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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHey Red State DUers!! A message for y'all!
Gerrymandering
Fox News
The Right Wing
Red State Houses
Koch Brothers
Pat Buchanan
Super PACS
Voter Suppression
Poll Taxes
Bad Polling
Corporate Media Lying to you
Red School Boards
"Papers Please?"
These are the battles you Democrats in red states are fighting just to get or keep the ability to vote. You are fighting every day for the things many of us in the blue states take for granted. We get mad at your states but we are not mad at you. You are fighting the good fight. You are the battleground states. Your right to vote is the battleground itself.
I have your back. The people who have recced and commented below have your back. Please understand that anger at the policies and laws from the people in the above list is not anger at you. We know where you stand. Our hearts ache for you when we see your rights being stripped away. It is hard to understand how these things can happen in the United States and to our compatriots. We know it must make you feel like total crap to wake up in the morning under that authoritarian rule.
I promise in the future to always try to remember to make sure I state who I am really angry at in my posts. I am not mad at Florida. I am mad at Florida Republicans. I do not think Mississippians are all stupid. I think Mississippi Republicans are a bit dim. I will do my best to not be a lazy typer and take the time to be more careful how I phrase things.
Our Southern and Midwest DU Family should not come in here and be criticized and put down. See that list up above? Those people are already doing that EVERY minute of EVERY day. Our Red State DUers should come in here for family, for support, for ideas and most importantly, they should know that we have their backs. And having someone's back means you aren't constantly criticizing them because of where they live.
Besides, those Southern Drawls are so cute!
yesphan
(1,604 posts)very much !
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I know we've been plenty mad about Ohio in here. You guys did an amazing job of Getting out the Vote there!
yesphan
(1,604 posts)I can't speak for Ohio, but I can assure you that it does indeed hurt to be a DUer from Oklahoma.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)ancianita
(43,243 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I figured they needed the help more than anyone in my blue state.
Arkansas Granny
(32,265 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)Feel free to call me on it if I slip up!!
The first goal I ever remember having was seeing all 50 states. (I'm at 36 or 37 now) So, at age 8, I started reading about every state in the encyclopedia. Of course I don't remember everything I read (Arkansas has some good crystal caves, if I recall) it left me with a real interest in accents, different foods (grits? I was very curious to eat "a grit" when my Texan neighbor offered me some in 7th grade).
So, I have a real love for our country and its people.
Care Acutely
(1,370 posts)thanks for the awesome post!
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)His family is from Kansas.
Tikki
(15,095 posts)Very kind people to this little lost couple from the Pacific NorthWest...
The Tikkis
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)During all my car trip miles through the South I never met a mean person, never had a bad experience. The peeps were awesome.
Liberalynn
(7,549 posts)Avalux
(35,015 posts)I still have my yankee accent though, even after living in Texas for a very long time. My roots run deep.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)If there was a national law against gerrymandering then Texas would be half blue already!
MuseRider
(35,176 posts)Actually saying who you are disparaging would be very helpful and stop telling us to move.
You all in true blue states who have never lived in a very red state have little idea what it is like here. You all work so hard to keep your state blue, we work 3x that hard to keep our school board from dropping science for the bible and school boards are only one tiny part of the whole.
I have tons of respect for your states for keeping the country from falling into what we here in Kansas are facing. Keep up the good work but please remember that we rarely see or hear from national candidates, the national parties rarely offer us money or help, we can't find enough democrats to run who can afford to pay for it themselves. We are going to be like this for some time as there are few left who are willing or able to run, the party is a shambles.
My state is now fully run by Brownback and the Koch brothers. Don't expect much more than the worst possible outcomes here and please remember that we are here fighting with the only thing we have, our loud but unheard voices and our liberal hearts.
socialindependocrat
(1,372 posts)I think we need a term to identify the idiots that we are blaming
Like CRAF "Conservative Republicans At Fault"
How do we specify who we are talking about here?
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)or taking time to say" Texas Republicans are....." instead of "Texas is..."
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I think the counter argument from people tell you to move is to answer: "You're in a blue state, they don't need you there. You should move here to help change the state to blue."
You're there doing your part already!
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I'll remember that one
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)to differentiate you from the rest
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I have a star now and could have a custom one...but I like the fish. :0)
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I like it too.
I also like Fishbone
Indpndnt
(2,391 posts)The response? I quote, "soory- I'm not stooopid enough to move to a red state..."
barbtries
(31,271 posts)going back to Dean's 50-state strategy. it's time.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)ancianita
(43,243 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I hope everyone's been friendly :0)
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)Tennessee Gal
(6,160 posts)I, for one, truly appreciate your post!
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)And I really appreciate the posts from the South. It actually gives me great piece of mind to see you all are there and fighting!
Blanks
(4,835 posts)Lived in Kansas for 16 years, Louisiana for 2 1/2 years, and have lived in Arkansas for 10 years now.
Honestly, until this election, because of Facebook; I had no idea how many conservatives I'm surrounded by.
I realize now that the loud boisterous bullying ones don't get challenged a lot because most democrats know that they are outnumbered.
I hope that there is more of a national effort by the democrats here for the mid-terms. We will be electing a new governor (the current one is a very popular democrat) and I believe all of our house representatives are republicans now. Blanche Lincoln got kicked out of the senate a couple years ago (barely won the primary). I believe Pryor is still the other so he would be the only congressional democrat from Arkansas right now.
Every political commercial that I saw before the election was for a republican. I expect that since they are tea partiers their record will be easy to attack. We just need good candidates next time around.
Unfortunately I think Mike Ross didn't run in the last election because he wants to be governor in 2014. He's a weasel.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)thought of the lumber and mining company dominance of the area, I was called a Birkenstock wearing, California liberal more often than I could count. btw the people calling me those names were the hard-working and rural poor of the area, who will no doubt vote against their own best interests over and over, because they listen to the lies the politicians tell them and to the churches they go to. It's very sad really.
I also lived in Kansas a couple of years back in the early sixties, so I sympathize with you.
Blanks
(4,835 posts)When I lived in Kansas what struck me the most about it was the obsession with the weather.
It didn't matter what the person did (that you were having a conversation with) for a living; they'd tell you what the weather looked like. If you went to the convenience stor; they'd talk about the weather. I guess all of those generations of being farmers made them respect the weather.
I was there from 1983 to 1999 and politics in the university town didn't bother me too much. I despised Bob Dole when he was running for president, but otherwise there wasn't a lot of politics in my day to day life.
BTW, how about those Wildcats.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)Blanks
(4,835 posts)and back congressional candidates whoever they may be. I don't think it would take much for the whole contingency to turn to blue.
We just didn't see much this time around. The candidates looked kind of old and tired. There should be plenty of state representatives to run for national office.
MynameisBlarney
(2,979 posts)Kindly!
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)MynameisBlarney
(2,979 posts)I'm really liking it here so far.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)Some of these guys will eat you up for lunch if you aren't factual. :0)
MynameisBlarney
(2,979 posts)I may be new here, but I'm not new to forums. I very rarely post things I can't back up, but when I do, I am not ashamed to admit when I'm wrong.
I've been a regular poster on huffpo, crooks and liars, raw story for years...though it's been a long time since I've posted regularly on crooks and liars.
And anyway, I have been in agreement with most of the posts I've read here.
patrice
(47,992 posts)(in red states), but, then, perhaps that's what some posters do get, hence the acid poured upon "stupid" red-staters, gotta be sure that something feels like nothing, after-all, so there's more for "us", whoever that REALLY is.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)democratXX
(52 posts)From an Idaho underdog.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)I was looking at the Senate map...almost the whole Northern Border went blue...except that little bitty bit of Idaho. (And some independent Northeasterners). But we still love ya!
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)march is redder and redder, and KS, for example, has been purchased by the Koch brothers. Many parts of KS are quite beautiful, such a shame what is happening to a nice state. The loss of Kathleen Sebelius as governor really put this state on a far right march. And TPTB wonder why people keep leaving KS, always a WTF to me. KS is usually seen as a joke to the rest of the US. What a shame we have such creepy politicians here and even more of a shame is why the people vote them in.
Blanks
(4,835 posts)and that's what I was doing there for 16 years; trying to get through school.
Joan Finney was elected while I lived there and Bill Graves. Apparently things must have gotten worse after I left. I didn't mind Kansas so much (of course I lived in a university town).
Kansans seem very suspicious of the government and a little more aware of 'brother in law' deals; which seem so common here in the south.
I believe Brownback was a senator when I left, and I just absolutely despised him.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)up. It's gotten so bad here many republicans just run unchallenged. And the moderates have pretty much all been voted out. I'm getting out of here too ... it's gotten so red I don't see a path back. Pockets are OK in the state, but as a whole it's sure red, far far far redder than when I came here. Frankly, it's gotten spooky. Brownback will now get "anything" he wants.
Blanks
(4,835 posts)I expect that it'll swing back again soon.
I feel like if it were made more clear that the republican controlled house held the economy hostage for political gain; they would lose a lot more seats. Probably some governor seats too.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)need to know that. Hopefully, eventually it will ...
Blanks
(4,835 posts)Which was a good move for an overall strategy. However, for those of us in the outposts; one might be justified feeling a bit abandoned.
I hope the resources are available for the mid-terms. I'd really like to see a documentary about the tea party and it's financial backing. I think that would help open eyes.
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)in rural America where church plays a bigger role. The Koch Brothers and their ilk use their money to by the support of the religious. They buy out the media. I do hope the internet brings more news and information than the conservative media.
heaven05
(18,124 posts)+1000
loyalkydem
(1,678 posts)I livein NC now. Swing state most likely in next election
DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)OneGrassRoot
(23,943 posts)barbtries
(31,271 posts)i'm in NC
i don't feel like i belong here though. yet here i am. gotta keep fighting the good fight because it looks like i'll be here for a spell yet.
thank you.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)We get spoiled in California
barbtries
(31,271 posts)home sweet home. it's going to be coming out of the darkness now too. i'm homesick.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Paradise on Earth
(sort of ironic, sort of not)
barbtries
(31,271 posts)which is ironically better than anything i had in CA. i'll have a new career when i get back home and that's on my boss's dime, i cannot complain. also my son is in University here which i never could have managed in CA. what is dirt poor there is managing here, what is barely getting by there is living pretty darn well.
but the election has really soured me on the place. and the summers ("sweats" as i refer to them) suck.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Chapel Hill, Raleigh-Durham and RTP.
Aren't people supposed to be a bit more openminded there?
barbtries
(31,271 posts)and yes, i am in a largely blue area. thankfully.
lisainmilo
(1,625 posts)Those raised in RED state and are RED really do believe all the FAUX crap...and their is no changing their minds, at least my immediate family I have married into. I can show em' Snopes, Factcheck, etc...some family no longer speaking to other family members. Them moneymongers are doing a great job f*ing with the minds of ordinary people.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)came to an agreement. Now, it's just a gut wrenching argument with Fox lies and crap being spewed. I really think the underlying motivation for Murdoch beyond money is to start a civil war in the US. Ordinary people used to often have a sense of balance in life, somehow often about 60 to 70 percent of the country seemed to agree, there was middle ground. Now, that middle ground is being destroyed by Fox News and the like. Frankly, Fox News is a Creature Feature show.
txdemsftw
(461 posts)I live in TX and I absolutely love it here. I love the people, the scenery, the food, the conversation, the weather (yes, even the hot weather!), the lakes, the cities (Austin is my favorite city ever) and the quality of life here.
Stereotypes suck and people need to think before they speak. Please don't bash a state in which you have never even been to..and don't try and act like just because you 'drove through that state one time" or "I knew a guy a long time ago from there" that you know everything, because you don't.
It's just as rude as stereotyping gay people, black people, latino people, white people, etc...it's rude and uncalled for.
....anyway, thank you Don for the post! Bless your heart!
nolabear
(43,850 posts)Any two dimensional view is a limited and limiting one. The realities are complex and interesting and often hard. Thanks for the open heart. We don't promise we won't bruise it but as long as we all keep trying we can overcome and be proud of who we are together.
flygal
(3,231 posts)thanks though!!
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Mira
(22,678 posts)I'll try to recollect this when needed.
And - all joking aside - I like what you wrote and am glad you understand.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)I've left out some of the states, but you all know who you are, battling in the belly of the beast.
Thanks for your courage!
And thanks Don for the appreciation thread. United we stand, divided we fall.
Blue Palasky
(81 posts)I like to think that my age group (under 30) realizes that our time is coming. Even here in south Texas.
onestepforward
(3,691 posts)Much appreciated!
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,189 posts)thanks you.....
felix_numinous
(5,198 posts)but from the inside out?
To all the red state lefties! I'm living in a red state now and get a chance to talk with many Republicans ---I always hope to give them a lot to think about.
Mostly I tell them I think that the 1% owned media is lying to us--and that we should always suspect any group that wants to turn Americans on Americans, while they laugh all the way to the bank....stuff like that.
Thanks for this DonRedwood!
SaveAmerica
(5,342 posts)I've wanted to leave, the slick of hate tries to stick everywhere, but I stayed to make a difference and was able to before this last election. Now NC is home to the majority of your list.
Save us!!
Thanks for understanding us, we're here and we haven't given up!
Ya'll
Z_California
(650 posts)So ditto'd. Love and support to my red state brothers and sisters.
Elwood P Dowd
(11,453 posts)I was born in the south and have lived in southern red states for over 60 years -- the only exception was almost 2 years living in the Washington, DC area. You just have to be careful what you say about politics with people you don't know. With the ones you do know, just keep giving them facts to counter the barrage of propaganda and lies from Fox, Limbaugh, etc., and some will eventually wake the hell up.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)"barrage of propaganda and lies from Fox, Limbaugh, etc., and some will eventually wake the hell up."
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...a Republican hell-hole.
TBF
(36,348 posts)but then I'm originally from the midwest. Sometimes I feel like I'm living in a foreign country down here. Thanks for the support!
LiberalLovinLug
(14,647 posts)It sounds like its just the way it is in the Red States, that everyone is assumed to be a Republican or a right wing Libertarian. Kids just grow up hearing their parents rant on and on inspired by the echoes of Fox News dancing in their heads. I can see how those kids just assume the Republican mantle, even if they are not particularly political. Its a matter of fitting in.
And if your godless liberalism is somehow leaked you would be instantly ostracized as someone who is trying to show off in some way, someone who is inexplicably and purposely going the "wrong way" like Billy in Midnight Express. Because it can't be because you are actually correct on the issues, EVERYONE knows that, so it must be that you are either crazy, or an asshole that is begging for a fight.
Maybe I'm being overly dramatic. Their does always seem to be a healthy wingnut population everywhere though, including where I am, above the 49th. But I can't imagine trying to live immersed in that culture.
eridani
(51,907 posts)My husband and his sister, and our young nephew, visited their father living in Mississippi so that he could meet his grandson before he died. Since both dad and second wife were older and frail, they got in the habit of taking long walks on country roads when the old folks were napping. It was October, so the weather was mild--heat and humidity not such as to make walking unpleasant.
It was a strange experience for them to walk on roads with no shoulders and six foot deep ditches--necessary because clay soil doesn't absorb water very well. What utterly astonished them was that one day, a car stopped and offered them a ride to the homeless shelter in town!
They were caught between being utterly bewildered that people taking a walk would be assumed to be homeless or in some other kind of trouble, and being impressed with the kindness and care immediately offered to strangers.
Maybe nobody is in the habit of walking outdoors because it usually is too hot and humid for that? On 101 in Oregon, if someone is walking along the broad shoulders of the road, drivers will usually assume that they are walking along the road because they want to. No one is going to stop for you unless you are carrying a gas can or have your thumb out. Lots of touring bikes are out during the (relatively) dry season also.
Jamastiene
(38,206 posts)It means a lot when people recognize that we want our states to become more blue, even if we are fighting an uphill battle and often lose that battle in our states. We are still trying as hard as we can. It truly is an uphill battle.