

Arazi

(8,887 posts)
29. Why make those comments? They *are* irrelevant
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 10:12 AM
Jul 2023

And seem to be placing (some? All?) blame on the pro dancer instead of the religious fanatic/murderer.

Furthermore, why even go there asking “who started the fight?”

Seems like you’re trying to find (another?) way to assign (some? All?) blame to the murdered dude.

Pro dancer dancing in public parking lot is stabbed to death by religious fanatic.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
30. Why make any comments at all, then. Reports do say that the victim...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 10:48 AM
Jul 2023

had to be held back before the stabbing, so it seems that he may have pissed the killer.

No way, of course, never interfere with the meme of a brave homosexual fighting against homophobic rabble, even if he started it. Which we do not know

I don't know exactly what happened, and neither does anyone else, even some who were there. So any judgements, except that murder is not good, are misleading and born of prior prejudice. My minor initial judgement was that bouncing around in pink shorts in a gas station is about as cool as bouncing around in pink shorts in a Costco.

Tom Rinaldo

(23,187 posts)
34. Are pink shorts less cool "to bounce around in" then blue shorts?
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:06 PM
Jul 2023

The setting may make certain dress or behavior inappropriate but the color only matters because of homophobia. Pink probably was more likely to inflame homophones and elevate the likelihood of violence in that encounter, but that is on the assailants.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
35. Maybe, but wasn't that the idea? Dancing in pink in front of a...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:17 PM
Jul 2023

bunch of homophobic Arabs is just a choice, now? How about he shows up like that in front of a judge? Or your relatives at Thanksgiving dinner?

Just making a statement?

Nobody "asks" to be stabbed to death, but reasonable people know when to walk away.

obamanut2012

(29,369 posts)
36. You just cannot say you shouldn't have said that and apologize
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:31 PM
Jul 2023

You need to examine yourself because of your refusal to do so.

It is a very, very bad look for you.

obamanut2012

(29,369 posts)
37. I didn't miss teh point of teh story, and I don't think pink is "girly" or "gay"
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:32 PM
Jul 2023

Why do you?

Nor do I think a man wearing pink makes him a target.

msongs

(73,755 posts)
3. offended their faith? what about the faith of the guy who was murdered? oh, right..... n t
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 01:23 AM
Jul 2023
 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
6. Our community needs to be armed
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 01:33 AM
Jul 2023

Doesn't matter the religion. All these fuckere want us dead. Christians, Catholics, Muslims. All want us fucking dead.

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,259 posts)
14. short shirtless guy tried to get his group to leave. He claps his hands at them, grabs pink shorts
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 03:19 AM
Jul 2023

by the hand, tries to drag him away from the argument.

GoneOffShore

(18,021 posts)
11. The figures looked more or less human. And they were engaged in religion.
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:51 AM
Jul 2023

You could tell by the knives (it's not murder if you do it for a god).
― Terry Pratchett, Small Gods

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,259 posts)
13. i watched the entire video. shortest guy of shirtless group tried and tried to get pink shorts to
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 03:18 AM
Jul 2023

back away from the Muslim group. Pink shorts continued to engage with them. Finally shirtless group backs off and returned to their vehicle. Most of the Muslim men reenter the store. Stabber guy (guy I assume does the stabbing) continues to film the shirtless group. Then pink shorts returned for more engagement with the guy filming. Pink shorts and stabber engaged again off camera...it's hard to see what exactly happened.

SunSeeker

(58,283 posts)
15. So the murderer said he did want to see the pink shorts guy, but then he videotapes him?
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 03:35 AM
Jul 2023

Sounds like he very much did want to see that.

Chicago1980

(1,968 posts)
16. Hmmm...
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 03:46 AM
Jul 2023

Will conservative "christian" (MAGA's) and the klan alike, condemn or commend?

Will they support the Muslim men or set up a defense fund like it were somebody who could shoot someone in the middle of 5th Avenue?

Just curious I guess...

RandySF

(84,324 posts)
17. It depends
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 04:05 AM
Jul 2023

MAGA will condemn the murder if the perp is Muslim. But they will find a way to justify a killing committed by a Christian.

Mopar151

(10,348 posts)
21. If you can't be drunk AND stupid in Brooklyn, is this really America?
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 08:12 AM
Jul 2023

Furthering the idea that Baptists and Sunni are are basically the same.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
24. So if this isn't about religion
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 09:11 AM
Jul 2023

what is it about. Because every time I or someone comments on a barbaric act perpetrated by a Muslim or Christian in the name of their religion, including State executions for blasphemy, I am told I am being offensive to believers and "it's not about religion".

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
32. The fact that organized religion is still so popular
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 11:44 AM
Jul 2023

is embarrassing. Our intellectual evolution is held back by these stone age superstitions.

Mysterian

(6,486 posts)
38. So true
Mon Jul 31, 2023, 02:35 PM
Jul 2023

Endless wars, violence, persecution and suffering caused by belief in insane superstitions.

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