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True Dough

(26,667 posts)
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 02:55 PM Nov 2023

Most divisive topics on the DU

I've only been a member here for seven years. The Democratic primary was a very tense period. Some people fought hard for their chosen candidate and there were some hard feelings.

Now the Israel/Palestine conflict has torn a lot of people apart.

Here's hoping that the wounds will heal sooner than later.

For the longtime DUers, what other issues do you recall that were polarizing among Democrats here?

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Most divisive topics on the DU (Original Post) True Dough Nov 2023 OP
The Hillary hating in 2016 was the worst in my view JohnSJ Nov 2023 #1
I was a Clinton delegate to the 2016 National Convention and experienced this first hand and up close LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2023 #42
There will never was or will be such a lust to hate Hillary/Democrats as there was in 2016. betsuni Nov 2023 #63
regressives are trying their hardest for 2024 MistakenLamb Nov 2023 #68
HRC v Obama in 07-08 BeyondGeography Nov 2023 #2
Very strange. multigraincracker Nov 2023 #3
I really don't claudette Nov 2023 #4
It is, of course, ridiculous to claim anyone here is supporting Hamas terrorism, Big Blue Marble Nov 2023 #14
Someone in another thread said Hamas is "fighting for human rights" Sympthsical Nov 2023 #18
That is highly disturbing and simply not true. Big Blue Marble Nov 2023 #32
It's being challenged Sympthsical Nov 2023 #34
Poster here is supporting Hamas for "fighting for human rights". yagotme Nov 2023 #20
What he says is, Hamas is fighting to destabilize questionseverything Nov 2023 #39
Yes, comparison, yes, as sentence stands, "fighting for human rights". yagotme Nov 2023 #48
You are purposely only quoting half the sentence questionseverything Nov 2023 #50
Here ya go: yagotme Nov 2023 #52
I try to ignore it claudette Nov 2023 #21
Conflating Judaism with a fanatical Islamic terrorist group boston bean Nov 2023 #64
What would you make of this comment? yagotme Nov 2023 #19
I haven't seen any... Think. Again. Nov 2023 #40
You know I'm as critical of religion as the next firebreathing Atheist... Act_of_Reparation Nov 2023 #61
Michael Jackson. nt canetoad Nov 2023 #5
Seriously? True Dough Nov 2023 #11
In reverse chronological order... :) EarlG Nov 2023 #6
Minor Error In 2008 ProfessorGAC Nov 2023 #7
I sure did EarlG Nov 2023 #8
You sound like someone who knows what the heck True Dough Nov 2023 #9
Taking another look at your list True Dough Nov 2023 #12
The 2016 primary was so effing messy. Axelrods_Typewriter Nov 2023 #16
Trump haters had good reason to hate him, Hillary haters believed disinformation, conspiracy theories, betsuni Nov 2023 #60
Your right on with all of it Tree Lady Nov 2023 #31
It's quite the list Hekate Nov 2023 #33
Hmm, I've been here for all of those. TwilightZone Nov 2023 #37
I was angriest about the fighting between Leith Nov 2023 #10
Thank you Delphinus Nov 2023 #13
Breast feeding bull dogs at the Olive Garden eating blooming onions. Fla_Democrat Nov 2023 #15
...while attempting to bomb the moon!.....lol EX500rider Nov 2023 #30
Pit bulls EYESORE 9001 Nov 2023 #17
I missed cornflake coating. Maru Kitteh Nov 2023 #22
I miss kudzu. xmas74 Nov 2023 #27
It's going places Wicked Blue Nov 2023 #41
Do you remember the map? xmas74 Nov 2023 #45
. Maru Kitteh Nov 2023 #46
That was the greatest Lounge thread xmas74 Nov 2023 #47
Don't forget the Texasgal Nov 2023 #23
Breastfeeding wars were xmas74 Nov 2023 #28
Oh god I remember that underpants Nov 2023 #51
That stands out as one of the silliest DU flame wars ever. yardwork Nov 2023 #57
I didn't see this xmas74 Nov 2023 #26
broccoli stems, returning shopping carts, Kali Nov 2023 #35
Oxford comma EYESORE 9001 Nov 2023 #44
Cheese sandwiches for schoolkids whose lunch bills aren't paid, posting petronius Nov 2023 #49
Laura Branigan, cornflakes on fried chicken, xmas74 Nov 2023 #24
Chick tracts on Halloween. Dr. Strange Nov 2023 #56
I was just talking about Chick Tracts on Halloween xmas74 Nov 2023 #59
It's a harbinger of how fucked the human race is in the coming years. roamer65 Nov 2023 #25
Climate was much, much worse in the 1950s & 1960s... Stuart G Nov 2023 #72
The Primaries tiredtoo Nov 2023 #29
"Door Buzzards" Docreed2003 Nov 2023 #36
... róisín_dubh Nov 2023 #65
I only recall one that felt like it would tear DU apart. 2004 Primary. Stinky The Clown Nov 2023 #38
We have to argue because we care Stardust Mirror Nov 2023 #43
The debate over whether BushCo caused the 2004 Christmas Tsunami was intense . . . Journeyman Nov 2023 #53
Crunchy vs Creamy peanut butter RainCaster Nov 2023 #54
I'd refuse to choose! True Dough Nov 2023 #55
I've never seen a topic as divisive as I/P is right now ecstatic Nov 2023 #58
Whether or not Rincewind Nov 2023 #62
How many DUers are actually involved in the I/P debate? Kaleva Nov 2023 #66
There really isn't much of a debate, in my opinion. yardwork Nov 2023 #67
Maybe sometime if I'm bored, I'll tally the members commenting Kaleva Nov 2023 #70
Kudzu JanMichael Nov 2023 #69
2016 primary mcar Nov 2023 #71

LetMyPeopleVote

(179,869 posts)
42. I was a Clinton delegate to the 2016 National Convention and experienced this first hand and up close
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 06:13 PM
Nov 2023

Normally going to a national convention is a once in a lifetime experience. I had worked really hard inside the party on campaigns and voter protection issues for a very long time to be be in the position to run for and be elected as delegate. Too bad that Sanders and his vetted delegates ruined that experience and did their best to help TFG. A candidate has absolute approval rights over their pledged delegates because these delegates can change their votes and these delegates represent the candidate and campaign. I helped vet Clinton delegates and I know that I was vetted. The Clinton campaign told us that we represent her and that our actions would reflect on her and her campaign.

In contrast, Sanders sent one very weak text the Sunday night before the convention and then did little or nothing to control his delegates. It was nasty I was there when the Sanders delegates booed Congressman John Lewis., Elijah Cummings and Stach Abrams. I was warned about each of these stunts 30 minutes before it happened by the Clinton campaign whip. According to my whip, Sanders was asked to stop this event and declined. That incident will be used against sanders if he runs in 2020.

I was at the Texas delegation breakfast when a group of Sanders delegates marched in and demanded that we condemn Clinton and change our votes to Sanders.



Sanders spoke to the Texas delegation the next morning and his speech was again solely about himself. There was a mini-riot due to his delegates the prior morning and the only thing that Sanders talked about was himself. Sanders did nothing to deal with the fact that his delegates were out of control and did nothing to try to help Hillary Clinton win the general election.

Finally, a group of Sanders delegates yelled at my daughter and called her the c-Word because she would not try to get me to change my vote. My daughter was my guest and she got to attend the first night and see Michelle Obama. Again, Sanders was asked to tell his delegates to behave during the convention and Sanders refused.

Texas may change the way it selects delegates next cycle, and I will see if I want to run. I was a day one contributor to Joe Biden and got to meet Joe Biden at two different private fundraisers. I was amused when Joe signed some floor speech signs from his speech at the 2016 convention while not missing a beat talking to another guest. Joe then took my iPhone took three selfies with me better than I could do. At the next fundraiser, I had maxxed out for the primary and so got to talk to Joe about stuttering.

The process of running for and getting elected to be a delegate to a national convention takes a great deal effort and you still have to be vetted before you are an official delegate. I have friends who were at the 2008 and 2012 conventions, and they had a good time. Time will tell if I try again.

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
63. There will never was or will be such a lust to hate Hillary/Democrats as there was in 2016.
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 07:01 AM
Nov 2023

multigraincracker

(37,651 posts)
3. Very strange.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:02 PM
Nov 2023

Liberals fighting over support of two different hard core right wing factions. Both being religious, closed minded groups fighting over whose God is greater.
Go figure.

 

claudette

(5,455 posts)
4. I really don't
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:07 PM
Nov 2023

see ANYONE here "supporting" Hamas. No one has EVER supported the group that has committed the horror against Israel on 10/7 that I have seen.

I don't know how many times people have said it, "support for the innocent Palestinians does NOT translate into support for Hamas."

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
14. It is, of course, ridiculous to claim anyone here is supporting Hamas terrorism,
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:42 PM
Nov 2023

but is repeated on DU over and over as a tactic to demean concern over the injustices
inflicted on the Palestinian people. It is a way to gloss concern over the deaths of 1000's
of children. It is the technique used to put those who care about the siege and destruction
of Gaza on the defensive. Just ignore it.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
32. That is highly disturbing and simply not true.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:08 PM
Nov 2023

Hamas is another want-to-be Taliban who would govern the Palestinians just as The Taliban
terrorizes the citizens of Afghanistan. They are horrible and very dangerous not only to Israel
but also to the people of Gaza. Human rights are the farthest from their goals, stated or otherwise.

There is misinformation on both sides of this discussion. But I have yet to see a post such
as you are referring. It is the exception that should be challenged by all people.

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
34. It's being challenged
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:14 PM
Nov 2023

One defense, but it's a pretty funny one, so.

I agree about Hamas.

It's a mess, no two ways about it. What comes after. Put the PA in? Not so simple. But if it were an easy answer, this would've been solved by now.

questionseverything

(11,840 posts)
39. What he says is, Hamas is fighting to destabilize
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 06:02 PM
Nov 2023

He compares hamas with right wing republicans

yagotme

(4,135 posts)
48. Yes, comparison, yes, as sentence stands, "fighting for human rights".
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 09:48 PM
Nov 2023
Unfortunately, the US has the same insurgents, but they are not fighting for human rights, like Hamas


Until poster clarifies this sentence, I can only read it as it is.

yagotme

(4,135 posts)
52. Here ya go:
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 10:29 PM
Nov 2023
Unfortunately, the US has the same insurgents, but they are not fighting for human rights, like Hamas,
Reply to Layzeebeaver (Reply #22)
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 04:48 AM
under the orange idiot, they are fighting to destablize the US.


The US has the same insurgents, (under the orange idiot) not fighting for human rights, (like Hamas is), but fighting to destabilize the US.

Punctuation and capitalization mean things. Would you rather help your uncle jack off a horse, or help your Uncle Jack, off a horse. The poster has not yet clarified exactly what he meant by this post, even after several reply posts. Until he clarifies, we are stuck with what is actually in the post. "I mean what I say, not say what I mean".

boston bean

(36,931 posts)
64. Conflating Judaism with a fanatical Islamic terrorist group
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 08:33 AM
Nov 2023

whose sole purpose is the annihilation of Jews and Israel is disturbing.

yagotme

(4,135 posts)
19. What would you make of this comment?
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 04:15 PM
Nov 2023
Unfortunately, the US has the same insurgents, but they are not fighting for human rights, like Hamas


Seems they are supporting Hamas fighting for human rights...
 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
40. I haven't seen any...
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 06:03 PM
Nov 2023

...support for one of those right-wing factions though.

I have seen support for the citizens that the rightwing faction hamas rules over, and for the rightwing faction of Israel, and for the citizens of Israel, but I haven't seen any support for hamas except for the very strange "Human Rights" post which I still can't wrap my head around.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
61. You know I'm as critical of religion as the next firebreathing Atheist...
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 01:23 AM
Nov 2023

...but I think it is a little off the mark to view this as essentially a religious conflict. It is a conflict over land... made immeasurably worse by religion.

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
11. Seriously?
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:31 PM
Nov 2023

Over whether people should continue to listen to his music after it was alleged he was a child molester?

EarlG

(23,631 posts)
6. In reverse chronological order... :)
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:17 PM
Nov 2023

2020: Democratic Primary (lots of different Dem candidates fighting to replace Trump).

2008-2016: General infighting throughout the entire Obama presidency over what Obama should or shouldn't have done

2016: Democratic Primary (a long, bad fight between Sanders supporters and Clinton supporters)

2012: Should Obama be re-elected, or face a primary opponent? (This didn't last too long but did happen.)

2010: Mid-terms (post ACA "told you so" infighting after bad mid-term losses)

2010: ACA battles over public option and universal healthcare.

2008: Election of Obama and simultaneous passage of Prop 8 in California (banning same-sex marriage) caused instant rifts on DU.

2008: Democratic Primary (lots of different Dem candidates fighting to replace Bush, eventually boiling down a long, bad fight between Clinton supporters and Obama supporters)

2004: Democratic Primary (a long, bad fight mostly between Clark supporters and Dean supporters)

2002: Fallout from Democratic mid-term losses following 9/11 and invasion of Afghanistan.

...and I'm probably forgetting some.

-------------

IMO Democratic unity against Trump created one of the longest "peacetimes" ever on DU -- since 2016, with the exception of the 2020 Democratic Primary we've seen almost unprecedented unity. But that is not, and has never been, the "normal" state of affairs on DU. Just something to bear in mind when considering the current situation.

ProfessorGAC

(76,706 posts)
7. Minor Error In 2008
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:20 PM
Nov 2023

You have "...to replace Trump."
I believe you meant Bush.
But, I think your list is solid.

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
12. Taking another look at your list
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:34 PM
Nov 2023

and I'm realizing what an outlier this Israel/Palestine war is. It's happening in 2023, an odd-numbered year. Your list is entirely even-numbered years due to the political cycle.

16. The 2016 primary was so effing messy.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 04:00 PM
Nov 2023

In my circles the fighting between Bernie and Hillary supporters was almost as bad as the fighting between Trump supporters and Trump haters. I wanted to puke. I threw up my hands. I think it created a rift between people in the same way the orange idiot did.

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
60. Trump haters had good reason to hate him, Hillary haters believed disinformation, conspiracy theories,
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 12:40 AM
Nov 2023

lies, easily debunked accusations that replaced her real career and personality with an evil corrupt fictional cartoon villain personally responsible for every bad thing since the '90s leading (the "Clinton Machine" ) a fictional evil corrupt primary-rigging neoliberal working/middle class-hating establishment Democratic Party same as Republicans. Spectacularly stupid. I couldn't believe people I knew fell for it!

Trump actually was and is an evil corrupt racist cartoonish villain, no need for any lies, all true. And now many people say "Hillary was right" and agree with her opinions, say she should've been president. Well, it's the same person now as in 2016. Suddenly she's not evil anymore?

And it will start up with Biden next year, targeted disinformation and lies.

Tree Lady

(13,282 posts)
31. Your right on with all of it
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:05 PM
Nov 2023

I think the toughest was Obama/Clinton and Clinton/Bernie.

I worked on the Bernie campaign and felt like I had to be quiet for a long tme especially after she lost, all my friends and I voted for Hillary so the anger towards us was tough.

TwilightZone

(28,836 posts)
37. Hmm, I've been here for all of those.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:51 PM
Nov 2023

And had to take breaks after (and sometimes during) several of them. haha

I'd agree that unity is definitely not our default state.

Note: this is my second account. I found this place quite soon after it started through StumbleUpon. Found some interesting stuff through that app, all those years ago.

Leith

(7,864 posts)
10. I was angriest about the fighting between
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:30 PM
Nov 2023

supporters of the Democratic candidates. I searched for hours for the video clip of a Bernie supporter throwing the chair. It was just a few hours after the accusation was made by Jon Ralston that it happened. Ralston did not witness the incident himself, but he took the word of one guy who was in the room and claimed that he saw it happen. There was never any proof. What some people called "throwing" was nothing more than lifting a chair a few inches and slamming it back down in the same place. There was shouting and angry words flying back and forth, but no tossed furniture that I could find.

Oh, yeah - I supported HRC, but I also supported Bernie. I would have been perfectly happy with either one as the official candidate.

Now we have a rift between Democrats over the Israel/Palestine fighting. According to some here (don't deny it) that anything less than 100% support for one side or the other makes you irredeemably racist, religionist, whatever-ist. I don't agree. My support is for any and all innocent victims - from concert goers to babies. They were all blasted to pieces by bombs. It doesn't matter who sent the bombs hurtling over to the other side. What matters is the victims who were maimed and murdered.

Below is a scene from Doctor Who. It doesn't matter which episode it came from or why the combatants had their hands hover over the launch buttons. All that matters is preventing the crime of war to continue indefinitely until the combatants get tired of killing and are ready to talk.




Let's set the coming decades of war and genocide aside. Let's jump to the final scene: talk.

Fla_Democrat

(2,622 posts)
15. Breast feeding bull dogs at the Olive Garden eating blooming onions.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 03:47 PM
Nov 2023

But I may not have been paying close attention.





EYESORE 9001

(29,732 posts)
17. Pit bulls
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 04:14 PM
Nov 2023

Circumcision

Olive Garden

Cornflake coating on chicken

It doesn’t really take much.

Kali

(56,829 posts)
35. broccoli stems, returning shopping carts,
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:25 PM
Nov 2023

checking receipts, some stupid television show about vampires, diabeedees/diabeatus, (Wilford Brimley), outdoor cats, using a vertical line of periods as a formatting technique...the Lounge can get pretty un-loungey sometimes!

petronius

(26,696 posts)
49. Cheese sandwiches for schoolkids whose lunch bills aren't paid, posting
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 10:00 PM
Nov 2023

spoilers for the Olympics...

xmas74

(30,058 posts)
59. I was just talking about Chick Tracts on Halloween
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 11:50 PM
Nov 2023

There was a local Evangelical church holding a Trunk or Treat and a coworker said she was taking her children. I told her to bring me the Chick Tracts so I can draw obscene doodles on them. She had no idea what I was saying.

I grew up Pentecostal. I'm very familiar with a good Chick Tract and I was right in the middle of that Lounge thread.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
25. It's a harbinger of how fucked the human race is in the coming years.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 04:58 PM
Nov 2023

War and the climate crisis in tandem.

Stuart G

(38,726 posts)
72. Climate was much, much worse in the 1950s & 1960s...
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 08:11 PM
Nov 2023

Many cities passed laws that outlawed, coal burning, over time autos were cleaned of their emissions.
Air clean laws were passed by many cities. Nuclear Power was reduced due to "Four Mile Island" break down.
(and many, many other improvements in the climate) Where I lived in South Chicago, we often got bad air
from the steal mills 15 miles away.
...........So many improvements in climate laws. The air is measured for pollution by the federal government........
...........There are such things as.........."Bad Air Days"
........... Public Schools cannot heat with coal... (they were the last to follow the rules)...
.......... Cars are much cleaner than they were in the 50s and 60s....In fact it is the law that they are clean of pollutants.
.......... Cars are also much safer with the Air Bags and required seat belts in front and back
........... People live longer and better due to medical improvements..
........... Diets are better now. (People have a lot of choices these days as far as decent food is concerned. )

and ...............MORE AND MORE AND MORE, AND MORE AND MORE!

AND..............GUNS MIGHT BE CONTROLLED MORE AND MORE TOO?????

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
29. The Primaries
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 05:04 PM
Nov 2023

I got put in DU jail during a primary. Pissed off the wrong people with my opinions.

Stinky The Clown

(68,952 posts)
38. I only recall one that felt like it would tear DU apart. 2004 Primary.
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 06:01 PM
Nov 2023

I recall it because we were Clarkies and the "enemy" was the Dean contingent.

For the record, I hold zero grudge against the Deanna's, and indeed count many of them as friends.

Looking at EarlG's list (above) I don't see any of them as worse than 2004, but that is because I didn't engage in the controversies. Following that decision, I am not engaging in the current debate. I have strong feelings about what's going on, but I will keep them to myself. My opinion will add nothing to the debate or change a single mind. So i will continue to be an asshole like always, but about subjects other than the current situation in the Middle East;.

Stardust Mirror

(685 posts)
43. We have to argue because we care
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 06:24 PM
Nov 2023

We are actually trying to accomplish things and have different opinions on the best ways to do so.

The GQP/fascists don't argue because they agree on goals and methods:
1. Gain/retain power
2. Suppress voting
3. Cut taxes for the wealthy
4. Abolish regulations
5. Subjugate people of color and women
6. Exploit labor and natural resources to the limit
7. Regulate morals for "others" while doing absolutely anything they want personally
8. Bribes, corruption, backroom deals

I'm sure I left out some biggies but you get the picture.

Seems like every committee in the history of the left has been riddled with dissension, hopefully a problem we'll figure out before it's too late.

Journeyman

(15,449 posts)
53. The debate over whether BushCo caused the 2004 Christmas Tsunami was intense . . .
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 10:37 PM
Nov 2023

got so bad, Skinner threatened to kick out anyone who posted anything that claimed the tsunami was man-made.

Ah, yes. Good times.

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
55. I'd refuse to choose!
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 10:56 PM
Nov 2023

There are occasions when I prefer smooth peanut butter and other times when I reach for the crunchy. Both are good!

ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
58. I've never seen a topic as divisive as I/P is right now
Sat Nov 4, 2023, 11:28 PM
Nov 2023

The broad brushing, stereotypes, name-calling and in some cases, blind hatred, is very upsetting.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
66. How many DUers are actually involved in the I/P debate?
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 09:23 AM
Nov 2023

I make a comment here and there but I'm not emotionally invested in the argument .

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
67. There really isn't much of a debate, in my opinion.
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 09:37 AM
Nov 2023

In fact, I think this has been a pretty calm discussion, compared to previous DU situations. This isn't even close to a flame war.

There was a troll causing some trouble but since he/she was shown the door, things have been pretty reasonable, imo. And there are lots of busy threads on other topics.

On a scale of 1-10, one being 100% DU agreement (never attained) and 10 being the 2016 primaries, I'd give this a 3. Almost everybody here agrees that the war is terrible and innocent people are being killed on all sides.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
70. Maybe sometime if I'm bored, I'll tally the members commenting
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 07:45 PM
Nov 2023

on the I/P threads here in GD and total up their posts in those threads.

mcar

(46,058 posts)
71. 2016 primary
Sun Nov 5, 2023, 07:49 PM
Nov 2023

I was called antisemitic for not supporting Bernie. (Not refighting that primary, just stating a fact.)

People left this board after the primary because admins wouldn't let them call HRC the "c" word. They formed another, now defunct (I believe), board so they could trash the Democratic nominee in the most vile way imaginable.

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