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PCIntern

(25,601 posts)
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 10:31 PM Nov 2023

I am NOT leaving DU...

so I do not require any reminders that “this is not an airport so departures do not need to be announced.”

I have essentially stopped posting since November 11 because as a committed Zionist who lost my entire extended family on both sides in the Holocaust, I ardently defended Israel’s right as a sovereign nation to defend herself against the inhuman terrorism which has plagued the nation since its inception but most notably in the 1970’s and thereafter. I had the temerity of doing in this forum, of which I have been a member in good standing since 2004.

As a veteran poster, I knew exactly what was going to occur here and it did so, exceeding my expectations. There is no need for me to explain. My posts were alerted upon routinely and several juries found me guilty of violating DU rules. Fair enough: this is the system whose precepts I agreed to when becoming a member so I am willing to accept the punishment meted out.

I was informed by a few old-timers here, one through a PM, others via email that I was on the brink of, shall we say, having a possibly very serious problem here. I fully intend to avoid having such a problem for a whole variety of reasons.

Therefore, until the hostilities in the Middle East reach a conclusion, my participation in this forum will be limited to recommending posts with which I wholeheartedly agree.

I thank you for your time and your understanding.

PC

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I am NOT leaving DU... (Original Post) PCIntern Nov 2023 OP
This can be a very caring and welcoming community. I only hope it will be again. hlthe2b Nov 2023 #1
Appreciate your reflection and post. Tumult tests cachukis Nov 2023 #2
I, for one, appreciate your posts. madamesilverspurs Nov 2023 #3
Same here. paleotn Nov 2023 #80
Your post and others like it. Permanut Nov 2023 #4
... 2naSalit Nov 2023 #5
As one who has Rec'd several of your posts, I ask, why *would* you (leave)? UTUSN Nov 2023 #6
It's obvious Violet_Crumble Nov 2023 #40
Excellent post, thank you! Goddessartist Nov 2023 #62
To speak to someone else's motives is bad form and such certainty is part of the problem elias7 Nov 2023 #69
Conundrum! pazzyanne Nov 2023 #77
I agree. Haggard Celine Nov 2023 #86
You get total support from me, my friend FakeNoose Nov 2023 #7
Americans are not supporting terrorism womanofthehills Nov 2023 #43
Thank you for that post claudette Nov 2023 #58
Thank you! Goddessartist Nov 2023 #61
Thank you for standing up for the children.. and other innocents. HUAJIAO Nov 2023 #64
Yes, Hamas unleashed something horrific, didn't they? RandomNumbers Nov 2023 #75
Agree. nt pazzyanne Nov 2023 #78
Every war is a war against children. Glaisne Nov 2023 #84
Americans Don't Support the GD Terrorist BUTCHERS HAMAS. Cha Nov 2023 #95
I know how painful this has been for so many. I am so sorry! n/t pnwmom Nov 2023 #8
:grouphug: elleng Nov 2023 #9
Are you aware that it's very boring here without your posts? madaboutharry Nov 2023 #10
Understand. I find the back and forth to be MOMFUDSKI Nov 2023 #11
And, of course, this post was alerted on. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2023 #12
+1000. We have a lot going on the next 12 months. I hope the petty BS stops Silent Type Nov 2023 #29
Very wise. You showed great restraint. NCIndie Nov 2023 #13
Don't always fully agree with you, but... Happy Hoosier Nov 2023 #14
As a Relatively New Poster Here... DET Nov 2023 #15
Nor should you leave. Your posts are thoughtful and well-considered, Ocelot II Nov 2023 #16
Both sides need to find a way to moderation. I enjoy your input too much to have to lose it. marble falls Nov 2023 #17
Well said. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2023 #18
I have had what moniss Nov 2023 #19
I have been asked to serve on a jury more in the last 6 weeks BigmanPigman Nov 2023 #20
Thanks for your valuable contributions. live love laugh Nov 2023 #21
I've long read, appreciated and recommended your OP's. ancianita Nov 2023 #22
You have many friends here William769 Nov 2023 #23
Glad you are not leaving. BoomaofBandM Nov 2023 #24
I value your contribution to DU. SalviaBlue Nov 2023 #25
Good News!!💙 Cha Nov 2023 #26
Excellent post. I'm not sure jury systems handle this kind of thing well. In any event, Silent Type Nov 2023 #27
I may not agree with you much lately, DemocraticPatriot Nov 2023 #28
This latest war has divided so much of this country KS Toronado Nov 2023 #30
I am not shocked at all. Look at the demographics here. Celerity Nov 2023 #32
Let's not pretend it's all coming from one side. BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2023 #49
Since I am the poster you rudely responded too - let's get some truth out here. I never said Israel started Nanjeanne Nov 2023 #66
As I said, I didn't mean to call you a Hamas supporter. BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2023 #85
This is getting silly I agree but I'll be happy to explain Nanjeanne Nov 2023 #87
Okay. BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2023 #88
If one cares about war crimes. . . Stargleamer Nov 2023 #102
Agree 100% Goddessartist Nov 2023 #60
K&R spanone Nov 2023 #31
Thank you PCI and... CincyDem Nov 2023 #33
PCI, I'm so sorry for what's happened to you. You are one of our most valuable members... Hekate Nov 2023 #34
I appreciate and sympathize with your posts. usonian Nov 2023 #35
I have been here since 2004 also Tree Lady Nov 2023 #36
Welcome to the K&R Klub. betsuni Nov 2023 #37
Thank you and I understand. Patton French Nov 2023 #38
Post removed Post removed Nov 2023 #39
+10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 GuppyGal Nov 2023 #83
Recommended. H2O Man Nov 2023 #41
It is not worth your aggravation. Don't lose your spot dalton99a Nov 2023 #42
I, too, am very glad to hear you're not leaving, PCI peggysue2 Nov 2023 #44
I have only ever alerted on obvious trolls Skittles Nov 2023 #45
I wish the people who criticize me for being too pro-Israel... BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2023 #50
right? Skittles Nov 2023 #53
I think yr pretty middle of the road. A Cali without the flaming temper... Violet_Crumble Nov 2023 #55
That's a thing of the past, apparently Violet_Crumble Nov 2023 #54
I Use That Option A Lot ProfessorGAC Nov 2023 #59
I doubt the link to Amnesty International Ms. Toad Nov 2023 #91
Thank you, PCIntern. Kid Berwyn Nov 2023 #46
This is a very good post. Thank you. murielm99 Nov 2023 #47
I'm glad you're not leaving and understand your restraint. ShazzieB Nov 2023 #48
Don't think for a second that your words don't provide comfort - you have voiced the frustration of many. SalamanderSleeps Nov 2023 #51
Aww, thanks! ShazzieB Nov 2023 #98
We will see you around then AKwannabe Nov 2023 #52
Interesting... Mike Nelson Nov 2023 #56
So sorry for claudette Nov 2023 #57
I am not a Zionist RocRizzo55 Nov 2023 #63
Let me add my thoughts BootinUp Nov 2023 #65
I have been appalled by what's happened here mcar Nov 2023 #67
Glad you're not leaving! Please use "ignore" and "trash thread" more Maeve Nov 2023 #68
Glad you are not leaving.--we need your voice. Timeflyer Nov 2023 #70
Glad you are not leaving. niyad Nov 2023 #71
I'm very glad you're not leaving. Goddessartist Nov 2023 #72
Glad you're not leaving bdamomma Nov 2023 #73
As both a fellow Jew and medical provider, I hear you elias7 Nov 2023 #74
i ran into similar when i started saying hrc was running a crap campaign in my state dembotoz Nov 2023 #76
I have looked forward to reading your posts since I joined about 5 years ago. MLAA Nov 2023 #79
Good. Well said. I enjoy your posts. paleotn Nov 2023 #81
PCintern, i want to chime in here to say "Hey PCintern DON'T go anywhere" bluestarone Nov 2023 #82
You are loved. a kennedy Nov 2023 #89
I am glad mamacita75 Nov 2023 #90
I don't really post in General Discussion Forum but I enjoy reading your posts. Thank you. debm55 Nov 2023 #92
this is where i've been all along. barbtries Nov 2023 #93
I'm not planning on leaving DU, either. Paladin Nov 2023 #94
I get it! jaxexpat Nov 2023 #96
I'm staying on DU & it's Cha Nov 2023 #97
PCIntern, relax tiredtoo Nov 2023 #99
I'm not leaving either. CaptainTruth Nov 2023 #100
This message was self-deleted by its author BootinUp Nov 2023 #101

Violet_Crumble

(35,980 posts)
40. It's obvious
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 01:41 AM
Nov 2023

Gonna do a bit of a truth bomb here. They've had 4 posts hidden. A 5th means they'll be PPRd indefinitely. Of course they're going to wait until that first hide drops off, and then they'll be back. All that stuff about sinister behind the scenes warnings of serious stuff is drama and this OP would be a prime candidate for the old Meta forum. The OP is a decent person, as far as Americans go, and I've read posts from them on other topics that I really agree with and I've recd, and I think it'd suck if they did get to 5 hides.

Maybe it's just me, but if you start getting hides in the same topic, suck it up and own it, do a bit of self examination and hopefully work out before the 4th hide that you need to examine your approach to posting on the topic. Ive found over the years that treating both Israeli and Palestinian civilians as equally deserving of human rights is a surefire way not to have any posts hidden. With not a single post hidden of many thousands about the I/P conflict*, I'm living proof that it's not all that difficult to participate at DU without having to worry about being banned.

* quick disclaimer - the vast bulk of my DU posts have been in the I/P forum back before the jury system. Tho back then it was far easier to get tombstoned as the mods could make unilateral decisions, so that probs makes me even more resilient

elias7

(4,029 posts)
69. To speak to someone else's motives is bad form and such certainty is part of the problem
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:28 AM
Nov 2023

I don’t mean to be rude, but part of the polarity as I see it is that people are really dug in to their POVs and people just restate their same opinions as the next micro moment of the war happens. Neither side is arguing or acting in bad faith, so the snark coming from either side is not helpful in dealing with a conflict that has eluded resolution since before many/most of us were born.

I don’t think PCIntern is refraining because of the threat of being PPRed, but rather, because of the frustration dealing with a DU conflict that is just as polarized as the Arab-Israeli conflict. Kind of makes you realize that there can be no solution if both sides perceive their side as right and the other as wrong.

pazzyanne

(6,559 posts)
77. Conundrum!
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 11:15 AM
Nov 2023

"Kind of makes you realize that there can be no solution if both sides perceive their side as right and the other as wrong."

I came to this conclusion myself a couple of weeks ago. At this point I read posts on Israel and Palestine, but don't take part in the discussions for most of them. PCIntern is one of my favorite posters, and it would be a shame if a DUer was lost because of the discussions of late. We can't solve actual participants problems for them when they don't seem to want to do so. It is frustrating!

Thank you, PCIntern, for sharing your post today.

Haggard Celine

(16,860 posts)
86. I agree.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:46 PM
Nov 2023

Some people on DU are very dug-in to their opinions on this conflict. I can see both sides of it, although I lean toward Israel's point of view. But I've been staying out of most of those threads and I don't like it that some DUers are at each other's throats. We don't have any say in what's going on over there. We shouldn't let it tie us in knots. I also like PCIntern's posts and I want him/her to stay here as long as he/she wants.

What I'd like to see happen is for Israeli and Palestinian leaders to be locked in a room together and not getting out until they hammer out an agreement. Those are the people who are responsible for all of this. I don't think common Israelis and Palestinians are bad people. I think they have horrible leadership. We need new leadership in Israel and Palestine who can turn the temperature down.

FakeNoose

(32,823 posts)
7. You get total support from me, my friend
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 10:50 PM
Nov 2023

I am not of the Jewish faith, however I've been rooting for Israel all these years. I believe there will eventually be peace in the Middle East, peace in the Holy Land - but maybe not in our lifetimes.

I'm a little taken aback by all the pro-Palestinian venting going on here on DU. To me it doesn't seem like a position that so-called "liberals" would take. Hamas was never looking for a peaceful solution of any kind. Not all Palestinians support Hamas, not by any means. But enough of them do, and those who do support Hamas are rooting for terrorists.

Since when do American liberals of DU or any other platform support terrorism? I'm stumped. I don't get it. This sudden wave of anti-Israel/pro-Palestine eruption that keeps popping up here ... well, I can't figure out where it's coming from. Some liberals are getting their heads twisted around to the point where they're spouting almost right-wing talking points.

I want to believe that DUers are all on the same page, but when I see this pro-Palestinian garbage on DU I don't know what to think. Maybe it's a weird form of anti-Semitism, or maybe something else is going on?







womanofthehills

(8,784 posts)
43. Americans are not supporting terrorism
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 02:10 AM
Nov 2023

They are objecting to the horrific slaughter of innocent children & women. In no other recent conflict have 6000 and more children been killed. Another two thousand are probably still under the rubble and thousands of children have severe burns, missing limbs, dead siblings, dead parents, no food, no electricity, no water, etc. People were horrified that Russia brought thousands of Ukrainian children to Russia - but have no problem with thousands of dead and injured Palestinian kids.

Well, American kids are now seeing daily on social media - babies with their insides hanging out, dead kids with only half a body, badly burned kids, day after day on their phones and they are on TicToc sobbing. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvu3AUB/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvu39W9/


It was just reported the average age of these innocents is 2 to 5. So when did killing millions of toddlers not be a war crime. The world is turning against Israel & America as the unbelievable horrors of Palestine deaths increase daily.

Goddessartist

(1,884 posts)
61. Thank you!
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 08:34 AM
Nov 2023

It's like some here have no care at all for the Palestinians, and turn any expression of care for them to be 'supporting Hamas' - very divisive tactics.

RandomNumbers

(17,608 posts)
75. Yes, Hamas unleashed something horrific, didn't they?
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:59 AM
Nov 2023

It's ironic that many of the posts I see that blame Israel and America, don't bother to note that it is Hamas that triggered this catastrophe, and it is Hamas and their allies that perpetuate it by their continued holding of hostages. Considering the rape and torture they committed on some of their dead victims that they didn't bother to take away with them - some of those victims CHILDREN - why should we think they aren't continuing to rape and torture their captives?

ALL these deaths fall on Hamas. I wish Israel would respond in a different way to cause less suffering of innocents. But Hamas leaders - and any person paying attention - KNEW who Netanyahu was and exactly what he would do. And, Hamas leaders were just fine doing what they did. (Lovely people, aren't they? )

Here's an idea: let's call on Hamas to release all the hostages and turn over the rapists for prosecution.

madaboutharry

(40,234 posts)
10. Are you aware that it's very boring here without your posts?
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 10:55 PM
Nov 2023

I understand where you’re coming from. It has taken some real self-discipline to control myself a couple of times. My ignore list is ridiculously long at the moment, but I need to protect my mental health and my 20+ year membership.

May this war end sooner than later. May all the hostages come home safely. And may Hamas be destroyed and never again bring such misery to the world.

For PC

MOMFUDSKI

(5,710 posts)
11. Understand. I find the back and forth to be
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 10:57 PM
Nov 2023

expected. We each have our own history. The trick is to understand the other’s history as well. DU is the best forum in which to express ourselves. There should be no alerting happening if we are living up to the premise of DU. Stop it. Read with your heart open.

BlueTsunami2018

(3,505 posts)
12. And, of course, this post was alerted on.
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 10:58 PM
Nov 2023

As “interfering” with the moderation of the site.

I wonder if perhaps mine will too for informing you thusly.

Silent Type

(3,005 posts)
29. +1000. We have a lot going on the next 12 months. I hope the petty BS stops
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:00 AM
Nov 2023

or it could get ugly in terms of productive discourse.

NCIndie

(556 posts)
13. Very wise. You showed great restraint.
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:04 PM
Nov 2023

A lifetime ban is sometimes reversed upon appeal, but not always.

The jury system is the one we all agreed to hitch our wagon, but it has some serious flaws when DU is sharply divided.

Tip o’the hat for you choices.

Happy Hoosier

(7,425 posts)
14. Don't always fully agree with you, but...
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:06 PM
Nov 2023

It sure feels some some here want certain (((people))) silenced.

Hang in there.

DET

(1,324 posts)
15. As a Relatively New Poster Here...
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:12 PM
Nov 2023

Just chiming in to say that I really enjoy your posts. Looking forward to your eventual return.

Ocelot II

(115,900 posts)
16. Nor should you leave. Your posts are thoughtful and well-considered,
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:13 PM
Nov 2023

but people are going to disagree - some thoughtfully and rationally but a few, not so much. I am staying out of this controversy as much as possible because no matter what opinion I express or how carefully I do it somebody's going to jump all over me and I don't have the energy or the inclination to engage in arguments with people who are dug in already. It is regrettable that DU has become so contentious and we can only hope it settles down before long. And I hope you stay with us. Your opinions are valuable.

moniss

(4,274 posts)
19. I have had what
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:20 PM
Nov 2023

I consider to be spirited discussions with you about topics but I enjoyed them and found them to be refreshing because they raised questions for me and spurred me to further research. This is what good discussion should always do. I always recognize that we may agree or disagree on certain things we discuss but I never have taken anything you have ever said to me on any issue as anything other than your spirited presentation of how you see things. I hope you see me as doing the same even if you disagree with what I say. In memory I don't recall ever ruling on a jury for one of your posts but I don't look at who posted but rather what the post itself is and what the forum is asking me to consider. I don't alert anybody.

I encourage you to continue to forcefully and fully make the case for your conclusions on all matters and not just the one tragically at hand. I agree that sadly some hostility can sometimes be cast by commenters and sometimes comments back and forth in a two way/group conversation can also sometimes be perceived as hostile when that is not the intent.

We are always stronger by talk. Strongest when all voices talk.

BigmanPigman

(51,642 posts)
20. I have been asked to serve on a jury more in the last 6 weeks
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:26 PM
Nov 2023

than I have for a total of all last year! It is getting really annoying. I try to be open minded and I never say anyone should remove a post for violating some rule. I have had to "stay calm" before posting anything these days since everyone is alerting everyone else. It has gotten crazy.

ancianita

(36,160 posts)
22. I've long read, appreciated and recommended your OP's.
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:37 PM
Nov 2023

I support your Zionism and don't consider it extremist. After millennia of pogroms and persecution in the diaspora, the safety and security of their own homeland is the basic reconciliation the Jews are due from the world. I too, look forward to the end of these bloody hostilities.

SalviaBlue

(2,918 posts)
25. I value your contribution to DU.
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:45 PM
Nov 2023

I hope you don’t leave!

I feel like emotions brought on by the current situation will equalize and become less inflammatory as time passes.

Silent Type

(3,005 posts)
27. Excellent post. I'm not sure jury systems handle this kind of thing well. In any event,
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:56 PM
Nov 2023

hope the situation in Israel resolves in an fair manner, long-term.

One other thing, I cannot imagine anyone alerting on a sincere post about ME, even if one vehemently disagrees. But can attest it happens.

Take care.

DemocraticPatriot

(4,442 posts)
28. I may not agree with you much lately,
Fri Nov 24, 2023, 11:59 PM
Nov 2023

but I don't want you to leave DU either...

I don't totally disagree with you either.... it is a terrible situation.


Celerity

(43,590 posts)
32. I am not shocked at all. Look at the demographics here.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:39 AM
Nov 2023

It is a bubble to a large degree, a lot of it simply by design and also the ageing out of the core as these last 22, coming up on 23, years since inception have flown by on the river of time.

There is a massive lack of sub 35-40 year old posters here, and even fewer sub 30 year olds. The pro cease fire, pro concern about war crime againts Palestinian civilians DUers are numerically overwhelmed (pro cease fire is, in real life, the postion of a large majority of Dems overall, and especially younger (say 18-34) where it is over 80 per cent or so) and the tenor and tone turns nasty, and often it is not emanating from the outnumbered (on DU only) side.

Today alone I have seen multiple hardcore personal attacks from some of the most aggressive 'Israel can do whatever it wants' posters.

It takes a psychic toll to be constantly, and falsely, called pro Hamas, jew hater, Hamas shill, Hamas lawyer, Hamas lover, antisemitic, Trump/Trumpy, MAGA (the last two are truly ridiculous charges as in real life, the Rethugs and especially MAGAts are FAR more 'fuck the Palestinians, let Israel do anything it wants' than the Dems or independents) etc etc.

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
49. Let's not pretend it's all coming from one side.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 04:38 AM
Nov 2023

Your own post includes quite a few aspersions and broad brush criticisms of people you disagree with. You describe your position as "pro concern about war crime againts [sic] Palestinian civilians" as if those who lean towards Israel don't care about war crimes, and caricaturize the other side as saying "Israel can do whatever it wants"-- a position, that as far as I can tell, is held by exactly zero people on DU. Then you say that most of the nastiness is from that group of people. I think there are a lot of pots and kettles here on every side of this debate.

One might also say it takes a psychic toll to be constantly, and falsely, called pro-genocide, pro-war crimes, bloodthirsty, indifferent to death and destruction, and racist.

Now, on a more personal note: I know you're talking about me. Earlier today, in a heated moment, I replied badly to another DUer. That DUer had responded to a claim that Hamas had broken a ceasefire on October 7 by pointing out that Israel has killed a few hundred Palestinians in the West Bank from 2021-2022, and said that maybe there was no ceasefire in place on October 7. To me, this felt like a claim that it was Israel that had started this war, not Hamas-- in fact, maybe even saying that the October 7 attack was just a legitimate battle in a long war. Why exactly actions on the West Bank would break a ceasefire between Israel and Hamas, which rules Gaza, wasn't made clear.

To me, this sounded like an argument that Hamas's attack was not unprovoked and was a "legal" military action. I meant to say that it was the argument a lawyer would make to a court about who was responsible for the current war. I didn't intend to imply the other person was in fact, Hamas's lawyer, or pro-Hamas, but rather had made one argument that a pro-Hamas person would make. Instead, it came out as something like "you're doing a good job being Hamas's lawyer," or words to that effect. That comment was interpreted, perhaps reasonably, as a personal attack, and was removed.

I know from some of your previous comments to me that you have a pretty low opinion of me, but I still respect you, and wanted to give you that explanation. Please take it for whatever it's worth to you, which may be nothing.

Nanjeanne

(5,003 posts)
66. Since I am the poster you rudely responded too - let's get some truth out here. I never said Israel started
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:15 AM
Nov 2023

the war. I said maybe there was never a real ceasefire. But that wasn’t what you read — the why you have to figure out yourself.. you also have to figure out yourself why pointing out that there were things that happened like Israelis shooting at peaceful Palestinian protestors in 2018 or killing American citizen and AlJazeera journalist Shireen Abu Akleh in 2023 and first blaming Palestinian militants before having to admit the truth sets you off so badly that you accuse me of being a Hamas supporter. Facts are facts. Our interpretations of those facts can be debated reasonably but the facts are still there.

So I put this to you - like PCIntern, i too am Jewish. I too lost family in Holocaust. I also have family living in Israel now. But I have a completely different opinion on how the response by Israel to a horrific terrorist attack is playing out. And I obviously have a very different opinion on what kind of a solution will ultimately allow Israelis and Palestinians to live in freedom. So what? I’ve been called Hamas lawyer, supporter, supporter of rape and other insane and disgraceful things. I’ve had a simple link to an Israeli Human Rights Group alerted since it gave statistics on many Palestinian things. Statistics shouldn’t be that scary.

No one should have to feel they can’t post their opinion or feelings. No one should feel bullied. Yes this is an emotional event. But why the need to respond to every post you disagree with an insult I simply don’t understand. Wanting or believing peace can only be achieved through a political situation is an honest opinion. Believing only war is the right path is an honest opinion. Honest debate is healthy and opinions are to be respected when presented respectfully. I won’t be pushed out of DU either. I hope PCIntern won’t as well

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
85. As I said, I didn't mean to call you a Hamas supporter.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:33 PM
Nov 2023

I meant to say one argument you made sounded like what a lawyer would say when arguing about who started this war. Maybe I was annoyed because you earlier implied I wanted to drop an atomic bomb on Gaza.

I still don't understand why Israeli actions in the West Bank are relevant to the status of a ceasefire with Hamas.

But otherwise I'm abandoning this. My good faith effort to propose a solution to all this acrimony was also alerted and removed, so I'm getting out. It's not like anything we say here changes anyone's mind anyway.

Cheers to you and thanks for the discussion.

Nanjeanne

(5,003 posts)
87. This is getting silly I agree but I'll be happy to explain
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:53 PM
Nov 2023

All interactions between Israel and Palestinians are relevant when you are talking about how to move forward.

And since I already stated that Hamas’ horrific attack started THIS particular event one also needed to explore ALL actions to see a way out of perpetual violence.

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
88. Okay.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:55 PM
Nov 2023

Thanks for the reply and apologies for my earlier comment. It came out wrong and I understand why you were offended. I'll try to be much more careful in the future.

Stargleamer

(1,992 posts)
102. If one cares about war crimes. . .
Sun Nov 26, 2023, 02:34 PM
Nov 2023

I don't see how one can "lean toward Israel", or Hamas too for that matter. Both have committed war crimes. And one can still rail against Palestinians being subjected to an apartheid-like system.

Hekate

(90,867 posts)
34. PCI, I'm so sorry for what's happened to you. You are one of our most valuable members...
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:51 AM
Nov 2023

I hope you can ride this out. Unlike you, I did not expect this to happen here in my home since 2002.

I’ve been sickened by what’s going on — it’s like people I thought I knew have lost their minds, plus a flood of newbies splashing bile everywhere. A major public library gets vandalized and some DUers feel called upon to defend that action?!

I’m not quitting any more than you are, but I don’t think I can forget what’s happening now, either. It’s overwhelming.

Jury: I am responding to the OP, and in my opinion neither of us are criticizing the management. Sometimes we just have to acknowledge what we are seeing/experiencing — at least I do.

Tree Lady

(11,514 posts)
36. I have been here since 2004 also
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 01:00 AM
Nov 2023

love to read your posts and after almost 20 yrs here know what its like to have a big majority here go a different way then how you feel.

I have just kept quiet about those times.

Currently I study 3 Principles with Chana Studley who used to work in Hollywood and even has a oscar for Babe, she worked in special effects. She now does coaching in Jerusalum where her family lives.

I join her and others twice a week for coaching and a bookclub.

Since the beginning of this I have been impressed by how calm she has stayed and it gives you a bit of life on the ground over there.

I have always been a peacenik and hoping for all wars to cease.

Glad this isn't sending you away.

Response to PCIntern (Original post)

H2O Man

(73,637 posts)
41. Recommended.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 01:46 AM
Nov 2023

I like your posts. I respect your thinking. So I think it is important that you keep posting your opinions. The forum needs diversity of opinions expressed freely, though without vioating the rules -- which can provide for some difficulties at times like this. Indeed, because this is a difficult time here, I do hope that in a bit of time you start posting again.

dalton99a

(81,637 posts)
42. It is not worth your aggravation. Don't lose your spot
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 02:03 AM
Nov 2023

All this shit will blow over anyway

Enjoy your holidays!







peggysue2

(10,844 posts)
44. I, too, am very glad to hear you're not leaving, PCI
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 02:17 AM
Nov 2023

I’ve enjoyed your OPs as have others. The current conflict in Israel and Palestine has raised hackles to an extraordinary level. Though I’ve limited my own comments on the conflict bc it’s so contentious, I would say that a majority opinion in such matters does not prove the right or wrong of a thing. Frequently what may appear absolutely certain in the moment is anything but in retrospect. There are plenty of historical markers to prove the point but I won’t belabor them here.

Know that your voice is valued. I’m truly sorry this has happened. I think we as a community can do much better than spitting vitriol on opinions with which we disagree.

Keep the faith and please, keep hanging around. We need everyone of good will to come together. For all our sakes.


Skittles

(153,226 posts)
45. I have only ever alerted on obvious trolls
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 02:20 AM
Nov 2023

it astounds me how many people alert on stuff simply because they do not share the same opinion

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
50. I wish the people who criticize me for being too pro-Israel...
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 04:57 AM
Nov 2023

... could see how many times I've voted to let pro-Palestine/anti-Israel posts stand when on a jury.

Violet_Crumble

(35,980 posts)
54. That's a thing of the past, apparently
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 06:05 AM
Nov 2023

I was on a jury the other day for an OP that dared to post a link to Amnesty International. The alert was that it was bigotry. It's the first time I've clicked on the button that says I think the alert was sent in bad faith.

Also, just in case this gets alerted on, there's more than a few posts in this thread discussing posts that have been alerted on, so it's not like I'm breaking new ground here

ProfessorGAC

(65,248 posts)
59. I Use That Option A Lot
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 08:09 AM
Nov 2023

I consider it "bad faith" if I sense the slert was based on mere disagreement.
That smacks of censorship, and jot what I think the jury system was designed to do.

Ms. Toad

(34,117 posts)
91. I doubt the link to Amnesty International
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 01:19 PM
Nov 2023

Was the reason for the alert. More likely it was the assertion that Israel was capable of evil (in the only recent OP I can find mentioning Amnesty International).

Kid Berwyn

(14,992 posts)
46. Thank you, PCIntern.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 03:19 AM
Nov 2023

The Truth is the most powerful weapon in war and peace. Shocking to see it oppressed by one’s fellows, but telling.

murielm99

(30,777 posts)
47. This is a very good post. Thank you.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 03:50 AM
Nov 2023

I have been warned similarly. Or maybe it is threatened? I don't know.

I am glad you are not leaving. This place would be less without you.

ShazzieB

(16,564 posts)
48. I'm glad you're not leaving and understand your restraint.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 04:33 AM
Nov 2023

As many have already said, I've been quite dismayed by the contentious atmosphere in most of the I/P related threads here at DU since 10/7. I've struggled with the whole thing myself, partly because I've never seen this as a case of "one side is all good and the other is all bad." I've always been pro-Israel and pro-Jewish. Whatever the opposite of antisemitism is, that's me. But I can't help seeing more than one side to everything, whether I want to or not.

I can understand why a lot of people are upset about some of the things that are happening at the same time that I instinctively recoil at anything that smacks of vilifying Israel. My reaction to all this has been a recognition that I didn't understand a fraction of the issues involved in how things got this way, and I've been doing a lot of reading to address that. And the more I read and learn, the more I realize the perils of oversimplifying any of this.

This awful situation didn't just come out of nowhere overnight. It's the result of decades upon decades of mistakes made by numerous different entities, going back over 100 years. As I've been reading about the history of modern Israel, I've gotten irritated with almost everyone involved at various points along the way, while also understanding why most of them did a lot of the things they did.

I support Israel and the Jewish people as much as ever, while disagreeing strongly with certain decisions made by certain Israeli leaders. I am sympathetic to the plight of the Palestinian people in Gaza, while at the same time understanding Israel's position on certain things. I absolutely detest Hamas as I detest terrorism in general, but at the same time I'm very much aware of the complex, multilayered relationship between them and the Palestinians in Gaza. I'm keenly aware of the fact that the Israelis don't trust the Palestinians as all, and the Palestinians don't trust them, either. Furthermore, I understand why they don't trust each other, AND I'm aware that they both have reasons for their distrust.

Because of all of the above, it gives me a headache to read any post that vilifies either side and paints the other as perfect angels, no matter which side is being portrayed which way. I know it's human nature to take sides, to see good guys and bad guys and root for the "good guys," but some things are just too complicated for that to be a viable approach, imo. Trying to explain that to people when passions are runnning high isn't always viable, either, though, so I have avoided getting too embroiled in any of these discussions for the most part.

Sorry for the long ramble. TL/dr: I get where you're coming from, I'm sorry you have been running into problems, and I look forward to the day when the Israel/Hamas war isn't a constant bone of contention here at DU. Best wishes to you and yours.

SalamanderSleeps

(592 posts)
51. Don't think for a second that your words don't provide comfort - you have voiced the frustration of many.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 05:21 AM
Nov 2023

"I am sympathetic to the plight of the Palestinian people in Gaza, while at the same time understanding Israel's position on certain things. I absolutely detest Hamas as I detest terrorism in general, but at the same time I'm very much aware of the complex, multilayered relationship between them and the Palestinians in Gaza. I'm keenly aware of the fact that the Israelis don't trust the Palestinians as all, and the Palestinians don't trust them, either."

ShazzieB

(16,564 posts)
98. Aww, thanks!
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 06:27 PM
Nov 2023

Nice to know I have company in feeling this way.

I really wish more people would study up on this. I think acquiring a deeper understanding could go a long way toward eliminating some of the black & white thinking that leads people to lash out at each other.

Mike Nelson

(9,973 posts)
56. Interesting...
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 06:13 AM
Nov 2023

... I also expected the political twists. Obviously, Israeli advances into Gaza were going to result in civilian deaths. Hamas knew this, of course, and probably tried to sped it up with the bombing of that hospital, early in the war.

... I shared posters of the kidnapped children and people assume I'm Jewish or favor Palestinian genocide. I remember going to a Black Lives Matter rally and sharing pictures... people assumed I was for looting and trashing buildings. I suspect they watch too much FOX News.

claudette

(3,606 posts)
57. So sorry for
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 07:42 AM
Nov 2023

your loss. I'm not sure how that translates into "now it's okay for Israel to defend itself by the inhuman killing of innocent Palestinians and destroying their land." How is that "defending itself?"

 

RocRizzo55

(980 posts)
63. I am not a Zionist
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 09:01 AM
Nov 2023

But the same has happened to me, only on the other side of the argument.
I will also be trying to not post on the topic.
Just so you know that it is not just your side of the argument that is getting flack for their posts.

BootinUp

(47,201 posts)
65. Let me add my thoughts
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:15 AM
Nov 2023

to all the others encouraging you to NOT leave, and also state that I am very understanding of your posts about the situation in the Middle East. Take care.

Maeve

(42,297 posts)
68. Glad you're not leaving! Please use "ignore" and "trash thread" more
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:28 AM
Nov 2023

I know it's hard to let fools rage, but sometimes you have to walk away from the side show and concentrate on the rest. We need to get thru this next year together.

elias7

(4,029 posts)
74. As both a fellow Jew and medical provider, I hear you
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 10:50 AM
Nov 2023

I don’t think non-Jews understand how triggering the Gazan attack was for us. My Israeli friend lamented that the realization government was no longer able to protect them and that the grand experiment of a tiny place in the world that Jews could live unoppressed may be over.

Israeli reactions do tend to be heavy handed, but I GET it, despite the fact I would not act the same way. What I don’t get is rape, beheading, kidnapping, cold-blooded murder in front of families and more, cheering about it. I do not and never could relate to that mentality, and it is triggering to have allies and friends in most every other issue be so vehemently critical of Israel and supportive of people/groups/countries we grew up in fear of.

dembotoz

(16,864 posts)
76. i ran into similar when i started saying hrc was running a crap campaign in my state
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 11:08 AM
Nov 2023

being reported on du is not always that you are doing something wrong but perhaps you are doing something right

hrc DID run a crap campaign in my state..

du does have lanes of acceptable posts...woe to those who invoke the ire of those who so not play by their rules

that being said, i left for a long time but came back....you would be missed...I wasn't

MLAA

(17,340 posts)
79. I have looked forward to reading your posts since I joined about 5 years ago.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 11:23 AM
Nov 2023

They are thought provoking, well written and lightly dusted with interesting and or amusing anecdotes.

paleotn

(17,989 posts)
81. Good. Well said. I enjoy your posts.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 11:34 AM
Nov 2023

And not just because we tend to agree most of the time. They're thoughtful and well done, unlike my sledgehammer approach. So it's hard to believe you've been alerted on so many times. Not surprising for mine as I generally don't like mincing words. Gets me in trouble sometimes.

bluestarone

(17,067 posts)
82. PCintern, i want to chime in here to say "Hey PCintern DON'T go anywhere"
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 11:46 AM
Nov 2023

YOU are one of US. Very much enjoy reading your posts!

mamacita75

(69 posts)
90. I am glad
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:59 PM
Nov 2023

you a not leaving. I have always appreciated your life experiences you have shared. Look forward to more.

Paladin

(28,277 posts)
94. I'm not planning on leaving DU, either.
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 02:26 PM
Nov 2023

I do foresee an expansion of my "Full Ignore" list. Such are the times...

Thank you for your well-stated comments, PC Intern.

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
99. PCIntern, relax
Sat Nov 25, 2023, 06:53 PM
Nov 2023

I was put in jail in one of the previous primaries, it turned out to be a nice break.

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