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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWOW!!! this Broadwell woman is a piece of work read what else she was doing
She is a little nutty if you ask me http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505266_162-57549505/sources-paula-broadwell-warned-gen-allen-against-seductress-jill-kelley/
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(52,286 posts)HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)MineralMan
(146,324 posts)She's a grown woman with goals she's trying to achieve. Not good goals, but goals nevertheless. You might want to edit your title. Someone's sure to alert on it, and rightly so.
cali
(114,904 posts)LancetChick
(272 posts)As a woman myself, I have that moral right. "Chick" is not in the least derogatory.
Jaysus Joe, even the diabetic community is up in arms over the term "diabetic" (offensive) vs. "person with diabetes" (politically correct). I don't give a shit, I am a DIABETIC, and if you have diabetes too, I consider you a diabetic too.
There are very offensive words that should never be used, of course, but if that's what you are, YOU should get to decide, not your cyber neighbor.
cali
(114,904 posts)duh. learn something- anything- about language, dear.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)LancetChick
(272 posts)And a fine example of the pot calling the kettle black.
cali
(114,904 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I think you must be a groovy chick LancetChick!
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)related words: skirt, doll, dame, bird
Since you are advocating learning about language then you also know that any word, with the wrong tone of voice can be condescending, rude, mean, taken differently....
"Thank you", depending on the tone of voice and context, means a million different things. Should we ban that?
I'm OK with you not liking "chick" but the way you put people down is much more offensive than the word itself.
By the way, "Hip Chicks do Wine" is a very popular wine store up in Portland. Owned by women. Hip. Nobody is offended by the word "chick" when they drive by their sign.
Mme. Defarge
(8,037 posts)I proudly align myself with Chicks with Sticks. Mais naturellement!
snooper2
(30,151 posts)are dude and dudette still allowed?
Of course I used dude as general neutral will that get me in trouble as well?
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)women as weak, shrinking violets who are ready to pass out at the use of a meaningless word. I will NOT give that kind of power of anyone, and I wish those who are constantly in a state of outrage over words would make it clear, they speak for themselves only and not for a majority of women who have more important things to worry about.
cali
(114,904 posts)And since when is speaking out, being a shrinking violet?
bamacrat
(3,867 posts)While I haven't used the word chick to describe a woman in a while, mainly because I never really did. But who the fuck cares if a woman is referred to as a chick. It used to be a compliment, it used to be applied to only pretty women....wtf is wrong with that? I mean shit DU, there are a lot of other things to get all offended and high and mighty about other than someone calling a woman a chick. Get over it. There are plenty of derogatory words for women and people in general, chick isn't one of them.
Thank you LancetChick for not being so uppity and easily offended.
AsahinaKimi
(20,776 posts)that no one caught "dear" in his slam down.. but yeah I totally agree with you. Chick doesn't offend me, but calling a woman "dear" is very condescending.
I wish there was something we could do about the PC Word Police disrupting threads because they get personally offended at every day language.
Maybe they need their own Safe Haven? Oh, wait... They already do. Never mind.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)rights, but the word 'chick' is the very least of my concerns. Women, contrary to the impression people might get here from a few people, are extremely strong people and are not, and I find it insulting as a woman to keep pushing this impression, the weak, shrinking violets those who constantly try to paint them that way with this nonsensical focus on trivia. I rarely see them speak about the real problems women are facing around the world though.
WI_DEM
(33,497 posts)DURHAM D
(32,611 posts)that the Khawam family are professional grifters.
HooptieWagon
(17,064 posts)Unfortunately, she had her own skeletons in the closet.
atreides1
(16,087 posts)She would have been better off voicing her concerns to Mrs. Petraeus, and leaving it at that. But her heart was in the right place, she just wasn't using her brain this time!
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TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)sadbear
(4,340 posts)Get off your high horses.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,806 posts)You do know that "chick" is generally considered to a be sexist term? If you didn't before, you do now. Please change your thread title.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)don't you just want to snuggle wuggle wuggle this little guy, or girl...(not sure of sex from picture) Actually, Dirty Jobs had an episode on chick sexing, all manual
RC
(25,592 posts)How do you feel about "female"? That defines a persons sex also.
And then there are our first names. Most of us have gender identifiable first names. You know like Nancy, Betty, Mary, Michelle, Joyce...
Or for the men, George, Leroy, Clarance, Warren, David...
Are these names being sexist also?
dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)I have to go to Portland in 10 days on business...i'll know where to go! Thanks!
RC
(25,592 posts)Way to derail your own subject of the OP. You used a word on the Word Police's no-no list, got them all riled up again.
Nothing else will exist in this thread now, except for the outrage of that oh so naughty and disgusting word.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)stop making identity politics jesus cry!
WORDSSSSSS1!!!!!!!!!1111
MineralMan
(146,324 posts)Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)It's all good, chick...I don't understand what the fuss is all about. As i said, My gf's and I --all liberal feminists--call each other chick.
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)not okay for guys to do it". Whatever, I'm not a word police person for the most part.
dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)but I've got a mouth like a truck driver, or at least my language is peppered with expletives. Its nbd here in NY (we have it down to a fucking science) but I had to really watch it when I lived in California. People's jaws dropped! After a while colleagues would just say to anyone unfamiliar with my colorful language "she's from NY" and people would laugh and say "oh, okay".
That's not an equivalent, I know, but I was pointing out my "meh" attitude about words for the most part.
Warpy
(111,318 posts)with considerable trepidation. I shouldn't have worried, nurses are garbage mouths all over the country.
I thanked the first nurse who dropped the f-bomb in front of me, several in rapid succession, in fact, and told her now I could relax.
dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)But I am laughing because it seems NM has gotten to you...you went 3 sentences without using one vulgarity.
Warpy
(111,318 posts)However, when provoked, I can peel paint off a wall. In fact, I once made a longshoreman blush and tell me that's the worst thing he'd ever heard out of anybody's mouth.
Amaril
(1,267 posts)"Chick" has been a part of my lexicon for years, and "chica" is a term of endearment that I use when addressing my closest female friends.
Never knew I was being sexist against my own sex by doing so.
Warpy
(111,318 posts)In fact they seem to hate most words.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)monmouth3
(3,871 posts)in her hand. Now, she knew reporters, photographers were out there, she purposely stood there.
Gin
(7,212 posts)one drinking wine and the other looking out the window.....again......knowing the cameras are waiting for them.
Poser 1 and Poser 2
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)monmouth3
(3,871 posts)datasuspect
(26,591 posts)plus, we got a fresh shipment of Dr. Ambrosius T. Claywater's mineral essence, it helps to stifle the "vapors" should you get them.
plus they wake you up if you have fainted from faux outrage.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)Not too political is he?
RC
(25,592 posts)"bird". That what the British use. I don't think that is on the PC Word List yet.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)Now the people who don't give a shit about the subject otherwise can move on to other things to get angry about.
Mme. Defarge
(8,037 posts)Just kidding.