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tenderfoot

(8,982 posts)
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:21 PM Oct 2023

U.S. employees spend $51 daily when they work full-time in office, study says

Employees in the U.S. who have returned to the office full-time are paying a lot to get there, a new study says.

The annual “State of Work” report, conducted by videoconferencing company Owl Labs, found that about 66% of employees nationwide have returned to the office five days a week, or full-time, but spend $51 per day when they work in person.

Researchers found that, on average, people spend:
$16 on lunch
$14 on commuting
$13 on breakfast and coffee
$8 on parking

On average, workers with pets spend $20 more than their counterparts, bringing their daily total to $71.

more: https://ktla.com/news/nationworld/u-s-employees-spend-51-daily-when-they-work-full-time-in-office-study-says/

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U.S. employees spend $51 daily when they work full-time in office, study says (Original Post) tenderfoot Oct 2023 OP
so basically a 12,000 tax paid to oligarchs for the privilege of sitting Voltaire2 Oct 2023 #1
Or you can think of it as supporting eateries and local businesses Calculating Oct 2023 #6
If I thought that 'star$s' and the 1000s of other retail storefronts Voltaire2 Oct 2023 #10
I drive past a dozen or more McDonalds and Starbucks etc. Zeitghost Oct 2023 #52
Ok. I was responding to the assertion Voltaire2 Oct 2023 #53
What if you aren't driving past? What if you are stuck in one area with no time or way to go Autumn Oct 2023 #63
I face that reality regularly Zeitghost Oct 2023 #67
I think there's a bit of difference working in rural areas and working in buildings in town. nt Autumn Oct 2023 #68
Yes there is Zeitghost Oct 2023 #71
Subway/bus: $5-6 round trip. No parking. brooklynite Oct 2023 #2
I Question It Too ProfessorGAC Oct 2023 #3
I don't know. The last few times I met up with friends for lunch at a restaurant... Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #16
But, This Is Average, DAILY Number ProfessorGAC Oct 2023 #17
It seems high to me also, and I live and work in Manhattan! markpkessinger Oct 2023 #39
I eat out every day Horse with no Name Oct 2023 #62
In 30 years of professional work, I never ate lunch in "a restaurant" brooklynite Oct 2023 #19
Anecdote isn't data ExWhoDoesntCare Oct 2023 #21
Fir enough. I can't think of anyone in my Govt organization who "ate in a restaurant". brooklynite Oct 2023 #26
Yup, when I worked in an office I packed every day Amishman Oct 2023 #34
45% have no access to public transportation nt redqueen Oct 2023 #7
Even when a city has it ExWhoDoesntCare Oct 2023 #22
In Brooklyn maybe Trailrider1951 Oct 2023 #12
These overprivileged people in good transit cities ExWhoDoesntCare Oct 2023 #23
New York isn't the entirety of the world. ExWhoDoesntCare Oct 2023 #20
That is also true, I have zero mass transit options Amishman Oct 2023 #35
As a NYCer, I humbly disagree. Yavin4 Oct 2023 #66
Don't have that luxury where I live, unfortunately. Initech Oct 2023 #40
$1.85 one way on the Metro for me, and that's if mahatmakanejeeves Oct 2023 #61
Who spends $29.00 A DAY! On breakfast and lunch? forthemiddle Oct 2023 #4
My company has free coffee, yet everyday, someone will arrive carrying Starbucks. FSogol Oct 2023 #13
Same for me exboyfil Oct 2023 #25
So would you make breakfast and pack a lunch ExWhoDoesntCare Oct 2023 #24
And most aren't privileged to have an option to work at home either..... MichMan Oct 2023 #33
average spending, across the whole country Retrograde Oct 2023 #50
Seems really high Calculating Oct 2023 #5
I think it really depends on where you live spooky3 Oct 2023 #15
I'm guessing it's an average, allowing for both high- and low-cost day work. Torchlight Oct 2023 #41
It sounds like you don't have to pay for child care, tolls, fares, or parking. Mariana Oct 2023 #51
The videoconferencing company would like workers SharonClark Oct 2023 #8
Worked from home full time for 28 months Johnny2X2X Oct 2023 #9
My children have said much the same. hunter Oct 2023 #37
Yeah Johnny2X2X Oct 2023 #42
I'm a federal employee SickOfTheOnePct Oct 2023 #11
I work for a 100% remote company. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #14
Many families already have high speed internet exboyfil Oct 2023 #28
I've been called a radical for this view, but I think high speed internet should be... Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #29
Absolutely!!! hunter Oct 2023 #38
Kind of. That got the ability to deliver the utility to more people, but didn't make ... Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #45
That's easily achievable. hunter Oct 2023 #47
Easy to execute, but the providers who charge us monthly for it would howl!!! Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #48
Add in Daycare and you get a much fuller picture. BadGimp Oct 2023 #18
In theory if you are working from home exboyfil Oct 2023 #27
I work for a 100% remote company and a lot of our parents do utilize daycare. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2023 #31
I think a lot of parents had children at home during Covid. milestogo Oct 2023 #32
Oh my. I've brought screaming babies to physical in-office meetings hunter Oct 2023 #44
And better clothes. Nt Tree Lady Oct 2023 #43
Working from home does save money. milestogo Oct 2023 #30
I spent $26 just on parking yesterday at work. Marius25 Oct 2023 #36
In my 40 year working career, I never spent a dime for parking for work MichMan Oct 2023 #54
Does your job refund you for parking costs ? JI7 Oct 2023 #58
have to admit i'm rather annoyed many of my collegues can work at home Takket Oct 2023 #46
Automobiles are not tools of freedom as advertised on television... hunter Oct 2023 #49
They are if you live in rural areas without mass transit MichMan Oct 2023 #55
Do you choose to live in a rural area or is it a necessity? hunter Oct 2023 #57
Yes I chose it when due to a job offer 30 years ago MichMan Oct 2023 #60
Nobody told you where you should live. Especially not me. hunter Oct 2023 #69
Some people don't like cities Bettie Oct 2023 #64
+1 uponit7771 Oct 2023 #56
I think People like to eat out when they go out JI7 Oct 2023 #59
That is fine but if it is your choice don't complain about how much it costs ripcord Oct 2023 #65
This doesn't even sound kind of right Sympthsical Oct 2023 #70

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
1. so basically a 12,000 tax paid to oligarchs for the privilege of sitting
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:26 PM
Oct 2023

in a shitty open office for 8-12 hours a day.

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
10. If I thought that 'star$s' and the 1000s of other retail storefronts
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:43 PM
Oct 2023

serving office workers were 'small and/or local businesses' I might agree, although I'm fairly certain that the oligarchs are much more concerned about their real estate investments, and it is ridiculous to ask working people to subsidize private enterprise, and finally whatever actually profitable retail business there is has long ago been consumed by the financialization of everything. It's all Starbucks and McDonalds and the rest of the global retail giants.

 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
52. I drive past a dozen or more McDonalds and Starbucks etc.
Thu Oct 12, 2023, 05:52 PM
Oct 2023

And have never been forced to stop and pay for anything, unlike my taxes.

Seems completely voluntary to me.

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
53. Ok. I was responding to the assertion
Thu Oct 12, 2023, 05:56 PM
Oct 2023

that workers have an obligation to support retail businesses.

Autumn

(49,019 posts)
63. What if you aren't driving past? What if you are stuck in one area with no time or way to go
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 09:46 AM
Oct 2023

somewhere else and you need to eat and McDonalds and Starbucks is all that is close by and time allows you to go nowhere else? That's not voluntary.

 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
67. I face that reality regularly
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 11:26 AM
Oct 2023

As I work in rural areas. My solution, for my wallet and my health is brown bagging it. It's really pretty easy, I prep meals for lunch and any dinners for evenings where I know I will be short on time on Sunday. I used to have a bunch of great excuses for why we ate out so much. But they were mostly me being lazy and not planning ahead.

Autumn

(49,019 posts)
68. I think there's a bit of difference working in rural areas and working in buildings in town. nt
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 11:52 AM
Oct 2023
 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
71. Yes there is
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 04:00 PM
Oct 2023

It's much easier to bring your lunch in when you have a fridge and microwave at the office.

ProfessorGAC

(77,276 posts)
3. I Question It Too
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:30 PM
Oct 2023

I'd really like to see how they collected their data.
A $16 lunch, on average? Seems high.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,216 posts)
16. I don't know. The last few times I met up with friends for lunch at a restaurant...
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:56 PM
Oct 2023

the bills for the two of us easily exceeded $30 before tip. And that's without alcohol or dessert. Not exactly gourmet restaurants either. $13-15 dollar lunch entrees and a couple of bucks for iced tea or soda seems pretty common these days. I'm not in a high cost of living area either.

ProfessorGAC

(77,276 posts)
17. But, This Is Average, DAILY Number
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 05:16 PM
Oct 2023

Your description does not sound like you do it daily.
I worked for 43 years. I knew almost nobody over 30 that dined out for lunch every day.
And, I worked a lot in reasonably urban settings, though not all.
I saw people eating leftovers, sandwiches or microwave lunches in lunch rooms or conference rooms or at their desk all the time. When not traveling, I went home for a sandwich or salad 3 or 4 times a week. (Yes, I lived only 9 miles of low traffic volume road from work.)
I question this being a daily average. It just seems too high.
So, does the parking number, as there are MILLIONS of people who work at places with the own parking lot. Cost of parking there is zero.
So, I vet what you're saying, but there are conditions that have to be met by essentially everybody at your number.
The "everybody" is a sticking point.

markpkessinger

(8,935 posts)
39. It seems high to me also, and I live and work in Manhattan!
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 02:57 PM
Oct 2023

I take the subway to work -- $2.90 each way. I typically spend $8-$14 on lunch (not in restaurants). I have no parking expense. And coffee is free at work (I suppose I could choose to get a Starbucks coffee every day, but I don't!) Seems to me that a lot of this "average" is discretionary!

Horse with no Name

(34,246 posts)
62. I eat out every day
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 09:32 AM
Oct 2023

I work a lot of hours and by the time I get home, I am too tired to cook and prepare lunch for the next day.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
19. In 30 years of professional work, I never ate lunch in "a restaurant"
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 05:22 PM
Oct 2023

I got a sandwich or take out or brought something from home.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
26. Fir enough. I can't think of anyone in my Govt organization who "ate in a restaurant".
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:31 PM
Oct 2023

Beyond being expensive, it's time consuming.

FWIW my wife was a Wall Street lawyer who could afford to eat in a restaurant. If she wasn't meeting with a client, she never did.

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
22. Even when a city has it
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:03 PM
Oct 2023

It's often shoddy.

Only a handful of cities have decent public transit.

Trailrider1951

(3,583 posts)
12. In Brooklyn maybe
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:48 PM
Oct 2023

Not in Houston or Austin, or many other places throughout this land. Their motto is "You can't get there from here".

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
23. These overprivileged people in good transit cities
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:15 PM
Oct 2023

Have no bloody clue how awful public transit is in other parts of the country.

When my car was in the shop, I got to experience how bloody awful the transit is where I live. It would take two bloody hours to get to my job, and another two to get home. I didn't have the energy after working a factory job all bloody night to cook, so, yes, I ate out every single day that I worked, and always at the same general area. Because guess what? I had a 50 minute wait at one spot because of course the connecting bus I needed ran only once per bloody hour, but showed up 10 minutes before I could get to the connection point.

Both ways.

So all of you making your stupid remarks about taking public transit?

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
20. New York isn't the entirety of the world.
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:00 PM
Oct 2023

Shocking, but true.

Try to get outside your bubble.

mahatmakanejeeves

(70,722 posts)
61. $1.85 one way on the Metro for me, and that's if
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 05:56 AM
Oct 2023

I take the long way. Breakfast is maybe a bowl of oatmeal. If I haven’t brought a sandwich I have a bowl of Progresso soup.

But what do I know compared to a company that sells videoconferencing services.

forthemiddle

(1,459 posts)
4. Who spends $29.00 A DAY! On breakfast and lunch?
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:32 PM
Oct 2023

If they are, they need to look into packing a lunch.
$14.00 commuting? If they do, then I can’t believe they are also paying parking.
I’m not saying that going to the office everyday is cost free, but this seems awful inflated.

FSogol

(47,665 posts)
13. My company has free coffee, yet everyday, someone will arrive carrying Starbucks.
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:52 PM
Oct 2023

I brown bag it most days, but the majority of people go out for lunch 4 days a week.

Some people do spend that much.

exboyfil

(18,372 posts)
25. Same for me
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:31 PM
Oct 2023

Free fountain drinks, coffee, and tea, but still brisk sales of bottled/canned beverages. I figure I save at least $6 a day on drinks. Since I do intermittent fasting, I don't eat lunch. I actually don't like eating out and prefer to make my own meals because of keto. Save a lot of money, but keto does cut down on some economical calories - it is a well to do diet when you cut out potatoes, grains, and beans. High quality olive oil is expensive as is meat, avocados, and fresh vegetables.

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
24. So would you make breakfast and pack a lunch
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:24 PM
Oct 2023

If you worked 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. plus have a 2-hour commute--each way?

Know what I did when that was my life? I went home only long enough to sleep. I otherwise ate out, because I was too bloody knackered to think about food the few hours I was home--never mind fixing anything.

Not all of us are so privileged as to have cushy 9-5 office jobs in a city with stellar public transit.

In fact, most of us aren't that privileged.

MichMan

(17,393 posts)
33. And most aren't privileged to have an option to work at home either.....
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 02:05 PM
Oct 2023

So, this study isn't even applicable.

Retrograde

(11,450 posts)
50. average spending, across the whole country
Thu Oct 12, 2023, 03:52 PM
Oct 2023

it includes brown-baggers as well as those who eat every meal out, and everyone in between.

Even though many companies here have free or subsidized cafeterias on site, I've learned not to try to go to any of the restaurants on Castro Street on Fridays, when it seems like all of Google is there! And there are times during the rest of the week when it's almost that bad. $15+ is a reasonable low-side-of average for lunches around here if you don't brown bag it. Mr. Retrograde and I go out for lunch once or twice a week, and I can report that prices have been creeping up since the end of Covid - the hole-in-the-wall pho place we like just raised its prices and it seems to have no problem getting customers.

Can't comment on costs of breakfasts, since I rarely go out for them

Calculating

(3,000 posts)
5. Seems really high
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:33 PM
Oct 2023

I'll eat breakfast at home, bring in a relatively cheap lunch, and have a Tesla so the drive is almost free. I probably pay $10 a day at most related to physically going to work.

spooky3

(38,862 posts)
15. I think it really depends on where you live
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:53 PM
Oct 2023

In the DC area, if you commute to DC

—if you live far out, you’ll have a lot more gas and wear and tear costs on your car than the average reported; you likely won’t be close to metro. Some people may be able to carpool.

—parking is going to be a lot more than $8 per day

—most people will eat breakfast at home; some will bring a lunch but eating out (if there’s a place near your work) could well exceed $16 with tax and tip

—if you live close to a metro stop and your work is also close to a metro stop, you’ll have those expenses rather than car/parking, and you will also pay much more in housing expenses than otherwise.

Torchlight

(7,059 posts)
41. I'm guessing it's an average, allowing for both high- and low-cost day work.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 03:01 PM
Oct 2023

On an anecdotal level, my household hit about a third of the average per person, but that's just anecdotal and means little to the average or the mean.

SharonClark

(10,497 posts)
8. The videoconferencing company would like workers
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:39 PM
Oct 2023

to stay home and use their services.

Of course the numbers are inflated as nearly everyone has expressed.

Johnny2X2X

(24,435 posts)
9. Worked from home full time for 28 months
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:43 PM
Oct 2023

I definitely noticed the financial benefits. Meals and car expense especially. I basically filled my gas tank like 4 times in 2 years. My car went into a time warp and now I have a paid for car with 60,000 miles on it.

Now I wFH 2 days and go into the office 3 days. Love it.

hunter

(40,852 posts)
37. My children have said much the same.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 02:39 PM
Oct 2023

They were fortunate to have jobs where they could do that.

For my wife, a front line health care professional, COVID-19 was hell.

Johnny2X2X

(24,435 posts)
42. Yeah
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 03:04 PM
Oct 2023

I think Covid and WFH accentuated a new divide in the working force. Those that can WFH and those that cannot. A close cousin was the head nurse at a major hospital on the Covid floor, Covid literally turned her hair from brown to totally gray, it was 2 years of hell for her. For me, Covid was a financial boon, saved thousands on expenses, got a promotion and several raises. Covid allowed me to get debt free with the exception of the mortgage.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
11. I'm a federal employee
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:44 PM
Oct 2023

And if we’re able to charge for my commute, at the government rate it would be $27.51/day. Parking is free, I take a banana for breakfast and leftovers for lunch.

I normally buy a couple of sodas during the day, so there’s $4, and an occasional cafe mocha at $5.

So my range is $27.51 - $36.51 per day.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,216 posts)
14. I work for a 100% remote company.
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 04:52 PM
Oct 2023

Most of us frequently express gratitude for not having to spend money on a commute or eating out. We also have lower costs associated with our appearance; clothing, makeup, hosiery, and shoes. We know we have it good.

My husband and I both work remotely. I've done a lot of math on this since March 2020. The savings have been significant!

I still have one employee whining about the "high cost of working from home" because of her electric and internet bills. Girl, don't even try me. I've been the family CFO for decades. That idiocy won't fly. The incremental cost of electricity is tiny and don't tell me you wouldn't have internet connectivity if you weren't working from home. Some people aren't happy unless they are complaining.

I can imagine in some areas that average looks enviable.

exboyfil

(18,372 posts)
28. Many families already have high speed internet
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:38 PM
Oct 2023

It comes before cable television in the priority list. If you have kids in school, it is virtually possible to attend public schools without it (which is a problem).

Pacifist Patriot

(25,216 posts)
29. I've been called a radical for this view, but I think high speed internet should be...
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 01:20 PM
Oct 2023

as available to every last person in the country as access to a road is. It's become an essential piece of infrastructure, not a utility.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,216 posts)
45. Kind of. That got the ability to deliver the utility to more people, but didn't make ...
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 04:42 PM
Oct 2023

electricity and telephone service free. I sincerely believe no one should be charged for high-speed internet access. It should be a public service like roads and bridges. Paid for by tax dollars. But I am also a realist and know that will never happen.

hunter

(40,852 posts)
47. That's easily achievable.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 05:50 PM
Oct 2023

The cost of internet infrastructure is a lot less than roads and highways, electrical power lines, or 20th century landline telephone service.

Universal internet service wouldn't be any kind of budget breaker.

exboyfil

(18,372 posts)
27. In theory if you are working from home
Tue Oct 10, 2023, 08:35 PM
Oct 2023

You shouldn't also be doing daycare. I have heard screaming babies occasionally during meetings, and I did have my daughter's dog in my office when it barked.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,216 posts)
31. I work for a 100% remote company and a lot of our parents do utilize daycare.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 01:25 PM
Oct 2023

None of us mind hearing kids in the background and we don't bat an eye if someone has their baby with them in a meeting. But some parents would just prefer not to have that split attention or unpredictability of needs during their work day.

milestogo

(23,200 posts)
32. I think a lot of parents had children at home during Covid.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 01:26 PM
Oct 2023

Which is not to say it was easily done.

hunter

(40,852 posts)
44. Oh my. I've brought screaming babies to physical in-office meetings
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 03:28 PM
Oct 2023

Fortunately I worked in a place where that was acceptable.

In those days my wife worked semi-normal hours and I worked completely abnormal hours but had some control of my schedule. It was mostly nights and weekends for me.

In my work there were mandatory office meetings for everyone once a month that lasted an hour or two between the regular and swing shift. I wasn't the only one working outside those hours who brought my young children to those meetings.

That was just normal. If a kid got too disruptive there was usually someone who wasn't essential to that day's most serious agenda items who would scoop up the fussy kid up and take them out of the room. Sometimes that was me, my kid or anyone else's.

Successful human societies have always worked that way. What we've got now is an aberration.

milestogo

(23,200 posts)
30. Working from home does save money.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 01:25 PM
Oct 2023

I used to commute and use doggy day care. Haven't paid for parking for a long time. Even if you eat breakfast at home and bring your lunch, its hard not to spend on snacks.

Yeah, working from home has its benefits. And you don't have to get dressed up.

 

Marius25

(3,213 posts)
36. I spent $26 just on parking yesterday at work.
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 02:17 PM
Oct 2023

I generally pay around $20 most days I'm at work. That's not counting gas or food if I don't bring it, nor the horrible time wasted driving.

I wish my job had a remote option or I wish I could find remote work.

Takket

(23,802 posts)
46. have to admit i'm rather annoyed many of my collegues can work at home
Wed Oct 11, 2023, 04:51 PM
Oct 2023

I have a job that requires me to be onsite. But many at my company do not. So they are all pocketing the gas savings, not to mention I spend about 80 minutes a day in the car commuting. which is time that they get to spend doing whatever they want at home. i wouldn't mind so much if those of us that work on site got a bit more in out checks to acknowledge the fact it costs us more to be on site.

hunter

(40,852 posts)
49. Automobiles are not tools of freedom as advertised on television...
Thu Oct 12, 2023, 03:04 PM
Oct 2023

... they are that ball and chain on your ankles.

w

MichMan

(17,393 posts)
55. They are if you live in rural areas without mass transit
Sat Oct 14, 2023, 10:47 PM
Oct 2023

I'm in my mid sixties and not very interested in riding a bicycle 15 miles to a dentist appointment or to the grocery & pharmacy

hunter

(40,852 posts)
57. Do you choose to live in a rural area or is it a necessity?
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 04:13 AM
Oct 2023

If it's a choice than a car is just part of the package.

Generally speaking, the people with the smallest environmental footprints live in cities and don't own cars.

I'm not being critical, I have family living in rural areas.

Nevertheless, I think we should be rebuilding our cities, turning them into attractive affordable places where car ownership is unnecessary.

Many people would choose to live in such places.

My wife and I live in a small city about a mile from grocery stores, a few restaurants, etc.

Our children chose to live in the older walkable neighborhoods of big cities, the kind with 100+ year old housing built before automobiles dominated urban planning. So do some of their cousins.

MichMan

(17,393 posts)
60. Yes I chose it when due to a job offer 30 years ago
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 05:37 AM
Oct 2023

One of the best life decisions I ever made.

Can't imagine living in an urban setting now. Love the peace and quiet. Not only am I not complaining about having a car, I'm also a lifelong auto enthusiast.

I resent being told where I should live because it fits someone else's preference. Seems very authoritarian.

hunter

(40,852 posts)
69. Nobody told you where you should live. Especially not me.
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 02:15 PM
Oct 2023

I'm talking about more choices and more opportunities, not less.

Here in the U.S.A. opportunities to live in a nice walkable neighborhoods are severely limited and therefore expensive.





Bettie

(19,873 posts)
64. Some people don't like cities
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 11:09 AM
Oct 2023

spending a few days in Chicago reminded me of this. Just the closed in feeling of being surrounded by large buildings, so many people on the streets...I just feel trapped.

JI7

(93,900 posts)
59. I think People like to eat out when they go out
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 05:10 AM
Oct 2023

whether it's for work or just going out shopping or running errands .

If you are at home all day it's easier to just make something at home. But when you are out you pass by food places and people want to try things and it's easier to just buy something instead of going home and making something.

For work people might also be going out in groups and some may feel they don't want to be left out.

Sympthsical

(11,114 posts)
70. This doesn't even sound kind of right
Sun Oct 15, 2023, 02:32 PM
Oct 2023

$29 on breakfast and lunch? That's $580 for a month of work-related meals.

I don't even come close to spending that on house groceries. For two people, we might spend about $250-300/month total.

When I commuted, breakfast was at home and lunch was usually whatever I brought - as it was for most of my co-workers. A taco truck came by everyday, which was an occasional treat and maybe $8 or so, depending. Some people ate there everyday, but it was a comparative few.

Who's spending $30/day on work meals? That screams being either irresponsible with money or well off enough that it isn't that much of expense.

I am all for WFH - my partner and I never looked back once the pandemic started - but that information just strikes me as deeply odd.

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As a bonus, making a contribution will allow you to leave kudos for another DU member, and at the end of the week we'll recognize the DUers who you think make this community great.

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