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Jilly_in_VA

(10,081 posts)
Mon Sep 25, 2023, 01:46 PM Sep 2023

Police Further Traumatize Sexual Assault Victims by Turning Them Into Suspects

Sequestered in a small interrogation room, sipping an iced coffee, Nicole Chase was trying to explain just how dysfunctional things had become at Nodine’s Smokehouse Deli and Restaurant, a family-owned place in Canton, Connecticut, that specialized in smokehouse meats and toxic masculinity.

There was the time one of her colleagues came to work high on acid, she said. On a day the restaurant made only $100, a manager closed early and got fired. Her boss, Calvin Nodine, was constantly telling sexist jokes and drinking on the job — even the customers saw it.

Chase thought she’d learned how to handle Nodine’s roving eyes and rude remarks. Until one night in May 2017, after his wife had gone home, when Chase said he pulled her into the men’s room, exposed himself and ordered her to perform oral sex.

Chase reported the incident to police the next day, an awkward, abbreviated interview with a rookie officer in the main lobby of the station as her mother sat next to her. Chase decided to quit that day, and six weeks later, she’d almost given up hope that anything would happen when she was asked to meet with Detective John Colangelo, who was now taking over the case as the lead investigator. She’d never spoken to him before, but he was friendly in a professional way as he ushered her into the interrogation room, listening to her stream-of-consciousness recollections and jotting down contact info for people who might corroborate her story. Chase felt a glimmer of optimism: Maybe her now-ex-boss would face some accountability after all, she thought.

An hour into their videotaped interview, though, Colangelo’s tone and posture subtly shifted. Soon, he was chiding her for interrupting him and getting off-topic. “You know, no one comes and tells us the entire truth,” he told her. “No one.”

https://truthout.org/articles/police-further-traumatize-sexual-assault-victims-by-turning-them-into-suspects/

Women know this almost instinctively, that men, especially cops, won't believe them. That's why we don't report.

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Police Further Traumatize Sexual Assault Victims by Turning Them Into Suspects (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Sep 2023 OP
Every discussion of this Johnny2X2X Sep 2023 #1

Johnny2X2X

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1. Every discussion of this
Mon Sep 25, 2023, 02:10 PM
Sep 2023

Every discussion ends up with people saying, "Well, women do lie about this, it happens all the time." And it does happen occasionally, but for every woman lying about this, there are perhaps dozens who never came forward because this is how they knew it would be received.

We haven't come nearly far enough, this type of treatment of survivors is still far too common.

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